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The Necklace: Thirteen Women and the Experiment That Transformed Their Lives [NOOK Book]
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The dazzling treasure weaves in and out of each woman’s life, reflecting her past, defining her present, making promises for her future. Lending sparkle in surprising and unexpected ways, the necklace comes to mean something dramatically different to each of the thirteen women. With vastly dissimilar histories and lives, they transcend their individual personalities and politics to join together in an uncommon journey–and what started as a quirky social experiment becomes something far richer and deeper.
Freelance journalist Jarvis (The Marriage Sabbatical: The Journey That Brings You Home) explores the lives of 13 women from Ventura, CA, from diverse social, educational, and political backgrounds who together purchased an expensive diamond necklace that was beyond their means individually. Cost: $37,000. Jonell McLain first saw the 16.25 carat necklace in a jeweler's window and came up with the idea for a group purchase. What began as a social experiment about ownership and American consumerism became much larger as the necklace took on a life of its own. The group of women, all over 50, used the necklace to generate attention for various fund-raising activities and to raise social awareness in their community. While Jarvis's prose is a bit sentimental, she does offer an engaging snapshot of what it means to be a middle-aged woman in contemporary America. Underlying the light treatment applied to each of the 13 narratives and mini-biographies that make up this work are the deeper issues of aging, health care, retirement, relationships, divorce, sex, and child rearing. A highly readable book recommended for public libraries and any library with an interest in women's studies or studies on growing older. [See Prepub Alert, LJ5/1/08.]
—Crystal Goldman
Excerpted from The Necklace by Cheryl Jarvis
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1. What is the significance of the Jean Shinoda Bolen quote that begins the book:
“Here we are, women who have been the beneficiaries of education, resources, reproductive choice, travel opportunities, the Internet, and a longer life expectancy than women have ever had in history. What can and will we do?”
2. The author gives each woman a two-word description in the chapter titles. Why do you think the author created these? What do you think of the different descriptors?
3. Were you surprised at how open the women were to discussing intimate details of their lives? Do you think they would have been so candid in their twenties? Thirties? Forties? Would you be comfortable revealing your life this way?
4. Of the thirteen women, which one did you most identify with? Who did you most admire?
5. Do you think the structure of the book, with each chapter being a profile of one woman, was effective? Or do you think the book would have been better if just a few women had been featured in more depth? If so, who would you have chosen?
6. What do you think of the disagreements between Jonell and the group in chapters 8 and 12? Were you aligned with Jonell on either one?
7. The women decided to purchase a luxury diamond necklace five years ago, long before the current financial crisis. Does the country’s economic plight make the story less relevant? Why or why not?
8. Would the story have been just as compelling if the women had shared a rhinestone necklace or a piece of pottery or a pair of jeans? Is there any significance to a luxury piece of jewelry?
9. Though some of the women came from impoverished backgrounds, today all thirteen could be called upper middle class. Do you think this story is just as relevant for women from other socioeconomic or ethnic groups?
10. The subtitle of this book, Thirteen Women and the Experiment That Transformed Their Lives, indicates that each woman was changed by the experience of being in the group. Do you feel the author effectively showed the transformation in each woman, or not?
11. At the time the book was written the experiment had already been featured in People magazine and attracted a movie deal. Do you think this media attention affected the women’s staying together? Do you think the group will still be together two/five/ten years from now?
12. Have you ever shared a valuable possession with friends? If so, how did that work out? If not, would you be willing to? What would you choose to share with a group? Has the book changed your views on personal luxuries?
13. Is this a decidedly female story, or can you imagine a group of men doing something similar?
Anonymous
Posted September 13, 2008
This story brings women of all kinds together. Risk-takers, teachers, mothers, and grandmothers. Through one diamond necklace they all chip in to buy, the women are brought closer together as they learn more about themselves and life.
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Posted May 2, 2009
This turned out not to be what I was expecting, but certainly an interesting book. When I first heard about it I was curious how the dynamics would work out with several women sharing one piece of jewelry. You never know what will happen when a group of women get together for any particular reason. I loved how they used the necklace for fundraising and for bonding with other women. One other note, it was found in the self-improvement section of the bookstore and I thought it would have been more in the philosophy category. Certainly a good book for inspiring discussion.
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Posted November 10, 2008
These women have made a huge difference in their lives and the lives of others, through their community outreach showing that the community IS more powerful then the individual. It is a paradox of when is owning a diamond necklace not owning a diamond necklace. The vehicle
diamonds are carbon based/natural from the earth and tranformed into
brilliancy. Not a bad metaphore
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Posted May 11, 2009
The idea was really interesting but it never really took off from there. The stories seemed constructed and disingenuous and the part about wearing the necklace even during intimate moments left a bad-taste that I couldn't get rid of while reading the rest of the book. Save your time and money!
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Posted March 9, 2009
I truly enjoyed the book recommended for our book club selection. It was delightful to learn about the members of this experiment and just how much this materialistic item actually provoked a need to help others. Belonging to two book clubs it made one want to suggest our groups doing something for those less fortunate.I found the format easy to read and I liked the style of Jarvis' writing. I would highly recommend this book.
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Posted November 11, 2009
I found this book to be unbelievably superficial. A bunch of women with no sense of committment to anyone but themselves spend over $1000 each to purchase an overpriced necklace. And they find true meaning in their lives. Honestly, I found the whole thing to be a justification for materialism not spiritualism. This book was grossly overrated.
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Was this review helpful? Yes NoThank you for your feedback. Report this reviewThank you, this review has been flagged.I read "The Necklace" along with my Women's Discussion Group from church. It has an evocative concept although I understand there was a French novel with the same name and a similar story. I thought the foundation was rather shallow although the resulting relationships were interesting. The location is upscale. I don't think it would fly in my suburban area. Altogether it was a fun read.
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Posted April 26, 2009
The book started out very intersesting, but toward the end the bios of the ladies got muddled and you did not learn as much about them as you did with the bios in the start of the story.
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Posted February 20, 2010
I took this book on vacation with me. I was looking for a quick, interesting, fun read. This book looked promising. I rarely stop reading a book midway - but I don't expect to be finishing this book (got a little more than halfway through). It was good enough, but just didn't grab me. The premise is interesting, but the women's stories just didn't hold my attention.
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Posted January 9, 2010
Engaging and entertaining. Great conversation stimulator. Each character is a work of art. Just enough information and description to keep it interesting. Not too much to make it melodramatic.
I really enjoyed this book and the club discussion.
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Posted August 6, 2009
this story is great for high school students in college students because they could take english class that relate to this novel
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Overview
One day in Ventura, California, Jonell McLain saw a beautiful diamond necklace in a jewelry store window and wondered: Why are personal luxuries so plentiful yet accessible to so few? What if we shared what we desired? Several weeks, dozens of phone calls, and one great leap of faith later, Jonell and twelve other women bought the necklace together–to be passed along among them all.The dazzling treasure weaves in and out of each woman’s life, reflecting her past, defining her present, making promises for her future. Lending sparkle in surprising and unexpected ways, the necklace comes to mean something dramatically different to each of the thirteen women. With vastly dissimilar histories...