Not a Fan: Teen Edition: What Does It Mean to Really Follow Jesus?

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If someone asked, 'Are you a fan of Jesus?', how would you answer? You attend every movie featuring a certain actor, you know the stats of your sports hero, and you can recite lyrics from your favorite songs. In short, you're a huge fan. But are you treating Jesus the same as the other people you admire? The truth is Jesus wants more than the church attendance, occasional prayer, and the ability to recite Scripture---the fan response. He's looking for people who are actually willing to sacrifice in order to ...
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If someone asked, 'Are you a fan of Jesus?', how would you answer? You attend every movie featuring a certain actor, you know the stats of your sports hero, and you can recite lyrics from your favorite songs. In short, you're a huge fan. But are you treating Jesus the same as the other people you admire? The truth is Jesus wants more than the church attendance, occasional prayer, and the ability to recite Scripture---the fan response. He's looking for people who are actually willing to sacrifice in order to follow him. In this teen edition of Not a Fan, Kyle Idleman uses humor, personal stories, and biblical truth as he challenges you to look at what it means to call yourself a Christian and follow the radical call Jesus presents. So, will you be a fan, or a follower?
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  • ISBN-13: 9780310734000
  • Publisher: Zonderkidz
  • Publication date: 4/23/2012
  • Pages: 224
  • Age range: 13 - 16 Years
  • Product dimensions: 5.40 (w) x 8.50 (h) x 0.60 (d)

Meet the Author

Kyle Idleman is the Teaching Pastor at Southeast Christian Church in Louisville, Kentucky, the fourth largest church in America. He is the author of the award-winning and best-selling book not a fan. He is also the presenter of several video curricula, including not a fan, H2O, and the newly released study gods at war. SPANISH BIO: Kyle Idleman es pastor de ensenanza en la Iglesia Southeast Christian, en Louisville, Kentucky, la quinta iglesia mas grande en Estados Unidos, con una asistencia de alrededor de veinte mil personas todos los fines de semana. Es autor y presentador de la serie de videos H2O, A Journey of Faith y The Easter Experience. Lo invitan con frecuencia a dar conferencias en convenciones regionales y nacionales, y tambien habla en algunas de las iglesias mas influyentes del pais. Kyle y su esposa DesiRae tienen cuatro hijos.
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Not a Fan: Teen Edition


By Kyle Idleman

ZONDERVAN

Copyright © 2012 Kyle Idleman
All right reserved.

ISBN: 978-0-310-73400-0


Chapter One

D.T.R.

Are you a follower of Jesus?

I would say the chances are pretty good that you just skipped over that question. You may have read it, but I doubt it carried much weight or had any real impact. But would you let me ask you this question again? It's the most important question you will ever answer.

Are you a follower of Jesus?

I know, I know. You've been asked this question before. Because it's so familiar there is a tendency to dismiss it. Not because it makes you uncomfortable. Not because it's especially convicting. The question is dismissed mostly because it feels redundant and unnecessary.

Chances are that if you are reading this book you fall into one of two groups:

1. The "I Like Jesus on Facebook" group. Your Facebook page says "Christian" and under activities you might even put "going to church." Under your "Likes," Jesus has made the cut. You are serious enough about your faith that you are happy to go to church with your parents or friends. In which case, when I ask you "Are you a follower of Jesus?" it seems rhetorical and you're ready to put the book down, or at least go back and look at the table of contents to see if there is a chapter that might be helpful. You recognize that this is an important question for many to consider, but asking you? Well, it's like sitting down with a group of junior high girls and asking how many of them know what "LOL" stands for. The answer to the question seems so obvious it doesn't seem worth answering. You've already dealt with fan or follower? an honest diagnosis it. Asked and answered. But before you move on too quickly, let me clarify what I am not asking. I am not asking the following:

Do you go to church? Are your parents or grandparents Christians? Did you raise your hand at the end of a message at church one time? Did you repeat a prayer after a preacher? Did you walk forward during a twelve-minute version of "How Great is our God"? Do you own three or more Bibles? Did you grow up going to VBS and/or church camp? Is your ringtone a worship song? When you pray are you able to utilize five or more synonyms for God? I can keep going. Seriously, I can. Have you ever worn a WWJD bracelet? Do you have the Bible app on your iPod or phone? Have you ever kissed dating good-bye? Gals—Are your skirts more a dollar's bills length from your knee? Hold the bill horizontally; vertically doesn't count. Guys—Is your hair cut above your collar? Do you purposely say "Merry Christmas" instead of "Happy Holidays"?

When I ask "Are you a follower?" these are not the questions I'm asking. My point is that many of us are quick to say, "Yes, I'm a follower of Jesus," but I'm not sure we really understand what we are saying. To quote Inigo Montoya, "I do not think that means what you think it means."

One of the most sobering passages of Scripture tells of a day when many who consider themselves to be followers of Jesus will be stunned to find out that he doesn't even recognize them. In the gospel of Matthew, chapter 7, Jesus tells of a day where everyone who has ever lived will stand before God. On that day many who call themselves Christians and identify themselves as followers will stand confidently in front of Jesus only to hear him say, "I never knew you. Away from me." If you've just assumed you are a follower of Jesus, I pray that this book would either confirm that confidence or it would convict you to reevaluate your relationship with Jesus and reaffirm your commitment to follow him.

2. The "Why does Facebook even ask about religion?" group. If you are a part of this group, then you likely didn't buy this book. In fact, you would never spend your own money on it. But somebody who cares about you, and who might have Christian stuff all over their profile, gave it to you. Because it was a friend or a relative you figured you would at least read the first chapter to be polite. And maybe you skipped over the question "Are you a follower of Jesus?" It's not that you're against the question or offended by it. It just doesn't seem relevant to you. But it's irrelevant to you in a different way than the people in group number one. It's not that you have already answered the question; it's that the question doesn't seem worth answering. I get it, you mean no offense; you're just not into it.

It doesn't bother you that some people choose to follow Jesus. That's cool, but it's not your thing. Kind of like my friend who's so into Star Trek that he asks you things like "ta' SoH taH HoD?" (That's Klingon for "Do you think Spock should be captain?") And you don't really care. If that's what he likes, fine. But you don't get the appeal.

But ... what if? Would you pause for a moment and ask yourself, What if all of life comes down to this one question? What if there really is a heaven and there really is a hell, and where I spend eternity comes down to this one question? It may seem completely ridiculous, but if there is some part of you that considers this a minute possibility, then isn't it worth thinking through that question? As you read this book I hope you would at least consider that this may be the most important question you ever answer. I believe that the reason we were put on this earth is to answer this one question. And the truth is, whether or not we do so consciously or intentionally, we all answer this question.

I want you to know up front that I'm not here to "sell" Jesus. I'm not going to try and talk you into following Jesus by presenting the parts that are most appealing. Because here's the thing, and don't tell the people in group #1 I said this, but many of them assume they are followers of Jesus, but the truth is they have never heard the unedited version of what Jesus taught about following him.

My guess is that after reading this book there will be people in group 1 and group 2 that turn down the invitation to follow Jesus. After all, when we read in the Gospels about Jesus inviting people to follow him, some people signed up, but most decided to walk away.

Time for the D.T.R.

So where do you start in determining if you really are a follower of Jesus? How do you decide if this is even something you would want to consider? Let's begin by having a D.T.R. talk with Jesus. Some of you will recognize what the letters D.T.R. stand for. If you're not sure, let me give you a hint. For a young man involved in a romantic relationship, these letters are often enough to strike fear into his heart. He likely dreads the D.T.R. talk. In fact, many young men will postpone, run away from, and put off the D.T.R. for as long as possible. I have even known a few guys who have terminated the relationship when they sensed that the D.T.R. talk was imminent.

Now do you want to guess what D.T.R. stands for?

Define the relationship.

This is the official talk that takes place at some point in a romantic relationship to determine the level of commitment. You want to see where things stand and find out if what you have is real.

In high school I went out on a first date with a girl that I really didn't know very well. We sat down in a booth at a restaurant and began the awkward first date conversation. During the appetizer I learned a little bit about her family. While we enjoyed the main course she told me about her favorite movie. And then it happened. While we were eating our dessert she asked me, and I quote: "Where do you see this relationship going?" On the very first date she was trying to have the D.T.R. talk. I got out of there P.D.Q. That was the first and the last date.

I wasn't ready for that moment, but there comes a time when you need to define the relationship. It can be awkward. It can be uncomfortable. But eventually every healthy relationship reaches a point when the D.T.R. talk is needed. Is it casual or is it committed? Have things moved past infatuation and admiration and towards deeper devotion and dedication? You need to intentionally evaluate the state of the relationship and your level of commitment to the person.

So here's what I want to ask you to do. In your mind picture yourself walking into a local coffee shop. You grab a snack and get a drink and then walk towards the back where it isn't crowded and you find a seat at a small table. You take a sip of your drink and enjoy a few quiet minutes. Now, imagine that Jesus comes in and sits down next to you. You know it's him because of the blue sash. You're unsure what to say. In an awkward moment you try to break the silence by asking him to turn your drink into wine. He gives you the same look he used to give Peter. Before he has a chance to respond, you suddenly realize you haven't prayed for your food. You decide to say your prayer out loud, hoping that Jesus will be impressed. You start off okay, but understandably you get nervous and pray "Three things we pray: to love thee more dearly, to see thee more clearly, to follow thee more nearly, day, by day, by day." You quickly say "Amen" when you realize you're quoting Ben Stiller's prayer from Meet the Parents.

Before you have a chance to make things more awkward, Jesus skips past the small talk and gets right to the point. He looks you in the eye and says, "It's time we define this relationship." He wants to know how you feel about him. Is your relationship with Jesus exclusive? Is it just a casual weekend thing or has it moved past that? How would your relationship with him be defined? What exactly is your level of commitment?

Whether you've called yourself a Christian since childhood, or all of this is new to you, Jesus would clearly define what kind of relationship he wants to have with you. He wouldn't sugarcoat it or dress it up. He would tell you exactly what it means to follow him. As you're sitting in that coffee shop listening to Jesus give you the unedited version of what kind of relationship he wants with you, I can't help but wonder if that question, "Are you a follower of Jesus?" would be a little more challenging to answer.

It may seem that there are many followers of Jesus, but if they were honestly to define the relationship they have with him I am not sure it would be accurate to describe them as followers. It seems to me that there is a more suitable word to describe them. They are not followers of Jesus. They are fans of Jesus.

Here is the most basic definition of fan in the dictionary:

"An enthusiastic admirer"

It's the guy who goes to the football game with no shirt and a painted chest. He sits in the stands and cheers for his team. He's got a signed jersey hanging on his wall at home and multiple bumper stickers on the back of his car. But he's never in the game. He never breaks a sweat or takes a hard hit in the open field. He knows all about the players and can rattle off their latest stats, but he doesn't know the players. He yells and cheers, but nothing is really required of him. There is no sacrifice he has to make. And the truth is, as excited as he seems, if the team he's cheering for starts to let him down and has a few off seasons, his passion will wane pretty quickly. After several losing seasons you can expect him to jump off the fan wagon and begin cheering for some other team. He is an enthusiastic admirer.

It's the woman who never misses the celebrity news shows. She always picks up the latest People magazine. She's a huge fan of some actress who is the latest Hollywood sensation. And this woman not only knows every movie this actress has been in, she knows what high school this actress went to. She knows the birthday of this actress, and she knows the name of her first boyfriend. She even knows what this actress's real hair color is, something the actress herself is no longer certain of. She knows everything there is to know. But she doesn't know the actress. She's a huge fan, but she's just a fan. She is an enthusiastic admirer.

And I think Jesus has a lot of fans these days. Fans who cheer for him when practice is rewarded with wins but who walk away when life is hard and they never seem to get the "W." Fans who sit safely in the stands cheering, but they know nothing of the sacrifice and pain of the field. Fans of Jesus who know all about him, but they don't know him.

But Jesus was never interested in having fans. When he defines what kind of relationship he wants, "Enthusiastic Admirer" isn't an option. My concern is that many of our churches in America have gone from being sanctuaries to becoming stadiums. And every week all the fans come to the stadium where they cheer for Jesus but have no interest in truly following him. The biggest threat to the church today is fans who call themselves Christians but aren't actually interested in following Christ. They want to be close enough to Jesus to get all the benefits, but not so close that it requires anything from them.

An Accurate Measurement

So Fan or Follower? The problem with asking that question of yourself is this: it's almost impossible to be straight-up honest. After all, if you say, "I'm a follower," what makes you so sure? What are the measurements that you use to define your relationship with Christ? What if we are measuring our relationship by breaking out a standard ruler, but he uses the metric system?

Many fans mistakenly identify themselves as followers by using cultural comparisons. They look at the commitment level of others around them and feel like their relationship with Jesus is solid. Essentially they grade their relationship with Jesus on the curve, and as long as they are more spiritual than the next guy, they figure everything is fine. That's why some fans are almost glad when it's found out that the Christian kid everyone admires actually watches porn or got caught smoking pot, and isn't as perfect as everyone thought. The curve just got set a little lower.

Have you noticed that when we compare ourselves to others as a way to measure our relationship with Christ we almost always put ourselves up against those who are on the JV team—spiritually speaking?

When I was in high school, I had a tendency to take this approach in measuring myself as a son. I tried to convince my parents how good they had it by pointing to my friends who never honored their curfew or took out the garbage. When I gave my mom a birthday card I made sure she knew that I wasn't like my friend who forgot his mom's birthday. But here's what I've discovered: when I start comparing myself to others as a way to measure how I am doing as a son, I am doing so out of conviction and guilt that I'm falling short of who I know I should be as a son. And if you find yourself measuring your relationship with Jesus by comparing yourself to others, that is likely a self-indictment. It's a sign you know something isn't right. You are trying to justify yourself by comparing yourself to the person who's farther away from God than you.

Another measurement fans use is a religious ruler. They point to their observance of religious rules and rituals as evidence that they are really followers. After all, they reason, would a fan go to church every weekend, and put money in the offering, and volunteer in the nursery, and listen exclusively to Christian radio, and not see r-rated movies, and not even drink a wine cooler at the party? Hello? Of course I'm a follower. I'm not doing all that for nothing!

We have other ways to determine if we are followers. What about our family heritage? We think that because Mom and Dad are Christians, we're automatically in. Like the family membership at the neighborhood swimming pool: as long as my parents are have paid the membership fee, I'm good to go.

But here's the real question: how does Jesus define what it means to follow him? Because whatever measurement he gives is the one we should use.

(Continues...)



Excerpted from Not a Fan: Teen Edition by Kyle Idleman Copyright © 2012 by Kyle Idleman. Excerpted by permission of ZONDERVAN. All rights reserved. No part of this excerpt may be reproduced or reprinted without permission in writing from the publisher.
Excerpts are provided by Dial-A-Book Inc. solely for the personal use of visitors to this web site.

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Table of Contents

Contents

prologue (I never read these either, but please read this one.)....................11
chapter 1 D.T.R....................19
chapter 2 a decision or a commitment?....................29
chapter 3 knowledge about him or intimacy with him?....................41
chapter 4 one of many or your one and only?....................55
chapter 5 following Jesus or following the rules?....................69
chapter 6 self-empowered or spirit-filled?....................87
chapter 7 the relationship defined....................101
chapter 8 anyone—an open invitation....................115
chapter 9 come after me—a passionate pursuit....................129
chapter 10 deny—a total surrender....................143
chapter 11 take up your cross daily—an everyday death....................157
chapter 12 wherever. what about there?....................175
chapter 13 whenever. what about now?....................189
chapter 14 whatever. what about that?....................201
acknowledgments....................213
notes....................214
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    Posted July 31, 2012

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    This book is changing the way I'm supposed to live for Christ: )

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    what a great message

    what a great message

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    Posted October 9, 2012

    Jesus loves

    I love it even though i am 11 i still like it

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    Challenging, thought provoking and very readable, Not a Fan: Tee

    Challenging, thought provoking and very readable, Not a Fan: Teen Edition: What does it mean to really follow Jesus? opens with an uncommon introduction. It opens with an apology sets the tone of humility throughout the book.

    The author states up front it is an odd way to open a book, but for me, an apologizing or humble admittance to a issue or topic makes the author, preacher or speaker much more appealing. I can learn from someone who's as flawed as me. I have trouble accepting doctrines and teachings from someone who has never wrestled with an issue.

    The remainder of the book talks of the difference between a fan and a follower, an enthusiastic admirer and a committed believer. How many of us have fallen for the 'marketed' Jesus. The Jesus that loves everyone and is too loving punish or correct us. We sell an idea of Jesus that can't be found in the Bible. It's no wonder why there are so many fans and so few followers.

    Using teen oriented language, mindsets and personal stories, the author challenges the reader to think about, not just accept, their relationships with Jesus.

    Simply loved the section which describes Jesus sitting across the table and announcing it's time for the DTR (Define This Relationship) talk. Reminded me of the movie The Perfect Stranger.

    Loved the writing, the humor and how the author points the reader to examine whether they are a fan or a follower. It's an excellent book for teens. I'm over 50 and loved it.

    Reviewed by: Keiki Hendrix
    Reviewed for: The Vessel Project

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    Posted February 2, 2014

    Book

    Kyle Idleman, author of this book, is amazing

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    Posted February 11, 2013

    Yourh group

    We did this book in youth and i love it. It has really furthrered my walk with Christ

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  • Anonymous

    Posted December 4, 2012

    Great!

    I recommend this book even if you are not a teen. It will make you re-evaluate your relationship with Jesus. Thanks to the author for sharing God's message. I am not a fan.

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    Posted March 11, 2013

    Idk

    I wanna know more before i buy it ......i have sen mixed rebiews

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    Posted January 3, 2013

    I am not a fan?

    Please explain im looking at the book to buy

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  • Anonymous

    Posted November 20, 2012

    Great book that challenges all Christians

    I am loving this book! It is a must read for all Christians. The author is very direct and to the point, but he helps to either strengthen or begin your relationship with Christ. I love the "Not a Fan" stories!

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    Posted October 14, 2012

    Not A Fan

    It is worth 1 cent

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    Posted August 29, 2012

    NOOK REVIVAL

    Help us spread the word about Christ! Go to "revival for God" first result if you can help! Thank you and God bless! †††

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    Posted July 1, 2012

    Btw

    Your not saying anything either.......btw

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    Posted July 9, 2012

    Because

    Because i havent read the book. But i want to know more about the book before i buy it.

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