On Flirtation / Edition 1

On Flirtation / Edition 1

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by Adam Phillips
     
 

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ISBN-10: 0674634403

ISBN-13: 9780674634404

Pub. Date: 03/01/1996

Publisher: Harvard

People tend to flirt only with serious things--madness, disaster, other people's affections. So is flirtation dangerous, exploiting the ambiguity of promises to sabotage our cherished notions of commitment? Or is it, as Adam Phillips suggests, a productive pleasure, keeping things in play, letting us get to know them in different ways, allowing us the fascination

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People tend to flirt only with serious things--madness, disaster, other people's affections. So is flirtation dangerous, exploiting the ambiguity of promises to sabotage our cherished notions of commitment? Or is it, as Adam Phillips suggests, a productive pleasure, keeping things in play, letting us get to know them in different ways, allowing us the fascination of what is unconvincing? This is a book about the possibilities of flirtation, its risks and instructive amusements--about the spaces flirtation opens in the stories we tell ourselves, particularly within the framework of psychoanalysis.

Phillips looks at life as a tale to be told but rejects the idea of a master plot. Instead, he says, we should be open to the contingent, and flirtation shows us the way. His book observes children flirting with their parents, our various selves flirting with one another, and literature flirting with psychoanalysis. As Phillips explores the links between literature and psychoanalysis--ranging from Philip Roth to Isaac Rosenberg, Karl Kraus to John Clare--psychoanalysis emerges as a multi-authored autobiography. Its subjects are love, loss, and memory; its authors are the analyst and the analysand, as well as the several selves brought to life in the process. A passionate and delightfully playful defense of the virtues of being uncommitted, On Flirtation sets before us the virtue of a yet deeper commitment to the openendedness of our life stories.

Product Details

ISBN-13:
9780674634404
Publisher:
Harvard
Publication date:
03/01/1996
Edition description:
Reprint
Pages:
256
Sales rank:
1,353,869
Product dimensions:
5.50(w) x 8.25(h) x (d)

Table of Contents

Preface

Acknowledgements

On Flirtation: An Introduction

I. The Uses of the Past

1. Contingency for Beginners

2. Freud and the Uses of Forgetting

3. On Love

4. On Success

5. Besides Good and Evil

6. The Telling of Selves

II. Psychoanalysis Reviewed

7. Depression

8. Anna Freud

9. Perversion

10. Freud and Jones

11. Cross-Dressing

12. Erich Fromm

13. Guilt

14. Freud's Circle

15. Futures

III. Writing Outside

16. Philip Roth's Patrimony

17. Isaac Rosenberg's English

18. Karl Kraus's Complaint

19. John Clare's Exposure

Bibliography

Index

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