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Elizabeth Berg has made a name for herself by writing provocative, engaging novels that strike a deep emotional chord with women everywhere. Her topics have ranged from parental estrangement and the death of a dear friend, to the unique bonds that can develop between sisters, or between a straight woman and a gay man. But at the heart of each is a common theme—a woman put to the test, stretched to the limits of her emotional boundaries by the vagaries of life. Berg's latest, Open House, follows this tried-and-true formula by telling the story of one woman's struggle to survive divorce.
Throughout the 20 years of her marriage, Samantha Morrow has been content with her life, though she knows it isn't perfect. She has a nice home, a great son, and a husband she loves. But everything is turned upside down when her husband, David, tells her he wants out of their marriage. His rapid departure on the heels of this announcement leaves Sam horribly shocked, utterly confused, and oddly obsessed with Martha Stewart. Her initial reaction is to go on a spending spree, charging thousands of dollars worth of merchandise at Tiffany's to her husband's credit card. But when reality sets in and her husband cuts her off, she realizes that if she wants to keep the house she loves and make a home for herself and her son, she's going to have to generate some income.
Her first solution to this dilemma is to find a couple of roommates. Between the finished portion of the basement and the extra bedroom upstairs, Sam figures she can take on two boarders and mitigate a large portion of the mortgage payment. She finds her first boarder quickly—the septuagenarian mother of an acquaintance—and is delighted. Lydia Fitch is quiet, clean, concerned, friendly, and more than eager to play grandmother to Sam's son, Travis. Which is just as well, since Sam's own mother doesn't quite fit the bill. In fact, Sam's mother has made a career out of dating since the death of her husband two decades ago and is now determined to fix Sam up as soon as possible—a plan with foreseeable disasters written all over it.
Sam's life is further complicated when she starts looking for a job, for other than a gig singing in a band years ago, she's never been employed. But then King, the gentle giant of a man who helps Lydia move in, puts Sam in touch with the employment agency he works for. Suddenly Sam is off on a variety of short-term jobs, everything from making change at a Laundromat, to working as a carpenter's helper. When she gets the devastating news that Lydia has decided to marry her long-time beau and move out, Sam takes on a second boarder for the basement space: a sullen, depressed college student.
Meanwhile, Sam's relationship with David has given way to an awkward tiptoeing détente as he starts building a new life for himself, replete with an upscale condo and a new girlfriend. Travis starts acting out and behaving as sullenly as the new boarder, and Sam finds herself eating all the time and gaining weight. Throughout it all, the one steady force in Sam's life is King, whose implacable calm and supportive friendship provides a stabilizing rudder in the storm-tossed sea of Sam's life. But Sam soon discovers there is much more to King than she realized and it will force her to rethink everything she has come to hold true.
One of Berg's greatest strengths is her keen eye for the tiny details and intimate thoughts that allow her readers to relate to her characters on a deeply personal level. Watching Sam try to create a home that will nurture her soul by stocking it with the best of household items is funny but heartbreaking. Yet the journey she travels, a journey of self-discovery that shows home really is where the heart is, makes it all worthwhile. Berg's mix of pathos and humor (and in this case, a hilarious dead-on skewering of Martha Stewart) lends her prose a tantalizingly perverse flavor that is both entertaining and oddly satisfying.
—Beth Amos
Beth Amos is the author of several mainstream suspense thrillers, including Second Sight, Eyes of Night, and Cold White Fury.. She lives in Wisconsin, and is at work on her next novel.
1. On the morning that Sam acknowledges that she will be get-ting
a divorce, she begins to act like "the new me" (5). Of
course, the divorce will change Sam, but how does this "new
me" of the first morning differ from the woman she will eventually
become?
2. On this first morning, Sam acts as she imagines Martha Stewart
would. Later, she wants to talk with Martha Stewart although
even Travis assures her that "everybody" hates Martha Stewart
(167). Why? What is Martha Stewart a symbol of? Why is Sam
suddenly so interested in her? Is it actually Martha Stewart who
calls Sam?
3. Sam has rather definite ideas about what Travis's mother ought
to be like. "His mother, " she insists, "should know what she's
doing" (58). Does Sam know what she's doing? Is she a good
mother to Travis?
4. Sam's relationship with her own mother is a difficult one. Her
frustration with Veronica's "constant, crazy cheerfulness" (88)
is matched only by Veronica's frustration with Sam's need to
"revel" in "misery" (49). Still, Sam acknowledges that "at the
heart of things, I am my mother's daughter" (133). How alike
are Sam and Veronica? In what ways are they different?
5. Open House is marked with moments in which Sam's family and
friends offer their memories of Sam's past with David. Rita admits
that she "never" liked David (35). David insists that he
and Sam "just never really connected" (132). Even Sam acknowledges
that she doesn't think David "ever loved me" (39),
although she stops herself from sayingthat she "never loved
him" (93). How accurate are these memories-Rita's, David's,
Sam's-of the past? Is hindsight 20/20?
6. In a difficult conversation about their separate lives, Sam wants
to warn David. "Doesn't he understand, " she wonders, "that if
he doesn't stop this, it will be too late?" (130). In this very moment,
however, Sam mourns that it "is too late" (130). When
does Sam realize that it is "too late" for her to save her marriage?
When did you realize this?
7. During a particularly lonely evening, Sam enters Lydia's room
in an attempt to "wrap" herself "in the comfort of someone
else's life" (82). Is this possible? How does it happen?
8. Although Sam longs for a "real open house" (196), her mother,
her son, and her best friend are wary of her decision to "open
[her] house to strangers" (49). Why is the novel titled Open
House? Who are the "strangers" in Sam's home?
9. Although Sam reads through the personal ads with both Lydia
and Rita, she seems rather skeptical of their promises. Are personal
ads inevitably dishonest? What would an honest personal
ad sound like?
10. As Sam listens to her mother describe the moment in which,
ironing a shirt, she realized just how much she loved Sam's father,
Sam acknowledges that she appreciates such "evidence
of love." What is this "evidence of love"? Is it absent between
Sam and David? What "evidence of love" exists between Sam
and King?
11. Sam insists that her decision to get divorced is marked both by
moments that are "awful" and moments that are "ecstatic" (53).
Which moments predominate? Do you feel that Sam made the
right decision?
12. After taking Sam to the employment agency, King thanks Sam.
It is a gesture Sam doesn't understand. What is King thanking
her for? Why doesn't Sam understand?
13. King explains to Sam that, following a disastrous relationship
in college, he turned away from individuals to science. "Every-thing
is there, in science" (201). However, Sam insists on the
strength and superiority of "human connection" (197). In what
ways does King find "science" all-fulfilling? What does Sam
seek through "human connection"?
14. At one moment in the novel, Sam contemplates the reality
that "you live your life, and you get to ask for things, and some-times
they are given to you" (167). What does Sam ask for?
What is she given?
15. Throughout Open House, Sam experiences moments of wishing
she "believed" and that she "could pray" (198). Sam whispers
"Help me" into "folded hands" (42) and offers a "type of prayer"
over her solitary Thanksgiving dinner (140). In the last sentences
of the novel, she feels "full of faith, blessed by it" (241).
What does Sam have faith in?
VeroniqueTX
Posted September 11, 2010
Love ELizabeth Berg! I've read Home Safe and now Open House and look forward to reading more of hers. When I pick up one of her books, I find it hard to set it down until I've finished it! ENJOY!
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Posted December 8, 2000
I bought this book only because it was on the Oprah list and most of her suggestions are good. But this book was boring and I didn't feel anything for any of the characters. Shallow writing and the author repeated lines too often and you just didn't 'care' about any of the characters. Stupid little novel!
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Posted January 30, 2012
I looked this book. My first Elizabeth Berg and I now have ordered 3 more.
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Posted January 19, 2012
Liked it, but wanted more. Ends too abruptly.
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Posted December 3, 2011
I sort of have mixed emotions about this book. It was definitely entertaining and kept you interested but although the emotions were genuine, the situations and characters came off as contrite. David, the typical jerk of an ex, King, the perfect man who was too perfect to be realistic, Rita, the brassy, brutally honest friend. I liked Sam and identified with her as a chatacter but so many things in this book just didn't ring true for me. I thought the roommates would play more of a central role but they were somewhat incidental to the plot. Read if you're looking for an entertaining, quick read but not if you're looking for something different with complex character studies...
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Posted October 2, 2011
At first it seemed like another book about a woman scorned but, I was pleasantly surprised to watch how she manages to find strength and pull herself out of the mess, and finally realizing who SHE was without her husband. Women really are the strongest of creation.
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Posted July 16, 2011
Great read! For some reason, the story line hit home --- and I was drawn in from beginning to end.
Was this review helpful? Yes NoThank you for your feedback. Report this reviewThank you, this review has been flagged.This is a great book when one is just in the mood for a good read. It examines present day issues, is so hilarious at times that I laughed out loud, and is serious and sweet. I enjoyed this one and will likely read it again someday. a real "chick" story!
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Posted August 25, 2009
Good characters, but I have heard that kind of story before...
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Posted August 23, 2009
For any woman having a second chance at 'life'...very true painting of a marriage that fails, why it does so, how the children fare, the financial crises involved, old friends and new friends, and last, but not least the soul searching and emotions that are felt. I listened to this book on CD and enjoyed it so much, I listened a second time! I could totally relate.
Highly recommended! I will read other books by this author in the future!
RoseRB
Posted August 22, 2009
Never been there but seems to capture the feeling experience of divorce and starting a new life. The love story aspect of the book was truly charming and made me smile and wish for the same. Beautifully written book.
Was this review helpful? Yes NoThank you for your feedback. Report this reviewThank you, this review has been flagged.This book is for all women to read. It's sad and uplifting!
Was this review helpful? Yes NoThank you for your feedback. Report this reviewThank you, this review has been flagged.Beautifully written, modern characters you can relate you & the winding path of a single Mom.
Love all the characters & the true story of how we can all build a family & start over.
Terrific Book!!!
Anonymous
Posted August 21, 2007
The best all-time book I have ever read. Every character is great, real-life people I can relate to in my own circle of friends! The insight...outstanding! I laugh and become sad whenever I read this book. I finally bought my own copy and re-read it often...it's the only book I have ever done that with. I would suggest this book to anyone.
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Posted February 21, 2007
This finally made me decide not to read Elizabth Berg anymore, or at least not for quite some time. Her books are either amazing or a waste of time. Unfortunately this one was a waste of time for me. I never once cared anything about this character or anything that she did. I felt she didn't even really care that her marriage fell apart and just kind of cruised along. I listened to the audio of this and it could have been the narrator's interpretation but still....complete waste of my time.
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Posted July 12, 2005
I absolutely LOVED this book. It made me laugh and it also made me cry. Elizabeth Berg is a whiz when it comes to writing. I recommend all of her books, she is truly a genius at writing.
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Posted February 14, 2005
Berg's characters are human - funny, bewildered, getting by - and true to life. For the first time in ages I've read a book good enough to recommend. I laughed out loud, teared up, and flushed with remebered shame. Not your everyday divorce story.
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Posted September 16, 2004
Great book. I read it around the same time I went through my divorce and scoffed at myself for just throwing my ex's clothes outside when Sam has the ingenuity to sew her dearly departed's socks and underwear flaps shut. You just have to admire a woman who does that. Sam is a gal you would love to have for a best friend. She has spirit, charactor and personality in spades. She takes what begins as an excruciatingly painful change in her life and learns to live better for it. She brings interesting new people into her life and embraces loyal old friends again and gives you a lot of laughs in the process.
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Posted July 24, 2004
This book is a great book. I found Sam to be a very weird character at first; I mean the things she does at the first part are a little crazy. But a couple of chapters into the book I found myself relating to her in ways I didn't realize I would. After about the third chapter I found myself not being able to put down the book. I must admit that I hadn't read a book in over a year. Since then I have read lots of stories, and learned that I love to read (which I had forgotten). King is the sweetest! I love this book and have already bought a copy for my mom to read....she is enjoying it as much as I did. Hope you like it!
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Posted February 6, 2004
I enjoyed the story of Sam, Travis, David and King very much. Although it might not be the most realistic or deep story, it is certainly very moving.
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Overview
BONUS: This edition contains an excerpt from Elizabeth Berg's Once Upon a Time, There Was You.In this superb novel by the beloved author of Talk Before Sleep, The Pull of the Moon, and Until the Real Thing Comes Along, a woman re-creates her life after divorce by opening up her house and her heart.
Samantha's husband has left her, and after a spree of overcharging at Tiffany's, she settles down to reconstruct a life for herself and her eleven-year-old son. Her eccentric mother tries to help by fixing her up with dates, but a more pressing problem is money. To meet her mortgage ...