More than a Five-Star Book
OTHER WORDS FOR LOVE is a fantastic book, the kind you don't find very often, especially in YA. It's the kind of book that you still feel burning in your heart and in your hands when you finish that last page.
Ari Mitchell, the main character, transcends the usual YA protagonist. She's got her insecurities, but she also knows that she has good qualities to share. The problem is, she doesn't appreciate herself enough, nor do the people around her...her back-stabbing best friend, Summer, her screw-up sister, Evelyn, or all those boys in school who just don't give her a second look. (I kept thinking, "Ari, don't worry! Smart girls like you always end up with the best guys, it just takes a little longer to find them...the guys have to grow up and realize what a quality woman is!")
Ari's mother is among the few who see all that Ari has to offer. She tells Ari that she's pretty, smart, and headed for a good future. OTHER WORDS FOR LOVE needs to be understood and viewed in a historical context, and that's why the 1980s setting is so crucial to the story. Ari is part of Generation X, which includes the first young women who weren't told to get married, have kids, be a Betty Crocker and join the PTA. Ari's mother probably had those things forced down her throat, but she broke away as much as she could. She became a teacher, and had children, but one of those children (Evelyn) broke her heart when she had a baby at eighteen and has a simple life of homemaking and being a part-time cashier at the local grocery store. Now, with the world having changed so much, Ari's mother wants everything for her daughter that she didn't have: a satisfying career, the ability to support herself, and an exciting, full, rewarding life. She wants the best for her daughter, even though she's much too pushy in trying to make Ari do things her way.
Ari doesn't know which way to go. She also sees that Evelyn is depressed, that she hasn't fulfilled her potential, and that she's let down their parents. These conflicting thoughts often make Ari as depressed as Evelyn.
Then along comes Blake...rich, handsome, blue-eyed, sweetheart Blake, every girl's dream, who has an interest in Ari that grows into a serious, sexy, relationship that is supposed to have a future. Ari can't believe her luck, and she starts to see herself as someday "having it all"...Blake as her future husband, beautiful kids, money, a home, and a career as an art professor at a college in her hometown of New York.
But wait. Blake's father isn't happy with Ari. To him, she's too middle-class, too serious with his son, a girl who is tempting Blake away from his college studies and his planned-out future as the successor to his father's Manhattan law firm.
But Blake doesn't want to be a lawyer. He loves Ari. So he doesn't have to obey Daddy anymore, does he? Blake is twenty, and he has a mind of his own.......
Or does he?
No. Unfortunately, he doesn't, and Ari is left heartbroken. She's left to work through this misery, to shove through thick, dark, stormy clouds in the hope of sunshine.
Does she find it? Yes, she does, and in a way that isn't from a silly romance novel (or most romantic YA). The ending, like the rest of OTHER WORDS FOR LOVE is real, heartfelt, and absolutely beautiful.
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