Our Dad Died: The True Story of Three Kids Whose Lives Changed

Our Dad Died: The True Story of Three Kids Whose Lives Changed

by Amy Dennison
     
 

Amy and Allie, twins, were eight years old and their brother David was four when their father suddenly died in his sleep. Encouraged and guided by their mother, the three children kept a journal for almost two years. They wrote about the night he died, the funeral, the first week, the first year, the cemetery, their thoughts and feelings, their sadness and grief --…  See more details below

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Amy and Allie, twins, were eight years old and their brother David was four when their father suddenly died in his sleep. Encouraged and guided by their mother, the three children kept a journal for almost two years. They wrote about the night he died, the funeral, the first week, the first year, the cemetery, their thoughts and feelings, their sadness and grief -- and the future. Later, they looked back on what they had written and added new reflections. They also offered suggestions for anyone who has experienced a similar loss -- all from a kid's point of view. Amy, Allie, and David are real children whose lives were abruptly and forever altered. They have chosen to share their pain and learning, wisdom and strength. If you've lost a loved one or know someone who has, their words can help you, too, whether you're four or forty, eight or eighty, or anywhere in between.

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KLIATT
What do you do to cope with the death of a parent? For Amy, Allie and David Dennison, you write about it. Twins Amy and Allie, age eight when their father died, and David, then four, show kids how to deal with pain by chronicling their own loss. Excerpts of journals kept right after their father's sudden death reveal the immediate thoughts and feelings of the children. Now, five and a half years after his death, each section of the book includes an analysis of how they handled the situation. The children offer practical advice that goes beyond their initial responses and actions. The book covers the night their dad died, the funeral, the next nearly two years, and the future. The end of the book includes letters to their father and suggestions on how to continue dealing with the pain. Their story is written to children from children in an honest and helpful manner. This book will be an invaluable resource for children and teenagers who are trying to deal with a loss of their own. KLIATT Codes: JS-Recommended for junior and senior high school students. 2003, Free Spirit, 107p. illus., Ages 12 to 18.
— Amanda MacGregor
School Library Journal
Gr 3-7-When Amy and Allie were eight and David was four, their father died unexpectedly in his sleep. For the next two years, with their mother's help and encouragement, they kept journals about their reactions to their loss. The chapters are organized chronologically from the time they learned the news through their return to school and other activities. As time passed, the intervals between entries lengthened. At the end of each chapter, the children provide additional thoughts, as they look back five years later. Their love for their father and the closeness they continue to feel to him shine through the pages. Topics such as dealing with relatives and friends, visiting the cemetery, and having their mom date are incorporated into their observations. Their direct and honest comments reveal their own processes of grieving and their interactions with adults who are trying to help them while coping with the loss themselves. As such, the book is a valuable resource not only for children who have lost a parent but also for the adults who interact with them. Jill Krementz's How It Feels When a Parent Dies (Knopf, 1981) offers perspectives of 18 different children and young adults who each share their thoughts in a few pages; the Dennisons' reflections over time provide a different and complementary approach.-Kathy Piehl, Minnesota State University, Mankato Copyright 2003 Reed Business Information.

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Product Details

ISBN-13:
9781575421353
Publisher:
Free Spirit Publishing, Inc.
Publication date:
11/01/2003
Pages:
112
Product dimensions:
5.34(w) x 8.36(h) x 0.25(d)
Age Range:
9 - 12 Years

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