Owning Your Own Shadow: Understanding the Dark Side of the Psyche [NOOK Book]

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A bestselling author shows how we can reclaim and make peace with the "shadow" side of our personality.

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Owning Your Own Shadow: Understanding the Dark Side of the Psyche

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A bestselling author shows how we can reclaim and make peace with the "shadow" side of our personality.

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  • ISBN-13: 9780061957680
  • Publisher: HarperCollins Publishers
  • Publication date: 2/26/2013
  • Sold by: HARPERCOLLINS
  • Format: eBook
  • Pages: 128
  • Sales rank: 374,373
  • File size: 629 KB

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Robert A. Johnson, a noted lecturer and Jungian analyst, is also the author of He, She, We, Inner Work, Ecstasy, Transformation, and Owning Your Own Shadow.

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Owning Your Own Shadow
Understanding the Dark Side of the Psyche

The shadow: What is this curious dark element that follows us like a saurian tail and pursues us so relentlessly in our psychological world? What role does it occupy in the modern psyche?

The persona is what we would like to be and how we wish to be seen by the world. It is our psychological clothing and it mediates between our true selves and our environment just as our physical clothing presents an image to those we meet. The ego is what we are and know about consciously. The shadow is that part of us we fail to see or know.

How the Shadow Originates

We all are born whole and, let us hope, will die whole. But somewhere early on our way, we eat one of the wonderful fruits of the tree of knowledge, things separate into good and evil, and we begin the shadow-making process; we divide our lives. In the cultural process we sort out our God-given characteristics into those that are acceptable to our society and those that have to be put away. This is wonderful and necessary, and there would be no civilised behaviour without this sorting out of good and evil. But the refused and unacceptable characteristics do not go away; they only collect in the dark corners of our personality. When they have been hidden long enough, they take on a life of their own -- the shadow life. The shadow is that which has not entered adequately into consciousness. It is the despised quarter of our being. It often has an energy potential nearly as great as that of our ego. If it accumulates more energy than our ego, it erupts as an overpowering rage or someindiscretion that slips past us; or we have a depression or an accident that seems to have its own purpose. The shadow gone autonomous is a terrible monster in our psychic house.

The civilising process, which is the brightest achievement of humankind, consists of culling out those characteristics that are dangerous to the smooth functioning of our ideals. Anyone who does not go through this process remains a "primitive" and can have no place in a cultivated society. We all are born whole but somehow the culture demands that we live out, only part of our nature and refuse other parts of our inheritance. We divide the self into an ego and a shadow because our culture insists that we behave in a particular manner. This is our legacy from having eaten of the fruit of the tree of knowledge in the Garden of Eden. Culture takes away the simple human in us, but gives us more complex and sophisticated power. One can make a forceful argument that children should not be subjected to this division too soon or they will be robbed of childhood; they should be allowed to remain in the Garden of Eden until they are strong enough to stand the cultural process without being broken by it. This strength comes at different ages for different individuals and it requires a keen eye to know when children are ready to adapt to the collective life of a society.

It is interesting to travel about the world and see which characteristics various cultures affix to the ego and which to the shadow. It becomes clear that culture is an artificially imposed structure, but an absolutely necessary one. We find that in one country we drive on the right side of the road; in another, the left. In the West a man may hold hands with a woman on the street but not with another man; in India he may hold hands with a male friend but not with a woman. In the West one shows respect by wearing shoes in formal or religious places; in the East it a sign of disrespect to wear shoes when one is in a temple or house. If you go into a temple in India with your shoes on you will be put out and told not to come back until you learn some manners. In the Middle East one burps at the end of a meal to show pleasure; in the West this would be very bad manners.

The sorting process is quite arbitrary. Individuality, for instance, is a great virtue in some societies and the greatest sin in others. In the Middle East it is a virtue to be selfless. Students of a great master of painting or poetry will often sign their work with the name of their master rather than their own. In our culture, one brings to his or her own name the highest publicity possible. The clash of these opposing points of view is dangerous as the rapidly expanding communication network of the modern world brings us closer together. The shadow of one culture is a tinderbox of trouble for another.

It is also astonishing to find that some very good characteristics turn up in the shadow. Generally, the ordinary, mundane characteristics are the norm. Anything less than this goes into the shadow. But anything better also goes into the shadow! Some of the pure gold of our personality is relegated to the shadow because it can find no place in that great levelling process that is culture.

Curiously, people resist the noble aspects of their shadow more strenuously than they hide the dark sides. To draw the skeletons out of the closet is relatively easy, but to own the gold in the shadow is terrifying. It is more disrupting to find that you have a profound nobility of character than to find out you are a bum. Of course you are both; but one does not discover these two elements at the same time. The gold is related to our higher calling, and this can be hard to accept at certain stages of life. Ignoring the gold can be as damaging as ignoring the dark side of the psyche, and some people may suffer a severe shock or illness before they learn how to let the gold out.

Owning Your Own Shadow
Understanding the Dark Side of the Psyche
. Copyright (c) by Robert A. Johnson . Reprinted by permission of HarperCollins Publishers, Inc. All rights reserved. Available now wherever books are sold.
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  • Posted September 17, 2010

    Archetypes

    Why does Johnson state that the Shadow is developed during the cultural process? --"we all are born whole and let us hope will die whole. But somewhere, early on our way, we eat one of the wonderful fruits of the tree of knowledge, things separate into good and evil, and we begin the shadow making process; we divide our lives." when Jung [addressing the concept of the Shadow as an archetype] specifically states in "Aion", chapter 3, the Shadow that "whereas the contents of the personal unconscious are acquired during the individual's lifetime, the contents of the collective unconscious are invariably archetypes that are present from the beginning". It appears to me that, if I am correct, Johnson mistakes the basic concept of the Shadow and his book is built on a false premise. I hesitate, as a layman, to make a statement critizing Johnson, but I am confused over what I see as a basic mis-statement of the nature of an archetype and would like someone to tell me why I must be wrong, thanks, John

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  • Anonymous

    Posted July 11, 2009

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    Outstanding!

    This book has a very clear, easily understood explanation of Shadow. It also sheds very helpful light on romantic love. I highly recommend it!

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  • Anonymous

    Posted April 30, 2008

    Leadership and Emotions Go hand in Mind

    Excellent for leadership development.

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  • Anonymous

    Posted September 20, 2000

    A Clear and Elegant Little Book on Shadow

    Author Robert A. Johnson has written (yet another) powerful book with 'Owning Your Own Shadow'. Writing in a clear, elegant style, he has plumbed the depths of Jung's concept of the shadow and emerged with pithy insight for all of us. One of the things I most appreciate in Johnson's work is his accessibility. So many Jungians can intellectualize concepts to a dizzying degree of confusion. Not so with Johnson. His important work is always instantly readable, full of insight and compassion. This guide to recognising one's shadow, honoring it and finally, balancing it within our selves to become more wholly (holy) human is a quiet little masterpiece. Also: Check out his book 'Transformation' for further reading on integrating the shadow at mid-life.

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  • Anonymous

    Posted January 31, 2000

    Beyond good.

    If you like to think, then you'll love this book. It has something for everyone interested in human development. If you like Tool then you'll like this book. It explains Jungian theory in its own way. It captivates and entertains. Your mind will grow with ideas and wonder.

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