Parenting with Scripture: A Topical Guide for Teachable Moments

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Your word is a lamp to my feet and a light for my path.

Psalm 119:105 (NIV)

You're a parent who wants to teach your children to turn early and often to God's Word. You want them to think through and apply God's instructions to daily life. You want them to go to the Bible first to find answers to life's biggest questions. But how can you instill those habits into them right now-as preschoolers, elementary ...

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Overview

Your word is a lamp to my feet and a light for my path.

Psalm 119:105 (NIV)

You're a parent who wants to teach your children to turn early and often to God's Word. You want them to think through and apply God's instructions to daily life. You want them to go to the Bible first to find answers to life's biggest questions. But how can you instill those habits into them right now-as preschoolers, elementary students, or teens? Where can you find a resource to help you?

This handy A-to-Z topical guide will equip you to instill God's principles into the everyday lives of your family members.  Among the many themes author Kara Durbin covers, you'll find:

·         Apathy

·         Complaining

·         Discipline

·         Fairness

·         Giving

·         Humility

·         Listening

·         Responsibility

Newly updated to include a section on identifying "teachable moments" in your child's life, Parenting with Scripture aims to make you alert to opportunities to talk to your child about godly living.  Furthermore, the ideas for simple discussions, Scriptures for memorization, and activities that are adaptable to your children's ages and interests will make you wonder why you didn't have this book before!

Kara Durbin writes from her experience and background in elementary education and involvement in children's ministry. Kara, her husband, and children currently make their home in Richardson, TX.

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"Basically, this title says it all. This book is a parenting guide that uses the Bible as a teaching tool. I found it very interesting and useful. The author, Kara Durbin, goes over some of the ways she has used the Bible, even when her kids were very young, to teach them what the Bible teaches on different topics, not just about right and wrong. Kara even uses a passage from Deuteronomy to explain what teachable moments are; anytime you and your child are together.

What I found the most useful, was the way the book is set up. This is a book you will use on a daily basis if you have kids, long after you have finished reading it. After you read the intro and the teachable moments chapter, Kara lists 15 fabulous verses to memorize, they cover a broad array of topics that you may need/want to use when teaching your kids on a regular day, such as; Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right.-EPHESIANS 6:1. Kara even gives some methods to help both you and your kids memorize the scripture verses, breaking it down by age. Kara also talks a bit about praying and how to pray with your children.

But, the best chapter, in my opinion, is the Topics chapter. In this chapter Kara lists almost anything you can think of that you may need to parent a child on, for example, anger, in alphabetical order, like a dictionary. First, she gives the definition of the word, then she lists verses where anger is discussed in the Bible, and lastly she has some discussion questions to use with your kids and a take action part that gives some real life reinforcement activities you can use.

I know that this will be a book that I will use when I have kids. It is a great tool if you want to teach your kids how to interact with the Bible in their daily lives and what the Bible teaches us about almost everything under the sun. I highly recommend this book to parents, Sunday school teachers, or even to teachers at a private school where you can talk about the Bible." Reviewed by Sarah Inserra, Net Galley April 7, 2012

"This book has become indespensible in my house! We have tried for several years to connect God's word to behaviours we exhibit, both good and bad. That means a lot of time looking up verses and a lot of times I say "God tells us in His word......." but I can't remember the exact verse. This book makes it quick and easy to find verses that relate to everything from sharing, to anger, to compassion, to honesty, to so much more!

Before you start thinking this is just a compilation of Bible verses, let me fill you in. Each quality includes a definition to begin with so that you and your children really know what the word means. This is especially important for little kids. Then there are several Bible verses that include the quality. This is followed by a few discussion questions and then a Take Action section that encourages you to do something with what you have learned. Then there are parenting tips for both young and older children. This is followed by a listing of any related topics that are also in the book so you can cross reference them.

The design of the book lends itself to topical family Bible studies. We used the Family Character Assessment from We Choose Virtue  to identify our weak spots and started studying from there using this book as a resource. It has really helped me to lead my children and myself towards more biblical behavior." Reviewed by Ginny Blankenship, Net Galley April 8, 2012

"I love this book.  I don't like very many parenting books because they can be such a beat down but this book is so refreshing.  Perhaps because it uses the Bible instead of quotes from famous parents.  There are so many reasons I love this book.

First up, it is topic based, alphabetically so if you are in frantic state needing assurance immediately you can quickly locate the chapter on, say, "Stress."  The first page of each chapter starts with a definition of the word then followed by the quoted scripture.  The second page has discussion points, take action suggestions, a parenting tip, and ending with related topics if you need to read more. 

The second part of this book I love is what comes after the topics:  Scripture Appendix, giving you a quick list of Be Attitudes, 10 Commandments, etc; 15 Fabulous Verses to Memorize, memorization methods for all ages of children, and how to pray scripture for your children. This book should be on every parent's bookshelf!  Buy your copy today." Reviewed by Cary Plunkett, Net Galley April 9, 2012

"Parenting with Scripture is literally the best way to describe this book.  Ms. Durbin takes scripture and teachable moments for parents to use as a reference.  She does a great job at using situations that could come up in a child's life and using verses to help guide the child on his/her path of faith.  She recommends that parents use this for children two years old and up.  Heck I'm sure that if I gave my mom this book she would use it for me :-)

Ok I'll admit, upon first starting to read this book, I felt an immense amount of guilt.  I was thinking my goodness I'm an educator and I haven't thought of using scripture to teach my kids in moments that they need it most. Thank goodness Kara Durbin thought to write a book for parents, because I don't think I would have thought of this on my own.  I'm not very good at memorization, so having scripture at the tip of my fingers when a teachable moment occurs is great.  This book is a great reference book, read it through once, but always have it on hand for that moment you need a verse to help you parent your child in a Godly way.  I should note that there is a section of verses that Ms. Durbin highly encourages the reader to memorize.  I plan on do that!" Reviewed by Breanna Parker, Net Galley April 28, 2012

"Parenting With Scripture is geared toward parents of children ages two through teens. It defines a teachable moment: how to find one and what it actually is. Discussion questions are designed to help the parent grab a hold of those teachable moments with his or her children. Different ideas can help you tailor each lesson to fit the individual situation. Included are verses that fit a variety of situations. Parents are encouraged to discuss the situation, pray about it with their children, and to memorize those verses." Reviewed by Andrea Coventry, Net Galley July 11, 2012 

"I'm so excited about this  book!  I loved the "Wise Words for Moms" wall chart, I only wished it were more in-depth - but Parenting with Scripture is.  As much as I want to parent with the living, active words of Scripture, it's awfully hard to recall the correct ones to memory for every occasion.  Parenting with Scripture is well-organized, with indexes and cross-references, as well as points of action and discussion for all sorts of teachable moments." Reviewed by Gretchen Acheson, Net Galley August 15, 2012

"Parenting with Scripture is an easy to use topical resource that parents with young children can use when teachable moments arise. This effective guide helps teach young children how to think and apply God's Word in their daily lives. Kara Durbin's revised book helps parents capture those teachable moments and use Scripture to shape their children's behavior. The 101 alphabetically sorted topics address behavior, attitude, emotions, and actions. Examples include Forgiveness, Humility, Anger and Procrastination. Each topic includes scripture passages, discussion questions, action items, and parenting tips. Questions and tips are written so older children can teach younger children. This new edition of Parenting with Scripture includes detailed help for parents to quickly identify teachable moments, and what to do when they appear. " Reviewed by Rachel Steffen, Net Galley September 28, 2012

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Product Details

  • ISBN-13: 9780802408495
  • Publisher: Moody Publishers
  • Publication date: 4/1/2012
  • Edition description: New Edition
  • Pages: 248
  • Sales rank: 108,117
  • Product dimensions: 5.50 (w) x 8.40 (h) x 0.70 (d)

Meet the Author

KARA DURBIN has enjoyed continually serving in various roles of children's ministries. She has a degree in elementary education from Texas A&M University and homeschools her children part time. Kara's inspiration for the book was her mother, who blessed her life by parenting her with Scripture. When thinking about how to best parent her own children, Kara looked for a reference book that would have Scriptures to use for specific parenting moments. Not finding one, she began work on Parenting with Scripture. Kara and her husband and two children make their home near Dallas, Texas.

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Parenting with Scripture

A TOPICAL GUIDE FOR TEACHABLE MOMENTS
By Kara Durbin

Moody Publishers

Copyright © 2012 Kara Durbin
All right reserved.

ISBN: 978-0-8024-0849-5


Chapter One

Teachable Moments

These commandments that I give you today are to be upon your hearts. Impress them on your children. Talk about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up.

Deuteronomy 6:6-7

Teachable moments are any time that you use situations to dialogue with your child about what's going on—what he or she has seen, heard, or done. As this passage from Deuteronomy describes, teachable moments can be any time you and your child are together.

Christian poll master George Barna's research echoes the scriptural definition: "We have found that most children learn through experiences—either having an eye-opening lesson or having a previously grasped lesson clarified and reinforced."

Have you ever been sitting with the family watching a movie or TV show when all of a sudden, something happens onscreen that you wish your child hadn't seen or heard? Sometimes it is more appropriate not to make a big deal of it and hope the questionable content goes over the child's head. However, if you do discuss the issue right away or follow up later, you are making use of a teachable moment.

Where Do I Look for Teachable Moments?

Once you put yourself on the lookout for teachable moments, you'll find them everywhere! Here are a few of the most common ways that teachable moments arise.

1. Media. In our media-saturated culture, you'll find teachable moments on TV shows and commercials, in the movies, on the Internet, in music, in video games, in magazines, and on billboards.

When my kids were younger, we were watching an episode of Superwhy, when one of the show's characters was afraid to go down a slide. The question posed to the characters and the viewers was, "How do we help someone who is afraid?" The answer given by the show was to "cheer" for their friend. This turned into a great discussion later that day as we drove home from the dentist. We talked about how cheering is a great idea, but as Christians there are other ways we can help, such as praying for our friend or encouraging him with what the Bible says.

I reminded the children of some helpful verses by prompting them with the beginnings of these verses and they filled in the rest. We quoted Psalm 56:3, "When I am afraid, I will trust in you," and Philippians 4:13, which says, "I can do everything through him who gives me strength."

I remember wishing that the discussion had come up on the way to the dentist because my poor little guy had been terrified of getting in the dentist's chair for his checkup. His big sis did a great job cheering him on since that was fresh in her memory from watching the show, but it would have been neat to see how she used the biblical input from that teachable moment in that situation.

Families with older children or teens will want to help them think critically from a biblical perspective about what they take in through the media. See the Take Action section under the topic Revenge for a good example.

2. Situations with Siblings or Friends. There is no doubt a number of teachable moments can arise when a family has only one child. But as soon as others—siblings or friends—are added into the equation, it creates the potential for conflict. Seize these moments as opportunities to teach. Being consistent in this area takes a big investment of time on the front end, but the payoff comes as you see your child beginning to handle situations more appropriately.

One way of handling conflict as a teachable moment is through role-playing. This was instrumental in my family one summer as we prepared for the new school year. I recalled areas of conflict that had come up in the past couple of school years. Rather than mentioning them specifically, I tossed out similar scenarios by asking the children, "What would you do if someone carne up and told you something negative about someone else?" or, "What is a kind way of treating someone who really annoys you?" or, "What do you do if you are tempted to be disruptive in class rather than listening?" These questions generated great discussions and helped our year start off on a positive note. You can kick the teaching up a notch by praying over the topics and integrating Scripture that fits them.

Your children can also learn from the mistakes of others. As you observe situations, you can ask your child, "What might be a better way to handle that problem?" or, "What would you have done differently?" Talking through scenarios equips your child with the know-how to deal with the situation better if it ever happens to him. Wouldn't we all rather spare ourselves the pain of negative consequences by considering ahead of time what we could do differently? This method of using teachable moments will become increasingly important as your child gets older and the consequences of problematic behavior become more serious and harmful (such as drugs, smoking, premarital sex, and so on).

Most older children tend to try to one-up each other—not a good habit for interacting with people in general. For this situation, my go-to verse is 1 Thessalonians 5:11: "Encourage one another and build each other up." When my kids begin to one-up each other, I remind them that they are both good at different things and urge them, in light of this piece of God's Word, to turn the conversation more positively.

Anywhere there are two people, teachable moments will appear!

3. Car Time. When my nieces were growing up, my sister-in-law used to say she might as well wallpaper the minivan to beautify and personalize a space where she spent so much time! Most parents spend a lot of time getting the kids everywhere they need to go. Why not make use of the time when they're buckled into the family vehicle to create teachable moments?

You might pull a discussion topic from what you see out the window, like litter lining the road. You can use that moment to talk with your children about how God made the earth and wants us to take care of it. Part of that means not littering. Young children may not even know the term litter, so it's a perfect opportunity to broaden their vocabulary by explaining the meaning. You might bring in a verse such as John 1:3, "All things were made by him" (KJV).

This captive-audience teaching time is especially effective for older children and teens, as it offers the opportunity to pose moral questions like, "What do you do if someone asks to copy your homework?" or, "What do you think God has to say about that?" Try to think of some related verses or refer to this book when you get home.

4. Positive Moments. It feels quite natural to use the times when negative behaviors appear for teaching times. Of course it is necessary to address those areas and teach the child what is right and wrong. But all too often we leave the focus there even though children and youth respond very well to praise. Sometimes a shift in focus from hounding on the negative to reinforcing the positive will produce a healthy change. Even children who are well-behaved most of the time need to be encouraged by affirmation of their good habits, such as affirming honesty or kindness.

5. Create Your Own. Creating teachable moments is the most fun because it works from the front end before a problem arises.

When my children were preschoolers, I would prepare them for a playdate by saying something like, "Does God want us to share? Yes, He does! Remember that God's Word, the Bible, says, 'Do not forget to do good and to share with others.' Can you remember that when we're playing today? Let's pray and ask God to help you remember to share" (Hebrews 13:16).

As my kids grew older and I was sending them off into a day when I knew things might not go exactly the way they'd like, I'd remind all of us that God wants us to "do everything without complaining or arguing" (Philippians 2:14). We'd also pray for God to help us avoid complaining and arguing during the day. Then, when need be, we could remind each other throughout the day to "try again" with more positive wording, tone, or attitude. We'd prepped our hearts by creating a teachable moment at the start of the day.

6. Find the Right Time. If you're zooming down the highway when a teachable moment occurs, you obviously can't whip out your Bible or flip through a reference book to search for a Scripture that meets the situation. Discuss it as you're able, but make a mental note to revisit the issue and follow up with Scripture later that evening or the next day. It's fine to extend the teachable moment, and the extra time can help you search God's Word or consider how to talk about a subject with your child.

Sometimes when conflicts come up, you or your child may be too worked up emotionally to discuss it right away. Or there may be other people around who don't need to be present for your discussion. There can be good reasons to stretch the teachable moment and delay.

One afternoon after church, our family shared a barbecue lunch with friends from our small group. There was a girl in the group just a bit older than my daughter and another just a bit younger. My daughter, naturally, looked up to that older one. But things took a negative turn as I noticed her begin to ignore the younger one, a girl she normally loved and enjoyed. Selfishly, she wanted all the attention of that older girl, to the detriment of her younger dear friend.

Aha! A Teachable Moment!

When we got settled back at home, I took the opportunity to discuss the issue gently with my daughter. Older children respond well to questions, which allow them to figure things out on their own. It also helps keep the discussion from becoming a parent lecture. Here are some of the questions I asked my daughter to help us discuss what had happened.

Do you think you were a good friend to (the younger girl) today?

What did you do that was unfriendly to her?

Remember that the Bible says, "A friend loves at all times" (Proverbs 17:17). Do you think your young friend felt she was loved today?

How do you think she felt? How would you have felt?

One of our other verses says, "Do to others as you would have them do to you" (Matthew 7:12). Would you want to be treated the way you treated your friend today?

Let's talk about different ways we could have handled the situation. You wanted to sit by two older friends, but your younger friend wanted to sit by you. What could you have said that would be nice? (If the child can't come up with a good response, you might suggest one.) How about, "Thanks for wanting to sit by me! I like sitting by you, too. Here's a round table so we call can sit together."

Our finish for this teachable moment was to pray together, asking God to help my daughter to be the kind of friend who "loves at all times" and treats others the way she would like to be treated.

My talk with my daughter sounds perfectly scripted, but I assure you it was normal give-and-take, with the bumps and imperfections of normal conversation. And we didn't get out the Bible that time because I was reminding her of verses we had already memorized. Don't get bogged down in trying to make your wording perfect. Pray that God will help you as teachable moments come up. Then however it comes out will be perfect.

As you go through your days, look for opportunities to turn situations into teachable moments and teachable moments into godly living because "faith without deeds is dead" (James 2:26).

How Do I Find and Use Scriptures in Teachable Moments?

Once you begin, you'll find it easy to determine a topic or key word for situations that arise. To practice, read the following true story and think about what you might have done in the situation and what topic or key word you would use to describe the behavior.

Siblings Will and Caroline were at home playing one summer morning. Will, being a pesky big brother, filled a cup with hot water, told Caroline it was cold water, and suggested she stick her hand in it. Caroline was busy with her own toys and was not interested in doing what Will demanded. So Will grabbed her hand and stuck it in the hot water. Caroline screamed—more from surprise than from pain. Their mother came running, calmed Caroline down, and sent Will to his room after he confessed what he'd done. Then she took a few minutes to think about how to address the situation. She decided to turn to this book to help her find applicable verses.

If you were the mother of Will and Caroline, what topic or key word would help you classify the negative behavior? Try paging through the book for a topic that fits. The one Caroline's and Will's mom found was Crafty, because, she said, it came first alphabetically as she flipped the pages of the book. Others you might have considered are trust, honesty, or meanness. In this case, the mom was able to use Proverbs 14:17, which says "a crafty man is hated," to explain to Will the damage his behavior can do to his relationship with his sister or other children.

You can apply Scripture in your teachable moments in several ways.

1. Discuss. Talk about the verse that you find under your chosen topic, clarifying any words a child may not know. For example, what if crafty Will thought his mom was talking about fun art projects (crafts) while she thought they were having an excellent discussion about being sly or tricking others? He could have totally missed her point.

Young children especially need the visual reinforcement of seeing you turn to Scripture for wisdom. So, even if you're using a resource such as Parenting with Scripture to find verses, try always to switch to your own Bible or your child's Bible whenever you are actually reading the verse to your child. This visually reinforces the truth that this wisdom comes from God and not from some lady named Kara Durbin!

You'll find that sometimes you can use verses positively to address a negative behavior. When a friend's daughter was two-and-a-half or three and struggling with tantrums, my friend often leaned on Proverbs 17:22: "A cheerful heart is good medicine." This mom found that it helped her daughter focus on the choice to be cheerful. Once the child was calm enough to talk with her mom, this mom would say, "I know it upsets you that _____, but throwing a fit or pouting is not the best way to respond." And then she'd prompt her daughter with what the Bible says: "A cheerful heart is _____?" And her daughter would respond, "Good medicine." Sometimes this mom would point out the contrast between a cheerful heart and a grumpy one, asking, "What kind of attitude makes us feel better?" Once her daughter remembered that throwing a fit does more harm than good, this mother would pose the choice: "Which kind of attitude do you choose to have?"

It's a joy to be part of the process when a child makes a connection between life and God's Word. Another friend of mine who had been teaching her children that "love is kind," was delighted to hear her three-year-old say, "Mommy, I thought of what my brother would want first. I was kind!" Transformation by God's truth in our lives is the ultimate goal of these teachable moments.

2. Pray. Pray using the Scriptures. Many verses lend themselves naturally to prayer. For example, under the topic word Crafty, you'll find Psalm 119:29: "Keep me from deceitful ways." After you've read God's Word and explained the version, reword it to pray something like, "Lord, please help keep Will from being crafty or mean. Thank You that You forgive us when we do wrong." A section on praying God's Word for your children appears at the end of this book.

3. Memorize. Especially if your teachable moment applies to a pattern of behavior more than a single incident, you and your child may want to consider committing a related verse to memory. Then, when the issue arises again, God's Word will already be handy, on your heart. God's Word is powerful and can help change behavior (2 Timothy 3:16-17; Hebrews 4:12).

I've selected fifteen verses that apply to numerous teachable moments and included them at the end of this book, along with tips for memorizing God's Word. You and your kids will never regret hiding His Word in your heart (Psalm 119:11).

4. Underline. It's meaningful to underline an applicable verse in the Bible and write the topic word beside it. Here's one more reason you will want to give your child a complete Bible at an early age. Even pre-readers can recognize chapter and verse numbers and will enjoy seeing Scriptures they have learned about underlined or highlighted.

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Excerpted from Parenting with Scripture by Kara Durbin Copyright © 2012 by Kara Durbin. Excerpted by permission of Moody Publishers. All rights reserved. No part of this excerpt may be reproduced or reprinted without permission in writing from the publisher.
Excerpts are provided by Dial-A-Book Inc. solely for the personal use of visitors to this web site.

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Table of Contents

Contents

Introduction....................9
Teachable Moments....................12
Features and Symbols....................23
Topics....................24
Scripture Appendix....................228
15 Fabulous Verses to Memorize....................234
Praying Scripture for Your Child....................236
Cross-Reference Index....................240
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  • Posted April 7, 2012

    a great Christian advice book for parenting!

    Basically, this title says it all. This book is a parenting guide that uses the Bible as a teaching tool. I found it very interesting and useful. The author, Kara Durbin, goes over some of the ways she has used the Bible, even when her kids were very young, to teach them what the Bible teaches on different topics, not just about right and wrong. Kara even uses a passage from Deuteronomy to explain what teachable moments are; anytime you and your child are together.

    What I found the most useful, was the way the book is set up. This is a book you will use on a daily basis if you have kids, long after you have finished reading it. After you read the intro and the teachable moments chapter, Kara lists 15 fabulous verses to memorize, they cover a broad array of topics that you may need/want to use when teaching your kids on a regular day, such as; Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right.—EPHESIANS 6:1. Kara even gives some methods to help both you and your kids memorize the scripture verses, breaking it down by age. Kara also talks a bit about praying and how to pray with your children.

    But, the best chapter, in my opinion, is the Topics chapter. In this chapter Kara lists almost anything you can think of that you may need to parent a child on, for example, anger, in alphabetical order, like a dictionary. First, she gives the definition of the word, then she lists verses where anger is discussed in the Bible, and lastly she has some discussion questions to use with your kids and a take action part that gives some real life reinforcement activities you can use.

    I know that this will be a book that I will use when I have kids. It is a great tool if you want to teach your kids how to interact with the Bible in their daily lives and what the Bible teaches us about almost everything under the sun.

    I highly recommend this book to parents, Sunday school teachers, or even to teachers at a private school where you can talk about the Bible.

    Please read more of my reviews on my blog: sarahereads(dot)wordpress(dot)com

    1 out of 1 people found this review helpful.

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  • Anonymous

    Posted January 25, 2001

    Quick Resource for Busy Parents

    This book is excellent for parents who want a resource to help with those teachable moments that pass quickly. When you are dealing with a specific issue with your child--guilt, discipline, fighting, etc.--this book can lead you to appropriate Scripture to share with your child. You are reinforcing your position with Biblical references. The book also includes ideas for discussion, ways to take action, and parenting tips. This is all presented in an easy-to-read format. All the topics all in alphabetical order for easy reference. I have also found the book helpful for me as well.

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  • Posted September 2, 2013

    This book is a A-Z topical guide to assist parents in teaching b

    This book is a A-Z topical guide to assist parents in teaching biblical principles to their children. Some topics covered include responsibility, forgiveness, discipline, complaining, and humility. Each topic is presented in the same way; readers are given a definition, several bible verses, discussion questions, and then an action plan.

    Although this book is presented as a topical guide for teachable moments, in the introduction it discusses other uses for the book that I think are just as effective. One of the suggestions is as a topical devotional guide for the child or the whole family. I think it would be a good devotional guide for anyone.

    I really enjoyed reading through this book. I thought the referenced verses were relevant and applicable, yet familiar and easy to understand. I appreciated that the discussion questions were straight-forward and easy to use with children and the Take Action section was easy to implement. I also thought the length of each study topic was well-suited to a busy parent’s schedule or a child’s shorter attention span.

    This would be an excellent book for parents to use together so they are on the same page when addressing behavior problems with their children. It would also be a great study book for a mom’s group to study and practice scenarios so they are prepared when presented with a teachable moment with their children. It would also make a great gift to new parents.

    I highly recommend this book for any parent who is committed to teaching biblical principles to their children. It is an easy-to-use, handy guide.

    I received a copy of this book from Moody Publishing in exchange for my honest review. All opinions are my own.

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    Posted December 2, 2010

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