"The road to being as one of the most successful advertising executives in the country was not an easy one for Valerie Graves. As an African-American woman trying to ‘be somebody’ in the 60’s and 70’s, she faced criticism and discrimination on the path to success. In her new memoir, Graves shares her stories of struggle but the inspirations and hope that kept her going. Readers will see a new side to the advertising mogul and learn that nothing is impossible."
"Barrier-breaking, highly celebrated creative director and advertising executive Graves is about more than glittery and impressive national advertising campaigns and her association with international celebrities and various Fortune 500 companies . . . No one was looking for her, but she showed up, spoke directly to the public, and captured the world’s attention. Graves’ well-told tale, set against a detailed social and cultural backdrop, of courage and success both personally (including a happy marriage) and professionally is moving and inspiring."
"Valerie Graves’s first book is her story of an African American teenage mother who fights her way into advertising in Detroit in the 1970s. Then in New York she uses her uniqueness to become one of the top ad writers in the world. Enjoy."
"Written in a highly polished yet informal style, this book will appeal to readers interested in memoirs of accomplished businesswomen and African American success, as well as those who want a glimpse into the fast-paced world of a top-level ad executive."
Library Journal
"The road to being as one of the most successful advertising executives in the country was not an easy one for Valerie Graves. As an African-American woman trying to 'be somebody' in the 60's and 70's, she faced criticism and discrimination on the path to success. In her new memoir, Graves shares her stories of struggle but the inspirations and hope that kept her going. Readers will see a new side to the advertising mogul and learn that nothing is impossible."
BuzzFeed
"Valerie Graves reflects on her prodigious journey from the projects of Michigan to the prestige of New York's upper echelon as a high-powered advertising executive in a historically white and male arena."
Nia Magazine
"Valerie Graves has written a no-holds-barred account of what it was like to grow up on the wrong side of town in the 1960s, become a teenage mother, and end up being one of the most celebrated copywriters in advertising history. Her book is raw and riveting."
Nancy Hill, CEO, American Association of Advertising Agencies
"Pressure Makes Diamonds is welcome relief from those who decry America's future. Valerie Graves is a poster woman for achievement despite racism and gender discrimination."
Allen Rosenshine, Chairman Emeritus, BBDO Worldwide
"Valerie Graves's first book is her story of an African American teenage mother who fights her way into advertising in Detroit in the 1970s. Then in New York she uses her uniqueness to become one of the top ad writers in the world. Enjoy."
Robert Downey Sr., Writer/Director, Putney Swope
"I never knew what it was like to be black in this industry until I read Valerie Graves's book."
Peggy Conlon, Former CEO, The Advertising Council
"Pressure Makes Diamonds is an important and timely book that brilliantly details Valerie Graves's pioneering life and transformative career in the historically segregated advertising industry. With world-class creative skills and gritty determination, Graves achieved award-winning mainstream success; opened doors for aspiring minorities; and helped to change how blacks are perceived in the media."
Byron E. Lewis, Chairman Emeritus, UniWorld Group"
10/15/2016
With this memoir, veteran ad copywriter Graves makes her first foray as a book author. She begins with her childhood in Pontiac, MI, establishing early on her yearning to escape the underprivileged world of her youth for a better life. From there the author discusses the challenges of teenage pregnancy, negotiating work, education, and career choice, and learning to lead effectively in the face of racism, family strife, and self-doubt. At times an ode to fame and the trappings of celebrity, at times a testament to the benefits of New-Age thinking, the narrative is alternately introspective and aloof, full of both pride and frank descriptions of Graves's shortcomings. Through it all, the ad world is depicted as a glamorous, creative haven that can contribute to positive social change. VERDICT Written in a highly polished yet informal style, this book will appeal to readers interested in memoirs of accomplished businesswomen and African American success, as well as those who want a glimpse into the fast-paced world of a top-level ad executive.—Rebecca Brody, Westfield State Univ., MA
Sept. 15, 2016
A pioneer in multicultural advertising recounts her life surmounting the odds of being African-American and female in a predominantly white male business arena.A precocious girl with big dreams, Graves grew up in a Michigan public housing project on the shores of Pontiac’s polluted Crystal Lake. The daughter of a smart, single mother and an errant father, the author, though a self-proclaimed “mouthy show-off,” embraced her tenacity and youthful intelligence and excelled throughout grade school with a natural talent for public speaking. Life soon intervened, however, and, playing out against the backdrop of the 1967 Detroit riots, the “disgrace” of teenage motherhood temporarily derailed Graves’ academic potential. Yet her spirit to exceed eventually won out with college enrollment and an adventuresome and career-defining ascent in the largely white male–dominated world of creative advertising. Her adulthood was clearly shaped by a challenging past, and Graves harnessed the advantages of her hardscrabble youth and channeled that energy and experience into a noteworthy career, theater work, marriage, and watching her son achieve sobriety. The author narrates her unconventional journey with unabashed pride and fortitude and shares both positive and negative anecdotes, as with her unsurprising termination after calling herself the “token” black employee during an ad agency meeting full of “anxious, driven white men seeking money and power of every sort.” Achieving multiple accolades and even collaborating with Bill Clinton, Graves established herself as a fierce force in the advertising field and a greatly admired role model for black professionals establishing themselves in American business. In a moving book steeped in perseverance and empowering determination, the author fully embodies the challenges of her culture and those of being a motivated businesswoman. She concludes with optimistic anticipation for a truly “postracial America” where society has moved beyond skin color, “when race doesn’t determine who lives next door.” Optimistic and galvanizing, Graves’ message of hope and hard work is timely and applicable.