Quit Being So Good: Stories of an Unapologetic Woman

When Kristi Hemmer was eight, she was the Connect Four champ; nobody wanted to play with her. When she was twelve, she was on the Future Problem Solvers of America championship team; people told her that if she was too smart, boys wouldn't like her. When she was eighteen, her professor told her she was too smart to be a teacher. When she was thirty-three and principal of an all-girls school, a city council member told her she was too young. The underlying message is one that every female of every age is told again and again: You're too much. Quit being you. You don't belong. Wait your turn. Be quiet. Quit being so good.

 

Quit Being So Good is a collection of fifteen stories from the frontlines of being female. It is a call to action for women to unapologetically be their most powerful selves for the sake of building a safer, more equitable world. The key to being unapologetic (maybe even dismantling the patriarchy itself) is in these three simple steps: 1). take up space, 2). be first, and 3). look for the helpers.

 

Reading this book will inspire women to be self-assured, to be their "possible," and to take up the space they need to be more of themselves—not less. And in the process, women will indeed change the world. As Malala says, "You will never know who stands with you if you don't stand up first."

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Quit Being So Good: Stories of an Unapologetic Woman

When Kristi Hemmer was eight, she was the Connect Four champ; nobody wanted to play with her. When she was twelve, she was on the Future Problem Solvers of America championship team; people told her that if she was too smart, boys wouldn't like her. When she was eighteen, her professor told her she was too smart to be a teacher. When she was thirty-three and principal of an all-girls school, a city council member told her she was too young. The underlying message is one that every female of every age is told again and again: You're too much. Quit being you. You don't belong. Wait your turn. Be quiet. Quit being so good.

 

Quit Being So Good is a collection of fifteen stories from the frontlines of being female. It is a call to action for women to unapologetically be their most powerful selves for the sake of building a safer, more equitable world. The key to being unapologetic (maybe even dismantling the patriarchy itself) is in these three simple steps: 1). take up space, 2). be first, and 3). look for the helpers.

 

Reading this book will inspire women to be self-assured, to be their "possible," and to take up the space they need to be more of themselves—not less. And in the process, women will indeed change the world. As Malala says, "You will never know who stands with you if you don't stand up first."

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Quit Being So Good: Stories of an Unapologetic Woman

Quit Being So Good: Stories of an Unapologetic Woman

by Kristi Hemmer
Quit Being So Good: Stories of an Unapologetic Woman

Quit Being So Good: Stories of an Unapologetic Woman

by Kristi Hemmer

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When Kristi Hemmer was eight, she was the Connect Four champ; nobody wanted to play with her. When she was twelve, she was on the Future Problem Solvers of America championship team; people told her that if she was too smart, boys wouldn't like her. When she was eighteen, her professor told her she was too smart to be a teacher. When she was thirty-three and principal of an all-girls school, a city council member told her she was too young. The underlying message is one that every female of every age is told again and again: You're too much. Quit being you. You don't belong. Wait your turn. Be quiet. Quit being so good.

 

Quit Being So Good is a collection of fifteen stories from the frontlines of being female. It is a call to action for women to unapologetically be their most powerful selves for the sake of building a safer, more equitable world. The key to being unapologetic (maybe even dismantling the patriarchy itself) is in these three simple steps: 1). take up space, 2). be first, and 3). look for the helpers.

 

Reading this book will inspire women to be self-assured, to be their "possible," and to take up the space they need to be more of themselves—not less. And in the process, women will indeed change the world. As Malala says, "You will never know who stands with you if you don't stand up first."


Product Details

BN ID: 2940165557897
Publisher: Wise Ink Creative Publishing
Publication date: 06/24/2021
Sold by: Draft2Digital
Format: eBook
File size: 304 KB

About the Author

Why do women and girls shrink in a classroom, boardroom, and conversation? This question made Educator Kristi Hemmer so mad that she quit her six-figure job in Tokyo to answer the question and solve the problem. For four years, she traveled the world on twenty dollars a day learning about social entrepreneurship. In the process, she founded Academy for Women's Empowerment (AWE). AWE has inspired thousands of changemakers around the world to disrupt the systems of power and create a safer and more equitable for women and girls. Kristi has a master's degree in education. She lives in Minneapolis, Minnesota, and everywhere else in the world, for that matter.

Table of Contents

Prologue: Hello. My Name is "Smart and Nice."

The truth will set you free, but first it will piss you off. 9

1 Quit Being So Good; You're Going to Hurt Somebody's Feelings.

Women are liked better when they lose. 17

2 I May Be a Gruel, Heartless B*tch, but I'm Good At It.

Self-esteem isn't everything; it's that there's nothing without it. 23

3 Wonder Woman is Not Real

A pedestal is as much a prison as any small, confined space. 31

4 You're Not Ready; You're Too Ready.

Women's progress has been a collective effort. 39

5 Don't (Let Girls) Quit.

Power can be taken, but not given. The process of the taking is empowerment in itself. 45

6 What It's Like for a Girl In This World.

Empathy is the most radical of human emotions. 57

7 What's In Your Emergency Bag?

The caste systems of sex and race are interdependent and can only be uprooted together. 69

8 Get On The Roof: Others Will Follow.

The future depends entirely on what each of us does every day; a movement is only people moving. 77

9 It's Ok; You Don't Have to Get Married.

I have yet to hear a man ask for advice on how to combine marriage and a career. 85

10 Woman Up; Man Down?

The first problem for all of us, men and women, is not to learn, but to unlearn. 95

11 Mean Girls: Quit Being So Good Reprise.

When humans are ranked instead of linked, everyone loses. 103

12 Living on Twenty Dollars a Dry.

When people ask me why I still have hope and energy after all these years, I always say: Because I travel. 111

13 Sparkle.

The art of life is not controlling what happens to us but using what happens to us. 117

Epilogue: Thank You, Gloria Steinem.

A feminist is anyone who recognizes the equality and full humanity of women and men. 125

Gratitudes: To My Dream Keepers.

This is what fifty looks like. 129

About the Author 131

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