Raise Your Hand if You Love Horses: Pat Parelli's Journey from Zero to Hero


This book chronicles the first fifty years of Pat Parelli's life. From a kid growing up in the San Francisco Bay Area suburbs watching television Westerns to becoming a young bronc rider, and from a typical horse trainer trying to make a living to an internationally renowned figure who has helped hundreds of thousands of people develop a partnership with horses, he has made a long and rewarding journey.

In his book, Pat describes the early experiences that shaped his life and ...

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This book chronicles the first fifty years of Pat Parelli's life. From a kid growing up in the San Francisco Bay Area suburbs watching television Westerns to becoming a young bronc rider, and from a typical horse trainer trying to make a living to an internationally renowned figure who has helped hundreds of thousands of people develop a partnership with horses, he has made a long and rewarding journey.

In his book, Pat describes the early experiences that shaped his life and reverently talks about the mentors who've influenced his thinking and helped him become a horseman. He details the struggles he's had to overcome on the long road to success, and explains how he created an unparalleled program to help other people accomplish their goals with horses. Along the way, he fondly portrays the special horses who've helped him grow into the extraordinary horseman he has become. Also, readers gets a glimpse into the future with Pat's vision of where he thinks horsemanship is headed.

Pat is famous for his riveting way of making a point through the moral of a story. This book contains hundreds of his stories, from his earliest remembrances to the fabulous experiences and opportunities he has enjoyed in the last decade. As a bonus filtered throughout the chapters, readers are treated to People's Perspectives on Pat—anecdotes in which Pat's many friends, all well-known and respected in their fields, tell stories about him.

Having been able to break through the discipline barrier, Pat has touched every aspect of the horse world—English, western, racing, all breeds and activities. It's been his passion to share his hard-learned knowledge with everyone who seeks excellence with horses. His dream and life's work unfold on the pages of this book.

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Product Details

  • ISBN-13: 9780911647754
  • Publisher: Rowman & Littlefield Publishers, Inc.
  • Publication date: 1/28/2005
  • Edition description: First Edition
  • Edition number: 1
  • Pages: 208
  • Sales rank: 668,166
  • Product dimensions: 8.18 (w) x 10.90 (h) x 0.44 (d)

Meet the Author

Internationally known and respected as a horseman and clinician, Pat Parelli has helped thousands of riders understand and communicate with their horses through his Parelli Natural Horse-Man-Ship program. PNH offers riders achievable goals and measurable standards, no matter the discipline—English or western—or the activity—competitive or recreational. Pat's philosophies and concepts are based on a language of trust, leadership and respect, and a special bond between horse and human.

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Read an Excerpt

From the chapter titled "National Horsemanship on National Georgraphic."
All of a sudden I hear a voice from out of nowhere. "Pat, Pat, Pat," it kept getting louder. There was the National Geographic Explorer cameraman, all alone in the middle of the desert.
I asked, "Where's the helicopter?"
He said, "We were low on fuel. They dropped me off so I could film you coming, and they went back for more fuel."
What a time to run out of gas! We had the horses moving in the right direction toward the canyon, but we didn't want them to get there too quickly because we had no cameraman to film the capture. I told Mikey to head the horses off and drive them back toward us. We didn't want them turning and running the 12 miles around the mesa.
Mikey turned them and then he and Wally held that line so the mustangs couldn't get to the pens too soon. The horses took off in another direction. I saw which way they went and followed, at full tilt again. In the distance I could see dust being kicked up. The mustangs were going through a sandy wash.
I managed to get around the herd and they stopped. When they did, the stallion took one look at me and snorted a warning. I backed off a little. The herd started to walk toward me and I backed off again. Every time the herd looked at me, I'd back off. Pretty quick, the horses realized I wasn't going to chase them and they grew more confident and curious.
Finally, after several approaching and retreating several times, I was within 30 yards of the herd. I allowed my horse to graze; the mustangs also grazed. One after another, the mares laid down and rolled in the sand, with the stallion watching over them - a sure sign of confidence.
I started riding away, and they started following me. I thought to myself, "This approach-and-retreat stuff really works. It's too bad no one is here to witness this or a camera to document it. The only ones that will ever really know for sure that this really happened is this herd of horses and me."
I was all by myself and I didn't have a radio to tell anyone where I was.
Well, sure enough, here came the helicopter with the blades making their characteristic menacing sound.
Off go the mustangs and the chase is on once more. Luckily, by this time Linda, Andy and Ronnie had come in behind me, and Mikey and Wally were up ahead.
We all had only one last swoop left in us. We drove the mustangs around a corner, over some rocks and down the canyon right into the panel corrals.
We'd been galloping hard for three hours and our horses' stamina was amazing. I'd expect that kind of endurance from the wild horses, but not our saddle horses. They all had between 150 and 250 pounds or more on their backs and still were able to keep up with the mustangs. I was really impressed with our horses' staying power.
The camera crew was ready to roll and film us interacting with the horses. I told them to pick one, any one. They selected the lead mare's four-year-old filly, the wildest one in the bunch.
We drove her into the round corral and the first thing she did was crash into the Priefert panels. Fortunately, they were strong enough to hold her, but she bloodied her nose in the attempt. I thought, "Oh my God, here's my chance of a lifetime on national television, and why did this horse have to get a bloody nose!"
But the camera crew was there to film the story no matter what transpired, so we continued. I played with the filly and got some good things going with her, which they got down on film.
By this time, the film crew was exhausted, so they went back to start the editing process.
We stayed behind to gentle the horses. We had three days to make them tame enough to have a veterinarian draw blood.
To water the horses we brought in a 500-gallon Army tank. We put water buckets down next to us, about 20 feet away from the horses. They eventually overcame their fear enough to drink as we stood near them. By the next morning, they drank as we held the water buckets in our hands.
We played with all the horses and had a blast. The stallion bucked like crazy. Wally got on him, and the horse ejected him real high.
Before long, though, they all were fairly tame. They responded to the lead rope and to having their feet handled. We rode them bareback and with saddles. We taught them to accept the needle by pinching them on the jugular vein and having them tuck their chins.
Two great things happened toward the end of filming. By this time, we had a passel of newspaper reporters on hand to witness the story.
The veterinarian showed up on the evening of the third day. He said to me, "Look me in the eye and tell me I'm not going to get hurt. I'm no movie star. I'm no stunt man. I don't want to risk myself."
I told him, "I promise you, sir, you'll be fine."
The vet drew blood on all the horses and when he was through, he turned to me and said, "I can't believe this. I was at a stable this morning and these wild horses were easier to handle than any of the domestic horses at the stable."
The second wonderful thing happened when it was time to release the mustangs. We rode them out of the pens bareback and with only halters and lead ropes. We rode out of the canyon to a place where the horses could graze. We crawled off their backs and took off the halters. The horses didn't exit stage left, as you'd think wild horses would do immediately upon being set free. They stayed there with us, ate grass and showed no signs of fear or anxiety. Finally, as the sun was setting, they nonchalantly walked off into the New Mexican sunset. What an unforgettable sight that was!
This experience was one of the most fabulous I've ever had in my life with horses. I was really proud of my students and of Linda. And I was especially honored to have done something special like that with Ronnie (Willis). Then to have it captured on film forever happens only once in a lifetime.
National Geographic Explorer said it was the most requested show that they had in years.

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Table of Contents

Part 1: Search for Identity, Chapter 1. Birth of a Horseman, 2. Horsemen and Mentors, 3. School of Hard Knocks, 4. Rodeo Days, 5. Anything for a Buck, 6. King of Mules, 7. At the End of My Rope.

Part 2: Savvy, the Foundation, Chapter 8. Mouse in a Grain Sack, 9. Turning Points, 10. Eight Principles, 11. The Kids, 12. Have Help, Will Travel, 13. When Your Horse is Your Partner, 14. Open Doors, 15. Media Mogul, 16. Time With Tom.

Part 3: Dream Big Enough, Chapter 17. We Gave It a Name, 18. Horseman's Heaven, 19. Something for My Soul, 20. Learning Curves, 21. Natural Horsemanship on National Geographic, 22. That Was Then, This Is Now, 23. Other People's Dreams, 24. Magic Moments, 25. All the King's and Queen's Horses, 26. The Future of Training, 27. My Vision for the Future

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  • Anonymous

    Posted December 27, 2007

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    In my opinion, Pat Parelli is an exceptional person so I enjoyed this biography. If you are a student or a fan of the Parelli's, you will probably find this book very interesting.

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