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  • ISBN-13: 9781401901868
  • Publisher: Hay House, Inc.
  • Publication date: 3/15/2004
  • Edition description: KIT
  • Sales rank: 574,844
  • Product dimensions: 12.22 (w) x 12.56 (h) x 1.54 (d)

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Sacred Contracts

The Journey: An Interactive Tool for Guidance
By Caroline Myss

Hay House

Copyright ©2004 Caroline Myss
All right reserved.

ISBN: 1401901867


Chapter One


What Is a Sacred Contract?


A contract isn't about saying what you meant. It is about meaning what you say.
—Oliver Wendell Holmes (1899-94, physician, poet, and humorist)


When I was a young girl, my father always told me, "I don't care what you do when you grow up, so long as you're a nurse or a teacher." I can still remember my fury when he would say that, because I was interested only in writing. The very idea of teaching school was out of the question. Yet today, in spite of all my efforts to avoid life in the classroom, I am a teacher—of workshops, of theology, of motivation—and what's more, I love it. I feel distantly connected to the nursing part of my dad's directive too, through the healing effects my work has had on many people.

My father passed away in 1989, and in the early 1990s, as my mom and I were discussing my work, I said to her, "Well, he won after all." Then I realized that Dad hadn't "won" some sort of game or struggle to control what I did with my life. My Contract had won. My father had been able to glimpse aspects of it, as many parents can, although their vision is oftenclouded by their own expectations and wishes for their children. Even without knowing about archetypes, Dad had seen something in me that evoked his understanding of the greater function and meaning of a nurse and teacher, and he related it to the career choices that were common for young women at the time.

Still, my Contract does contain the archetypes of the Teacher and Healer, which have manifested through the events of my life, even though I have never formally studied healing or teaching. My higher education has been in journalism and theology, but my work in medical intuition simply "happened." I did my first intuitive reading almost by accident, and then another, and another. Word spread through the neighborhood, and soon I was doing ten to fifteen a week. My growing reputation led to invitations to lecture on my work, which in turn led to invitations to teach workshops.

The most extraordinary feature about how I learned energy anatomy was the precision with which my education was organized. Again, it simply "happened." Within a period of seven to ten days, three people with the same illness would approach me for help. Each one would prove to be coping with similar but slightly different life problems that had contributed to the development of their illness. By the time I read all three individuals, I felt I had grasped the major energy stress factors behind their conditions. Shortly after I completed one trio, another three people in quick succession would contact me for help. Again, each would prove to have the same illness. Gradually my understanding of energy anatomy led me to realize that our biography becomes our biology.

Once I understood that principle, my education seemed to move in another direction. Whereas my previous readings had focused on assessing an individual's physical and emotional chronology, I suddenly began to perceive images that had no apparent connection to the person. In reading a woman who wanted to understand her neck pain, for instance, I got the image of a pirate in her energy field. She was a housewife from the Midwest, so this information meant absolutely nothing to her. Yet while subsequently undergoing relaxation and visualization exercises with a hypnotherapist, she also sensed the pirate energy in her field. She "saw" him slashing her throat with his sword. Curiously, she also felt more positive associations, including wild lawlessness and liberated sexuality. These conflicting impressions of the pirate energy indicated to her that she was being choked or controlled by her life circumstances while yearning for a freedom that she could not consciously voice.

Reading another woman a short time later, who complained of severe arthritis in her hands, I kept seeing the image of an artist. When I mentioned this, however, she was baffled, insisting that she had no artistic talent whatever. Nonetheless I suggested that she take up pottery as therapy for her arthritis. She began by making simple clay vases and in time flowered into a gifted potter who now produces artistically sophisticated pieces.

Finally, while reading an Australian salesman named Jimmy who had been seriously depressed for several years, I saw a strong actor in his energy field. But Jimmy had never done any acting even though he did want to, because, he said, he was still "in the closet" and was afraid that if he acted, it would "come out" that he was gay. He was, in fact, already acting—as if he were straight—but the blocking of his talent and identity had made him implode emotionally. A few years later I was thankful to hear from Jimmy that he had pulled out of his depression and now acts in summer stock. He takes his stage work seriously, and he is no longer hiding his sexuality.

When these odd images first began to emerge, they seemed so disassociated from the people I was reading, so off, that I felt that I had somehow lost my intuitive accuracy. Yet these readings ultimately proved helpful for every person. Then one day in 1991 everything fell into place for me. I was listening to a conversation between two women in one of my workshops. Within five minutes of meeting, they had exchanged the ordinary details of their lives, such as where they lived and what kind of work they did. After the basic physical details, they then spoke about what life experiences had brought them to a spiritual workshop. Suddenly they found a life pattern they shared, an energy link that was immediately noticeable in their heightened response to each other. Their children were grown, their marriages were happily established, and they had arrived at a natural transition point in their lives—they were tired of being everyone else's "servant." Now they wanted to serve themselves. Retired and liberated, they wanted to pursue their own interests and to develop their own spirits.

As I listened to these kind souls describe the pattern of their lives, I was seeing through their conversation to its symbolic level. As good mothers and marriage partners, they had acted in behalf of others for most of their lives, but having accomplished this early mission, they were now striking out on their own, as the Servant of myth and legend must. When the biblical Joseph was sold into slavery by his brothers, for instance, he bided his time and did the work requested of him through many years of service. But then he used his singular gifts as a dream interpreter to earn his freedom and become a great leader in the land—going from Servant to Master.

All of a sudden the vivid but mystifying images that I had been getting in my recent readings made sense. The Pirate, the Artist, the Actor, and the Servant were not part of the individual, physical chronology that I had been used to reading. Rather, these images were a part of each person's spiritual chronology, a personal mythology that had begun even before they entered their physical lives. These images were archetypes, energy guides that could direct people toward their spiritual purpose, their Contracts.

The mythic lightbulb that got turned on that afternoon has stayed on ever since. From that point on, every reading I did opened with an evaluation of a person's spiritual chronology, the archetypal patterns that express themselves through his personality and life experiences. And just as trios of people with the same physical illnesses had contacted me for intuitive readings, people with the same archetypal patterns began contacting me in a relatively short period of time, though spread over months rather than days. Some of my first readings, for example, were for several people who had the Wounded Child archetype, a pattern of emotional scars from childhood. Then I met a few who had in common a dominant Victim archetype. Just as before, each of these people reflected slightly different aspects of these archetypes as a result of their individual personalities and life experiences.

As I began to work purposefully with the archetypes in my readings and to teach them in my workshops, I gained further insights about how they function within our psyche. When Jung proposed his theory of the collective unconscious, he defined it as mainly populated with countless psychological patterns derived from historical roles in life, such as the Mother, Trickster, King, and Servant. Along with our individual personal unconscious, which is unique to each of us, he said, "there exists a second psychic system of a collective, universal, and impersonal nature that is identical in all individuals." This collective unconscious, he believed, was inherited rather than developed. I have observed that some archetypes step out from the backdrop of this great collective to play a much more prominent role in people's lives, and that each of us has our own personal alignment of key archetypes.

Through a process of research, reflection, trial, and error, I ultimately concluded that a unique combination of twelve archetypal patterns, corresponding to the twelve houses of the zodiac, works within each of us to support our personal development. These twelve patterns work together in all aspects of your life. They can be particularly vivid and perceptible in your problems or challenges, or in the places where you feel incomplete. And they can be particularly useful in healing painful memories, or redirecting your life, or finding a way to express your untapped creative potential.

In a sense each archetype represents a "face" and "function" of the Divine that manifests within each of us individually. Humanity has always given names to the many powers of heaven and tried to identify the qualities inherent within each. The multifaceted archetypal power of the feminine, for example, expresses itself within forms as diverse as the Virgin Mary and Mother Nature. The ancient Romans and Greeks saw universal feminine powers in the characteristics of Athena (the goddess of counsel), Venus (goddess of love), and Sophia (goddess of wisdom). The Hindu culture of India gave the Goddess names embodying different attributes of divine motherhood, such as Lakshmi (prosperity), Durga (fertility), Uma (unity), and Kali (destructionrebirth). It was as if God had to separate into many different aspects in order for us to begin to approach that power. Yet once it was named, we could invoke it and assimilate it and express it.

Archetypal patterns awaken in us our own divine potential. They can liberate us from the limitations of our thoughts and feelings. They can help us shed light on the dark or little-known corners of our souls and amplify our own brilliance and strengths. Archetypes are a source of emotional, physical, and spiritual power and can help us free ourselves from fear, although sometimes, as we first get to know them, a few of them may initially unleash fears within us. Our spiritual challenge with any archetype—or fear—is to face it and recognize the opportunity it presents to learn its inherent lesson and develop an aspect of personal power. With an archetype that we perceive as difficult or even malevolent, our task is to acknowledge it, overcome whatever weakness it indicates, and work to make its divine potential our own.

The goddess Kali, for instance, is the energy of destruction. She has the power of the Saboteur archetype, which is present in all of us. But what is the other side of destruction but rebuilding and rebirth? In symbolic or Contract language, the Saboteur archetype can trip you up if you do not face its considerable power, but you can also use its energy consciously to dismantle areas of your life that you need to face or fix or heal. There are always two sides to every archetype, and both can be made to work to your advantage.

We tend to perceive ourselves and our universe as either good or bad, internal or external, me or you, right or wrong, symbolic or literal, joyful or sad. Our strengths and fears divide our spirit into polarities—into a duality, in Buddhist terms—which is why faith and doubt wage eternal battles in our psyches. By identifying and working with our archetypes, however, we can learn to consolidate the faces of our spirit and bring its power into our daily life to direct our thoughts and actions. These energy guides help us act mindfully and honorably; they help us manage our power and live up to our divine potential.

I myself have found that the archetypal work I have done with each reading has contributed to my own spiritual growth and development. The experiences and insights I've had together with people I've read have helped me refine my skill as a medical intuitive, furthered my awareness of my archetypes, and even helped me through my own difficult times. I have come to believe that my encounters with my students, my workshop attendees, my readers, and so many other people are anything but casual. Like the extraordinarily organized way in which I had learned energy anatomy and was later led to read archetypal patterns, divine order makes itself known in all areas of our lives.

Continues...


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  • Posted December 31, 2012

    I read Anonymous posted June 4, 2010 and was baffled. The perso

    I read Anonymous posted June 4, 2010 and was baffled. The person ranted about politics and Caroline Myss and this book has nothing to do with politics. I don't know why that post is still up. I read this book without having read Anatomy of Spirit and I loved it. Even if you weren't interested in doing your archetypel wheel there was still so many interesting information in it. I was brought up Catholic, as she was, but I am not in to any religion and you don't need to be to enjoy this book. I learned many things that will never go away. Thank you Caroline!

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  • Anonymous

    Posted June 4, 2010

    Caroline a spiritual teacher now turn into a political partisan sharp tongue columnist

    I've love her very early works, before she became this world famous spiritual teacher. You can sense from her voice, a humble, gentle person who had inspired millions of people including myself! Especially her "Spiritual power & spiritual practice". But ever since last year presidential election, Caroline has changed to this sharp tongue, partisan, opinionated political person who writes articles on HuffingtonPost.com and their news paper, criticizing all Republicans parties, candidates or anyone who is not supporting the democrats party because their political views is not the same as hers. I feel that she is not living what she preach! You are an spiritual teacher! You should rise above all these political madness and use your power and inspirational words to bring people together! Especially during this trouble time, instead of clam people's anger & differences on the health care bills that just past, she writes many articles to add the oil into fire to make people more partisan and angry! Caroline, I am so disappointed by the direction you took. I think you were a wonderful spiritual teacher when you just started many years ago, maybe your success and ego has finally got to you! Please bring back the old Caroline Myss we love! Not this political driven, sharp tongue partisan columnist! If you are republican, or not agree with the health care bills that just passed or the direction of our country is heading, go to HuffingtonPost.com and type in the search section of Caroline Myss you'll see what I am talking about! ( http://www.huffingtonpost.com/caroline-myss/are-republican-right-wing_b_516467.html ) Caroline, please stay out of the politics! And use your wisdom and spiritual insights to bring people together not dividing them!

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  • Anonymous

    Posted May 9, 2003

    A sad summary of great philosophies and religions

    I read Anatomy of the Spirit and liked it very much. However, Sacred Contracts is so superficial and lacks content that it was painful to read it. The author uses examples such as movies and actors stories to make her point, but misses the real objective. She does not go deep into the theories and uses her ¿intuitive¿ excuse to justify things, when actually there are theories that support that. This book is a mix of pop culture with philosophy and does not contribute with something new, useful or interesting. I was pretty disappointed.

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  • Posted March 21, 2013

    Cannot put this book down!! Cannot wait to read the others. Than

    Cannot put this book down!! Cannot wait to read the others. Thank you Caroline :)

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  • Posted February 10, 2013

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    Borrowed book from library to read prior to purchasing as i do w

    Borrowed book from library to read prior to purchasing as i do with all self help non fiction books and........WOW love this book and am begining to cast my wheel. Have my archetypes that resonate with me and begining to explore them more deeply. This book is a je

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  • Posted June 1, 2010

    I Also Recommend:

    A Book for the Ages

    Have you ever wondered what your life purpose was? Caroline Myss's books "Sacred Contracts" is a powerful book for rediscovering your own unique talents and gifts. One of the first steps towards wisdom is self-knowledge. You can begin to understand more by reawakening to your own dreams and passions and then redirecting your valuable time and energy towards your highest potential. I highly recommend this book and the exercises. Completing a sacred contract 12 house wheel is tremendously helpful for inner guidance and life choices now and into the future. I created my own archetypal wheel in 2004 and I have it near my calendar as a regular reminder and map of where I am heading in my life.

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  • Posted March 27, 2010

    T had enjoyed reading Caroline Myss Sacred Contracts

    I feel Sacred Contracts is an informative and thorough book which explores archetypes. It puts us in touch with the human psyche and is creative genius. I have been following Caroline for years and this is the first book I ever hear of hers on audio cd. I believe we all come to earth with a purpose and mission to help others reach their full potential. Caroline addresses the different types of archetypes in which we will encounter on our life's journey. I truly identified with some of her religious references alongside her spiritual tone which invited me into a mystical world. We are all mirrored reflections of eachother, and Caroline so eloquently expresses this in her work. It is very detail oriented and I feel should be digested in more than one read. I have read this book a few times and have walked away more empowered regarding my life's purpose. I recommend this book for beginners who question the validity of why we incarnate upon earth and what our mission is exactly. This book will narrow down your search for meaning in a world filled with various choices.

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  • Anonymous

    Posted July 16, 2003

    Awareness and Awakening

    With the use of archetypes and symbols as metaphors, Carolyn Myss has unlocked the secrets of helping people find their true pathway in life. I would recommend it for every human being that is on our Mother Earth, for she spins light and compassion for all people, while she is healing us.

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  • Anonymous

    Posted October 23, 2002

    A BOOK WITH DEPTH

    Finding your purpose in life and attaining personal spiritual renewal is what this book is about. It is a wonderful guide to accomplishing just that. Thankyou to the Author.

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  • Anonymous

    Posted August 20, 2002

    Absolutely Outstanding

    Caroline Myss touches a deep place in all of us who believe that life is more than just a series of random chances and that we are indeed here for a purpose. This book will be appreciated by people of every religious tradition and by those from no tradition. A must read for all truth-seekers.

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  • Anonymous

    Posted September 3, 2002

    What an amazing mind!

    Carolyn Myss has done it again! Her book, Sacred Contracts expands on the same idea as in Miguel Ruiz, The Four Agreements, about agreements and contracts. The appeal of Myss's work is that she writes in terms of archetypical imagery and about agreements we enter into, before we are born. What a wonderful premise. I have a much greater understanding after reading her book, but then I usually feel that way after being exposed to her writings or audio recordings. I found her Sacred Contract material taken into more practical dimensions in the book by Debra J. Gawrych, The 7 Aspects of Sisterhood: Empowering Women Through Self-Discovery.

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  • Anonymous

    Posted March 6, 2002

    Transformative

    This book takes Jung's psychological concept of archetypes beyond anything Jung himself did and brings the idea squarely into the 21st century. This is a truly transformative book. It can help the reader change at a deep level and begin to understand why they do the things they do. I also love 'Open Your Mind, Open Your Life' by Taro Gold, which is also filled with life-changing wisdom.

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  • Anonymous

    Posted February 6, 2002

    Wow, Was my divine potential opened!

    I was interested in sacred contracts for a while and didn't know how to open my divine potential. I knew how to open my potential, but not my *divine* potential. Thanks to this book 'Sacred Contracts: Awakening Your Divine Potential' I am now able to use sacred contracts to open my divine potential. Not just my normal, every day potential. Nor do I have to worry about sacred contracts, when before all I knew about was ordinary, every day contacts. I am now ready to awaken my divine potential with sacred contracts.

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  • Anonymous

    Posted January 26, 2002

    Life-changing

    This book takes Jung's psychological concept of archetypes beyond anything Jung himself did and brings the idea squarely into the 21st century. This is a truly transformative book. It can help the reader change at a deep level and begin to understand why they do the things they do. I also love 'Open Your Mind, Open Your Life' by Taro Gold, which is also filled with life-changing wisdom.

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  • Anonymous

    Posted February 15, 2002

    Humankind

    Good contribution to humanity.

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  • Anonymous

    Posted February 8, 2002

    A very direct approach to finding one's true 'path' in life.

    This is a great book. Like her other works, it is a great tool in finding and staying on a Spiritual path. I found it very revealing. I was reading 'Spiritual Quanta' at the same time, and both books lead me to a place of peace that is indescribable. Thank you for a great read.

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  • Anonymous

    Posted February 12, 2002

    A Contribution

    A definite spiritual aid and does give solid support for purpose in this life. From this book Sacred Contracts or Origins, we came from a place with a predestined contract that we have to intuitively seek out in this life. The book uses a vast array of historical and modern spirituality to help you find your individual contract from what you sense coming your inner self. The books plan is to bring you to your well of life purpose. I do believe this book is a huge spiritual aid to anyone open. I have to recommend a book that really helped me, see below.

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  • Anonymous

    Posted January 6, 2002

    Caroline Myss at her very best!

    I've seriously studied Dr. Myss' work for many years. I doubted I would find much new in this book. I was pleasantly surprised, even stunned. This is a wonderful, insightful, witty, book. Rich with the stories and anecdotes that exemplify her in-person teaching style, 'Sacred Contracts' moves easily from information to example. She intuites the reader's questions and provides answers. The ideas are both lofty and practical. This is a book for today, and guidance for tomorrow. The exercises for self-discovery are intriguing with well-thought-out instructions giving very clear guidance. On the subject of 'Sacred Contracts,' Dr. Myss' says '...my belief (is) that our life is laid out in steps and stages arranged in such a way that we always have the opportunity for spiritual transformation...' She goes on, 'Your Sacred Contract allows you countless chances to grow and change,dependent only on your willingness to pick up subtle clues and cues that appear along the way.' After discussing the various components of a Sacred Contract, Dr. Myss offers step-by-step instructions that lead the reader to their own Sacred Contract. She tells how others have come to understand their own Sacred Contract. She even explains how her own Contract presented itself through various experiences of her life. Long-time students of Dr. Myss' work will find many of the ideas brought forth in her other books, her audio tapes, her workshops, and even her web site, are brought together in one place. Newcomers to her work should enjoy this book as it stands neatly alone. I'm reading it again, and again.

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