Seasons of a Woman's Life

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Are you afraid that . .  you'll never reach the end of dirty diapers? You'll never be free of carpool duty? Your teenager's rebellion will never end? The empty nest is just a little too empty?

Fear not, seasons change. You blink twice and find yourself in another situation. Maybe longing for the "old days" or maybe grateful for the freshness of a new season. But like it or not, the seasons will come, each in its sequence and each in its ...

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Overview

Are you afraid that . .  you'll never reach the end of dirty diapers? You'll never be free of carpool duty? Your teenager's rebellion will never end? The empty nest is just a little too empty?

Fear not, seasons change. You blink twice and find yourself in another situation. Maybe longing for the "old days" or maybe grateful for the freshness of a new season. But like it or not, the seasons will come, each in its sequence and each in its own time.

Using lively examples from her own life and those of other women - including Esther - Lois Evans challenges you to to discover the purpose of your life and to depend on Him as He teaches the lessons of each season. In this book, you will find helpful priniciples, recognize familiar emotions, and take to heart encouraging promises from the pages of God's Word.

In this edition a new chapter on the grandparenting season has been added. And to help you dig deeper - whether alone or with friends - chapter study questions are included.

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  • ISBN-13: 9780802406477
  • Publisher: Moody Publishers
  • Publication date: 2/1/2013
  • Edition description: New Edition
  • Pages: 144
  • Sales rank: 366,417
  • Product dimensions: 5.90 (w) x 8.90 (h) x 0.40 (d)

Meet the Author


LOIS EVANS (B.A., Dallas Baptist University; Doctorate of Humane Letters, Eastern College) is Senior Vice President of The Urban Alternative, a national organization that seeks to bring about spiritual and social renewal through the church. Lois also serves in the office of the Senior Pastor at Oak Cliff Bible Fellowship Church, on the National Religious Broadcasters Board, and with many other organizations. She is also the founder of The First Lady Ministry.

In addition to numerous magazine and newsletter articles, Lois is the author of Stones of Remembrance and Seasons Of A Woman's Life. She co-authored Our Love Is Here To Stay, and was a contributing author of Promises: Understanding and Encouraging Your Husband.

Lois is married to her favorite pastor/teacher and best friend, Dr. Tony Evans, Senior Pastor of Oak Cliff Bible Fellowship in Dallas, Texas. They have four children and six grandchildren and reside in Dallas. For more information, visit www.loisevans.org.

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Seasons of a Woman's Life


By Lois Evans

Moody Publishers

Copyright © 2013 Lois Evans
All right reserved.

ISBN: 978-0-8024-0647-7


Chapter One

The Call

I Shushan the citadel there was a certain Jew whose name was Mordecai.... And Mordecai had brought up Hadassah, that is, Esther, his uncle's daughter, for she had neither father nor mother. The young woman was lovely and beautiful. When her father and mother died, Mordacai took her as his own daughter.

—ESTHER 2:5, 7

The first seed that should be planted in the heart of a godly woman is the seed of God's call. But what does it mean to be called by God? Every woman who walks with the Lord has a different story to tell about how He reached out and drew her to Himself. My own story centers on the influence of my family.

If you read the story of Esther, you'll see that she came from the culture of the dews. They were believers in the Lord with a rich tradition of faith and godliness. Like Esther, tradition and spiritual mentors also surrounded me. My parents and family lived a devout life in front of me, so it was easy and natural for me to believe and accept the importance of God's call.

At the age of twelve, when I said yes to Jesus Christ, I made a decision to be His disciple. I knew that meant that I would be different. I knew I would be required to have a testimony for Him. I knew that He wanted me to make a difference in the world. And where did I receive that type of information? Again, I received it from my traditions—from the words and actions of my parents.

Listening for Your Call

Why does God call us, planting the seed of discipleship in our hearts? He calls us because He loves us. He calls us because, before the foundation of the world, each of us was foreseen and designed in every intricate detail. If you haven't read Psalm 139, this would be a good time for you to do so. You'll discover there that God had your days ordered before you were ever born.

Once you answer His loving call, at the point of salvation, you enter into that glorious, divine plan, devised especially for you by our Sovereign God. Salvation calls you into a new relationship with God for all eternity. You are not a chance happening. You are one of a kind. There is no one else on this planet that has your plan. That's why you can relax in the face of trouble and temptation, because you are more than a conqueror in Jesus Christ.

There are many wonderful Scriptures that speak of our salvation. In Romans 5 we read that even though we were doomed for a lost eternity, God reached down and saved us. "Therefore, just as through one man sin entered the world, and death through sin, and thus death spread to all men, because all sinned" (Romans 5:12).

Despite our sin, He made a way out of no way.

If you confess with your mouth the Lord Jesus and believe in your heart that God has raised Him from the dead, you will be saved. For with the heart one believes unto righteousness, and with the mouth confession is made unto salvation. —Romans 10:9–10

Some people will not make it into God's heaven, even though their pardon has already been signed. Jesus has signed it, but we have to personally receive it. That means answering His call. And once you have received Him, you are transformed into a new creation. Do you realize how exciting that is to have another chance, and this time to do everything with the help and encouragement of the Holy Spirit?

Maybe you have forgotten who you really are. If so, please let me remind you. If you have received Jesus Christ into your life, you are a joint heir with Him. That means everything that happened to Jesus is afforded to us as believers. He died, and we, too, have to die daily to the things of this world. He Himself told us that we would suffer persecution. But that's not the end of the story. He arose, and we arise with Him in victory and power. If we live life focusing on who we are—joint heirs with Christ—we can get through the difficult times, because there is hope. There is joy ahead. There is a promise waiting to be fulfilled.

Just as God has chosen each of us for a particular plan and purpose, God also chose people in the Old Testament. They sometimes found themselves in trouble due to their disobedience. In the book of Esther, the Jews were in bondage, having been taken captive by the mighty Persian kingdom. But Mordecai, Esther's cousin and guardian, was a godly man who continued to wail and bemoan before God his people's desperate need. He knew he could call on God because God had called on him and the rest of the Jews to be His people.

When desperate needs come up in our lives, we tend to forget who we are and to whom we belong. If we have responded to His call, the Lord can take care of our problems. He can even use the bad and the ugly issues of our past and begin weaving them together into His kingdom plan.

God had a significant purpose for Esther in history. She lived every day knowing that she was His child and that something good was going to come out of the Jews' difficult circumstances. She placed her confidence in God and trusted the wisdom of her cousin Mordecai. We, too, should place all our confidence in an all-knowing God. And we should spend time listening to those who know God really well, those who will go to God on our behalf.

Our Higher Calling

Many women are satisfied to be saved and on their way to heaven, not realizing that the Lord has a divine purpose for them on earth. Each woman the Lord calls to Himself is designed to use her gifts, talents, and skills to promote His kingdom. God does more than call us into salvation. He calls us into His service. Salvation offers to each of us a new purpose in history.

But maybe you're asking yourself an important question: What exactly is God's call? Is it a voice in the night? Is it a sign in the heavens? How can we recognize God's call?

I believe that God's call is a compulsion you just can't shake. No matter how hard you try, it keeps coming up. Is there something like that in your life? Is there something you keep avoiding? Why don't you talk it over with your Christian friends and ask God for confirmation of it? Then, once you're sure it's His call, say, "Yes, Lord!" You needn't worry. Whatever His call requires of you, He will provide you with the resources to get the job done. What's more, you will experience the matchless joy of knowing that you are right where you belong.

Besides that unrelenting call, God also orchestrates people, places, and things in our lives in order to lead us to the place He has for us. As we focus on Him, He steers us into His perfect will (Proverbs 3:5–6). God orchestrated events for Esther so that she was in the right place at the right time. Then Mordecai's wise guidance helped her look beyond herself to something much bigger. In my own life, God used godly parents to bring me into His plan for me. Every aspect of my call, from personal salvation to practical service, was uniquely orchestrated by God.

Salvation gives us resurrection power. Salvation brings us into God's adopted family. Salvation also delivers us from a purposeless existence. Esther could go on, overcoming her fears and following her instructions, because she had a goal in mind. By God's grace, individuals who held the same principles surrounded her.

Our call is an invitation into a uniquely designed life role, a role that God has equipped us to carry out. When Esther ascended to the Persian throne, it was more than a Cinderella story come true. God had moved her into a strategic position for His purposes. Not only had Esther's physical and temperamental loveliness propelled her far beyond the competition, but she also went on to show that she was mentally tough enough to handle a position of responsibility.

The Smart Black Book

In order to effectively respond to our calling, it is essential that we walk with God on a daily basis and that we build ourselves up in His Word. This will prepare us for the unknown, unpredictable, and unexpected events that will surely come along in our service to Him. Every one of us who is called by God to serve is also called to "be diligent to present [himself] approved to God, a worker who does not need to be ashamed, rightly dividing the word of truth" (2 Timothy 2:15).

One of the women on staff at our ministry, The Urban Alternative, was once in the army. She told me about some of the strange tasks she was given to do during military training. "Sometimes," she explained, "we were told to take boxes from one side of the room to the other and then back again. We were supposed to place the boxes back where we got them from, and then repeat this same process. When we asked the sergeant why, he would yell, 'Just do what I say!'"

The purpose of this exercise was, of course, to see if the recruits could follow orders, even when the orders didn't seem to make much sense. Sometimes the things that happen in our lives don't seem to make sense, either. That's why it is so important for us to store up the Word in our hearts and to build strong confidence in an all-knowing God. That way, we will obey Him without doubts and questions because we will have learned to trust Him implicitly.

This same woman went on to tell me about the "Smart Black Book." The army provides this book of instructions to be kept within reach by all personnel. Even when the soldiers were asleep, the book was always next to their beds because they had to be able to find instructions and information in case of an emergency. If the soldiers did not have the smart book with them, they were punished by having to do a large number of push-ups.

God's Word is much like that black book. Everything we need to know about life is inside. Do you have the smart book with you always, both in your hand and in your heart? Or will you have to do a lot of spiritual pushups because you have been negligent? We need God's Word to continually remind us that the One who can save us can also keep us. And He has promised to bring to fulfillment the desires of our heart.

Now, that doesn't mean we always feel like our desires are being fulfilled. One of the challenges we face as we pass through the seasons of our life is our own impatience. We are always yearning to move on, to get to the next season, to arrive at some future goal, to settle down into some kind of joyous fulfillment. When we are single, we long to be married. When we have little children, we long for them to grow up. When we are working in a career position, we long to stay home and care for the home and family. When we are homemakers, we long to be moneymakers.

There are four seasons in the year: spring, summer, fall, and winter. Now, you can sit in on a particularly hot day and complain about how hot it is, or you can make the necessary adjustment to be comfortable. The summer day is not going to change; you have to adjust in order to make it through the day with reasonable success. It boils down to a decision of the will.

The same is true of the seasons of our lives. They always come and go. But some seem to last forever, while others pass quickly, and we are able to say that we had a short winter, or that "summer was gone before it began." In God's grace, we are given only what we can handle. And nothing that we are going through is new to God. In fact, it is not even new to man. God has been in this business a long time, and He knows exactly what we need and how much of any given season is enough. That's why it is so important to make the best use of our time, no matter where we find ourselves. A writer long ago said,

This I recall to my mind, therefore have I hope. Through the Lord's mercies we are not consumed, Because His compassions fail not. They are new every morning; Great is Your faithfulness.

—LAMENTATIONS 3:21–23

Submitting to Our Seasons

Esther was a woman of intelligence. She depended on the Holy Spirit to direct her way. If Esther had gone into the king's courts one minute earlier than the appointed time she could have caused great harm to herself and to her people. Everything has a time and season. The more time you spend in God's presence and in His Word, the more pleasing you will be in the King's sight and the more requests you will get answered (Esther 5:3–8).

When the king saw Esther, she was beautiful and perfectly prepared for him (Esther 5:1–2). When the Lord looks at you or me, what does He see? Does He see someone He can use? Does He see someone who is presentable? Does He see someone in whom His seeds of calling are taking root and beginning to grow?

When I think about women and their calling, I am often reminded of the Proverbs 31 women. Now this lady is hard for us to identify with because she just seems too good to be true. She's more like a fairy-tale heroine than a Bible story character. Is it really possible to have a life that falls in place to such a degree? I believe that it is indeed possible, particularly today when women's opportunities are so varied. I am sure the Proverbs 31 woman had her challenges, but she charged ahead in the principles of the Word and she carried on with confidence in the Word. She was an educated, healthy businesswoman who had the gift of philanthropy.

Yet in spite of her thick résumé, she took care of her home first. Her husband could trust her because she was a woman of wisdom. All of her abilities and gifts were put to work, she was fulfilled, and her husband was known in the gates of the city as a community leader. Be careful as you bring home the bacon and fry it up in a pan, that you also wash the pan—that is all part of being a supernatural woman. This godly woman never gave up her home for the marketplace. With God's help, she was able to accomplish everything she wanted to do and live a full life without compromise.

God will not rob us of what He has appointed us to accomplish. He is the One who threw the stars in space; so just maybe He knows how to take care of you and me! He feeds the sparrows; not a single one drops to the ground without His knowledge (Matthew 10:29). A sparrow is worth less than a penny, but our value is much more because we cost Him His life.

What is God calling you to do? To be? Are you avoiding something He's asking you to accomplish? Or are you simply not sure of what He wants? God told the Jews living in the wilderness, "I will lead you with a cloud by day and fire by night" (see Exodus 13:21). As your life unfolds, you will get clear direction from the Lord as to what He needs you to do. But He leaves you with a choice. You can decide to pitch a tent, always with the mind-set of folding and moving. Or you can pitch a tent saying, "Hey, I like it here. The Lord couldn't literally mean for me to move." I'm sure that's a temptation the Israeli women faced.

Whatever your season, whatever your call, please don't be willful. And don't try to do anything in your own power. His strength is made perfect in your weakness (2 Corinthians 12:9). It's true that these aren't popular ideas in our culture. Listening to God, waiting for His call, allowing Him to be your strength, and choosing to fulfill your season can put you in a lonely position. However, nothing is more rewarding than being in God's will and experiencing His peace.

In order to accomplish the things God has planned for you, you have to be in His Word and in fellowship with His people. And if we are wise, each of us also needs a mentor who is wise in the ways of the Lord. Each of us needs a Mordecai or a Naomi or a Miriam in our life to encourage us when God's call comes, because His call doesn't always look or feel great. Sometimes it is the last thing we want it to be. For example, I grew up in a cultured environment and some of the lessons of my youth about manners and propriety were not at all pleasant for me.

I could never have imagined when I first met my husband that I would be thrust into situations all around the world in which I would need the social graces I had been taught. But in God's sovereign plan, He determined that my foundational training would help touch the world for Jesus Christ. Since that time, God has used my upbringing to complement Tony in many ways. As we have opportunity to travel, I am able to assist Tony in relating to the different cultures we encounter.

Another example of God's calling and instruction in my life took place during a summer camping experience when I was fifteen years old. I directly heard from Him, saying, "Follow Me." I remember walking down the aisle saying yes to the Lord but with a whole lot of stipulations.

"Yes, I'll follow You ... but I don't want to be a missionary."

"Yes, I'll follow You ... but I'll never be a pastor's wife."

Be careful never to say "Never." The Lord has a sense of humor.

The call means that there is a divine purpose for your life that is bigger than you are. Esther's purpose was to save a nation. My purpose is to be a wife—yes, a pastor's wife—to Tony Evans. How tragic it would be for us to settle for a mundane life that never makes the most of our gifts, talents, and interests.

God showed me at fifteen that He had a purpose for my life. I let the Lord know that I was available but scared. Despite all my worries, He took the little seed of faith I carried down that aisle, planted it in good soil, and began the Season of Seed-Planting in my life.

(Continues...)



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Table of Contents


TABLE OF CONTENTS

PART ONE: THE SEASON OF SEED-PLANTING

1. The Call

2. The Commitment

3. Christian Communion

PART TWO: THE SEASON OF GROWTH

4. Obedience

5. Service

6. Preparation

PART THREE: THE SEASON OF HARVEST

7. Contentment, Not Complacency

8. For Such a Time As This

9. Fulfillment

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  • Anonymous

    Posted May 13, 2003

    I am a Future Writer of my own Book.

    When I started to read this book I had no idea what this book could be about. So, I countinue reading the book and find out every women should know her Seasons. I have given out at least 10 of these books as gifts.

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    Posted December 28, 2012

    Seasons of a Woman's Lif

    So blessed by the first chapter.

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  • Posted March 10, 2013

    Moody Publisher © 2013 Ms. Evans writes a great book on why we n

    Moody Publisher © 2013
    Ms. Evans writes a great book on why we need to remember that out lives are defined into seasons. Our Father, who is very much like a farmer, divides our life into a season of planting, growth, pruning and harvest. I like how Ms. Evans uses these details in our Christian journey which determines our calling.
    Although we don’t know what our call might entail, the initial start to this journey begins with the planting of seeds. This is the time when God gives us our dream (our calling), he prunes and allows us learn lessons while we grow. The harvest, which provides a blueprint for our lives, is a time when the true meaning of our call from the Lord.

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    Posted September 13, 2013

    Every woman should read this book. We experience trials and we w

    Every woman should read this book. We experience trials and we wonder why and we want to know how to get through them. She explains why we go through trials and uses her life as an example. We are strengthened through trials using the seasons. After reading this book you will know what season you are in.

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    I really liked this book sampler. I would like to have read the book,.but over $8 dollars is really steep for me. I liked what I read. J.... :)

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