Secret Daughter

Worth a read!

This book was so well written that I'd definitely recommend to my friends. I enjoyed reading from beginning to the end.

5 out of 5 people found this review helpful.

A very good read!

I loved this book, it was very well written. It gave perspectives about adoption and I enjoyed reading about India and it's many facets...some wonderful and others not so much but a rich culture none the less. It is also a book that raises questions about fate and being born in the right place at the right time...and how culture enters into it all. It is compassionately written and gives all sides of the story. A very good read!

5 out of 5 people found this review helpful.

Perfect Book Club Book

I couldn't stop reading this book and finished it in two sittings, but the ideas it touches on will stay with me for far longer. There were so many ways I could relate to the characters in this book: the complexity of a marriage over many years, the daily sacrifices involved in being a good mother, the challenges of raising children/adolescents who have their own identity. I appreciated the way that each of the characters had their own flaws and weaknesses to overcome, and had to struggle to do so. I truly loved the ending: it was very authentic, but also very satisfying and uplifting. There is so much great material for discussion in this novel, it would make a perfect book club pick.

5 out of 5 people found this review helpful.

Wonderful, thought-provoking read!

Shilpi Somaya Gowda has written a captivating first novel about the meaning of family, motherhood, adoption, the search for self and cultural identity. She tells the story of Asha from birth to early twenties through her own voice, that of her Indian biological mother, Kavita, and that of her American adoptive mother, Somer.

The novel is thoroughly engrossing - I read it in two days. And yet the story, characters, issues and insights have stayed with me for weeks. Shilpi Somaya Gowda's writing is imbued with wisdom that defies her youth. She expresses some truisms of life so articulately that I found myself re-reading just to capture her phrasing.

This book will speak to you if you are someone who has searched or struggled with cultural identity, if you are a mother, if you are a daughter, if you are adopted or an adoptive parent, if you believe in marriage, if you want to explore the meaning of family, if you are interested in India, if you appreciate honest explorations of poverty and wealth, or if you love to read. Somaya Gowda deftly touches on all of these without judgment or agenda.

Secret Daughter is a story about people and the paths their lives take. The characters are real - interesting, flawed, and you care about them. At the same time, Somaya Gowda manages to paint an extraordinarily rich portrait of modern India - the sharp contrast between its poverty and wealth, its traditions and culture. Those sections of the novel seem painted in bright colors and I feel I've experienced something of India although I've never been there.

This novel is delightful. It's one of those rare books that I'm willing to stay up all night for. I found multiple threads within it that touch my own life and the book is very thought-provoking. I highly recommend Secret Daughter and I recommend you read it with a friend, since you will be inspired to talk about it for some time to come.

5 out of 5 people found this review helpful.

I loved this book

A wonderfulthat mkes you think about international adoptin i ways you never did before.

4 out of 4 people found this review helpful.

The Secret Daughter--A book for a mother's heart

As an employee of Barnes & Noble, I was able to read an advance copy of this book before publication. I could not put the book down and finally finished at 1 a.m. The author writes beautifully about the Indian culture, the realtionship between mothers and daughters and the strong bonds of family. I highly recommend this book. It would be a great choice for a book club.

2 out of 2 people found this review helpful.

Secret Daughter

Good book to chat about.

1 out of 1 people found this review helpful.

Readers will appreciate this profound look at the value of girls when poverty rules

In 1984 in indigent Dahanu, India Kavita gives birth to her second daughter. She grieves what will happen to her child as poverty forced her husband Jasu to arrange the death of their first female baby. This time, however, Kavita names her infant Asha and gets her into a Mumbai orphanage so that she might have a chance.

In San Francisco, Indian expatriate Krishnan persuades his wife Somer, who cannot have children, to adopt a child from his homeland. They go to Bombay where they adopt Asha although Somer fears their daughter will only bond with her father because they are both Indian while she is American. Meanwhile Kavita grieves for her two daughters, but finally gives birth to a son. Years later while at college in California Asha obtains a journalism fellowship that enables her to visits Mumbai.

Interestingly the opening sequence that focuses on cultural gender issues in an abject impoverished environment are slow and lack the intensity one would expect with such a dynamic social concern. However, once Asha returns to India, the story line goes extremely deep into gender questions that haunt modern India as well as identity concerns that trouble the heroine who wonders whether she is Indian, American or Asian-American. Readers will appreciate this profound look at the value of girls when poverty rules.

Harriet Klausner

1 out of 1 people found this review helpful.

Loved this book!

Loved learning about Indian culture, loved the message that as mothers, biological or otherwise have the same fears and desires for our children. I wish the story went on.

great great great

I don't normally write book reviews but this one was worth my time! The book started off slow and I was somewhat disappointed by the fact that it did not develop Somer, Krishnan, or young Asha (as she grew up) very much but as Asha got older, the story zeroed in on her and Kavita and it was a real page turner.

The closeness and love of Asha's extended family was so well written I could feel it. The contrast of the elaborate indian wedding and poor slums was riveting. Great debut. I can't wait to read more from this wonderfully descriptive author.

Awesome!

Great book on two different cultures that tells of how two mother's share one thing in common, a daughter.

a must read

I just finished this book and I feel it is a must read, The story is so well written and it lets you in on some of India's customs and rituals. And tell the story of the forgotten children of India

Excellent

Great book ~ kept my interest, read it in 2 days

Great Read

Great story...I loved learning about Indian culture

GREAT Read!

This Book was such a Great Read!!! It is soooo enlightening ... it makes you think deeply about yourself, life, and choices. I suggest everyone read it! ENJOY!!!

recommended this book to several friends

Excellent book - While one of the reviews said that "shifting pints of view" weakened the story I found it to be quite the opposite. Looking forward to her next book - whatever that will be.

Great book

Amazing book, couldnt put it down

Touching and beautiful

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Highly Recommended

Wonderful read from the beginning to the very end. It was hard for me to put the book down. I am looking forward to another novel coming from Shilpi Somaya Gowda! Great novel for a book club!

Great book!

I learned so much about the indian culture. I cold not stop reading this book until i finished reading page.