The Secret Laws of Attraction: The Effortless Way to Get the Relationship You Want [NOOK Book]


Use these laws of attraction to effortlessly attain your heart's desire.

?If you don't need it, you are more likely to attract it.? If our emotional needs are unmet, we repel what we most desire. When ...

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Use these laws of attraction to effortlessly attain your heart's desire.

“If you don't need it, you are more likely to attract it.” If our emotional needs are unmet, we repel what we most desire. When we've fulfilled our needs--such as the need to be cherished, the need to be heard, and the need for harmony--we are naturally attractive to potential love interests.

“Like attracts like.” When we are fully living our core values, we effortlessly attract others with similar values.

It sounds simple. The trick is learning how to apply these laws in your everyday life--and international bestselling author and noted life coach Talane Miedaner shows you how. This easy-to-follow guide provides a comprehensive quiz to help you identify your top four emotional needs and includes step-by-step instructions on how to meet those needs. Once you start embracing your passion and living your dreams, you instantly become more attractive to others. It's truly the “effortless” way to find and keep the love of your life.

"Talane is a masterful life coach--she is the living embodiment of the laws of attraction."

--Sandy Vilas, MCC, CEO of Coach U, Inc.

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Editorial Reviews

Publishers Weekly

Life coach Miedaner (Coach Yourself to Success) has written a self-help manual counseling readers on how to attract love into their lives or rediscover "the love that somehow got lost in your current relationship." Her basic concept: people are motivated by a few basic needs, needs that can bloom into dreaded neediness-toxic for love. "Fulfill your unmet emotional needs and live your top core values," Miedaner says, and love will seek you out. The book includes her weighty (and often challenging) patented "Emotional Quiz Index" to identify core needs ("Control/Power," "Order," "Peace/Balance," Security/Safety," etc.) and advice on how to achieve them and establish boundaries. On occasion, Miedaner's advice can be simplistic; to meet the need for independence, she advises readers to "pay off all your credit cards... so you are financially free." Clearly, this is good advice, but if it were so easy, there wouldn't be such a booming market for financial self-help titles. Her simple message of empowerment, however-the reminder to readers to ensure that their needs are met-might alone be worth the cover price. (July)

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Product Details

  • ISBN-13: 9780071543767
  • Publisher: McGraw-Hill Education
  • Publication date: 7/3/2008
  • Sold by: Barnes & Noble
  • Format: eBook
  • Edition number: 1
  • Pages: 258
  • Sales rank: 234,288
  • File size: 748 KB

Meet the Author

Talane Miedaner

Talane Miedaner, owner and founder of, has helped thousands of clients find wealth, success, and happiness. She leads numerous seminars around the world and teaches at Coach University. Miedaner is a Master Certified Coach of the International Coach Federation and the author of the internationally bestselling Coach Yourself to Success. To learn more go to

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Table of Contents

Acknowledgments     v
Introduction: Thirty-Seven and Still Single     ix
The Secret of Irresistible Attraction     1
The Eight Myths About Needs     9
Identify Your Needs: The List Method     29
Identify Your Needs: The Quiz Method     37
Establish Boundaries     61
How to Meet the Top Twenty-One Core Needs     75
Identify Your Core Values     167
Orient Your Life Around Your Values     185
Tips for Being Simply Irresistible     195
The Basic Rules of Dating: The Time Line     209
How to Find or Become a Coach     223
Resources     229
Index     235
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  • Anonymous

    Posted January 1, 2013

    Interestingly simple

    Easy to use and very approachable. I was looking for a book that was more in depth on metaphysical aspects but this book happened to find me and I'm pleased it did. I really appreciate that Talane includes info on how to become a life coach. I reccommend this read!

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  • Anonymous

    Posted February 21, 2010

    Very useful and inspiring tool

    The scenario that the author points out in the book is very useful for a long lasting relationship. I think it is an excellent book for any single who is wondering what is essential for attracting our Mr.Right or Ms.Right.

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  • Anonymous

    Posted September 16, 2008

    Attraction and Needs explained

    I really enjoyed The Secret Laws of Attraction. I had no idea there were so many laws of attraction! The Emotional Index quiz was so helpful in identifying my needs too. I've benefited by the knowledge of both and implemented changes in my life. My husband is now reading this wonderful book as well.

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