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Of course, behind the numbers, the debate, and the speculation, individual families are struggling to live with autism every day. Some parents have described autism's onset as being like a cloud slowly descending over their child, until the family is finally smothered by despair. Parents wake up each morning challenged yet again to reconcile the Spartan social world of their son or daughter with their own. After months and even years, most families are able to find a new kind of normal. Others never do.
In See Sam Run, award-winning writer and journalist Peggy Heinkel-Wolfe describes how her parenthood quickly descended into chaos as her son, Sam, became uncommunicative and unmanageable. "I'd grown to hate making entries in his baby book," she writes. "The energy I had before he was born, when I wrote paragraphs anticipating his arrival, was gone now. Writing down Sam's barest achievements felt fraudulent." Little by little, she found a new truth: that by learning to understand the ugliness inside herself, she learned to love her new life and her son, and to harness, at last, the energy needed to realize Sam's fullest potential.
See Sam Run reaches deep into the heart of anyone whose life has been touched by developmentaldisability—and it will resonate profoundly with those who have been transformed by a newfound ability to love.
Posted February 8, 2014
I went to school with Sam from 4th grade until graduation. I had never been around anyone quite like Sam growing up and not my place to judge a sweet soul like Sam. I am glad I got to look into Sam's life as a child and see what it was like for him growing up. I would definitely recommend this to someone struggling to see the bright side in this situation.Was this review helpful? Yes NoThank you for your feedback. Report this reviewThank you, this review has been flagged.
Posted September 8, 2008
A must read, not only for parents of autistic children, but for anyone involved with children who don't quite fit the mold. Throughout the book, Sam is Sam, facing the world with the cards he's been dealt with, while around him, his Mother 'The author', father,family,teachers,doctors,assorted specialists and experts engage in an elaborate dance of confusion,denial, despair,anger,avoidance,understanding and finally,acceptance. In telling Sam's story, the author takes us down the sometimes brutally honest path she and her husband trod in meeting the challenges facing parents of Autistic children, both personal and those posed by the educational and medical communities of the time 'the 80's and 90's'. We witness not only the encouraging changes in professional attitude, but also the diminishing regional differences uncovered by the family's East-West career movements, Sam in tow. The book has photos of Sam at various ages, and a 'Senior Scrapbook' article, written by Sam in 2005. This final chapter is by a confident,happy teenager who has a realistic grip on who he is, and of his own limitaions. A fitting testimony to his Mother's fight for her son. Also includes Autism resource pages.
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