The desire for sexual intimacy is innate to nearly every young man. Sexual appetite is a primal male driving force, but the opportunity to satisfy that longing in an appropriate, pure and godly way can be rare, if not completely non-existent. In a culture that mocks virginity and disparages sexual purity, that equates masculinity with sexual consumption and not with discipline, that idolizes Self and looks at honor with cynicism… in a culture that values the comic irony in the fall of the good and mighty more than it values those within it that are truly good and mighty, how is a young Christian supposed to pursue godly masculinity? How is he to define himself as a man? How is he to make sense of his natural sexual ...
The desire for sexual intimacy is innate to nearly every young man. Sexual appetite is a primal male driving force, but the opportunity to satisfy that longing in an appropriate, pure and godly way can be rare, if not completely non-existent. In a culture that mocks virginity and disparages sexual purity, that equates masculinity with sexual consumption and not with discipline, that idolizes Self and looks at honor with cynicism… in a culture that values the comic irony in the fall of the good and mighty more than it values those within it that are truly good and mighty, how is a young Christian supposed to pursue godly masculinity? How is he to define himself as a man? How is he to make sense of his natural sexual desires without either denying them or giving in to worldly satisfactions that are ultimately unsatisfying and destructive?
Sexual Chivalry validates his loneliness and translates it into a larger philosophy of honorable manhood and sexual chivalry. Singleness is a period of preparation, the time when the future knight in shining armor is learning his sword play, when the hero on the white horse is learning to ride.
Overview
The desire for sexual intimacy is innate to nearly every young man. Sexual appetite is a primal male driving force, but the opportunity to satisfy that longing in an appropriate, pure and godly way can be rare, if not completely non-existent. In a culture that mocks virginity and disparages sexual purity, that equates masculinity with sexual consumption and not with discipline, that idolizes Self and looks at honor with cynicism… in a culture that values the comic irony in the fall of the good and mighty more than it values those within it that are truly good and mighty, how is a young Christian supposed to pursue godly masculinity? How is he to define himself as a man? How is he to make sense of his natural sexual ...