Should I Stay or Go? : How Controlled Separation (CS) Can Save Your Marriage

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Until now, couples facing the dilemma of deciding whether or not to stay in an unhappy marriage had three options: individual or couples therapy, separation, or divorce. Should I Stay or Go? provides these couples with a fourth option—the Controlled Separation (CS). Should I Stay or Go? explains CS and shows how it can be used as a tool to help couples make the best decision for both partners.

Lee Raffel, M.S.W., is founder and clinical director of Awareness Counseling Services, Inc. She has counseled couples for more than 25 years using the CS method.

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Overview

Until now, couples facing the dilemma of deciding whether or not to stay in an unhappy marriage had three options: individual or couples therapy, separation, or divorce. Should I Stay or Go? provides these couples with a fourth option—the Controlled Separation (CS). Should I Stay or Go? explains CS and shows how it can be used as a tool to help couples make the best decision for both partners.

Lee Raffel, M.S.W., is founder and clinical director of Awareness Counseling Services, Inc. She has counseled couples for more than 25 years using the CS method.

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Journal of Family Life
In this easy-to-read, very informative book, couples in distress follow an explicit and compassionate guideline which allows them to separate, physically if need be and emotionall, in order to put sanity back into their relationship. This is not only a book for troubled relationships; it is good support for any couple.

Product Details

  • ISBN-13: 9780809225132
  • Publisher: McGraw-Hill Companies, The
  • Publication date: 9/1/1999
  • Edition number: 1
  • Pages: 304
  • Sales rank: 191,153
  • Product dimensions: 6.00 (w) x 9.00 (h) x 0.83 (d)

Meet the Author

Lee Raffel, M.S.W., is founder and clinical director of Awareness Counseling Services, Inc. She has counseled couples for more than 25 years using the CS method.

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  • Anonymous

    Posted February 25, 2006

    On the fence

    If you are on the fence about whether you should stay or leave any type of relationship, this book gives you an insight to a lot of different senerios. I recommend this book to anyone having trouble deciding what will be best for them. It does not premote divorce but gives different ideas for different circumstances.

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