Should We Live Forever?: The Ethical Ambiguities of Aging [NOOK Book]


In Should We Live Forever? Christian ethicist Gilbert Meilaender puzzles over the implications of the medical advances that have lengthened the human life span, wrestling with what this quest for living longer means for our conception of living well and completely. As he points out in his introduction, "That we often desire, even greedily desire, longer life is clear; whether what we desire is truly desirable is harder to say."

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In Should We Live Forever? Christian ethicist Gilbert Meilaender puzzles over the implications of the medical advances that have lengthened the human life span, wrestling with what this quest for living longer means for our conception of living well and completely. As he points out in his introduction, "That we often desire, even greedily desire, longer life is clear; whether what we desire is truly desirable is harder to say."

The six chapters of this book take multiple perspectives on issues surrounding aging and invite readers to consider whether "indefinitely more life" is something worth pursuing and, if humans are created for life with God, whether longer life will truly satisfy our underlying hunger.
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Editorial Reviews

Publishers Weekly
Meilaender (Neither Beast nor God) addresses aging like a tutor in a Tudor library, the fire embering in the grate. For this brief study, he speaks conversationally and in the manner of a well-read master: "We need to think about how to think about growing old." Meilaender analyzes age-retardation from three competing angles: humans are finite organisms; humans are distinguished from other organisms by freedom and reason; and humans are marked by ecstasy, that is, drawn out of themselves toward God. In six chapters, the theologian and ethicist explores transitional humanity, living forever, and a generative life. He writes eloquently on an unexpected topic: patience. Throughout, he offers his own witty opinions and quotes widely, from experts on aging, such as Erik Erikson and Margaret Urban Walker, but also from philosopher Martha Nussbaum, Christian apologist C.S. Lewis, and poet John Hall Wheelock. After the tutorial, Meilaender offers an afterword seminar â?“ an imagined conversation -- for three voices, each representing a different viewpoint on his argument, then ends on a note of eternal youth. (Jan.)
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“This beautifully written little book both summarizes and advances the conversation about retarding the aging process and prolonging life. . . . I recommend it for students and teachers, for pastors and for those who, like me, are aging and reminded of their mortality. It will not eliminate the ambiguities of aging, but it does nurture the comfort and the courage to face those ambiguities and the wisdom for a more faithful journey through them."

Christian Century
“Meilaender argues that the essence of human life is found in a multistage process that has not only a beginning and a middle but also a worldly end. Like Augustine before him, he holds that this human journey, no matter how long it is extended on this planet, can never be complete until it finds rest in God.”

Lutheran Quarterly
“A rich, informed, and readable book.”

Church Times (UK)
“This is a book that readers will find a thoughtful, careful and creatively theological study of the ethical issues that surround aging and our desire to postpone death.”

“Given that life is finite, this brief book that raises many questions in an evocative way is very valuable. . . . Meilaender invites us to love the finite human life.”

First Things
“Drawing insights from and making arguments with diverse thinkers and cultural figures from Aristotle to Groundhog Day, Meilaender shows why aging is good, even as it also can be right to slow it down.”

“In this masterful little book Gilbert Meilaender interrogates the project to extend human life indefinitely and shows that longer life cannot satisfy the deeply human longings that animate that project. Better, he proposes, to cultivate the virtue of patience in the face of our mortal limits. Not a patience of resignation, but a patience marked by gratitude for the gift of life, including its limits, and by eager hope for the fullness of life promised by the God who died so that we might live.”
-- Farr A. Curlin, MD
MacLean Center for Clinical Medical Ethics

“Gilbert Meilaender has been for several decades one of the two or three most provocative, insightful, and clear writers on religion and ethics. He's not afraid of uncertainty but wants to put it in the right intellectual space. Aging is a topic of extraordinary importance, and not only for those of us who are doing it. Meilaender's style is vintage, disciplined, and forceful.”
-- David H. Smith
Yale University

“As we have come to expect from Gilbert Meilaender, this is an intellectually rigorous and probing exploration of an urgent ethical issue. And as we have also come to expect, it is finally an eloquent and wise theological witness. Meilaender calls us to leave behind the futile search for meaning merely in an ever-extended human life span and urges us instead to see life as a journey shaped in freedom by God, who crafts for us a hopeful ending that we cannot always see but can always believe and trust.”
-- Thomas G. Long
Candler School of Theology

“Meilaendercombines a poetic style of writing from a theological perspective with a scientific rigor of analysis to give us a book that is hard to put down. He rightly argues that human flourishing, or virtue, is more crucial than preventing aging or prolonging life.”
-- Abigail Rian Evans
Georgetown University Medical Center

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Product Details

  • ISBN-13: 9781467437547
  • Publisher: Eerdmans Publishing Co.
  • Publication date: 4/16/2013
  • Sold by: Barnes & Noble
  • Format: eBook
  • Sales rank: 1,010,157
  • File size: 741 KB

Meet the Author

Gilbert Meilaender holds the Phyllis and Richard Duesenberg Chair in Christian Ethics at Valparaiso University and served on the President's Council on Bioethics from 2002 to 2009. His books include Neither Beast Nor God: The Dignity of the Human Person, Bioethics, Should We Live Forever? and The Way That Leads There: Augustinian Reflections on the Christian Life.
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Table of Contents

Introduction ix

1 How Shall We Think about Aging? 1

2 Transitional Humanity 21

3 Hoping to Live Forever 39

4 A Generative Life 57

5 Patience 75

6 A Complete Life 89

Afterword 107

Index 115

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