Singled Out: Why Celibacy Must Be Reinvented in Today's Church

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Christine Colon and Bonnie Field thought that by a certain age they would each be married. But they watched that age come and go--and still no walk down the aisle. In Singled Out, they reflect on their experience and that of an increasing number of Christians. From the secular world and the evangelical church, singles are bombarded with negative images of celibacy. Here, Colon and Field explore a deeper understanding of celibacy that affirms singles' decision to be sexually pure, acknowledges their struggles, and...
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Overview

Christine Colon and Bonnie Field thought that by a certain age they would each be married. But they watched that age come and go--and still no walk down the aisle. In Singled Out, they reflect on their experience and that of an increasing number of Christians. From the secular world and the evangelical church, singles are bombarded with negative images of celibacy. Here, Colon and Field explore a deeper understanding of celibacy that affirms singles' decision to be sexually pure, acknowledges their struggles, and recognizes their importance in the church community.

"This book should be required reading for every adult Christian not yet (and perhaps never to be) married. Use it as an antidote to others' expectations for your life. I love how Colon and Field have resurrected St. Paul's teaching to the church in Corinth--that marriage, family, and singleness are all callings from God, and that ultimately, following Christ trumps them all."--Jon M. Sweeney, author of Cloister Talks: Learning from My Friends the Monks

"Finally--a whole book dedicated to redeeming and reclaiming celibacy for people aged 30 and beyond! Colon and Field offer a refreshing critique of stilted messages in the media and in our churches and call us to challenge assumptions that one needs to be married to be a happy, well-adjusted contributor to society. I recommend it to anyone (married or not) wanting to take singleness and celibacy seriously."--Lisa Graham McMinn, George Fox University, author of Sexuality and Holy Longing: Embracing Intimacy in a Broken World

"Colon and Field let the issue of abstinence graduate from the youth group and move on to the sanctuary and the bedroom, the pages of church history, and the screens of our current entertainment media. I'm so grateful they acknowledge that honest, intelligent conversation about singles and sexuality requires not just three simple words--'just say no,' 'true love waits'--but more words like those found on the 256 pages they've thoughtfully penned here."--Camerin Courtney, senior editor of Today's Christian Woman and author of Table for One

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  • ISBN-13: 9781587432378
  • Publisher: Baker Publishing Group
  • Publication date: 6/1/2009
  • Pages: 258
  • Product dimensions: 6.00 (w) x 8.90 (h) x 0.70 (d)

Meet the Author

Christine A. Colón (PhD, University of California at Davis) is associate professor of English at Wheaton College in Wheaton, Illinois. She has published articles in Women's Writing, Renascence, and Brontë Studies as well as in several volumes of collected essays. Bonnie E. Field is an educational consultant and curriculum specialist who lives in Dallas, Georgia. She has also taught English at Arizona College of the Bible and Wayland Baptist University.
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Table of Contents

Acknowledgments 7

Introduction: Our Journey 9

Part 1 Navigating Our Path

1 Repression & Neuroses: Negative Secular Views of Celibacy 21

2 Power & Freedom: Positive Secular Views of Celibacy 37

3 Chastity & Holiness: Positive Christian Views of Celibacy 54

4 Sin & Selfishness: Negative Christian Views of Celibacy 77

Part 2 Encountering Dangerous Messages along the Way

5 Lust & Avoidance: Dangerous Messages about Sexual Temptation 99

6 Happiness & Maturity: Dangerous Messages about Sex and Marriage 122

Part 3 Searching for a New Direction

7 Covenant & Inclusion: Views of Celibacy in Scripture 149

8 Monks & Martyrs: Views of Celibacy in the Church's Past 172

9 Discipline & Community: Views of Celibacy in Contemporary Christian Thought 201

Afterword: Where Do We Go from Here? 223

Bibliography 234

Notes 245

Index 254

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  • Posted February 19, 2013

    A must read, especially for those who are discerning whether mar

    A must read, especially for those who are discerning whether marriage or celibacy is right for them - and for churches that are struggling with their singles ministries.

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  • Posted August 2, 2011

    Excellent way to start some thought-provoking discussions

    Could we make this required reading for all marrieds and singles in the church? What an amazingly better place the church would be . . . The questions raised in this book just keep coming back to me, and I'm somewhat entranced by the vision of the church as presented by Colon and Field. If you have ever been single or know anyone who is :), read this book.

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