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This book is the antithesis of every “traditional” book about prayer. It is light, engaging, entertaining, and honestly compelling. The authors dare to ask the questions about prayer many of us choose not to say out loud. For a thought-provoking, entertaining book on prayer, this book fits the bill. Tyndale House Publishers
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  • ISBN-13: 9781414318677
  • Publisher: Tyndale House Publishers
  • Publication date: 5/1/2008
  • Pages: 288
  • Product dimensions: 7.32 (w) x 5.22 (h) x 0.83 (d)

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By Mark Herringshaw Jennifer Schuchmann Tyndale House Publishers, Inc.
Copyright © 2008
Mark Herringshaw and Jennifer Schuchmann
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ISBN: 978-1-4143-1867-7



God works.

We often get that confused, don't we?

We think there is a certain formula we have to follow-a right way of doing prayer. If we do it right, God will answer. It's like using the correct postage after a rate change: the proper stamp ensures delivery. But when our prayers don't get answered, we believe we're somehow at fault. We "prayed the wrong way." There are lots of ways we could have screwed up-not having enough postage (read: good deeds); mislabeling the envelope (praying to Jesus when we should have prayed to God); or forgetting to seal it (with a promise to do better next time).

If that's how you think, this isn't the book for you. We don't believe there's a right way or a wrong way to pray. Yes, biblical literature, church history, and religious tradition present some great guidelines when we need an example to follow, but the truth is that prayer is nothing more than communication with God. Some of us prefer long, elegantly handwritten notes on premium stationery. Others prefer text messages with abbreviated words that aren't grammatically correct (and that parents can't decipher). But regardless of how we pray, it isn't prayer that changes things. It's God who changes things.

Sometimes we forget that.

We're so caught up in our own expectations of what prayer should look and smell like that when we look for God's reply, we limit our thinking to a #10 business envelope in the mailbox, when perhaps God is answering us with a marshmallow, an old lady's smile, or something else so completely unexpected that we miss it.

Consider the example of the Sunday school teacher who asked her young students to guess the answer to a question.

"Okay, class, I'm thinking of something brown and fuzzy that jumps from tree to tree. Does anyone know what I'm thinking of?"

No one in the class responded, so she tried again.

"Okay, it has a bushy tail, plays in your yard, and is very hard to catch. Now do you know what I am thinking of?"

Again the kids remained quiet.

Exasperated, the Sunday school teacher gave it one last try.

"Okay, it's a small animal that eats nuts. Does anybody know what I am talking about?"

Finally, Bobby raised his hand.

"Teacher, I know the right answer is Jesus, but it sure sounds like you're talking about a squirrel."

From our earliest experiences at church, we learn that it is more important to be right than to be authentic. So it's no wonder that, when it comes to prayer, we'd rather say the right words, follow the correct formula, and assume the designated posture, even when it feels phony to us.


Regardless of our competence or success at work, home, or school, and independent of our awards and accolades, we continue to experience situations where we feel out of control. Life brings an endless parade of intense moments of beauty, pain, injustice, confusion, and hopelessness, that takes us past the end of ourselves and leaves us searching for someone or something else.

We never have enough.

It's never good enough.

We continually come up short.

Life is hard, and we often seem ill-equipped for the challenges.

What if this is intentional?

Could it be that we were set up to fail on our own?

What if the Creator of the universe shaped a world that is complicated beyond the comprehension of the people who live there? So complicated that they can't exist in it without crying out for help?

What would that world look like?

It would be a world filled with desperate and needy people.

And everyone would be praying.


Jordan is a typical twelve-year-old American boy: interested in basketball, video games, and text messaging his friends. His life is complicated, and his toys are sophisticated.

While at a friend's house, Jordan discovers a toddler book that captures his attention. The board book contains six magnetic cardboard cars that can be placed on the pages and moved around. Designed as an interactive storybook for toddlers, the toy is lying idly on the table until Jordan finds it. He opens the front cover, takes out the cars, and insists on "testing" the cars on every page in the book.

When Lily, the eleven-year-old girl of the house, catches Jordan playing with her little brother's book, she can't help but comment, "Uh, Jordan, you're playing with a baby toy."

Instead of being embarrassed, Jordan turns to Lily and says, "Oh, you know you play with it, too, when no one else is around."

Her immediate blush and slight smile betray what she won't admit-she plays with her little brother's toys.

And why not? Some things are too irresistible. We may not want to admit it, but prayer is one of those things that a lot of us play around with when no one else is looking. Especially when we're desperate.

When Emily was thirteen, she borrowed a valuable neck lace from a friend, intending to return it. When she discovered the necklace was missing, she panicked. First, she tore apart her own room. Then she started through the rest of the house. Eventually, the whole family helped in the search.

Emily was terrified, and rightly so. From behind a torrent of tears, she cried out, "Help me, God! Where is it?" She took a breath or two and her face relaxed, reflecting a strange peace that settled upon her. A thought flashed through her mind. She ran down the hall to her room, swung open her closet door, and searched for a particular pair of forgotten jeans. There in the pocket of her jeans, she found the necklace.

Those two events-a prayer hurled into the air and a sudden insight that solved the problem-happened close enough together that a reasonable person might suppose a connection, maybe even a genuine cause-and-effect relationship.

Events like these have occurred together so often throughout history that we have come to believe, in our collective consciousness, that prayer actually makes a difference in the real world. So we pray.

Apparently, we always have.


Our ancestors scratched their prayers on cavern walls:

"May the Master of the Buffalo grant us success on our hunt."

"May the One behind the Clouds send us rain."

"May the Hand That Moves the Stars lift away my grief."

Many of the architectural wonders built by the great river-valley civilizations in Egypt, Mesopotamia, India, and China, and in the mountain and forest city-states of Central and South America, are religious structures. In those worlds so distant from our own, human actions were permeated with the scent of prayer.

When the Constitutional Convention of the not-so-united American states convened in Philadelphia in May 1787, the fledgling nation needed a viable government, but few gamblers would have wagered that the feuding former colonies would ever forge a "United States of America."

A heated debate raged for weeks. Part of the New York delegation had already departed for home. Others were preparing to follow. At a crucial moment, an aged Ben Franklin tottered to his feet. Franklin, at that time, was the most distinguished and accomplished living American. Though a Deist steeped in the Enlightenment, who espoused an impassible separation between God and the physical world, Franklin roused his squabbling fellow delegates with the following appeal:

In the beginning of the contest with G. Britain, when we were sensible of danger we had daily prayer in this room for the Divine Protection. Our prayers, Sir, were heard, and they were graciously answered. All of us who were engaged in the struggle must have observed frequent instances of a Superintending providence in our favor.... And have we now forgotten that powerful friend? or do we imagine that we no longer need His assistance....

The longer I live, the more convincing proofs I see of this truth-that God governs in the affairs of men. And if a sparrow cannot fall to the ground without his notice, is it probable that an empire can rise without his aid? We have been assured, Sir, in the sacred writings that "except the Lord build they labor in vain that build it."...

I therefore beg leave to move-that henceforth prayers imploring the assistance of Heaven, and its blessings on our deliberations, be held in this Assembly every morning before we proceed to business.

Almost immediately, the Convention turned a corner. In the following days, the delegates crafted history's most original and enduring outline for human government: the Constitution of the United States of America and its first ten amendments, the Bill of Rights.

Serious and not-so-serious students of history now disagree over the religious beliefs our Founding Fathers once held. But the reasonable proximity of the events must be noted alongside the incongruity and irony of this scene. Ben Franklin, champion for scientific empiricism and a skeptic of anything "spiritual," credited shifts of history to the supernatural intervention of God. He then pleaded with his colleagues to pray for a solution to their impasse.

Constitutions from conflict.

Word pictures on the walls of caves.

Necklaces from forgotten jeans.


We talk to God, but we don't all speak the same language. One person's prayer comes wrapped in a work of art, like Fabriano's Nativity, Handel's Messiah, or little Jimmy's finger painting, Jesus Raises Stinking Lazarus.

Another prayer might appear as a dramatic enactment, such as the Jewish Passover or a Native American rain dance. Prayer might waft above a city, sung from atop a mosque tower. It might tumble from the lips of a sniffling child, meander along the lyrics of a Kentucky bluegrass song, or conceal itself in the eloquent silence of a Benedictine friar.

Communicating with God takes many forms in its effort to express our common predicament. Our reach is never long enough, our fingers never nimble enough. We run out of time, stamina, and will. Our ambitions outpace our capacity, and the gap cannot be spanned by noble savagery or advanced technology.

And then?

We kneel down. We look up.

And when we don't get the response we're expecting, we look inside ourselves and ask, "What did I do wrong?"


It is said that St. Catherine's Monastery near Mount Sinai, Egypt, still honors the final will and testament of three monks who lived there twelve centuries ago. One monk, who was a doorkeeper, wanted to keep his job forever. In honor of his request, his mummy still sits beside the door he guarded when he was alive.

Behind that door lived the other two monks. Each had taken a vow to devote his life to perpetual prayer. One would pray while the other slept. They never spoke to or saw each other. Their only connection was a chain that ran through the wall and was attached to their wrists. When one had completed his prayers, he would yank the chain as a signal for the other to begin.

When the two men died, their skeletons were laid side by side in caskets. And there they rest today, still united by the same chain.

Some historians believe that rigorous monastic disciplines like the one practiced by these two monks helped to preserve civilization during the cultural deterioration of the early Middle Ages.


But anecdotes like these, told as sermon illustrations by well-intentioned pastors, may unintentionally decrease not only the occurrence of prayer but also the number of active prayers. When the average twenty-first-century Westerner hears of such eccentric dedication, a typical response might be, "If this is what it takes to pray to God, count me out."

Prayer isn't accomplished by some divine formula. Its power isn't amplified if we assume some sort of ascetic or monastic posture.

Religion has a way of complicating prayer, making it self-conscious, rehearsed, and ... well, awkward. We found through some informal research that although nearly everyone in church feels comfortable requesting prayer aloud in a small group, nearly eight out of ten feel uncomfortable actually praying aloud. In other words, 80 percent of the people we surveyed had no problem verbalizing their requests to a pastor, teacher, or small-group leader-even in front of their peers. But they became physically uncomfortable when asked to verbalize their prayers directly to God when others were listening.

Well-meaning prayer tutors often respond to this issue by teaching acronyms such as A.C.T.S. (Adoration, Confession, Thanksgiving, and Supplication) as a way of remembering what to include in a prayer. But the result is that we get hung up on the steps. Did I spend long enough on the A? And do I really need more T before I can get to the S? How much C? They seem to emphasize style over substance. Prayer techniques meant to teach us to look up often have the unintended consequence of making us look over our shoulders. Am I doing this right?

Prayer isn't work. Or at least it shouldn't be.

Prayer should be like communicating with a lover.

Sometimes words aren't necessary.

Regardless of what the magazines teach, a good kiss doesn't happen from good technique. It's not about how warm, moist, and soft-if so, we'd all be kissing cinnamon rolls.

It's not the how but the who.

Prayer, like a kiss, is best when it's about the other person.

Especially if the other person is God.


Prayer is a conversation with God.

Real prayer has the same elements as a real conversation-bold questions, bursts of emotion, and room for silence. Think of the times when you've had a real, honest-to-goodness conversation with someone you love. It can happen at any time-when your teenager comes home from school, over the dinner table, in bed with your spouse, or in the middle of the night when your toddler wakes up from a nightmare. Conversation isn't rehearsed; it just bursts forth as a response to the situation.

Ellie bounces into the kitchen, where her mom and dad are finishing their dinner. "Can I go to a friend's house tonight and take the car?"

"Whose house?" asks her mother.

"What time will you be home?" asks her father.

"I'm just going to Sarah's. I'll be home by ten."

"Is anyone else going with you?" asks Mom.

"No, just me, but Cindy's meeting us there."

"Is there gas in the car?" asks Dad.

"I'll check," she says and runs out the door. A few minutes later, she's back in the kitchen with a report that the gauge is almost on E.

Her dad hands her some cash, tells her he loves her, and reminds her to drive carefully.

There is no formal presentation to this encounter. Nobody carefully planned their words. Ellie, in a hurry to get to her friend's house, asked the most direct question she could. Everything else that took place in the exchange was a result of that first question.

Ellie's conversation wasn't self-conscious or insecure.

Prayer shouldn't be either.

We don't carefully calculate our words into some sort of exploitative formula; instead, we're focused entirely on the person to whom we're speaking-to their responses, as well as our own.

Good prayer is like talking with children. We're more interested in hearing what they've said, or how they're reacting to what we've said, than we are in carefully selecting our words.

Sometimes prayer means we get naked-as with sexual intimacy-revealing parts of ourselves that no one else has ever seen. The only reason we can do this is not that the lights are turned off, but because there is trust in the relationship.

God doesn't ask us to undress in front of him, and then go off and share the details with his buddies. He doesn't betray us, even when we've shown him everything. Prayer, like a comfortable, intimate conversation, is a safe place to be vulnerable. And whether or not we get enough A and ITLITL before our T or S, God will still be there in the morning.


Prayer can and does flow deliberately from discipline or habit, but it can also burst forth instinctively. Often the most precious prayers don't look like prayers at all. They come out unbidden. They accidentally rupture, impulsively burst out, or covertly distance themselves. They are buried in our unfiltered reactions to the joys and pains and fears of typical days in typical lives. If such prayers could find a voice of their own, we might not even realize they were prayers at all. They sound unassuming, unpretentious, brash, down-to-earth, and often shockingly irreverent.


Excerpted from SIX PRAYERS GOD ALWAYS ANSWERS by Mark Herringshaw Jennifer Schuchmann Copyright © 2008 by Mark Herringshaw and Jennifer Schuchmann. Excerpted by permission.
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Table of Contents

Contents 1 Prayer Doesn't Work....................1
2 The Trading Floor of the Chicago Mercantile Exchange....................19
3 Stupid Shapes, Weird Colors, Crooked Necks, and No Screw Tops....................43
4 The Prayer God Rarely Answers....................63
5 Rapists, Murderers, and "Why Does He Get to Sit Next to the Window?"....................89
6 Chapter 11....................115
7 The Prayer God Doesn't Want to Hear....................143
8 "Verily, Verily, I Say Unto Thee: Be Ye Selfish"....................167
9 "Please, Sir, I Want Some More Gruel"....................195
10 The Prayer God Hates to Answer-But Will....................217
11 "Some Were Praying to a God They Didn't Even Know"....................241
An Acknowledgment of Prayers Already Answered....................265
About the Authors....................269
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    Six prayers god always answers really gave me a solid understanding about why it seems like my prayers are going 'unanswered' when really they are answered, but in a way we wouldn't expect them to be. This book is a great book for people who question God, and want to know why things happen, and how to ask God in the future about a specific question. GET THIS BOOK! IT CHANGED MY LIFE!

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