Sleeping Through the Night: How Infants, Toddlers, and Their Parents [NOOK Book]

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Right after "Is it a boy or a girl?" and "What's his/her name?," the next question people invariably ask new parents is "Are you getting any sleep?" Unfortunately, the answer is usually "Not much." In fact, studies show that approximately 25% of young children experience some type of sleep problem and, as any bleary-eyed parent will attest, it is one of the most difficult challenges of parenting.

Drawing on her ten years of experience in the assessment and treatment of common ...

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Overview

Right after "Is it a boy or a girl?" and "What's his/her name?," the next question people invariably ask new parents is "Are you getting any sleep?" Unfortunately, the answer is usually "Not much." In fact, studies show that approximately 25% of young children experience some type of sleep problem and, as any bleary-eyed parent will attest, it is one of the most difficult challenges of parenting.

Drawing on her ten years of experience in the assessment and treatment of common sleep problems in children, Dr. Jodi A. Mindell now provides tips and techniques, the answers to commonly asked questions, and case studies and quotes from parents who have successfully solved their children's sleep problems.

Unlike other books on the subject, Dr. Mindell also offers practical tips on bedtime, rather than middle-of-the-night-sleep training, and shows how all members of the family can cope with the stresses associated with teaching a child to sleep.

"...a child psychologist explains how parents can teach their baby or toddler to fall asleep and how parents and other members of the family can cope with the stresses a sleepless child can create."

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These books are the most recent contributions to the extensive and growing literature on sleep disorders. While they overlap to some extent, each author approaches the subject of insomnia/sleep disorders from a slightly different perspective, and each offers some unique advice. A clinical psychologist with many years of experience in the treatment and study of sleep disorders, Zammit focuses his comprehensive text on providing a self-help program to promote healthy sleep. He uses short case studies to illustrate four sources of sleep problems and encourages the reader to keep a sleep log and take an introspective look at what's keeping him/her up at night. Zammit also examines the impact of alcohol, smoking, and other medications on the sleep cycle and offers tips on creating an optimal sleep environment and establishing a helpful presleep routine. Sleeping pills are discussed at length, as is the value of light therapy and behavioral approaches to overcoming insomnia. DiGeronimo, a veteran medical writer who consulted with numerous experts on sleep disorders, covers much of the same material as Zammit. She also outlines alternative techniques to overcoming insomnia, including herbal remedies, acupuncture, acupressure, and chiropractic care. The provision of online resources and tips in exploring medical research on insomnia is also unique to the DiGeronimo text. Both Zammit and DiGeronimo include information about Sleep Disorders Centers/Clinics and addresses of associations to contact for more information about sleep-related disorders, such as sleep apnea. An experienced clincial psychologist like Zammit, Mindell aims her book at new parents, advising them on how to teach babies and toddlers to fall asleep on their own and stay asleep. The author stresses the need to be consistent in sleep routines, whether it be night time or nap time. Numerous vignettes illustrate common sleep problems and demonstrate what can be done to alleviate them. Weaning from the breast and sleeping in strange places are among the dozens of topics covered. All three titles are highly recommended for consumer health collections.Sue Hollander, Univ. of Illinois at Chicago Lib. of the Health Sciences, Rockford
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Product Details

  • ISBN-13: 9780061752322
  • Publisher: HarperCollins Publishers
  • Publication date: 3/17/2009
  • Sold by: HARPERCOLLINS
  • Format: eBook
  • Pages: 304
  • Sales rank: 760,838
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Meet the Author

Jodi A. Mindell, Ph.D., is associate director of the Sleep Disorders Center at The Children's Hospital of Philadelphia. She holds a Ph.D. in clinical psychology, is professor of psychology at Saint Joseph's University, and is the author of numerous publications on pediatric sleep disorders. She lives with her family in Rosemont, Pennsylvania.

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Chapter 1

"Help, my baby won't sleep!"

An Introduction to Sleep and Sleep Problems

Susan's daughter, Elisa, has never slept through the night. She falls asleep sometime between 7:30 and 10:00, sleeps for a few hours, then wakes up and begins crying. In order to fall back asleep, Elisa needs Susan to rock her. This pattern has been repeated every single night at least twice a night since Elisa came home, nineteen months ago. One Tuesday night a few weeks ago Elisa slept from 10:00 p.m. until 5:30 a.m. According to Susan, "It was a miracle." Susan and her husband are both at their wit's end. They have fought frequently about this problem, and at this point they are both too tired to function, let alone enjoy being parents.

Right after "Is it a boy or a girl?" and "What is her name?" the next question that veteran parents ask is "Is she sleeping through the night?" The above scenario describes the situation faced by many parents of infants and toddlers. Study after study has shown that approximately 25 percent of all young children experience some type of sleep problem. Most of the time these problems are related to getting to sleep and then sleeping through the night.

Sleep, or the lack thereof, is a critical aspect of childrearing. Good babies sleep. Most babies don't. As long as you get enough sleep, a parent can deal with just about anything during the day. However, when it is 4:00 in the morning and you have just been awakened for the third time and are facing a screaming baby, all sanity goes out the window. It would try anybody's patience. What parents resort to is even more incredible. Many parents, as they are circling the block in theircar at 3:30 in the morning wearing only their pajamas and mismatching socks, with their baby sleeping peacefully in the car seat, try to imagine how they are going to explain this behavior if pulled over by a police officer.

Sleep--What Is It?

Everyone sleeps. Humans sleep, toads sleep, monkeys sleep, dogs sleep, and whales sleep. Perhaps all species sleep. But, surprisingly, we know very little about sleep. Although sleep researchers understand the mechanisms of sleep and what happens to the brain and body when we do sleep, we still do not know why we sleep. What is sleep's function? No one knows. Some believe it is a restorative function. Others believe that it is for energy conservation. And even others believe that it is adaptive, that it enhances survival. We do know that everyone has to sleep. People cannot function without it. The body craves sleep if too much time has gone by without it. People also don't feel like themselves if they haven't gotten enough sleep. So while we are not exactly sure what it is, we know that we all need to sleep.

One aspect of sleep that is well understood is that many people have sleep disorders. Approximately 25 percent to 30 percent of adults have some type of sleep problem, whether it is insomnia, sleepwalking, or just too little sleep. Babies and toddlers also have sleep problems. Some are quite serious, such as sleep apnea, whereas most are just difficult to deal with, such as bedtime problems or frequent night wakings.

Since sleep is a natural process, we must all know how to sleep. However, good sleeping habits must be developed. And sleep, especially falling asleep, involves a number of behaviors. These behaviors are what become problematic for many babies and toddlers. Babies learn to fall asleep in specific circumstances, such as being rocked, lying in a crib, or being pushed in a carriage. It is these specific circumstances that may or may not lead to a baby's sleep problems; that is, many babies develop good sleep habits, whereas other babies develop poor sleep habits. These issues will be addressed more thoroughly throughout this book.

Why Doesn't My Baby Sleep?

As discussed above, sleep problems in young children are much more common than you may think. Every study has consistently shown that between 25 percent and 30 percent of infants and toddlers have some type of sleep disturbance. That is a large number of children. If you put ten infants in a room, three or four of them will have some difficulty sleeping, which means that you are certainly not alone if you have problems with your baby's sleep.

Of course, if the other six or seven babies in the room sleep fine, then you may ask yourself, Why does my child have a problem? First of all, and most important, it seems there is a biological predisposition to having sleep problems. This means that some babies are more susceptible to sleep problems. Some babies start sleeping through the night within weeks of coming home from the hospital and never have a sleep problem. Others never seem to get a good night's sleep. Thus, some babies seem to be "sleepers" and some babies are not. Some babies have more difficulty learning to fall asleep, are more easily aroused from sleep, and are more sensitive to changes in routines that affect their sleep patterns. I once heard a parent joke that when she ordered her next baby, she was going to check the "sleeper" box. Many parents feel that way.

Some parents blame themselves for their child's sleep problems. Some believe that if they just hadn't rocked him to sleep as an infant, he would be fine. Others feel that they let their child sleep in bed with them for too long, and that is what caused all their baby's problems. And, unfortunately, the truth is that parents often do play a role in their child's sleep problems. They may have inadvertently maintained the poor sleep habits that contributed to their child's sleep problems. But a baby's sleep problems are not entirely the parents' fault. The baby also contributes. Many babies are rocked or nursed to sleep, and sleep fine. They go to sleep quickly and don't wake during the night. It is apparent, then, that the same parenting behavior can lead to sleep problems in some babies and not in others. Parents therefore need to change their behavior only if their baby has a problem sleeping through the night.

Predictors of Sleep Problems

In addition to a biological predisposition, there are certain things that make a child at risk for sleep problems. Being "at risk" means that a higher percent of these children will develop a sleep problem. Below are a number of things that can contribute to a baby having a sleep problem.

Firstborn. Firstborns are more at risk for sleep problems. Why? Probably because parents are more anxious with their first child. This is their first time at parenting, and they are usually more concerned about whether they are doing it right or wrong. They tend to be much less tolerant of their child's cries and have more time to devote to their first child. They also find it easier to take the time to get up and rock the baby back to sleep in the middle of the night. Later, when the family is larger, it seems more important to set a definitive bedtime. When it is bedtime, everyone goes to bed. There are no ifs, ands, or buts about it. And it is rare to have the luxury of rocking later-born children to sleep or nursing them to sleep when you are trying to get everyone into pajamas with teeth brushed and so on.

Sex. Boys are more likely to develop a sleep problem than girls. We do not know exactly why that is, but overall boys are more at risk for many things. For example, boys are more at risk to die of SIDS (sudden infant death syndrome), are more at risk to be hyperactive, and are more likely to develop some illnesses. It also seems that parents treat boys differently. Studies show that parents are less likely to be consistent in the way they treat boys. While parents are likely to respond to a girl baby the same way every time, they are more likely to change their responses to a boy baby. For example, when Mark's baby, Adam, cries after falling down, sometimes he picks him up but other times he ignores him and lets him try to stand up again on his own. If Adam was a girl, studies show that Mark would be more likely to always pick her up or to always ignore her. No one knows why parents differ in their behavior in this way, but this type of inconsistency can lead to sleep problems.

Colic or ear infections. Children with colic or frequent ear infections are much more likely to have sleep problems. These babies have sleep problems primarily because they get into the bad habit of waking during the night when they aren't feeling well. Then, even when they are feeling better, they may still wake during the night and have difficulty returning to sleep without parental intervention. For the parents, it is difficult to determine whether their baby is still in pain from an ear infection or is just having problems sleeping.

Same bed or room. Studies have shown that almost all children who sleep in the same bed or in the same room as their parents wake during the night. Chapter 5 explains why this happens.

Breast-feeding. Breast-fed babies are also more likely to take longer to sleep through the night. One study found that 52 percent of breast-fed infants, but only 20 percent of bottle-fed infants, wake during the night. A complete discussion on breast-feeding and sleep can be found in Chapter 7.

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First Chapter

Chapter 1

"Help, my baby won't sleep!"

An Introduction to Sleep and Sleep Problems

Susan's daughter, Elisa, has never slept through the night. She falls asleep sometime between 7:30 and 10:00, sleeps for a few hours, then wakes up and begins crying. In order to fall back asleep, Elisa needs Susan to rock her. This pattern has been repeated every single night at least twice a night since Elisa came home, nineteen months ago. One Tuesday night a few weeks ago Elisa slept from 10:00 p.m. until 5:30 a.m. According to Susan, "It was a miracle." Susan and her husband are both at their wit's end. They have fought frequently about this problem, and at this point they are both too tired to function, let alone enjoy being parents.

Right after "Is it a boy or a girl?" and "What is her name?" the next question that veteran parents ask is "Is she sleeping through the night?" The above scenario describes the situation faced by many parents of infants and toddlers. Study after study has shown that approximately 25 percent of all young children experience some type of sleep problem. Most of the time these problems are related to getting to sleep and then sleeping through the night.

Sleep, or the lack thereof, is a critical aspect of childrearing. Good babies sleep. Most babies don't. As long as you get enough sleep, a parent can deal with just about anything during the day. However, when it is 4:00 in the morning and you have just been awakened for the third time and are facing a screaming baby, all sanity goes out the window. It would try anybody's patience. What parents resort to is even more incredible. Many parents, as they are circling the block in theircar at 3:30 in the morning wearing only their pajamas and mismatching socks, with their baby sleeping peacefully in the car seat, try to imagine how they are going to explain this behavior if pulled over by a police officer.

Sleep--What Is It?

Everyone sleeps. Humans sleep, toads sleep, monkeys sleep, dogs sleep, and whales sleep. Perhaps all species sleep. But, surprisingly, we know very little about sleep. Although sleep researchers understand the mechanisms of sleep and what happens to the brain and body when we do sleep, we still do not know why we sleep. What is sleep's function? No one knows. Some believe it is a restorative function. Others believe that it is for energy conservation. And even others believe that it is adaptive, that it enhances survival. We do know that everyone has to sleep. People cannot function without it. The body craves sleep if too much time has gone by without it. People also don't feel like themselves if they haven't gotten enough sleep. So while we are not exactly sure what it is, we know that we all need to sleep.

One aspect of sleep that is well understood is that many people have sleep disorders. Approximately 25 percent to 30 percent of adults have some type of sleep problem, whether it is insomnia, sleepwalking, or just too little sleep. Babies and toddlers also have sleep problems. Some are quite serious, such as sleep apnea, whereas most are just difficult to deal with, such as bedtime problems or frequent night wakings.

Since sleep is a natural process, we must all know how to sleep. However, good sleeping habits must be developed. And sleep, especially falling asleep, involves a number of behaviors. These behaviors are what become problematic for many babies and toddlers. Babies learn to fall asleep in specific circumstances, such as being rocked, lying in a crib, or being pushed in a carriage. It is these specific circumstances that may or may not lead to a baby's sleep problems; that is, many babies develop good sleep habits, whereas other babies develop poor sleep habits. These issues will be addressed more thoroughly throughout this book.

Why Doesn't My Baby Sleep?

As discussed above, sleep problems in young children are much more common than you may think. Every study has consistently shown that between 25 percent and 30 percent of infants and toddlers have some type of sleep disturbance. That is a large number of children. If you put ten infants in a room, three or four of them will have some difficulty sleeping, which means that you are certainly not alone if you have problems with your baby's sleep.

Of course, if the other six or seven babies in the room sleep fine, then you may ask yourself, Why does my child have a problem? First of all, and most important, it seems there is a biological predisposition to having sleep problems. This means that some babies are more susceptible to sleep problems. Some babies start sleeping through the night within weeks of coming home from the hospital and never have a sleep problem. Others never seem to get a good night's sleep. Thus, some babies seem to be "sleepers" and some babies are not. Some babies have more difficulty learning to fall asleep, are more easily aroused from sleep, and are more sensitive to changes in routines that affect their sleep patterns. I once heard a parent joke that when she ordered her next baby, she was going to check the "sleeper" box. Many parents feel that way.

Some parents blame themselves for their child's sleep problems. Some believe that if they just hadn't rocked him to sleep as an infant, he would be fine. Others feel that they let their child sleep in bed with them for too long, and that is what caused all their baby's problems. And, unfortunately, the truth is that parents often do play a role in their child's sleep problems. They may have inadvertently maintained the poor sleep habits that contributed to their child's sleep problems. But a baby's sleep problems are not entirely the parents' fault. The baby also contributes. Many babies are rocked or nursed to sleep, and sleep fine. They go to sleep quickly and don't wake during the night. It is apparent, then, that the same parenting behavior can lead to sleep problems in some babies and not in others. Parents therefore need to change their behavior only if their baby has a problem sleeping through the night.

Predictors of Sleep Problems

In addition to a biological predisposition, there are certain things that make a child at risk for sleep problems. Being "at risk" means that a higher percent of these children will develop a sleep problem. Below are a number of things that can contribute to a baby having a sleep problem.

Firstborn. Firstborns are more at risk for sleep problems. Why? Probably because parents are more anxious with their first child. This is their first time at parenting, and they are usually more concerned about whether they are doing it right or wrong. They tend to be much less tolerant of their child's cries and have more time to devote to their first child. They also find it easier to take the time to get up and rock the baby back to sleep in the middle of the night. Later, when the family is larger, it seems more important to set a definitive bedtime. When it is bedtime, everyone goes to bed. There are no ifs, ands, or buts about it. And it is rare to have the luxury of rocking later-born children to sleep or nursing them to sleep when you are trying to get everyone into pajamas with teeth brushed and so on.

Sex. Boys are more likely to develop a sleep problem than girls. We do not know exactly why that is, but overall boys are more at risk for many things. For example, boys are more at risk to die of SIDS (sudden infant death syndrome), are more at risk to be hyperactive, and are more likely to develop some illnesses. It also seems that parents treat boys differently. Studies show that parents are less likely to be consistent in the way they treat boys. While parents are likely to respond to a girl baby the same way every time, they are more likely to change their responses to a boy baby. For example, when Mark's baby, Adam, cries after falling down, sometimes he picks him up but other times he ignores him and lets him try to stand up again on his own. If Adam was a girl, studies show that Mark would be more likely to always pick her up or to always ignore her. No one knows why parents differ in their behavior in this way, but this type of inconsistency can lead to sleep problems.

Colic or ear infections. Children with colic or frequent ear infections are much more likely to have sleep problems. These babies have sleep problems primarily because they get into the bad habit of waking during the night when they aren't feeling well. Then, even when they are feeling better, they may still wake during the night and have difficulty returning to sleep without parental intervention. For the parents, it is difficult to determine whether their baby is still in pain from an ear infection or is just having problems sleeping.

Same bed or room. Studies have shown that almost all children who sleep in the same bed or in the same room as their parents wake during the night. Chapter 5 explains why this happens.

Breast-feeding. Breast-fed babies are also more likely to take longer to sleep through the night. One study found that 52 percent of breast-fed infants, but only 20 percent of bottle-fed infants, wake during the night. A complete discussion on breast-feeding and sleep can be found in Chapter 7. Sleeping Through the Night. Copyright © by Jodi A. Mindell. Reprinted by pepermission of HarperCollins Publishers, Inc. All rights reserved. Available now wherever books are sold.

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  • Anonymous

    Posted January 16, 2008

    Formula and Tears

    My son is 10 months old and has never slept well. My husband and I both work, and all this book did was make us feel guilty for not having our son nap in his crib for all of his naps at the same time every day, and for 'gulp' allowing our son to sleep in our bed at times. I didn't have a child so that I could listen to his cries in order for me to get some more sleep. Also, this book promotes formula feeding instead of breast feeding and actually seems to advise parents to formula feed if they want their baby to sleep well! How absurd! A healthy baby is much more important than uninterrupted sleep!

    3 out of 6 people found this review helpful.

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  • Anonymous

    Posted May 8, 2012

    Life saver!

    The best book i've read so far about sleep management. Helped enormously. My daughter is 18 months old, and we had a huge problem, waking up 3-6 times a night, needing to rock her back to sleep. It would take me an hour to rock her to sleep at bedtime, only to get back to rocking an hour or two later. I literraly was falling apart with, always sleepy and tired. Now she falls asleep herself, and when she wakes up at night she gets back to sleep herself... The book not only describes the method , but explanes what to do in different situations, that might get in the way of sleep training, like vacations or when the baby is sick. Explanations are thorough and well researched. I wish I got this book earlier!

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  • Anonymous

    Posted February 20, 2010

    Wonderful Advice!

    This book is wonderful for new parents and parents-to-be. It is my new favorite baby shower gift! I read it after reading several other baby books (Dr. Sears, Babywise), and I found this one much more informative, practical, and instructional. The thing that I REALLY like about this is that it is based on RESEARCH- not opinion. Dr. Mindell shares what is proven to have worked for so many babies & children, not what someone "thinks" is sensible. I follow all of her instructions now, and my 7 month old is sleeping 12-13 hours per night and his naps are progressively getting better and better!

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  • Anonymous

    Posted June 20, 2009

    Great if you have a toddler

    Currently I am the parent of a infant and this book seems better for parents of toddlers.

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  • Anonymous

    Posted April 7, 2008

    This book helped my son become a good sleepr

    I followed the guidance in this book. As a new mom, serious about nursing and working full time with a traveling husband I needed her helpful advice. We followed the steps when he was 10 weeks old and it worked beautifully. Yes it is hard to hear your baby cry for a couple nights, but how can you be a good mom if you are exhausted and cranky? Even though he was a breast fed baby for one year, he slept great! Her helpful advice suited my parenting philosophy too. I remember thinking 'wow - he is 12 weeks old and he can fall asleep on his own..how empowering for him'. Now he is over two years old and he goes down so easily and happily with his nightime routine.

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  • Anonymous

    Posted February 22, 2008

    Worked from day 1

    This book supports what I believe as a mother---teach my baby how to fall asleep on her own without having to depend on feeding or sleeping in my bed. This basic principle carries over into other areas: if a baby never learns to soothe him or herself, there will be a lot of dependence and anxiety in other situations down the road. I have a family member who has three children all sleeping in mommy and daddy's bed, ages 13, 9, and 6, because proper sleep habits were never taught. Am I advocating 'crying it out'? No. If my baby cries for more than ten minutes, I return to the room to soothe her. But I don't have to do that often. This book's practical guidance has worked wonders for us.

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  • Anonymous

    Posted September 30, 2006

    Worked on the first try.

    After 4 1/2 months of not sleeping enough (baby included) we have had three nights of sleep filled bliss. I know that it is hard to listen to your baby cry, but he/she stands to benefit so much from plenty of sleep and the ability to soothe themself.

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  • Anonymous

    Posted May 4, 2006

    We're all sleeping through the night!

    After battling with my 1st born son with sleep issues, I needed a solution for my second son. I read all of the popular sleep solution books and had no luck. I stumbled upon this book, of course very skeptical, and I found all of the answers I needed. Before I read the book, he was taking about 2 or 3 - 20 minute naps and waking up once or twice a night at 7 months old. After following Dr. Mindell's advice, within 2 or 3 nights, my son was sleeping 12 hours a night and taking one or two 2hour naps a day. Her approach is gentle and she gives reasons why children cry,etc. which made me feel better. I also liked how she lets the parent choose how long to wait before going in to check on your child. I recommend this book to all of my friends and have bought it for baby gifts for new parents.

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  • Anonymous

    Posted March 21, 2006

    Classic cry to sleep guide

    This book is a rephrased Ferber - how to let your baby cry to sleep and not feel guilty about it. Better to listen to your heart on this topic and go for a more gentle approach than this difficult, cry-inducing method.

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  • Anonymous

    Posted May 31, 2005

    Life Saver!!

    This book kept me from going off the deep end! At the time I read this book my son was 6 months old and I had to rock him with a bottle till I was sure he was sound asleep before attempting to put him in his crib. I had to pray the whole walk to his room that he wouldn¿t wake on the way or wake when I put him down. He also woke an average of 3 times during the night where I had to go through the process all over again. I was desperate for sleep and read about this book in a magazine and decided to give it a try. The first few nights were rough however every night got a little easier and by the 5th night I was able to put my son in his crib completely awake without crying and he slept for 12 hours straight without waking once! I have bought this book for every expecting mother I know and they have bought it for at least one other expecting mom. Another reviewer called this book ¿harsh¿ and although it is difficult the first couple of nights, IT REALLY WORKS!

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  • Anonymous

    Posted March 17, 2005

    This book will change your life!!!!

    If you are having trouble getting your child to sleep through the night, invest in this book. It will give you a step-by-step plan to solve that problem and change your life for the better. We used it with our 15 mo old son who was waking 4-5 times a night. It took 4 nights, an iron will on our part, and some crying (but not NEARLY as much as we had anticipated), and the plan worked. Our son now sleeps 10+ hrs through the night, bedtime is a breeze, and so is nap time! Without this book, I think I would have needed professional help on many different levels- I was just so sleep deprived!! Now, I feel like my old pre-baby self. My son is better for it, my marriage is better for it, and my sanity is better for it. Ideally, you should read this before your child is born, but otherwise, it is helpful to any parent having any issue with sleeping through the night, napping, early waking, transitioning from parent's bed to crib, or from crib to toddler bed. Very comprehensive and also an easy read- even for the severely sleep deprived parets out there!!!! I've read all the baby sleep books out there (believe me), and this was by far the best and most-practical. It is also very middle-of-the-road in its approach!!!

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  • Anonymous

    Posted April 27, 2005

    A MUST for any new parent (or parent of poor sleeper)

    We visited Dr. Mindell in her pediatric sleep disorders clinic at CHOP when our daughter was having sleep problems, and Dr. Mindell's no-nonsense approach toward helping our daughter solved the problem within a week. 'Sleeping Through the Night' is a must-read for any new parent. Dr. Mindell's advice and guidelines are straight-forward (no cutesy language here) and to the point, but more importantly, they work. It helps to understand the nature of sleep, how children (and adults) sleep, and how to help your child sleep better and through the night so that you can sleep better! If your infant or toddler is a poor sleeper, or if you're expecting and want to get a jumpstart on establishing healthy sleep patterns with your newborn, order this book NOW.

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  • Anonymous

    Posted May 1, 2002

    This book is a life saver!!!

    My husband and I decided to try this book out of desperation. Our son (5 mos old) hasnt sleep thru the night his entire life and would wake 6 and 7 times a night screaming. Being first time parents, we learned alot by reading this book. With a few minor changes to our bedtime routine and a little bit of crying it out, our son was sleeping thru the night by the 3rd night. I would definately recommend this book to anyone that doesnt want the harsher approach of the ferber method.

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  • Anonymous

    Posted June 29, 2002

    A harsh cry-to-sleep book

    This book tells you to let your baby cry to sleep, no matter what. The author contradicts herself throughout. As an example on the same page it says: ¿The sound of your baby¿s crying is nature¿s way of making sure that babies are taken care of.¿ Then two sentences later she says, ¿One way to decrease your response is to block out the noise.¿ ¿Turn on anything that will block out the sound¿ She gives examples like a fan, air vent or vacuum cleaner or to go take a shower or blow-dry your hair. Even go get the mail from the mailbox! The author says that if your baby cries so hard she throws up you don¿t have to feel guilty about it because, and I quote exactly, ¿vomiting can even be fun.¿ If your baby crawls out of the crib? Get a crib tent. If your toddler comes out of the bedroom? Lock the door. Teething? Sure, it hurts, but don¿t change the rules. Live in an apartment? Warn your neighbors about the crying. Feeling stressed? Put a note on the baby¿s bedroom door, ¿Crying Baby ¿ Enter at Your Own Risk.¿ And a note for visitors that says, ¿We are teaching the baby to sleep. Expect dirty dishes, crying babies, and unhappy parents.¿ I am appalled by this lack of compassion towards babies and parents throughout the entire book. Luckily I bought several sleep books (tired and desperate!) and found one with compassionate, effective solutions that are working for us: The No-Cry Sleep Solution ¿ a totally different viewpoint, the author doesn¿t advocate crying, let alone vomiting, and we are finally getting some sleep.

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  • Anonymous

    Posted February 1, 2001

    Not Fond of Crying it Out and This Worked For Us!

    Before we read this book, our 8-month old would sleep a total of 10-11 hours a day of restless sleep, waking around 6 times a night crying hysterically. He would nap for 35 minutes and would wake crying. In all cases he needed to be rocked or nursed back to sleep. The chapter on Night Wakings specifically applied to us and we realized that we were sabotaging our baby's sleep by giving him negative sleep associations that he could not rely on in the middle of the night to get himself back to sleep. With some minor changes and a tiny bit of 'crying it out', he is sleeping beautifully and between 12-13 hours a day. On nights 1 and 2, he slept 6 hours straight, on nights 3-5, he slept 8 hours straight and for the last few nights (5 and 6), he went to his crib and fell asleep without crying!!! This book is easy to read and I feel good taking advice from someone who is an expert in pediatric sleep issues. Thank you Jodi Mindell. Life is so much more enjoyable with a little sleep. It is so amazing how fast it worked!!! This really is a kinder, gentler version of the Ferber Method and gives you many options to work with different personalities of both parents and babies.

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  • Anonymous

    Posted February 2, 2001

    Good alternative to Ferber

    I found this book quite helpful. If you dread the thought of 'ferberizing' your baby but have sleep issues this may be a good book for you. The author suggests that it is okay to take a gradual approach to solving your baby's sleep problems which is a good thing to hear. I found her suggestions helpful. I should say though that I may not need to train my baby since he seems to have decided on his to sleep through the night and take naps (that could change in which case I would follow Mindell's method). The only thing lacking in the book I thought was more detailed vignettes or examples of parents who followed her method.

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  • Anonymous

    Posted January 27, 2001

    This book/method REALLY works!!!

    Jodi Mindell's book was sent by God! Since our daughter was born 7 months ago, we have not slept more than 2 hours in a row. She has always woken up at least 5-7 times each night and always with loud cries. We finally decided that it had to end and this book was recommended to us by other parents. After reading this book, we committed ourselves to following every step it outlined. We thought it would be heart/gut-wrenching, but ended up going very smoothly. After only 2 nights, our daughter slept through the night (10 hours straight on our third night of the method). She no longer cries at bedtime or when she wakes up. I can't even tell you how much this has improved our lives. We are better parents now that we have more energy (from more sleep) and our daughter is happier too (since she is well rested). A great side-effect from the book is that our daughter has also become a predictable napper. We can easily plan family outings due to the new schedule she is on (just like it said in the book). If your child is not sleeping...... BUY THIS BOOK (it is worth it and it works!!!).

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  • Anonymous

    Posted December 11, 2000

    Best Baby Shower Gift You Could Ever Give

    This book is a quick read, which is great, because new parents have no time to read. But it contains very effective strategies for teaching babies good sleeping habits. A set bedtime and routine have done wonders for getting our 11 week old baby to sleep better.

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  • Anonymous

    Posted February 13, 2000

    Sleep...what a nice word.

    This book has the information you need to help your child/children sleep through the night--in his/her own bed, too!!! Learn what common mistakes you may be making & what are appropriate expectations when it comes to sleep patterns. I was DESPERATE when I read this book..with an infant & a preschooler that wouldn't go to sleep on their own or stay in their beds(sound familiar?). THAT CHANGED QUICKLY!(& without those 'guilty feelings') - It's been well over a year & the entire family sleeps! This book saved us from insanity-- I recommend it to all parents. It's now my standard gift for baby showers and new moms. My friends that become pregnant eagerly await this treasure.

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    Posted December 17, 2009

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