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Stanley and Sophie


Now in paperback, a wise and moving book about two border terriers and the woman who lost her heart to them.

“If Stanley had been a tad less overbearing and Sophie a tad more submissive, everything would have been fine rather than a roller-coaster of high drama and hurt feelings. The dynamic—part gender, part sibling—was familiar: I’d lived it. How did it come about that I was spending my days adjudicat- ing between two dogs who were acting out...

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Now in paperback, a wise and moving book about two border terriers and the woman who lost her heart to them.

“If Stanley had been a tad less overbearing and Sophie a tad more submissive, everything would have been fine rather than a roller-coaster of high drama and hurt feelings. The dynamic—part gender, part sibling—was familiar: I’d lived it. How did it come about that I was spending my days adjudicat- ing between two dogs who were acting out the story of my life?”

Award-winning author Kate Jennings is a fiercely intelligent writer, an astute observer of people and her surround- ings, an irascible Australian with no time for indulgent New Yorkers and their pampered pets, and a recent widow not yet ready to face her grief.

Then she meets Stanley, “a tense bundle of muscle and sinew that stood seventeen inches high,” and her unexpected love affair began. Swept off her feet and surprised by the depth of her love, Jennings’s life is sud- denly overtaken by two border terriers: Stanley, and then a few years later, Sophie. First and foremost, Stanley & Sophie is a book about animals, understanding them, doing the best by them. But it is also a book about the way two rival- rous, demanding, idiosyncratic, exhilarating dogs gave Jennings
daily purpose and showed her the way to her own heart.

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Editorial Reviews

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"The canine psychodrama between Stanley and Sophie makes Britney and Kevin look calm and well-adjusted. As for Chico and Cheeky, the monkeys in this star-crossed story, they're the Heathcliff and Cathy of Bali. The book itself? Positively Proustian." — Simon Doonan, author of Eccentric Glamour: Creating an Insanely More Fabulous You

"I devoured this book. Kate Jennings has written a frank and eloquent memoir about her most private and public concerns. This is the story of two terriers who inadvertently mend the author's broken heart. They also change the way she views all living creatures. Jennings travels the world making connections between our pampered pets, pariah dogs, and two charming pigtailed macaques rescued from an Indonesian market. Insights into the myriad ways that animals sustain us spill out of this book. Jennings takes no prisoners. She will make you laugh, cry, and run out to get your own dog a big bone." — Elizabeth Hess, author of Nim Chimpsky: The Chimp Who Would Be Human

"Kate Jennings has brought all her human complexity into her feelings for two border terriers. There's nothing sentimental about this wondrous book — just unsparing truth, a trained eye for detail, and a beautifully clean style. This small book takes us from the East Side of Manhattan to the author's native Australia and on to Bali, but it also ferries us from grief to love to loss and back again to a dual sense of love and loss." — Edmund White, author of Hotel de Dream: A New York Novel

"Stanley and Sophie is a moving account of how we love and how we mourn: 'the fishhooks in the heart.'" — Michelle de Kretser, Melbourne Age

"She is witty and uncompromising in her portrayal of New York's canines and their owners." — The Sydney Morning Herald

"As a memoirist, Jennings is a natural...For border terrier fans and owners...this book will be an unmitigated delight." — Australian Book Review

Publishers Weekly

Novelist Jennings (Snake) has penned an affectionate-if uneven-memoir of life with two rambunctious border terriers, Stanley and Sophie, who become her "tonic" and greatest consolation following her husband's death after a long battle with Alzheimer's. Never really a dog person (she initially dismisses them as "handbags with a heartbeat"), the author changes her mind after falling in love with Stanley's "prickly, prideful, independent" spirit. Zippy chapters narrate the challenges of their cohabitation, the introduction of Sophie into their pack and a New York known only to dog owners. Jennings strikes jarring notes along the way, however, especially in failing to satisfyingly explore her grief after her husband's death. And in a bizarre twist that will be genuinely shocking to the reader-and despite her avowed adoration of her dogs-Jennings gives both away halfway through the book. Stanley and Sophie are rendered with such warmth and wit that the book suffers greatly from their sudden disappearance, and the author's decision-never elucidated-makes her seem less rather than more familiar as the memoir proceeds. (Aug.)

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Product Details

  • ISBN-13: 9781416560302
  • Publisher: Scribner
  • Publication date: 8/4/2009
  • Edition description: Reprint
  • Pages: 208
  • Product dimensions: 5.54 (w) x 8.48 (h) x 0.52 (d)

Meet the Author

Kate Jennings was a student at the University of Sydney in the sixties where she began her career as a poet, essay- ist, and fiction-writer. In 1979 she moved to New York and later became an executive speechwriter for The Wall Street Journal. She has written for Self, Allure, New Woman, and many other magazines. The author of Snake, Women Falling Down in the Street, and Moral Hazard, she lives in New York City.

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A Cappella

Joe Cocker, the rock star, was underestimated, even in his heyday. He had the voice of an angel and the appearance of a mental hospital patient. His signature song, unless you count "She Came in Through the Bathroom Window," was the antiphonal Lennon-McCartney tune "With a Little Help from My Friends," which Cocker made his own by using waltz time and incorporating chorics with raw rock, much as the Rolling Stones did in "You Can't Always Get What You Want." My favorite part: Cocker's girl group carols, "Do you need anybody?" and Cocker confesses with distinctly manly candor, "I need someone to love." Then the girls ask, a cappella, "Would you believe in a love at first sight?" and he answers, "I'm certain that it happens all the time." I always shake my head at this. Doubtful. Very doubtful.

I've been insanely, destructively in love several times in my life, the details of which I'd rather not remember. (Neither adverb is an exaggeration; such was my derangement that certain people still walk out of a room when I walk into it. My excuse: I was young; it was the sixties; derangement, courtesy of R. D. Laing, had cachet.) And I was married for many years to a man for whom, I always said, I would walk a crooked mile. But love at first sight? No. The only time I've fallen in love at first sight was with dogs.

The first was Stanley, an aristocratic alpha male border terrier. Best of breed, pure princeling. (Kennel name: Bramblebee Borage, out of Wizard Notice of Bramblebee and Faithful One of Bramblebee.) The second was Sophie, a streetwise, scrappy, orphaned alpha female, also a border terrier, not to be confused with a border collie, an altogether different kind of dog. In my love for these two dogs lies a tale about human need, the kind that blots out all sense — in this case, the sense of having two rivalrous terriers with more volatility and energy than the ocean in a New York City apartment. Human need — immense subject.

And because Stanley came into my life in 2001 and Sophie in 2004, it's a tale, tangentially, about Manhattan in those first confounding, politically charged years of the new millennium. Years when our lives were a rhubarb of noisy emotion: a devil's chorus of fear, blatting rage, birring anxiety, tweedling incredulity, roupy sorrow.

Copyright © 2008 by Kate Jennings

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Reading Group Guide

This reading group guide for Stanley and Sophie includes an introduction, discussion questions, and ideas for enhancing your book club. The suggested questions are intended to help your reading group find new and interesting angles and topics for your discussion. We hope that these ideas will enrich your conversation and increase your enjoyment of the book.


"I fell in love with a prideful, tense bundle of muscle and sinew that stood seventeen inches high. You would see a small brown dog; I saw perfection."

So begins the story of Kate Jennings' unexpected love affair with two Border Terriers, first Stanley, then a few years later, Sophie. A fiercely intelligent writer, an astute observer of people and her surroundings, a recent widow now ready to face her grief, an irascible Australian with no time for indulgent New Yorkers and their pampered pets, Jennings falls hard. She is swept off her feet, stunned by the depth of her love. Her life is suddenly overtaken by Stanley, and, when she is seduced into getting a companion for him, by the pair of them.

But after several years with her willful yet cherished dogs, Jennings came to the heartrending realization that they needed more than she could give - and that she must reassess her own life, too. First and foremost, Stanley and Sophie is a book about dogs, understanding them and doing the best by them. It is also a vivid chronicle of Jennings' grief and sadness - for the loss of a husband, for the city after September 11, for two pigtailed macaques in Bali, for a world going to hell in a handbasket. This is a bittersweet and darkly humorous memoir about the way two demanding, idiosyncratic, exhilarating dogs gave Jennings daily purpose and showed her the way to her own heart.

Discussion Questions

1. In Stanley and Sophie, Kate Jennings describes having fallen in love at first sight only twice in her life - both times with dogs. What is it about dogs that allows for this kind of infatuation and emotional immediacy? How does the author's love for Stanley and Sophie relate to her own heightened sense of need? How is her love story entwined with her feelings about the city of Manhattan, and to what extent might those feelings also be described in terms of love?

2. "Who can stay sad around a creature so evidently bent on discovery, so palpably pleased to be in this world?" What is it about Stanley's personality that enables the author to transcend her own sadness and sense of loss? What do Stanley's special qualities as a Border Terrier have to do with the author's total immersion in his world? To what extent does her absorption with Stanley seem akin to a love affair?

3. What does the author's research into the history and temperament of the Border Terrier breed reveal about her own interest in Stanley's exemplifying the "best of the breed"? Why did she gravitate toward the terrier breed in the first place? How would you characterize Border Terriers, based on the author's detailed descriptions?

4. "New York City is a moody city, transmitting emotions as if it were an organic being." How does the author's perspective on life in New York City change in the aftermath of the September 11th attacks? What role does Stanley play in her ability to process the tragedy? To what extent might a non-native be able to interpret New York and its moods with greater objectivity than a native New Yorker?

5. "How on earth did this happen? How did it come about that I was spending my days adjudicating between two dogs who were acting out the story of my life?" What compels the author to adopt a second Border Terrier? How do Stanley and Sophie's responses to each other reveal their individual natures? Why does the author feel her dogs are repeating her own life in their canine dramas?

6. How does her identity as a dog owner come to shape the author? How does her role as parent to Stanley and Sophie transform her life in New York? To what extent does owning dogs enable the author to make deeper friendships and connections with people? How does her own attitude toward dogs change once she adopts Stanley?

7. "I inched toward a resolution that would have been inconceivable even a month before: to dismantle my life, to change it radically, beginning with Stanley and Sophie." What prompts the author to consider giving away her dogs to new families? Were you surprised by this decision? What might giving the dogs away represent for the author?

8. How do the author's experiences in Indonesia heighten her appreciation of the economic, environmental and social challenges faced by that country? In what respects does her attachment to the resident macaques at Puri Angsa, Chico and Cheeky, seem like an extension of her love for Stanley and Sophie? What ironies do you see in her returning to New York to escape from the terrorism in Bali?

9. "What Stanley recollects, what goes on in his noggin, who knows? But recollect he undoubtedly does, with an accuracy that can be astounding." How does the author's depiction of Stanley and Sophie offer a glimpse into the interior world of the Border Terrier? What aspects of her dogs' personalities does the author seem to have an especially keen and instinctive understanding of? To what extent are these dogs like human beings? Of the many anecdotes of Stanley and Sophie described in this memoir, which were most memorable to you and why?

Enhance Your Book Club

1. As Border Terriers - dogs renowned for their athleticism, independence, and sociability - Stanley and Sophie embody the best of their breed. Do you currently own a Border Terrier, or could you be interested in adopting one? You may want to visit the Border Terrier Club of America's extremely thorough website: There, you can find extensive information about Border Terrier current events, clubs in your region, a photo gallery, and relevant publications regarding Border Terriers as a breed. Might there be a Stanley or Sophie in your future?

2. Kate Jennings' deep love for Stanley and Sophie enables her to come to terms with her grief in both the aftermath of her husband's death and the 9/11 tragedy that befalls her adopted city. Have you ever found yourself depending on a cherished pet or a loved one to help you cope with a difficult time in your life? Think of some of the challenges you've faced, and recall who came to your aid. If you've been fortunate enough never to have experienced a troubled period in your life, who would you depend on in a time of need? How might a loved pet help?

3. Would you ever consider visiting Indonesia, the country Kate Jennings visits in Stanley and Sophie? Whether you're just intrigued by this amazing archipelago of some 17,000 islands or you're planning an actual trip, you will want to visit the CIA's comprehensive dossier on the country at Here you can read about Indonesia's people, its government, its economy and some of the transnational issues that it faces.

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