Still Going Strong: Memoirs, Stories, and Poems about Great Older Women

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Overview

It's terrible to get old? Life is all downhill after fifty? That's what our youth-centered culture may think but don't be duped. Selected as a finalist for 2006 Independent Publisher Book Awards, this book can change how you think about aging, even make you feel good about getting old!

“. . . a liberating change is happening, a change as momentous as the liberation movements of the 1960s and 70s. It brings respect for older people, appreciation for maturity, and the promise of a more balanced culture.”—from the Introduction by Margaret Karmazin and Janet Amalia Weinberg.

Discover a new, positive way of looking at aging with Still Going Strong: Memoirs, Stories, and Poems About Great Older Women. This exuberant, inspiring anthology celebrates the vitality of older women and shows them having adventures, facing loss, enjoying romance, and feeling more capable and confident than ever. The 42 authors included in the collection know that life after middle age is not the diminished state dreaded by our youth-centered culture, but rather, a time of growth and fulfillment, enriched by the wisdom of experience and perspective.

Get a taste of the passion, wit, and wisdom of some of these women:

From “Why Vermont” by Elayne Clift:
“It was great not to be driven by achievement. I was learning the art of laid-back living. Spending a day writing, or reading, was heavenly and I was reminded of my freedom whenever a friend said, ‘I'd give anything to be doing that!’”

From “Gray Matters” by Marsha Dubrow:
“. . . finally [I] have decided to enjoy being a gray. It links me with a powerful sisterhood, complimenting each other on our gray badge of courage. A woman with dreadlocks resembling pillars of salt approached me on the street and said, ‘You go, girlfriend. We're gray and we're proud—and gorgeous.’ We smacked high fives.”

From “Katherine Banning: Wife, Mother, Bank Robber” by Melissa Lugo:
“Crazy, you say? Well, wait till you hit 90 and realize you still want to live, that even though you're way past menopause you want another child, and that even though your breasts make tracks in the mud, you still want a lover, and that even though your hands shake, there are still things that you didn't get to do (like going to the Olympics and bringing home the gold) things you want to do, that you will do. Then, see what you're capable of. And you'll be perfectly sane. Senility, temporary insanity, it's all bull. Old folks know exactly what they're doing. One of the good parts about being an old fart is that you have a license to be loony tunes, to live the wild way you didn't have the balls for before. At 90, you see, your dignity's gone the way of dirty diapers, and your life is heading the same way fast. You have nothing to lose except the moment.”

From “A Different Woman” by Joan Kip:
“My relationship with Seth is, I tell him, my great experiment. He calls me on every one of my tightly-held protections, and his pleasure in meeting my body is matched by my own freedom to respond. Ours is a relationship with no hidden agenda, no commitments. Our occasional evenings of uncomplicated delight are the intertwining of two desires who touch down and embrace one another, knowing they will meet again, sometime, somewhere. And while sex is not absent from our meetings, it is, rather, my compelling ache to be touched and held and to touch and hold that pulls me back each time to Seth. Like the newly-born whose being depends upon the enfolding presence of a parent, those of us who are now so old, glow more warmly when we, too, may share our tenderness.”

Still Going Strong counters demeaning stereotypes of “little old ladies” by offering positive, empowering views of women over fifty. It is a hopeful voice that speaks to any woman facing her own future.

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Editorial Reviews

D. J. Shedlock
"This anthology MAKES ME LOOK FORWARD TO GETTING OLDER. It has the guts and candor to tell it like it is, announcing loud and clear that there is growth and joy in maturity. A quick and enjoyable read, it passes my 'good book test'-I feel sorry when it ends. The characters are strong and realistic women who travel diverse life-paths. The book challenges our stereotypes of mature women, replacing ageist attitudes with images of women celebrating both independence and connection during the continuing process of self-discovery. It describes and extends feminism in the third age, inviting women to define their own versions of successful aging."
PhD, Associate Professor and Director, Human Development Program, Department of Psychology, SUNY Oswego
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Product Details

  • ISBN-13: 9780789028709
  • Publisher: Taylor & Francis
  • Publication date: 1/1/2006
  • Pages: 318
  • Product dimensions: 6.10 (w) x 8.70 (h) x 1.00 (d)

Meet the Author

Janet Amalia Weinberg, PhD, MS, BA, is a retired psychologist, author, and founding member of one of the first feminist therapy collectives. Her short stories have appeared in numerous publications including Potato Eyes, Reader’s Break, and West Wind Review. At sixty, after ending a seventeen-year relationship and helping her mother through her final illness, Dr. Weinberg moved from her secluded mountain home to start a new life in Ithaca, New York.

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Table of Contents

Why This Book. Introduction: The New Older Woman (Janet Amalia Weinberg and Margaret Karmazin). STRENGTHS. If Love Comes to Me Again (Prartho M. Sereno)
Wild Life (Ruth Cash-Smith). Amazed by the Amazon (Sylvia Topp). The Growing Season (Nell Coburn Medcalfe). Coming of Age (Elayne Clift). Forces (Sarah Getty). The Same Old Kiss (Janet Amalia Weinberg). The Woman with Curious Hands (Edith A. Cheitman). Scary Movies (Jo Ann Heydron). The Canarsie Rose (Mike Lipstock)
At Canio’s (Karen Blomain). Nepal Through Bifocals (Sonja Johansen). The Palace of Physical Culture (Valerie Miner). The Painter at Ninety-One (Edythe Haendel Schwartz). Encounter in Milan (SuzAnne C. Cole). Texts (Mary M. Brown). Late Bloomer (Ruth Harriet Jacobs). Seven Little Words (June Rossbach Bingham Birge). CHALLENGES. Old Broads (Karen Blomain). Gray Matters (Marsha Dubrow). Katherine Banning: Wife, Mother, Bank Robber (Melissa Lugo). Blonde Jokes (Mary M. Brown). Forever Red (Janice Levy). Mazurka (Pamela Uschuk). Year End Villanelle (Karen Blomain). Ride (Janet Amalia Weinberg). May Morning in the Winter of My Life (Rachel Josefowitz Siegel). Crone/ease (Edith A. Cheitman). White Room (Simone Poirier-Bures). Dance of Time (Bonnie West). The Inheritance (Joanne Seltzer). Baby Boomer! (Dianalee Velie). Amanda (Elisavietta Ritchie). JOYS. Pushing Sixty (Rina Ferrarelli). A Different Woman (Joan Kip). At Seventy, Mom Finally Goes Camping (Bill Sherwonit). Cane (Katharyn Howd Machan). The Further Adventures of the Crackpot Crones: The Dance Class (SuzAnne C. Cole). Fare Well (Maureen T. Porter). New Grandmother (June Sutz Brott). Declaration of Independence (Phyllis Wendt Hines). Delta Currents (Davi Walders). Full Circle (Margaret Karmazin). When Less Is More (Christine Swanberg). Bent—Not Broken (Cherise Wyneken). A Sign of Life (Lucille Gang Shulklapper). Fresh Air (Dolores Landy Bentham). Noah’s Wife and the Change of Life (Prartho M. Sereno). Why Vermont (Elayne Clift). Out of Time (Nancy Kline). Acknowledgments. Copyrights and Permissions. About the Editor. Contributors.

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