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It's Harder to Be Frisky Over Sixty
The Blissful Couple
The New Alphabet
Now I Lay Me Down to Sleep
A Modest Proposal
A Whole Other Stage
A Brief History of Marriage
In the Beginning
After a While
To Be Continued
More on Marriage
So My Husband and I Decided to Take a Car Trip Through New England
A Very Very Brief History of Marriage
In Response to a Request for an Apology
About His Retirement
A Wedding Sonnet for the Next Generation
The Children and Grandchildren
Just a Few Words of Advice, Just a Few Helpful Hints
Did I Do Something Wrong?
Our Wonderful Annual Full-Fledged Family Vacation
When I Watch
Being a Grandparent Is the Best Revenge
The Sweetest of Nights and the Finest of Days
When Asked If I Thought That I'd Finally Got It Together
To a Husband Who, After Forty-two Years, Dumped My Wonderful Friend for a Much Younger Woman
Cemeteries and Other Plots
A Thoroughly Modern Sixty
Just Lucky I Guess
Posted October 13, 2000
Ms. Viorst has become more outspoken in these poems than in her earlier 'decade' works. I think you'll like the change. 'It still will be impossible to persuade my husband when lost to stop the goddamn car, and ask for directions.' Concerning her husband's retirement, 'And guess who's the hobby he chose?' In talking about her children and grandchildren, she exults that her grandchild prefers her for cuddling to her son. You'll never quite think about life the same way after you read '1963 -- Niagara, 1999 -- Viagra.' On the other hand, she's hanging in there as a woman. 'I've painted blue nail polish on my toes . . . .' 'I will still buy bikini underwear.' 'I don't intend to stop showing a little cleavage.' Yet, '. . . it's hard to be frisky over sixty.' 'L's for libido -- what's happened to sex?' There are also the inevitable losses. 'How am I going to walk in this world without talking to my friend about eyeliner and the meaning of the universe?' She has some very strong feelings about the bad things that should happen to the man who leaves his wife of 42 years for a younger woman. One of the best sequences comes in a series of poems on the subject of 'A Brief History of Marriage' that begins with 'a life lived -- at least for a while -- in paradise.' In 'To Be Continued' we learn that '. . . sometimes we still get a glimpse of paradise.' My favorite poem on aging was 'Now I Lay Me Down to Sleep.' The poem is a long list of all the things that can and usually do disturb slumber. If none of these occur, she says, 'I might -- I just actually might -- do a little sleeping.' There's still a wonderful optimism about how good things could be. In 'If Only,' she contemplates reconstructing the world. 'If only shopping at Saks counted as exercise.' The poems are grouped in five sections: Suddenly Sixty, A Brief History of Marriage, More on Marriage, The Children and Grandchildren, and Other Shocks. The witty poems are wonderfully illustrated with red and black drawings by Laurie Rosenwell. Whatever your age, ask yourself which attributes of youth you would like to retain and which qualities of greater age you would like to add. In this way, you can create a wonderful combination that will serve you better than simply fulfilling the expectations of society about 'acting your age.' Enjoy your age!
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Posted January 19, 2001
Posted December 21, 2011
Judith Viorst can always be depended upon to deliver wit and wisdom when writing on the topic of growing older. I have given her books, for birthday gifts, for years and they are consistantly well received by all. You cannot go wrong with Judith Viorst. Two thumbs waaaay up!Was this review helpful? Yes NoThank you for your feedback. Report this reviewThank you, this review has been flagged.
Posted December 19, 2011
A very refreshing book. Truth and humor are combined to help mange the aging process. It has been the perfect gift for all my girlfriends that are turning 60.
Jane G from PA
Posted March 29, 2010
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