The Sweetness of Tears: A Novelby Nafisa Haji
From Nafisa Haji, author of the critically acclaimed novel, The Writing on My Forehead, comes The Sweetness of Tears, an emotional, deeply layered story that explores the far reaching effects of cultural prejudice, forbidden love, and hidden histories on a young woman and her family. A paperback original from a superb writer whose first novel was/b>/b>… See more details below
From Nafisa Haji, author of the critically acclaimed novel, The Writing on My Forehead, comes The Sweetness of Tears, an emotional, deeply layered story that explores the far reaching effects of cultural prejudice, forbidden love, and hidden histories on a young woman and her family. A paperback original from a superb writer whose first novel was enthusiastically praised by Khaled Hosseini, bestselling author of The Kite Runner and A Thousand Splendid Suns, Haji, an American of Indo-Pakistani descent, writes with grace, heart, and wisdom about the collisions of culture and religion, tradition and modernity played out through individual lives.
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The Sweetness of TearsA Novel
By Nafisa Haji
William Morrow PaperbacksCopyright © 2011 Nafisa Haji
All right reserved.
"Through the night of doubt and sorrow
Onward goes the pilgrim band."
Sabine Baring-Gould (1867 Hymn)
Originally written in Danish by B. S. Ingemann
The first time I ever experienced doubt, I tried to climb over it.
Literally. The way I'd been taught, doubt was a seed planted
by Satan, the fruit of which led to disobedience. But my doubt
had nothing to do with God or the Bible. My doubt was closer
to homethough it would take me far from it, eventually, across
oceans and continents, stretching bonds of love and loyalty to the
breaking point before I could return again, finally, at peace with all
of who I was. Back then, I did everything I could to avoid the hiss
of that serpentthe temptation of knowing what I didn't want to
know. At first, I simply ignored the whispers, pretending I didn't
see what I saw, as if there were a way not to believe what your own
eyes tell you. I knew how the story of original temptation ended
and I had no wish to be cast out of the garden.
It was a struggle I kept to myself through the whole of tenth
grade. To give voice to the questionseven in my own head
would have been to give them power, to confirm the presence of
doubt, to risk eventual downfall.
The effort of denial drained me of wordsa remarkable thing
that did not go unnoticed.
"You're so quiet lately, Jo. What's wrong?" Mom asked me
worriedly at dinner.
The second she did, Dad dropped his fork to reach over and put
his hand to my forehead, shaking his head when he found it cool to
the touch, running a calloused thumb down the length of my nose,
tugging at my ponytail in that way that he did.
"No fever," he declared. "Only stops talking when she's got a
fever. Normally. Never lets anyone else get a word in. Now's your
chance, Chris," Dad said to my brother, who shrugged, flashing
a brilliant smile, teeth, shine, and sweetness lighting up the
expressive face that was all Chris ever really needed to communicate
with, the face Mom always said was worth a thousand words. Dad
was stingy with hiscomplete sentences being a luxury in which
he rarely indulged. He wasn't so frugal with his ears, though, lending
them to me generously through all the girly, childhood prattle
I subjected him to as I grew up.
Mom listened, too, more actively, in fact, inserting herself into
my monologues, upstaging me, in a way, with her anxious and
worried engagement, always scanning for problems she felt compelled
to help me solve, to pray over, quick to feel slighted on my behalf.
Conversations with Mom were tiring. For her, I know, because of
the effort it took to be so emotionally invested in the events of my
life, in my successes and failures. For me, too, because her anxiety
was contagious, making me want to hide things from her to spare
her the worry. Though I never did. Until now.
"Is it school?" Mom asked again, unconvinced by Dad's reassuring
diagnosis. "You can always go back to Christ Academy,
you know. I never liked the idea of you transferring to Garden Hill
High." She'd made her objections loud and clear in the summer
before freshman year, wanting me to stay with my brother, Chris,
at Garden Hill Christ Academy, which we'd both attended since
preschool, instead of going to the public high school around the
block, which is where she'd gone to school herself.
"Nothing's wrong, Mom. School's great." It was. But I wondered,
still, if she hadn't been right in wanting me to stay at Christ
I felt Dad's eyes on my face and ignored the instinct to avoid
themthe same way I had to fight not to avoid Mom's and Chris's
for most of that year, still only managing to look at their eyes, in-
stead of into them, like focusing on the glass of a window instead
of seeing through it.
It wasn't until summer that I could admit the doubt that plagued
me, even to myself. At camp. Pilgrims' Progress Summer Youth
Camp, which Mom had founded when I was eight years old.
Pilgrims' Progress Summer Youth CampPPSYC, which
Chris started calling Psych for shortwas Mom's special project.
The brochurewhich Chris and I helped to stamp and label,
sent out to churches all over Southern Californiadescribed it
as "an experiential summer learning program for Christian children,
firmly rooted in the teachings of Our Lord and Savior, Jesus
Spreading the Good News was a family tradition spanning four
generations, a glorious one that I knew I would one day follow.
My great-grandfather was The Reverend Paul Pelton. The. If
you know anything about the evangelical world, you've heard of
him. He was the son of an Oklahoma preacher, born just after the
First World War, who took off to circle the globe as a missionary
just after the second one, wife in tow. Their only daughter, Faith
Peltonmy maternal grandmotherwas born in China. When
she was ten years old, her parents brought Grandma Faith to the
States for a visit. It was her first time on American soil.
They arrived just in time to see Elvis Presley make an appearance
on The Ed Sullivan Showone of his first, before they decided
to cut his pelvis out of the shot. There and then, shocked by
what he saw that night in grainy black-and-whiteElvis making
love to a bunch of screaming girls with his voice, swinging and
gyrating in a way that must have looked, to him, like wild, simulated,
non-missionary sexmy great-grandfather decided to stay in the
States, realizing that while he'd been away, spreading the Good
News to poor, ignorant souls who would otherwise have perished,
the Christian nation he called his ownthe land of the Puritans
from whom he was descendedhad itself been lost.
Two years after he decided to stay in the States, Great-grandpa
Pelton's book, Evilution, was published. It was a bestseller, and
made him a hero in conservative Christian right circles. Years
later, Great-grandpa Pelton's fame helped to inaugurate his grandson's
career in the same medium that had so horrified him when
he returned to the States. Uncle Ron, Mom's brother, moved more
than a hundred miles north from home in Garden Hill, a suburb of
San Diego, to the suburbs of Los Angeles, becoming the youngest
ever televangelist, launching a weekly TV show when I was
still a kid. Uncle Ron said his mission was to turn Hollywood into
Mom carried on the tradition, too, in a more quiet kind of way.
Her focus was children. My brother and me. Our cousins and all
the kids from our congregation. From the beginning, the camp
she foundedPPSYCwas a family affair. As the camp director,
Mom practically became everyone's mother for the two weeks
we spent in the hills of Southern California, making sure all the
kids were well-fed, always locked and loaded with plenty of Bactine
and Band-Aids. Grandma Faith, who was a nurse, spending
most months of the year off on medical missions around the
world, sometimes joined us, flying in just in time from someplace
far away. Uncle Ron would make an appearance, even televising a
sermon from camp once. Dad was in charge of the nuts and bolts
of the operationliterally. He's a carpenter and handyman and he
was the one who rigged up all the fun stuff beforehand. The
construction of the elaborate obstacle course, under Mom's direction,
was his baby. And the obstacle course was what did me in.
Every day, after breakfast, we'd jog through tires and try to swing
over Sloughs of Despondhuge mud puddles specially hosed
down so that there was no way to avoid getting covered in muck if
we let go of the Rope of Faith. We ran through the woods, hiked up
rocky hills, through "valleys" of Humiliation and Shadows. Most
of the obstacles were named for the path that Christian's journey
takes in John Bunyan's Pilgrim's Progress, symbolic landmarks on a
trek of faith carefully designed by Mom every summer to illustrate
a specific detail of the allegory of salvation that was one of Mom's
favorite booksthe reason, she said, that she was a Christian.
Before we even learned to read, Mom gave Chris and me our
own copies of the book at Christmas, stuffed into our stockings,
explaining later how the March sisters in Little Womenanother
book Mom was a big fan of, chock-full of subtle and overt references
to John Bunyan's seventeenth-century Puritan classichad
gotten the same gift from their mother in the frugal days of sacrifice
during the Civil War. She always jokes that part of the reason
she married Dad was that his last name was March. She named my
brother Christian, after the pilgrim in Bunyan's work. She named
me Josephine, after the tomboy in Little Women. Josephine March,
aka Jo, just like my namesake.
I loved camp. But not as much as Chris did. He was the first to
finish every project, every treasure hunt, every race. Except for
one year, when we had a crazy, mixed-up race that Mom called
The Give Place Race. The idea was to be last.
The race began right after breakfast. When Mom said: "Ready,
set, go!" no one moved. Not one step was taken. Eventually, we all
sat down. We sat and sat, giggling at first. It felt like hours passed,
even if it was only a few minutes. We weren't allowed to talk. Some
of us bowed our heads and prayed. Then Dad wheeled out a gas
barbecue and fired it up just beyond the finish line. We watched
him, hyper-alert, as if we hadn't just stuffed ourselves at breakfast,
while he carefully opened a package of hot dogs. Then another.
Mom laid out all the fixings. Dad took out a cooler and propped
it open so that we could see the delicious assortment of sodas it
contained. Bags of chips were brought out, too, and displayed at
one of the picnic tables near the finish line. And potato salad. One
by one, taking each other's measure, most of the kids started to
move, taking steps, slowly, haltingly, giggling again, toward the
Only my brother, Chris, sat patiently, still at the starting line,
chalked in white at the beginning of the dirt track. I tried to hang
in there with him for a while. But I was bored and hungry and
more than a little hot. I crept forward, still hanging far behind the
Pete McGraw was in the lead. This was no surprise: Pete had
never yet managed to demonstrate any of the virtues of a spiritual
pilgrim that Mom's carefully crafted curriculum required,
destined to be sent home from camp the very next year, expelled
permanently, for climbing up on a crate to peek into the girls' bathroom.
When Pete reached the finish line, which was within sight of
the start of the race, he hesitated for a long time before finally stepping
over. Mom patted him on the back and congratulated him.
Pete had been afraid before. Now he smiled and nodded happily.
Mom handed him a hot dog, a Coke, and a bag of chips. The boy
took them, muttering thanks, still painfully aware that by the rules
that Mom had set up, he had lost the race. After a second, he ripped
into the bag, popped open the soda, and took a big bite out of the
The rest of us drooled at the sight. Within seconds, we were all
right there beside him, claiming our own hot dogs, bags of chips,
and cans of soda. Mom stood to the side, her eye on the stopwatch
she had held and not yet needed. I had barely taken one bite of my
hot dog, savoring the taste of the mustard and relish, only had time
for one swig of pop, when Mom blew the whistle around her neck.
Loudly. She advanced on us with a big trash can in hand, taking
everything away from us to dump. Then she stood at the finish line
and beckoned to Chris, the only one among us who had never
wavered from the start. As Chris approached, she gathered the same
treats for him as she had for us. She handed them to Chris, who
took them warily. Mom led him to the picnic table, where none of
the rest of us had bothered to sit.
"Take your time, Chris. There's no hurry. Not for you, who
has had patience," Mom assured Chris. She watched for a moment
as Chris dug into his meal and then whipped out her worn pocket
copy of The Progress, opened the book to a marked page, and read:
"Passion of the men of this world; and Patience, of the men of that
which is to come. For as here thou seest, Passion," Mom gestured
to all of us who had finished first, ". . . will have all now. . . . So are
the men of this world; they must have all their good things now;
they cannot stay till next year, that is, until the next world, for their
portion of good. But first must give place to last . . ."
We, those who represented Passionand lack of Patience
sat and watched as Chris finished his first hot dog and then had
another. At that point, Mom decided that we had all suffered enough
in the way of a good lesson and passed us all another round of
hot dogs, saying, "You get it don't you? That this world is temporary?
So are all the prizes in it. Here and gone before you know
it. The real reward, the one worth waiting foreverlasting life in
Heavenis what it's really all about."
None of us were surprised that Chris was the one who "won"
the race. He took himself very seriously at camp, embracing the
identity of the pilgrim he was named for with a conscientious zeal
that none of the rest of us could ever match.
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