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Sympathy for the Devil: Four Decades of Friendship with Gore Vidal
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Sympathy for the Devil: Four Decades of Friendship with Gore Vidal

by Michael Mewshaw
 

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Detached and ironic; a master of the pointed put-down, of the cutting quip; enigmatic, impossible to truly know: this is the calcified public image of Gore Vidal--one the man himself was fond of reinforcing. "I'm exactly as I appear," he once said of himself. "There is no warm, lovable person inside. Beneath my cold exterior, once you break the ice, you find

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Detached and ironic; a master of the pointed put-down, of the cutting quip; enigmatic, impossible to truly know: this is the calcified public image of Gore Vidal--one the man himself was fond of reinforcing. "I'm exactly as I appear," he once said of himself. "There is no warm, lovable person inside. Beneath my cold exterior, once you break the ice, you find cold water."

Michael Mewshaw's Sympathy for the Devil, a memoir of his friendship with the stubbornly iconoclastic public intellectual, is a welcome corrective to this tired received wisdom. A complex, nuanced portrait emerges in these pages--and while "Gore" can indeed be brusque, standoffish, even cruel, Mewshaw also catches him in more vulnerable moments. The Gore Vidal the reader comes to know here is generous and supportive to younger, less successful writers; he is also, especially toward the end of his life, disappointed, even lonely.

Sparkling, often hilarious, and filled with spicy anecdotes about expat life in Italy, Sympathy for the Devil is an irresistible inside account of a man who was himself--faults and all--impossible to resist. As enlightening as it is entertaining, it offers a unique look at a figure many only think they know.

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Publishers Weekly
09/08/2014
In this memoir about his friendship with Gore Vidal, Mewshaw (Lying with the Dead) proposes to offer a “corrective portrait” that will reveal the vulnerability beneath the legendary writer’s legendary hauteur. To be sure, Vidal was known for his scathing wit, several examples of which are amusingly recounted. When actor Andy Garcia, for instance, indicates that Mewshaw, not Vidal, is his favorite author, the catty Vidal tells his friend, “You can have all the dyslexics.” Elsewhere, we read of Vidal’s penchant for discussing “celebrity equipment” with guests, his long-standing vendetta against the New York Times, and his “rich history of hypochondria.” But as amusing as these anecdotes are, Mewshaw’s book is best when probing its subject’s true character. Vidal is revealed to have been an avid protector of his own public persona, at one point making Mewshaw tell the London Review of Books that Vidal planned to sue the magazine for libel. Vidal’s real self is more elusive: in one episode, he claims to have fathered a daughter so he won’t be tied down to one sexual identity, and in another he tells a story about an adolescent affair with the “love of his life,” which Mewshaw later learns might not be true. To Mewshaw’s credit, readers will share his sadness as he watches his dear friend, the oft-irascible, even unlikable Vidal, decline. 8 pages of b&w illus. Agent: Michael Carlisle, Inkwell Management. (Jan.)
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“Michael Mewshaw's Sympathy for the Devil, his reminiscence of Gore Vidal, proves easy to praise--swift, canny, sensitive, and unafraid.” —John Domini, Bookforum

“[Mewshaw's] Vidal is brilliantly alive, raunchy, as easily offended as he is quick to give offense--and then, finally, desperately self-hating, vituperative, and alone.” —Julia M. Klein, The Boston Globe

“Michael Mewshaw knew Vidal as a friend for nearly forty years, and he pays his respects to him in this affectionate, sympathetic biography. [Sympathy for the Devil is] a thoroughly entertaining, breezy and up-close memoir about a public man of 'wealth and taste' who prided himself on his pride.” —Tom Lavoie, Shelf Awareness

“Fascinating . . . Sympathy for the Devil might be the perfect Vidal biography because it reveals a figure that is more human - more flawed, more interesting, more real - than the caricature that the public came to accept as the bona fide Gore.” —Doug Childers, Richmond Times

“Exceptionally entertaining.” —Michael Dirda, The Washington Post

“Mewshaw develops a picture of his friend as quixotic, a devoted life-mate to his companion Howard Austin, an avuncular if not fatherly figure and often a raging provocateur at dinner parties, banquets and conferences-except when he's not. Mewshaw records a lot of sharp, witty one-liners which, as he reveals, Vidal practiced and polished before he delivered them. And the vast amounts of alcohol the writer imbibed on a daily basis reveal him to be a contradictory character . . . A study of friendship with a famous man, easy to admire and difficult to love.” —Alan Cheuse, NPR, All Things Considered

“In Sympathy for the Devil, Michael Mewshaw removes the mask to reveal a man much more complexand tortured than most fans of Vidal's writings might ever have dared imagine . . . The decline andfall of Gore Vidal is a painful but perversely exciting read. Behind the patrician veneer was clearly a troubled man.” —Robert Collison, The Toronto Star

“A companionable account that finally succeeds in living up to its title. The reader, too, will feel sympathy for the old devil . . . there is little doubt that Mewshaw's affection for Vidal is genuine.” —James Campbell, The Times Literary Supplement

Library Journal
01/01/2015
Author Mewshaw (Short Circuit; Do I Owe You Something?) recounts 40 years of friendship with the late author Gore Vidal (1925–2012) in this memoir, profiling one of the towering figures of 20th-century American letters during the second half of his epic life. Mewshaw attempts to bring a more balanced picture of Vidal, contrasting a public persona of irony and misanthropic pronouncements by highlighting some of his better traits. He is most successful—and entertaining—by bringing to life Vidal's wit and intellect through scenes that allow readers to believe they are eavesdropping on a particularly witty and erudite dinner party. He is best at describing the American expatriate literary and cultural scene in Italy where Vidal and his companion spent much time from the 1970s onward. Considering that much of the book takes place during Vidal's later life, there is a palpable sense of decline and aging as the narrative progresses, and Mewshaw does not shy away from discussing this. VERDICT While this is not—nor is it meant to be—a full examination of Vidal's life and work, it does add another layer to the multifaceted story of an American original, a tale still being unveiled, that will interest Vidal fans. [See Prepub Alert, 7/7/14.]—James Collins, Morristown-Morris Twp. P.L., NJ
Kirkus Reviews
2014-10-01
Vidal unvarnished: the private life of an aging provocateur.Near the end of this memoir of life with Gore Vidal (1925-2012), novelist and journalist Mewshaw (If You Could See Me Now, 2011, etc.) writes that he prefers to remember how "generous and hospitable" Vidal was. "Not at all the bitchy, mean-spirited man his critics imagined." It's an odd conclusion to a book that, if anything, makes the opposite case. Mewshaw knew Vidal well, as a friend, interview subject, dinner companion and part-time expat neighbor in Italy, but the relationship clearly tested his patience. As he writes, "[Vidal] embodied Goethe's dictum that ‘the world only goes forward because of those who oppose it.' And those who oppose it have to expect to take their lumps." Although he never denies Vidal his assets—literary brilliance, productivity, loyalty, professional and financial help to others—Mewshaw was also clearly worn out by the older writer's boorishness, self-absorption, and apparent decadeslong ambition to eat and drink himself to death. As the author sees it, Vidal's lordly, self-satisfied demeanor was something of a ruse; he was also beset by demons—old resentments, vindictiveness, oversensitivity to slights—which he battled with alcohol and pills. Luckily, he also had a hardy constitution; Mewshaw recalls one evening after the next seeing Vidal drinking enough wine or whiskey to slay an ox, only to get up the next morning and write. Consequently, the book counterbalances Vidal's airbrushed self-portrait in Palimpsest (1995), which Mewshaw writes "wasn't so much a memoir as a novel with a thoroughly unreliable narrator." Mewshaw gives a good inside picture of Vidal's domestic life, as well as showing his fears, vulnerabilities and full-time dependence on his 50-plus-year partner, Howard Austen, whose death in 2003 left Vidal with little more than alcohol for consolation. Mewshaw's account is more devilish (and sometimes downright cruel) than sympathetic, but it's also well-written, funny and never boring. Literary lives don't get dishier.

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ISBN-13:
9780374280482
Publisher:
Farrar, Straus and Giroux
Publication date:
01/13/2015
Pages:
224
Product dimensions:
8.30(w) x 5.70(h) x 0.90(d)

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Sympathy for the Devil

Four Decades of Friendship with Gore Vidal


By Michael Mewshaw

Farrar, Straus and Giroux

Copyright © 2015 Michael Mewshaw
All rights reserved.
ISBN: 978-0-374-71119-1


CHAPTER 1

The air was hot and sodden with humidity, and although it was October, a summer thunderstorm felt imminent. We caught a bus crammed with commuters and careened downhill to Trastevere through the evening rush hour — one of the four traffic jams that Roman drivers endure each day. Cars stalled us on Ponte Garibaldi. I didn't mind. The bridge offered mesmeric views of the Tiber and of the dome of St. Peter's, gleaming like a bishop's miter off to our left.

The delay also gave me a chance to collect myself and calm my wife, Linda. We were about to meet Gore Vidal, renowned for his acerbic wit and cutting remarks about those who didn't measure up to his exacting standards. Having watched him on television mete out discipline to the likes of William F. Buckley and Norman Mailer, I preferred not to imagine the mincemeat he might make of an American couple in Rome for a year with their six-month-old son.

A mutual friend had passed along Vidal's number and urged me to call him. Over a staticky phone line I recognized the frosty patrician voice that had launched a thousand insults and sparked countless literary feuds. Vidal didn't so much invite us as summon us to his apartment for drinks.

We jumped off the bus at Largo Argentina, a fenced-in square of excavated ruins; fluted columns and cypress and pine trees sprouted from brick rubble. It was one of those precincts of Rome where some ancient buried secret appeared to have burst through the surface of the modern city for the purpose of reminding people that there is no end to the history, no easy explanation of the mystery, of the place. And no explanation of its citizens either. Dozens of old black-shawled crones had arrived for the evening shift, bearing bowls of pasta to feed the mangy cats skulking through the ruins. The resemblance of these women to priestesses propitiating deities made me think we would have been wise to bring Vidal a gift.

At the corner of Corso Vittorio Emanuele and Via di Torre Argentina, the gray-and-mustard-colored Palazzo Origo, shabby despite its august name, had shops on the ground floor, including one of the largest bookstores in the city, a branch of the Feltrinelli chain. On higher floors, the palazzo housed offices, a language school, and private apartments. Gore Vidal occupied the penthouse. When I pressed the intercom at the building's entrance, a crackling voice told us to take the elevator "all the way to the top." But the elevator, a cage about as big as the holding pen in a county jail, wasn't functioning, and Linda and I had to climb flights of stairs whose grimy iron railings and scalloped steps called to mind a Piranesi prison sketch. The hall smelled of garbage and cooking oil, and behind one door a man was shrieking. Perhaps he had been driven mad by the babble of televisions.

Vidal called out to us that kids from the language school must have vandalized the elevator again. At least the screaming madman was locked up today. He said he sometimes had to whip the poor fellow back into his apartment with a dog leash.

On the sixth and final floor — l'ultimo piano, as Italians call it — we entered a high-ceilinged salone where a fluffy Australian terrier leaped from an armchair and yapped at our heels as we advanced onto a terrace that looked to be the size of a tennis court. While we paused to catch our breath, Vidal asked what we wanted to drink, then shouted for a servant to bring two scotch and sodas.

Sipping a glass of white wine, he identified a couple of the church domes that bubbled above Rome's skyline.

"That's Sant'Andrea della Valle," he said, "the setting for Tosca, act 1. And there's St. Ivo, with the corkscrew lantern on top."

Flocks of starlings wheeled overhead — circumflexes of black beating against storm clouds. A gusty wind harped through potted palms and a vine-laced trellis. Vidal stepped over to the terrace railing, and Linda and I followed him and glanced down at Largo Argentina. Cars and buses swerved around the ruined temples like scavengers scuttling past meatless bones. The racket of their horns and squealing tires was deafening; a haze of exhaust fumes stung my eyes and throat.

Undeterred by the noise and pollution, Vidal instructed us — he was, I would learn, a relentless lecturer — that Largo Argentina had been one of Mussolini's extravagant urban renewal projects. In a devious effort to demonstrate that fascism had recaptured the grandeur of the classical city, Il Duce had had marble slabs dragged from other archaeological sites and deposited here for dramatic effect.

In profile, Vidal's face might have been a cameo carved on an ancient medallion — high forehead, aquiline nose, and slightly swollen, slightly insolent mouth. A bit under six feet tall, he had an upright, almost military bearing and wore a blue blazer and gray gabardine trousers, an outfit I would see him in so often I came to regard it as his uniform. At the age of fifty — he had celebrated this milestone on October 3, 1975 — his midsection had given in to gravity and showed a bit of loose flesh. Despite a reputation for vanity, he was self-deprecating about his appearance and joked that he used to be the handsomest man in Rome. "Now I'm just another ruin."

When it started to rain, we returned to the salone, a hodgepodge of styles and eras, personal memorabilia and motifs. Gilt-framed mirrors reflected an antique marble bust, a stone lion, Indian wood carvings, an Aubusson tapestry picturing three Dutchmen slaying a wolf, and photographs of Princess Margaret, Jack and Jacqueline Kennedy, and Tennessee Williams. A polite visitor might have regarded the decor as a display of one man's eclectic tastes. A connoisseur might have judged that the collector couldn't make up his mind.

At a sideboard, Vidal poured himself a refill of white wine, and as a Sri Lankan houseboy served Linda and me our scotch, Gore delivered a discourse on drinking. No amount of wine, he swore, was as bad for you as hard liquor. "That's the killer — hard stuff." This pronunciamento was followed by one about sex. "Think how many American men kill themselves with two or three highballs before dinner, then wine with a heavy meal. Then they jump right into bed and have sex. My father had a heart attack in middle age. It didn't kill him, but he was never the same again. The trick is to arrange for sex in the afternoon and save the booze and food for afterward."

As the storm intensified, the terrace shutters banged back and forth. Gore didn't bother to close them. "That's it," he said with finality. "Summer's over."

He settled into an armchair, the dog nestled next to him, and Vidal caressed his high-strung pet. The scene seemed out of sync. He had, after all, famously remarked, "I am exactly as I appear. Beneath my cold exterior, once you break the ice, you find ice water." Yet here Gore was sweet-talking a nervous dog named Rat.

A short, stocky, freckle-faced man dashed into the salone and slammed the doors against the rain. "I don't guess it occurred to you," he said bristling at Gore. "Where's hashish?"

My first thought was that he meant to roll a joint. But when Gore said, "He's in the kitchen," I realized they were talking about the houseboy. For decades, the help chez Vidal changed on a regular basis but was always referred to as Hashish or LBP, short for Little Brown Person. With not the slightest nod to political correctness, Gore salted his conversation with references to nig-nogs, fags, and kikes. It wasn't just that he was a product of his era and upbringing; he seemed to delight in saying the unsayable.

He introduced Howard Austen, his companion of twenty years. Like Gore, Howard wore a blue blazer, but with blue jeans faded at the knees. Ginger-haired and fizzing with energy, he had about him the grit and spunk of New York City, the kind of cockiness that served notice that you'd better take him on his own terms or not at all. In his mid-forties, he still came across as a scrappy street kid, undaunted by Vidal's Olympian aplomb. "What the hell?" he said. "Do you know you have a hole in your shoe?"

Gore examined his sole. "Well, it was good enough for Adlai Stevenson."

Howard muttered that Gore just didn't give a damn — a lament I would hear him repeat many times over the years. While he fixed himself a drink, a skinny, bedraggled woman arrived shaking a soaked umbrella. Dowdy, ill-fitting clothes added to the impression of a lady down on her luck. But Gore said Dorothy James was in Italy working on an Al Pacino film, Bobby Deerfield.

"A bit part," she demurred. "If it wasn't for Gore, I'd never have gotten it. I've had health problems, and he helped with my doctor bills."

He waved off her gratitude with an indolent whisk of the hand. Though not immune to compliments about his books, he had no interest in gratitude or praise for his charity.

"Don't listen to her. Dorothy was in Brigadoon and Kismet."

"Not that you'd know that from the credits."

Gore shrugged and delivered a signature line, borrowed from Oscar Wilde: "No good deed goes long unpunished."

While Dorothy James, Linda, and Howard fell into conversation, Gore asked me what we were doing in Rome, and when I said I was on sabbatical from the University of Texas, based at the American Academy, he mentioned that he had researched his novel Julian in the academy library. This led to a discussion of his work habits. "I write in the morning at a table, longhand on yellow legal pads, just like Nixon, when I'm doing fiction. Typewritten when I'm working on an essay or film script."

He stayed at it three or four hours a day, he stressed, and never let houseguests or his social life disrupt his schedule. It nettled him that he had a reputation as a writer who went to too many parties, wasted too much time in Hollywood, and hobnobbed with too many celebrities. In a career of more than thirty years, he had produced a dozen novels, five plays, several collections of essays, and a series of mysteries under the pseudonym Edgar Box. His historical novels, in particular, were time-consuming enterprises dependent upon years of research, all of which he did himself. He wasn't one of those wealthy bestselling authors, he wanted me to know, who hired legions of assistants to do his donkey work.

"Before I start a new novel," he said, "I go into training. I check into a spa, give up alcohol, and fast for a few days to clear my head. I'm no romantic. To write what I do, I have to be able to think. If you know anything about literary history, you know Henry James and Edith Wharton led far more active social lives than I do, and it never harmed their writing." Then, perhaps to tweak my nose, he joked that a steady diet of dinner parties couldn't possibly dry up one's juices as quickly as teaching creative writing.


* * *

It was nearly nine by the time the rain stopped and Vidal suggested we go out to eat. He knew a neighborhood trattoria that had a wood-fired oven and "the best pizza in Rome. The kind with thin crust and not too much cheese."

I hadn't expected this. In retrospect, I don't know what I had expected, but certainly not an invitation to dinner. In a curious fashion, despite his princely bearing, he struck me as slightly melancholic, eager for company, reluctant to have the evening end.

Opposite the entrance to his building, there was a snack bar, Delfino's. "Don't worry," Howard said. "We're not going to that dump."

"I go there for the homemade potato chips," Gore said.

"Admit it. You go there for the American college boys," Howard corrected him.

As we strolled through the warren of streets between Largo Argentina and the Pantheon, the cobblestones, lit by shopwindows, gleamed like the scales of a carp, and Gore provided nonstop commentary. On Via dell'Arco della Ciambella, the remains of the Baths of Agrippa were tufted with weeds and wildflowers, and the semicircle of the ruins, he pointed out, suggested half a donut, accounting for the street's name.

The stores on Via dei Cestari called to mind the designer boutiques on Via Condotti, but instead of Gucci shoes, Valentino gowns, and Bulgari jewelry these shops specialized in religious haberdashery. Mannequins decked out as priests and nuns modeled cassocks, wimples, and sensible canonical underwear.

In Piazza della Minerva a marble ensemble erupted from the pavement, as skewed as a dream from the deep subconscious. Atop a pedestal there perched an elephant that bore on its back an upright Egyptian obelisk. "Bernini," Vidal identified the sculptor.

An indifferent prep-school student, he never attended college, yet had made himself into a polymath who assumed that everybody shared his earnestness about knowledge of all sorts. He also assumed people would appreciate his correcting their grammar — "It's different from, not different than" — and their pronunciation. "It's flack-sid with a hard c, not flas-sid," he admonished me.

At the pizzeria, he declared, "The best Italian food is simple. Anytime they get fancy or try something foreign, they foul it up. Rome is the only city in the world where a Chinese restaurant opens one week with great fanfare and by the second week it's serving bucatini all'amatriciana."

"You can't blame them for liking their own food," Howard said. "No place in the world can you get pasta as good as in Italy."

"It's the local ingredients," Vidal agreed, "and the water that gives things a distinctive taste."

This was one subject on which he voiced no sarcasm. His love of food was unironic and abiding. But he had to watch his weight and that night he ordered only a salad and a plain pizza margherita. In a matter of minutes, however, he was swiping fistfuls of French fries from Linda's plate. Howard chided him, "Jesus, Gore, you're such a glutton. Next thing you'll be stealing leftovers off other tables."

Gore ignored him and asked me about our mutual friend, who had been diagnosed with multiple sclerosis. He was eager to learn the symptoms of the disease, its prognosis and etiology. "I take my hypochondria very seriously," he said.

Although he did most of the talking, he wasn't averse to being interrupted and didn't dismiss opposing views with the kind of peremptoriness that his TV persona might leave one to fear. He was also far funnier and more irreverent than on the Carson or Cavett shows. His conversation crackled with punch lines. Of the French novelist Françoise Sagan, he said, "She's a magnum of pure ether." Then, as if to prove he was no chauvinist who favored American writers, he asked, "What are the three saddest words in the English language?" After a beat he answered, "Joyce Carol Oates."

We discussed American authors who had lived in and written about Italy, and while we both agreed that Henry James was the best of the lot, he also spoke admiringly about a man I hadn't heard of — John Horne Burns — and a novel I hadn't then read, The Gallery. Although Burns had blasted The City and the Pillar as "a dismal failure" and disparaged Vidal as "our principal rival in the welterweight division," Gore bore him no ill will and told me Burns had been "hounded to death by fag-baiters at the age of thirty-six." In print he had praised Burns's "extraordinary intuition and brains [and] a compassion which has been unequaled by his dry, careful contemporaries who commit as little as possible both emotionally and artistically."

This wasn't, however, to say that he personally approved of Burns, who had, in his opinion, hastened his demise by heavy drinking. It was another object lesson, Gore explained, of the dangers of alcohol. In an interview with Martin Amis in The Sunday Telegraph, he had gone so far as to claim that he left the United States "because I didn't want to become an alcoholic, basically. They are all there, for some reason. Fitzgerald, Hemingway, and Faulkner are the classic examples, but it didn't stop with them." His reiteration of this theme prompted a suspicion that I was listening to a man who maybe protested too much.


(Continues...)

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Meet the Author

Michael Mewshaw's more-than-four-decade career spans fiction, nonfiction, literary criticism, and investigative journalism. He is the author of, among other titles, the nonfiction works Life for Death, Short Circuit, and Between Terror and Tourism: An Overland Journey Across North Africa; the novel Year of the Gun; and the memoirs Do I Owe You Something? and If You Could See Me Now. He has published hundreds of articles, reviews, and literary profiles in The New York Times, The Washington Post, The Nation, Newsweek, Harper's Magazine, Granta, and many other international outlets. During the winter he lives in Key West, Florida, with his wife, Linda; he spends the rest of the year traveling in Europe and Africa.

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