The Book Of Bae: A Dating & Discernment Journal for Soft Life Baddies

by NICOLE GOSS

Overview

The Book of Bae: A Dating & Discernment Journal for Soft Life Baddies
Date smarter. Feel deeper. Choose yourself first-every time.
The Book of Bae is not your average dating journal. It's a soft, sassy, soul-stirring guide for baddies who are tired of breadcrumb energy, emotional confusion, and situationships that steal their shine. This 90-day guided experience is for the woman who's ready to lead with clarity, intuition, and main character energy-whether she's healing, dating, or detoxing from love entirely.

Created with intention for plus-size baddies, Black women, and those reclaiming their soft life, The Book of Bae helps you center your worth instead of centering someone else's potential. This is about dating from a place of self-respect, not survival.

Inside this one-of-a-kind journal, you'll find:

Product Details

ISBN-13:	9798319686503
Publisher:	Barnes & Noble Press
Publication date:	09/07/2025
Series:	BOOK OF BAE , #1
Pages:	294
Product dimensions:	5.00(w) x 8.00(h) x 0.80(d)

About the Author

Nicole Goss, also known as Thee Galavanting Bae, is a Chicago-based flow artist, educator, and embodiment guide known for helping women reconnect to their bodies, boundaries, and joy. As a plus-size Black woman who found her way back to herself through movement and emotional regulation, Nicole brings a grounded, playful, and deeply sacred approach to healing and self-discovery.
She’s not just a creator—she’s a liberator of stuck energy, a champion of softness, and a mirror for those who are ready to stop shrinking and start living fully in their truth.

Nicole began her journey as a single teen mother navigating survival, societal pressures, and the weight of expectations. Her healing didn’t come in a straight line—it came in spirals: through hula hoop dance, nervous system work, spiritual rituals, and years of unlearning the belief that she had to perform to be loved. Her lived experience, community care roots, and background in reproductive justice give her a unique ability to hold space for transformation with empathy and clarity.

Nicole created The Book of Bae because she knew firsthand how dating could trigger our deepest wounds—but also how it could be an invitation to rise. After years of cycles, situationships, and emotional disconnection, she began dating differently: with intention, discernment, and joy. She wanted to build something she wished she had—a tool to help women, especially those often left out of mainstream wellness spaces, date with self-trust and sacred standards.

Her work centers plus-size baddies, Black women, and those who crave truth-telling, body wisdom, and freedom from toxic dating patterns. Whether she’s teaching hoop dance for nervous system regulation, leading movement-based workshops, or writing empowering affirmations, Nicole reminds us all that pleasure, peace, and protection are our birthrights.

Through The Book of Bae and her other offerings, she invites you to slow down, soften, and show up for yourself with more intention than ever before. Because healing isn’t about being perfect—it’s about being present. And you, my dear, are worth every drop of clarity and connection you're calling in.