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The Complete Idiot's Guide to Enhancing Sexual Desire: Red-Hot Strategies to Boost Your Desire
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by Judy Ford MSW, LCSW, Rachel Greene Baldino MSW, LCSW
Judy Ford MSW
The Complete Idiot's Guide to Enhancing Sexual Desire: Red-Hot Strategies to Boost Your Desire
272
by Judy Ford MSW, LCSW, Rachel Greene Baldino MSW, LCSW
Judy Ford MSW
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Overview
Staying focused on one of lifes greatest pleasures ...
From setting the stage and setting aside sex time to natural and chemical stimulants and enchancers to a wide variety of mechanical and visual erotic aids, this guide offers expert advice from two noted sex therapists. It helps couples overcome busy schedules, fatigue, and distractionsand keep sexual desire not only alive and well but charged with total satisfaction.
From setting the stage and setting aside sex time to natural and chemical stimulants and enchancers to a wide variety of mechanical and visual erotic aids, this guide offers expert advice from two noted sex therapists. It helps couples overcome busy schedules, fatigue, and distractionsand keep sexual desire not only alive and well but charged with total satisfaction.
Product Details
ISBN-13: | 9781440626333 |
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Publisher: | DK |
Publication date: | 12/04/2007 |
Series: | COMPLETE IDIOT'S GUIDE Series |
Sold by: | Penguin Group |
Format: | eBook |
Pages: | 272 |
File size: | 766 KB |
About the Author
Judy Ford, MSW, LCSW, is a licensed clinical social worker and bestselling author who specializes in romantic and familial relationships. Some of her books include Every Day Love: The Delicate Art of Caring for Each Other, Wonderful Ways to Be a Family, Single: The Art of Being Satisfied, Fulfilled, and Independent, and Getting Over Getting Mad: Positive Ways to Manage Anger in Your Most Important Relationships. Articles about her work have been published in Glamour, Cosmopolitan, O, the Oprah Magazine, and many other publications. Ford keeps a regular speaking schedule in addition to her psychotherapy practice.
Rachel Greene Baldino, MSW, LCSW, writes a relationship column for the health and wellness website SixWise.com. She is the coauthor of Success as a Foster Parent: Everything You Need to Know About Foster Care and The Complete Idiot's Guide to Enhancing Sexual Desire, and the author of the ebook Loving Simply: Eliminating Drama from Your Intimate Relationships.
Rachel Greene Baldino, MSW, LCSW, writes a relationship column for the health and wellness website SixWise.com. She is the coauthor of Success as a Foster Parent: Everything You Need to Know About Foster Care and The Complete Idiot's Guide to Enhancing Sexual Desire, and the author of the ebook Loving Simply: Eliminating Drama from Your Intimate Relationships.
Table of Contents
Let's Talk About Sex 1
Stages of Love 3
It's an Ever Changing Landscape 3
The Honeymoon Stage 5
The Bonding or "Welcome to Reality" Stage 6
The Conflict or "Power Struggle" Stage 8
The Individuation and Reunification Stage 13
The Unconditional Love and Acceptance Stage 14
The Link Between Sex and Intimacy 17
Just Between Us 18
Sexual Chemistry 19
The Generous Gesture 20
Being Lovers and Friends 21
Expressing Your Sexual Self 21
Crossing the Communication Divide 22
The Power of Empathy 23
Common Ground and Compromise 24
Commitment to the Goal 24
Practical Communication Tips 25
Are You Listening? 25
Everyone Loves a Flirt 21
Let Your Fingers Do the Talking 28
Handling Disagreements Effectively 29
Take Five 29
Stay Focused 30
Compromise and Be Respectful 30
The Many Roles of Sex in Your Life 35
Let's Play! 36
Bedroom Antics 37
Just Have Fun with It 37
Dance with Me 38
Remember When 39
Anticipation and Sex 42
Reward Yourselves 43
Sexual Stress Relief 44
An Emotional Release 45
Setting the Stage 45
Let's Touch 46
Energy and Hormones 46
Your Connecting Point 48
Nonsexual Stress Relief 48
Walking 49
Deep Breathing 49
Hobbies 49
Treating Yourself 49
Escaping 49
Vacations 50
Routines and Rituals 50
Meditating and Visualization 50
Source of Rejuvenation 51
A Creative Outlet 52
The Great Distracter 53
Ultimate Solace 53
Spiritual Connections 54
Moments of Transcendence 54
Time Out of Time 54
The Here and Now 55
A Self-Esteem Booster 55
Your Safe Haven 56
All the World's a Stage 57
Dropping Your Guard 57
No Need to Be Shy 58
The Power of Love 58
Getting In Touch with Your Sensuality 59
Physical Turn-Ons 61
Rediscovering Your Sexuality Together 62
Public and Private Displays of Affection 63
Tantalizing Talk 64
Deep Talk Versus Hot Sex 64
The Sorbet Rule 65
Getting In The Mood for Love 66
Dressing the Part 67
Sexy Mainstream Movies 67
Erotic Reading Material 68
Pornography 69
Hot Sex For Committed Couples 70
We All Contain Multitudes 71
Naughty and Nice 73
The Art of Seduction 74
Your Partner's Pleasure Is Your Pleasure 75
Erogenous Zones 75
Take Some Initiative! 76
Senses for Sex 76
What You See Is What You Get 76
Sounds Like Love 77
Scent of a Partner 78
Touch Me, of Course! 79
That Tastes Good 80
Talk to Me, Baby 81
An Occasional Change of Scenery 82
Anytime Is a Good Time 82
Tantric Sex 83
The Latest Scientific Research 84
Arousing Findings 84
What Women Want 85
Emotional Turn-Ons 89
The Building Blocks of Love 90
The Ultimate Emotional Turn-On 92
Your Personal Intimacy Style 93
Universal Emotional Turn-Ons 94
Calvin and Alice 95
Making Babies 96
It's the Journey, Not the Destination 96
Actions Speak Louder Than Words 97
Expressing Appreciation 98
The Domino Effect 99
Past Sexual Experiences 99
Trouble in Paradise 100
Taking "the Long View" 102
Feeling Sexy 105
Get Comfortable with Yourself 106
Skin Is In 106
Sexy at Any Age 106
Turning Lemons Into Lemonade 110
Self-Acceptance 113
Those Voices in Your Head 114
Your Voice of Sexual Desire 116
Open-Minded And Open-Hearted 117
Blame Is Lame 117
Avoid Negative Terminology 118
"Absolutely," Not! 118
Don't "Should" All Over Yourself 119
The Sky Is Not Falling 119
Low Expectations 119
Quit Complaining! 120
Mirror Meditation 120
Media Mistruths 121
Perfect Body Image 122
They're Not So Perfect After All 122
Reality Is Not the Movies 123
Sexy, Sensual, and Healthy Living Habits 124
The Sensualist's Approach to Living 126
Sexual Desire and Comfort Food 127
Sexy Food Habits 128
Meal Time 128
Love Bites 129
Mindful Beverage Consumption 130
Preparing Sexy Meals Together 130
Almighty Exercise 131
Get Your Heart Pumping 131
Flex Your Muscles 132
Stretch for Sex 133
Good Slumber Makes for Great Sex 133
Your Personal Space 135
Prioritizing Your Relationship 137
Couple Time 139
What Is Couple Time and Why You Need It 140
Don't Let Life Get in the Way 140
Be More Than Just Ships Passing in the Night 140
How to Get and Stay Connected 142
Keep In Touch 142
Get Back in the Sex Habit 143
Accentuate the Positive 143
Simplify and "Sexify" Your Lives 145
Pare Down to Pair Up 145
Housework Never Felt This Good! 146
Relax Together for Better Sex 146
Be Fully Present 147
Make Your Bedroom Your Getaway 147
Turn Off the Phone, and Turn On the Passion 148
Sexy Ways to Shift Gears and Decompress 148
When Couple Time Turns into Family Time 149
It's a Date! 150
Scheduling Date Nights 150
Spontaneous Date Nights 151
How You Like It 152
Getting a Babysitter 152
Doing Couple Hobbies and Activities Together 153
Family Time 155
No Children of Your Own 156
Waiting to Have Children 156
Taking the Plunge 157
The Infant, Toddler, and Preschooler Years 157
Post-Delivery Sex Drive 157
Your Affections 161
Emotional Turn-Ons of New Parenthood 162
The Elementary School Years 162
The Preteen and Teen Years 163
The Challenges of Teenagers 164
The Pluses of Teenagers 165
The Empty-Nest Years 166
Menopause Myths 166
More Time For What You Want 167
Pleasant Surprises 168
A Loving Family Home 169
Promising Research on Arousal 170
Keep Communication Heartfelt 171
Flexibility Is Key 171
Practical Tips for New Parents 172
Knocking and Noise 172
Tag-Team Parenting 173
Babysitting Options 173
Remember Your Social Life 174
The Remedy for Child-Centered Households 174
Achieving the Ultimate Blend 175
Work Time 177
The Human Need for Love and Work 178
Supporting Each Other's Careers and Dreams 178
Inspiring Each Other's Best Work 180
Career Change Is Inevitable 182
Blurred Lines Between Work and Home 182
When Both Partners Work at Home 184
When Partners Are Colleagues 185
How Work Interferes with Love 187
Work Burnout 187
When Work Is Your Whole Identity 189
Being a Workaholic 190
Sexual Teamwork 193
Creating a Sexual Partnership 194
The Three Ts of Sexual Teamwork 194
Time 195
Talk 195
Touch 196
Being a Sexual Team Player 198
It's Funny What Turns You Both On 199
Sexual Fantasies and Scenarios 199
Have Enthusiasm for Sex 200
Sex Codes and Signals 201
Take Control of Your Sexual Desire 202
A "Beginner's Mind" Approach 203
Quality, Not Quantity 203
Avoid Comparisons 204
Keep Sex Front and Center 205
Take Your Time 205
When You Don't Have Time 206
Have Reasonable Expectations 207
"A Quickie" Review 207
Be a Team for Sex 207
Help for a Struggling Sexual Team 209
Appendixes
Bibliography and Resources for Further Reading 211
The Case of Low or No Sexual Desire 215
Index 235
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