Help Yourself Overcome Emotional Trauma!
The Deeper Wound is the first book I have seen specifically aimed at dealing with the psychological and spiritual issues raised by the terrorist attacks on the United States on September 11, 2001. The book is also designed to be of help to people struggling with any emotional wound. I was pleased to see that a portion of the publisher and author receipts will go to the Red Cross and other humanitarian charities. Dr. Chopra left for Detroit from New York City on a flight that departed 45 minutes before the first plane crashed into the World Trade Center. His flight was diverted, and he worried as he realized that both his wife and his son were in the air on separate flights to Los Angeles and San Diego at the same time. 'My body went absolutely rigid with fear.' Even after he found out that they were all right 'my body still felt as if it had been hit by a truck.' Later, he thought, 'Why didn't my body go stiff when innocent people died through violence in other countries?' As he traveled over the next few days, people everywhere reached out to him for guidance and support. That is what inspired this book. Dr. Chopra uses these perspectives to point out that we have to move beyond hate and revenge. Unless we help remove the sources of the hate, the deeper wound that caused the attacks will continue and cause new problems. I thought that this was an unusually wise and helpful comment. He goes on to honor three people who died in the planes that crashed into the World Trade Center. In honoring them, he encourages us to take up the torch to becoming the healers whom we all need so much now. If you know Dr. Chopra's work, it comes primarily from the perspective of Transcendental Meditation and the ancient writings upon which that practice is based. There is also an overlay of reincarnation, and an expression of reality in quantum physics terms. Although I am familiar with all of these areas, I had never seen them applied to the issues of how to handle mass death of innocents, grieving, and recovery. So my personal understanding was widely expanded. Naturally, if your religious beliefs give you direct support in these dimensions, you should expect that your religious teachings will not exactly match what Dr. Chopra describes. He takes on the tough issues. What is the meaning of all of these deaths? What does the act say about good and evil in the world? And most importantly, what can we do to help others and ourselves deal with this terrible tragedy and other more personal tragedies? I admired his honesty and candor in addressing the most troubling issues so directly. Where possible and appropriate, he shares his own experiences with tragedy, death, and grieving. Half of the book is a series of essays on subjects related to the tragedy. The other half is devoted to 100 days of spiritual guidance expressed as affirmations, insights, lessons, and exercises. Each thought is supplemented with a page worth of material to explain how to use the idea. Some will cause you to meditate. Others will shift your focus. Others will expand your awareness. For example, one thought is 'As I give loving awareness, so I receive it also.' Another is, 'I will break through the illusion of numbness.' The final one is, 'The only reality is love.' The basic focus of the book is to move you away from focusing on your ego, to the concerns of your soul expanded to their widest perspective. This is because 'evil is an extreme form of egotism.' At the same time, your focus should move from darkness to light. At the most open of 7 circles of existence, you will know 'joy with detachment.' He also describes the emotional states that people go through after a traumatic event: fear; shock; numbness; helplessness; vulnerability; panic; anger; anxiety; and depression. The book has excellent thoughts for how to reshape your focus to help move your emotions beyond those specific stages . . . so you don't become stalled in any of them
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