The Friendship Crisis: Finding, Making, and Keeping Friends When You're Not a Kid Anymore [NOOK Book]

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As seen in the New York Times, Self, Fitness, Real Simple, Health, Ladies' Home Journal, and Redbook, this much-praised celebration of women's friendships explores the keys to forming emotionally supportive and sustaining connections at every stage in life.

When Marla Paul returned to a Chicago suburb after a 5-year stint in Dallas, she found herself without the true core of friends she once had there or the close circle of pals she enjoyed while in Dallas. Bewildered and ...

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The Friendship Crisis: Finding, Making, and Keeping Friends When You're Not a Kid Anymore

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Overview

As seen in the New York Times, Self, Fitness, Real Simple, Health, Ladies' Home Journal, and Redbook, this much-praised celebration of women's friendships explores the keys to forming emotionally supportive and sustaining connections at every stage in life.

When Marla Paul returned to a Chicago suburb after a 5-year stint in Dallas, she found herself without the true core of friends she once had there or the close circle of pals she enjoyed while in Dallas. Bewildered and frustrated at how hard it was to make new friends, Paul felt like the only one not invited to the party.

So she wrote about her experience one Sunday in the Chicago Tribune, and later in Ladies' Home Journal. But she was embarrassed. She thought she was the only one having a hard time. Was Paul alone? Hardly. The response was overwhelming.

Women across the country began contacting Paul with sentiments and experiences echoing her own. Using feedback from hundreds of women, as well as interviews with top friendship experts, she began writing a regular column on women's friendships for the Chicago Tribune, casting light on this previously silent problem of epic proportions.

Now, she brings her culled wisdom to women everywhere, proving to them that they are in friendly company. Focusing on major life events that can crack and even shear a friendship—having (or not having) children, becoming divorced or widowed, moving, leaving the office to stay home—Paul charts a path to find new friends and community. Other chapters include finessing the inevitable challenges to friendship, like conflict, jealousy, and feeling neglected; creating a neighborhood community; finding Internet pals; and closing the generation gap on friendship. She also explores the behaviors that wreck a friendship and the ones that strengthen it.

With creative and solid tried-and-true tips for finding, making, and keeping friends, Paul shows us that laughter and friendship needn't end just because we aren't kids anymore.

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At some point in their adult lives, nearly all women have wished for more or closer friends with whom they can share life's ups and downs. Journalist Paul offers readers ideas on how to make and maintain these relationships in almost any situation. In Part 1, she looks at the "thieves" of friendship: the competing ties of marriage and motherhood, lack of time owing to work and family responsibilities, and the loss of friends owing to divorce, moving to a new area, or entering or leaving the work force. Then, in Part 2, Paul examines the need for friends and presents suggestions for building a community of support regardless of one's place in the life cycle. Throughout, she relates suggestions and anecdotes about building friendships based on her research and interviews. While other books explore the philosophy of friendship, this one shows how to make friends and is strongly recommended for public libraries.-Kay Brodie, Chesapeake Coll., Wye Mills, MD Copyright 2003 Reed Business Information.
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Product Details

  • ISBN-13: 9781623361082
  • Publisher: Rodale
  • Publication date: 2/10/2005
  • Sold by: Barnes & Noble
  • Format: eBook
  • Sales rank: 438,012
  • File size: 392 KB

Meet the Author

MARLA PAUL, a freelance journalist who has written for such publications as The Washington Post, Family Circle, and Ladies' Home Journal, writes a column on friendship for a nationally syndicated section of the Chicago Tribune. She lives in the Chicago area.
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