The Healing Choice Guidebook: Move Beyond Betrayal [NOOK Book]

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A True Compass to Guide You Beyond the Devastation of Broken Trust. 
 
When you experience a betrayal of intimacy in your marriage—whether through your husband’s struggle with pornography or through outright infidelity—you need a wise and understanding counselor to guide you safely through raging storms of guilt, anger, bitterness, and resentment.
 
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The Healing Choice Guidebook: Move Beyond Betrayal

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Overview

A True Compass to Guide You Beyond the Devastation of Broken Trust. 
 
When you experience a betrayal of intimacy in your marriage—whether through your husband’s struggle with pornography or through outright infidelity—you need a wise and understanding counselor to guide you safely through raging storms of guilt, anger, bitterness, and resentment.
 
This powerful guide, a companion to The Healing Choice, walks you step by step through the process of personal healing, leading you to grow deeper in your relationship with God and equipping you to find healthy support in the company of other women who understand your pain.
 
You’ll discover how to…
· recognize your spouse’s emotional cycles and patterns of behavior—and your own
· sort through your emotions in healthy and effective ways
· gain deeper personal insights through the Bible and prayer
· engage in a support group in ways that encourage healing
· establish boundaries and ascertain whether it is safe to trust again and more.
 
Created by women who understand firsthand the devastation caused by sexual betrayal, this guidebook offers the practical help you need to move beyond your pain and find hope for genuine healing.
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Product Details

  • ISBN-13: 9780307499011
  • Publisher: The Doubleday Religious Publishing Group
  • Publication date: 1/4/2012
  • Sold by: Random House
  • Format: eBook
  • Pages: 160
  • Sales rank: 1,122,293
  • File size: 2 MB

Meet the Author

Susan Allen
Brenda Stoeker is a registered nurse, mother of four, and seasoned marriage teacher with life experience in rebuilding a broken marriage. Together she and her husband, Fred, have counseled hundreds of couples struggling with issues related to sexual brokenness.
 
Susan Allen is a counselor who specializes in helping women create and maintain effective support groups in churches and communities throughout the country. With husband Clay, she is the cofounder of Avenue, a ministry centered on healing and restoration from sexual brokenness.
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Table of Contents


Welcome     1
Preparing for the Journey     3
Reeling from Shock to Anger     9
Moving from Mourning to Hope     17
Red Flags     25
Fear     33
Passive Responses     43
Counterproductive Reactions     55
When a Boundary Is Breeched     67
Boundary Enforcement     77
Why a Man Takes This Detour     83
The Whole Truth...in Love     105
Decisions: Stay or Divorce     119
Deciding on Separation     125
What's Really Possible     139
Help Pave the Way for Others     143
Acknowledgments     145
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