The In-Between: Embracing the Tension Between Now and the Next Big Thing

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We're an "instant gratification" generation, but the trouble is, most change happens gradually.

Most of us spend our lives searching and longing for something more than what is in front of us. Whether it's traveling abroad or chasing cheap (or expensive) thrills, we're all looking for medicine to satisfy our restlessness. And, so often, we're looking in the wrong place.

The In-Between is a call for all of us to accept the importance that ...

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Overview

We're an "instant gratification" generation, but the trouble is, most change happens gradually.

Most of us spend our lives searching and longing for something more than what is in front of us. Whether it's traveling abroad or chasing cheap (or expensive) thrills, we're all looking for medicine to satisfy our restlessness. And, so often, we're looking in the wrong place.

The In-Between is a call for all of us to accept the importance that waiting plays in our lives. In this spiritual memoir, Jeff Goins reveals the unexpected good that came from his times of waiting. And he encourages us to embrace the extraordinary nature of the ordinary and enjoy the daily mundane, what lies in between the "major" moments.

Moments of breakthrough are not where life's greatest transformation happens; the stuff that God uses to shape us often lies in the in-between. It's the bus stops and layovers and DMV lines and moments of unintentional pause that force us to become better people.

That's not to say there aren't moments of epiphany. There are. It's just that most of us find ourselves living somewhere in the in-between. Learning to live in this tension, to be content in these moments of waiting, may be our greatest struggle...and our greatest opportunity to grow.

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Jeff Goins has penned a beautiful reminder that time is sacred, of how even ordinary moments brim with heaven, and that great souls are forged in the crucible of delay. What a delight.
Ian Morgan Cron, bestselling author of Jesus, My Father, the CIA, and Me: A Memoir...of Sorts and Chasing Francis: A Pilgrim's Tale 

If you find yourself in the quiet valley of waiting, Jeff Goins offers a kind voice in the silence. This gently honest book challenged me to surrender to the waiting moments rather than try to rush ahead to the next thing-a simply lovely read.
Emily P. Freeman, author of A Million Little Ways and Grace for the Good Girl

In the past few years I've had the honor of watching Jeff Goins transition from a writer into a thought leader and one of the most exciting next generation voices. In this book, you'll see why and perhaps even more importantly how he did it.
Jon Acuff, New York Times Bestselling author of Start

Jeff Goins is a master wordsmith. And this book is no exception. In it, he uses his personal journey and struggles to paint a poignant picture of what life could be like if you stopped rushing and started embracing each moment-even those seemingly long moments when you're stuck waiting for the next thing. Instead of living life wishing you could jump ahead to the next adventure, these pages will inspire you to slow down and savor the in-between.
Crystal Paine, founder of MoneySavingMom.com 

According to Jeff Goins, life is more about waiting than we'd like. We try to avoid it at all costs. We linger over a past we can't repeat (or don't want to) or long for a future we can't reach. Either way we are not present to what is happening now. And that is precisely where the important stuff is happening. This book is a powerful reminder that we must embrace the 'long game' of life, if we are to experience the love, joy, and peace we seek.
Michael Hyatt, New York Times Bestselling Author, Former CEO of Thomas Nelson Publishers 

The In-Between is a happy little reminder to stop hating the waiting, a lesson I've had to learn over & over again.
Myquillyn Smith, author of The Nesting Place 

I distinctly remember, in second grade, thinking that my life would be perfect once I was a fifth grader-and so my thinking went until I was about 32. Needless to say, Jeff's book resounds clear to me, as a clarion call to live in the moment and make the most of life's waiting room moments. His storytelling is captivating and full of warmth and humor; this book is for anyone who loves to read stories about travel, wisdom, and redemption. I am thankful Jeff put into words the issue so many of us struggle with-how to be content when we live in-between.
Tsh Oxenreider, author and blogger at SimpleMom.net 

Jeff Goins retells his life-so-far story, pointing out the treasures found along the way, and I'm suddenly more aware of the overlooked richness of my own life. Unflinchingly transparent, gentle, moving, smart and instructive but never preachy, The In-Between is a lesson in living deliberately with eyes wide open right where we are.
Shaun Groves, songwriter 

For the adventurous heart, this book is a great reminder that some of the most exciting adventures happen right where you are. If you're anything like me, you feel bored sometimes by life, tired of waiting for the "next big thing," and a little too impatient to take things one day, one moment, at a time. The stories Jeff shares do a great job of reminding me to slow down and look around, because some of life's most important lessons, and best memories, happen while we're waiting.
Allison Vesterfelt, author of Packing Light: Thoughts on Living Life with Less Baggage 

I'm not good at waiting. I'm a traveler, I'm trying to get somewhere, and the "waiting" gets in my way. Then my friend Jeff emails me his new book, The In-Between. I began reading it on a flight in-between Tennessee and Texas, in-between one concert and the next, in-between busy and busier.  Jeff has inspired me to see the value in what takes place in my life not only at point A and point B, but in the space where there doesn't seem to be a point.  Jeff Goins wrote this book for me, and for anyone else who needs to embrace the waiting and exist in the in-between.
Warren Barfield, singer, songwriter, speaker

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Product Details

  • ISBN-13: 9781610457798
  • Publisher: christianaudio
  • Publication date: 8/1/2013
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  • Edition description: Unabridged
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Meet the Author


JEFF GOINS was born and raised outside of Chicago. After graduating from Illinois College, he spent a year on the road with a band and was once recognized on the streets of Taipei. An author, speaker, and writing coach, Jeff's work has been featured on some of the largest blogs in the world. He lives in Franklin, TN with his family. You can find him online at:www.goinswriter.com.
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THE In-Between

EMBRACING the TENSION BETWEEN NOW and the NEXT BIG THING


By JEFF GOINS, Bailey Utecht, Mandy Thompson

Moody Publishers

Copyright © 2013 Jeff Goins
All rights reserved.
ISBN: 978-0-8024-0724-5



CHAPTER 1

Siestas

SEARCHING for a BREAKTHROUGH


One foot off the plane in Madrid and assaulted by a cloud of cigarette smoke, I knew things were going to be different. In the States, people didn't stand in circles arbitrarily dubbed "smoking zones" and exhale carbon monoxide in innocent strangers' faces. Coughing while I passed such a circle, it dawned on me that I was going to be learning a lot more than Spanish that semester.

A two-hour layover, then we were on to our final destination: Seville.

After arriving in the city with fifty travel companions, I boarded a charter bus full of fellow wide-eyed American college students. As we drove around, gawking at palm trees and olive-skinned commuters, we migrated to our host homes.

Dropped off two-by-two, we settled into the places where we'd be living.

Upon arriving at Asturias Street, the bus was half empty. My heart beginning to thump, I readied myself to meet the people who would be my family for the next three and a half months.

Greeted at the door by a smiling four-foot-something woman, I felt warm lips pressed against both cheeks. My ears were overwhelmed by phrases I barely discerned to be Spanish. Her name was Loli, and she spoke so quickly and with such a thick accent that five and a half years of studying the language were instantly rendered useless.

Crossing cultures should have been easy. Having spent the previous summer in Texas away from my native Illinois, I figured an overseas jaunt would be a piece of cake. How different could another few months in a foreign place be? But despite the similarities in weather, Spain was no Texas. So far, nobody spoke a lick of English, and the people were far less friendly than those in the Southwestern United States.

A few months before going to Europe, my friend Dustin and I hopped into his Chevy pickup to drive sixteen hours from Springfield, Illinois, to Austin, Texas. That first night at the camp we'd be working at for the summer, we slept outside beneath the stars. That summer was full of adventure: we got into the best shape of our lives, grew out our hair, and learned to seize every day for what it had to offer. Dustin started swimming, and I fell in love with running. We were both obsessed with doing as much as we could so we would later have great stories to tell. Racing from one event to the next, never bothering to catch our breath or ask for directions, we refused to miss a thing.

I thought my time in Spain would be similar to my summer in Texas.

I was wrong.

My roommate, Daniel, arrived at Loli's home the day after I did. At first, Daniel and I didn't talk. Unlike my fast-paced summer camp mindset, he had a slower philosophy of life. Having grown up in Idaho, he spent his free time relaxing—and snowboarding. Maybe it was his upbringing or personality, but Daniel didn't seem to be bothered by much. Nothing ever stressed him out or caused him to rush. And frankly, this bugged me. I was in a hurry to do everything: to travel the world, meet new people, and begin my adventure. After we said our pleasantries, my roommate and I fell into our respective routines, which had little to do with each other.

A group of students from my study abroad program investigated some exchange opportunities that allowed us to teach Spaniards English while we learned Spanish from them. The practice was great, but the point was to build real relationships, to make lasting connections with locals. Simply learning and living in another city wasn't enough for me; I wanted more. It was a pride issue. I wanted an impressive story to tell, something more than the typical "I went to Spain, and all I got was this lousy T-shirt."

Halfway through the semester, one of the guys in our program started dating a Spanish woman, and that made me jealous. Not because I wanted to date her, but because I wanted the story. A Spanish girlfriend? Can you imagine what people would say? Back home, I had a girlfriend, but she was just an ordinary American girl. Her skin was slightly tanner than my pasty variety, but she didn't speak any foreign language fluently. And I was pretty sure she wasn't of gypsy descent—which equated to "boring" in my book. Truthfully, my girlfriend was prettier than my friend's Mediterranean beauty, but that didn't matter. What mattered was he'd done something nobody else did. And it drove me nuts.

I had to find a better story.

Packing my schedule with every activity I could find, I attended church events, frequented flamenco bars, and connected with university students for free language lessons.

Mornings in Spain ran on routine. Getting up around seven, I would jump into the shower to quickly bathe myself before the hot water ran out. Next was Daniel, who always maximized his sleeping time and took his time with everything else. Then, we'd arrive at the breakfast table only before we needed to rush out the door for school. In typical college-student fashion, we often procrastinated, trying to fit as much as we could into as little time as possible.

No matter when we sat down for breakfast, we'd always find Loli already there. It didn't matter how hurried we seemed, she always took her time. Each morning, she'd greet us with a smile and hot plate full of food, telling us to take our time as we scarfed down our toast. You have to understand something: Spanish tostado is nothing like a slice of crusty American carbohydrates pulled from a plastic bag and burnt beyond freshness. Tostado—at least in Loli's house—was a huge hunk of freshly baked bread, lightly toasted to perfection and smothered with whole-fruit mermelada that made store-bought jams and jellies back home seem flavorless. It took minutes just to apply the spread. Despite the deliciousness of the experience, I always tried to rush it.

When we finished eating, Loli would pull out a small Bible study booklet that Daniel and I took turns reading from every morning. Even when were in a hurry, she insisted on our spiritual nourishment before beginning our busy days. As sweet as this was, I initially found it frustrating. Didn't she understand we had somewhere to be? Or at least, I did. Instead of bustling around to accommodate our hurry; Loli would simply sit still, waiting as we gobbled our toast and gulped our juice. Then she'd ask one of us to read.

When it was Daniel's turn, we were in trouble. He joined the program with no previous education in Spanish, so it took him a long time to stumble through a five-hundred-word religious reading in a nonnative tongue. As my terrible luck would have it, those were the days we were running the latest.

After finishing the reading, we'd both spring out the door, jogging part of the mile-long jaunt to school.

The first part of the semester was full of frustration at moments that took longer than they "should" have. At Loli for holding us up. At Daniel for not knowing Spanish. At an entire culture for taking so much time to do, well, everything. For months, I blamed others for making me wait, for not conforming to my expectations. But eventually, I began to see the opportunity this afforded me.

About a month into the semester, Loli asked if I wanted to go on a church retreat with her. Daniel and I had been attending the church where Loli's older son, Juan, was the preacher. Each week, we left exhausted by the long services and hard-to-follow preaching. Learning Spanish in Seville was like learning English in the Deep South of the US: accents are thick and loose, and slang runs rampant. For a textbook learner, following a Spanish-speaking preacher from Seville can be confusing, if not completely disorienting. Despite this, I decided to go on the retreat. It'll be good for me, I thought, to get out of the city and see a slower side of life.

At the time, I'd been going out nearly every night for the past three weeks, staying up till three in the morning, sleeping a few hours, and then getting up for school the next morning only to doze off in class. It had started to wear on me. Maybe this retreat would be just that: a chance to recoil from my self-imposed busyness and reboot. I hoped so.

The weekend began as expected: long services with passionate preaching that sent me straight to sleep. I wanted to follow along, but regardless of how hard I tried, I couldn't keep up. Which is why this was the weekend I began drinking coffee. Never having the stomach for it, I was desperate for something to keep me awake during the drawn-out prayers and extended worship times. I had no choice.

Scooping a few heaps of Cola Cao into my espresso, I took my first sip of the drink and winced. Too strong. A few more scoops of the cocoa drink, add some more milk, and there—it tasted nothing like coffee. Perfect. I guzzled down the caffeinated beverage as if it were the elixir of life. And to me, it was. By the end of the weekend, I was a full-fledged café con leche addict.

Despite the coffee in my system, I still found the services hard to follow. The preacher, who was a guest of the church, spoke quickly and excitedly so much that I couldn't keep track of whether we were talking about Moses or John the Baptist. The vocabulary words and expressions he was using confused me even further. As I flipped through my dictionary in a fury and failing to find the word before he was on to another subject, I decided it was no use. He might as well have been speaking Yiddish.

In between services, I stepped outside for a breath of fresh air. Going for a walk will do me some good. Circling around the retreat center, I prayed for a miracle. I started to feel it was a mistake to have come here. Maybe to have come to Spain at all. As I thought this, a voice called out to me. For a second, I thought it was the Almighty calling back in response to my prayer. But then I heard it clearer the second time; it was a child's voice.

"Pepe!" came the voice from behind one of the brick buildings of which there was an abundance here.

A young boy appeared from behind the building and walked toward me.

"Soy Pablo," he said.

Ah, yes. The pastor's kid. As he approached, Pablo grabbed my hand and tugged at it. Curious, I let him lead me to a small, hut-like concrete house where he and the other children were playing.

Pablo introduced me to the group—there were six or seven of them, all gathered together. He pushed me to the front of the group and scooted a lectern in front of me. Yes, a lectern. And then he said the most bizarre thing I thought a kid could say: "Predica."

Preach.

As in, deliver a sermon. A message. A homily.

My jaw dropped. This was a joke, right? But it wasn't. The kids, as if on cue, all took a seat, their eyes fixed on me, some with Bibles open in their laps.

This is their idea of fun? Doing a pretend church service? I secretly wondered if this might be a cult.

But when I realized they weren't going to let me go until they heard some kind of message, I did what they asked: I preached. In Spanish, with my, bilingual Bible open to help me cheat, I did the best I could, improvising in places when possible. It wasn't eloquent, but the kids didn't mind, nor did they notice I was plagiarizing the entire commentary section from my Spanish New Testament. Throughout the course of my "message," the little ones occasionally emitted tiny "Amens" and spontaneously erupted in worshipful applause. "Alleluia!" one said when I stumbled over a word that was hard to pronounce.

The sermon concluded, and they all stood in unison to sing a song. Not knowing the words, I joined them, anyway. Their passion was contagious. They piously passed an offering plate and even dropped a few euro coins into it.

As the service came to an end, I glanced around, watching these kids emulate what they'd seen their parents do a thousand times.

Maybe, I thought, they aren't pretending at all.

At the end of the service, a little girl, not quite nine years old, approached me with her hand extended. Confused, I shook it.

"Gracias, pastor," she said. Thank you, pastor. But it was more than gratitude; it was a reminder. Literally, the word can be translated, "graces." Watching the little ones linger in this ramshackle sanctuary, shaking each other's hands, I smiled—struck by the beauty of the moment. Alter a month of trying not to fall asleep on Sunday mornings, I'd finally found a church service I could connect with. "Let the little children come to me," Jesus told the religious leaders (Matthew 19:14). Indeed, they did come, and they were generous enough to bring me along with them.
(Continues...)


Excerpted from THE In-Between by JEFF GOINS, Bailey Utecht, Mandy Thompson. Copyright © 2013 Jeff Goins. Excerpted by permission of Moody Publishers.
All rights reserved. No part of this excerpt may be reproduced or reprinted without permission in writing from the publisher.
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Table of Contents

Foreword by Shauna Niequist
Introduction: Life Between the Panels

Part One: Slow Down
Chapter 1: Siestas Searching for a Breakthrough
Chapter 2: Tracks Finding Your Way Home
Chapter 3: The Road Loving the Journey

Part Two: Worth the Wait
Chapter 4: Calling From Music to Words
Chapter 5: Courtship Love Takes Time
Chapter 6: Expecting The Path to Parenthood

Part Three: When the Waiting Ends
Chapter 7: Bookshelves Where Old Stories End
Chapter 8: Ice Cream What Really Matters

Conclusion
Notes
Acknowledgments

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  • Anonymous

    Posted October 18, 2013

    Jeff Goins has written another amazing book. He tells stories fr

    Jeff Goins has written another amazing book. He tells stories from his life that draws you in. His book teaches you, without being dry or boring, to embrace those moments in between the great things you do in life. It left me thinking of where I am right now and how I need to cherish these moments with my family. I highly recommend The In-Between to anyone that has ever had to wait on anything.

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  • Anonymous

    Posted October 15, 2013

    How we spend our days, according to Annie Dillard, is how we spe

    How we spend our days, according to Annie Dillard, is how we spend our lives."

    This is how the book begins. Jeff Goins sets the stage for where he will take us in his second book. The In-Between is a memoir full of stories that speak to deep truths and challenge us to see our own moments as opportunities for growth. It is divided into three parts.

    Part One: Slow Down
    Part Two: Worth the Wait
    Part Three: When the Waiting Ends

    I love the format and felt the progression as I read. Goins builds on each chapter, in a way, and I was torn with quickly getting to the end and savoring every page. There is much to absorb and I will return to this book many times. It is a beautiful reminder to embrace those moments in life where we wait, to see the journey is about who we are becoming, and to not miss out on what is already in front of us. Joy is abundant if we will see it. Take time to read The In-Between and prepare your heart to embrace the journey you are on.

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  • Posted October 15, 2013

    Waiting. We have all hated it, enduring it with white knuckles a

    Waiting. We have all hated it, enduring it with white knuckles as we tapped our feet. Now we don't have to.
    We can reframe how we look at our waiting times. Dare I say, we can even look forward to them.
    Why? Because according to Jeff Goins, those In-Between times are essential. There are God moments waiting to happen
    if we'll just let them. Goins knows about waiting and decided to share what he's learned with us. Honestly, this is the best book
    I've read in a long time. One I'll read again and again. It's honest, to the point. He tucks in humor, and his style is easy to follow.
    But even more, you won't leave the book empty-handed. He will give you something you can apply. Something you can take with you
    for now. For later. For always. If you have no trouble waiting, pass on this book. But, if you're like most of us. You gotta read it.

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  • Anonymous

    Posted October 15, 2013

    We all have an In-between . . . Jeff has a way of gently remindi

    We all have an In-between . . . Jeff has a way of gently reminding me that my now is more important than where 
    I am going or where I have been.

    A great author gives us pause to evaluate for ourselves.  Jeff does this beautifully.  

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  • Anonymous

    Posted October 15, 2013

    This is the book you are looking for. *Said with rotational palm

    This is the book you are looking for. *Said with rotational palm wave*

    Jeff has pulled back the veil from life's seemingly mundane moments and has revealed the awesome wonder that is encapsulated in every human experience. Life is about these moments. Life is about The Now.

    Jeff not only bears a striking resemblance to Luke Skywalker, but the Force is strong with him as well. When Chuck Norris was a young man he was lost and without direction. Jeff Goins gave him the round-house kick. Before The Most Interesting Man in the World was interesting...he was just "That Guy with the Beard." Jeff Goins gave him Dos Equis.

    Now is the time to purchase The In-Between. Your life will be forever changed.

    This is the book you are looking for.

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  • Anonymous

    Posted October 15, 2013

    I don't know exactly when I first discovered Jeff Goins's writin

    I don't know exactly when I first discovered Jeff Goins's writing, but since that day I've thoroughly enjoyed everything that I've read.

    Writing with both conviction and familiarity, reading Goins is like having a conversation with an old high school buddy. You instantly know that he cares not only about what he's writing, but that he also cares about you too, the reader. You find yourself nodding in agreement and smiling because you feel like you've known him for a long time, even though you've never met.

    That's why I was thrilled when I got my hands on an advance copy of his latest book, The In-Between, which is set to release on August 1. Published by Moody Publishers, The In-Between takes you through the seemingly most mundane and typical seasons of the author's life, with a twist. He chronicles studying abroad, a train ride home, courtship, his wife's pregnancy and a ton more by seeing the day-by-day as the true engine of growth.

    By the middle of the book, let alone the end, The In-Between had me wanting to slow down and take in all the sights and smells that I've been too busy to notice before. It made me want to linger, to cherish.

    Perfectly subtitled, "Embracing the tension between now and the next big thing", Goins's latest work spins his tales with the art of a Twain and philosophizes with the pointedness of a CS Lewis. He wins by making you want to slow down and live. To treasure the moment and memorialize it in your mind instead of capturing it with your iPhone.

    He makes you think by writing, "God is less concerned with exactly what I'm doing and more concerned with who I'm becoming."

    He echoes the biblical truth that it's better to give than to receive by reminding us, "...when we pour out our gifts and talents, we receive abundantly more than we ever provide."

    But for me, the quintessential Goins-ism was this one:

    "Our journey is full of rest stops - park benches and airport terminals - that signal the arrival of things we anticipate. Sometimes they're worth the wait; other times, the glory doesn't shine quite like we'd hoped. Regardless, we need to learn to live in this tension, to appreciate what we have and still hope for. This process isn't easy; we all know that. But it's part of being human and it's what connects us to each other."

    If it were a hard copy that I read, I'd tell you that I couldn't put the book down, but since I had the Kindle version, it's more like, I couldn't turn it off.

    My only complaint? I would have preferred a little more "how" and "why" in exchange for a little less "what". I'm not fussing, but I could've had a few more classic lines like this one: "In the waiting, we become."

    And, just a little bit less narration.

    So, if you're the kind of person that's moving from one thing to the next with neck breaking speed...if you are that guy who can't relax on vacation because of the strict time schedule that you've imposed upon your entirely family...if you're at all like me and what I'm trying hard not to be, then walk, don't run to the book store on August 1st or 2nd or 3rd and pick up a copy of The In-Between.

    Take your time, but do it. You won't be sorry.

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  • Anonymous

    Posted October 15, 2013

    This book is a must read for any personality type. For hyper ov

    This book is a must read for any personality type. For hyper over-achievers like me...it was God sent. Jeff weaved beautiful stories and wisdom in a way that will be with me forever. This is a book that I will read every year. Laura Harris

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  • Anonymous

    Posted August 28, 2013

    ¿A life filled with movement, with constant movement and no rest

    “A life filled with movement, with constant movement and no rest stops, isn’t a life at all. It’s tourism.”  

    Jeff Goins expands on his personal revelation, inviting the reader along on the experiences that taught him the importance of enjoying life’s ordinary moments. Whether traveling through Europe or sitting through a red light, Jeff shows us the magic that can be found in those moments. 

    “The irony is that when we think we are standing still, we are actually growing the most.”

    Jeff’s conversational writing style draws the reader into his experiences. He doesn’t write as a guide who’s blazed a new trail, but as a wanderer who’s learned to find joy with each step. 

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  • Posted July 30, 2013

    Jeff has done it again - written a book that will open your eyes

    Jeff has done it again - written a book that will open your eyes and your heart to a new way of living. Beautifully written. Goins shares his heart and experiences with a world full of busyiness and a lack of understanding when it comes to waiting. (Myself included).

    May you walk away from this book with wisdom, patience, and a longing to absorb the in-between.

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  • Anonymous

    Posted July 30, 2013

    In his book, The In-Between, Jeff Goins takes us through a serie

    In his book, The In-Between, Jeff Goins takes us through a series of personal stories where he transparently shares his struggle with the in-between and offers a new perspective to benefit anyone who struggles with the process on the way to the destination.

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  • Posted July 30, 2013

    In his book, Jeff inspires us all to see our personal waiting pe

    In his book, Jeff inspires us all to see our personal waiting periods in a new light. No matter your age or season of life, there are things
    you have to wait for. The In-Between takes us on a journey through various seasons of Jeff's life, including his mission travels,
    meeting his wife, and becoming a father. So much wisdom packed in such a young man.  Through his own life lessons, Jeff
    encourages us to slow down, let go, and be grateful.

    This is a short, easy-to-read, yet very thought-provoking book. I would highly recommend it to anyone, of any age.  "A life filled with
    constant motion and no rest stops, is not a life at all. It's tourism." Jeff's book has challenged me to stop and reflect on my own
    waiting times. For the first time, I'm encouraged to see the lessons God has been, and still is, trying to teach me through those
    times. I'm now excited to be an active participant in what I sometimes see as `mundane" in my daily life.

    It's no surprise Jeff has quickly become a leader we all look to for writing, as well as life, advice. The only thing I disliked about 
    Jeff's book is that it ended so soon, and now I have to wait for his next one. But now, thanks to Jeff, I will find joy in my 
    inconvenience of the in-between. 

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  • Posted July 30, 2013

    Jeff has a way of creating ah-ha moments out of things that seem

    Jeff has a way of creating ah-ha moments out of things that seem to be obvious. We all know we wait, but Jeff's book brings a realization: There’s always something to learn in the in-between.

    Here’s the lesson. I hate waiting. I want to be in the “better” phase—the accomplished phase—now. But I’m not ready for that. I’m still growing. And even when I reach the next level, I’ll go right back into the world of waiting…and that’s ok. That’s where I spend time becoming my best. 

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  • Posted July 29, 2013

    The In-Between is a timely book which spoke a multitude to me. W

    The In-Between is a timely book which spoke a multitude to me. When I began reading it, I couldn't put it down.

    I have read everything Jeff Goins has written. For me, his writing is like eating my favorite ice cream. It's delicious.

    The In-Between are stories taken from Jeff Goins life as he shares the reasons why we should embrace the now and cherish waiting; the in-between moments in our lives.
    Sometimes we focus on the next big thing in our lives that we often miss the best moments which are right in front of us.
    I know I am guilty of this, which is why this book deeply resonates with me. I definitely wrestle with the in-between moments in my life.

    Jeff Goins is an amazing writer who is full of wisdom. I always get so much out of reading his books and blog.

    His book, Wrecked is one of my favorites, but now I believe, The In-Between is my new favorite.

    I highly recommend this amazing book to everyone. It is great!

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