The Leader's Pocket Guide: 101 Indispensable Tools, Tips, and Techniques for Any Situation
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| ISBN-13: | 9780814432327 |
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| Publisher: | AMACOM |
| Publication date: | 11/07/2012 |
| Sold by: | HarperCollins Publishing |
| Format: | eBook |
| Pages: | 224 |
| Sales rank: | 1,048,404 |
| File size: | 530 KB |
About the Author
JOHN BALDONI, president of Baldoni Consulting LLC, is an internationally recognized executive coach, speaker, and author. In 2011, Leadership Gurus International ranked John No. 11 on its list of the world's top 30 leadership experts. He is a regular online contributor to CBS MoneyWatch, Inc, and Harvard Business Review.
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THE LEADER'S POCKET GUIDE
101 INDISPENSABLE TOOLS, TIPS, AND TECHNIQUES FOR ANY SITUATIONBy John Baldoni
AMACOM
Copyright © 2013 John BaldoniAll right reserved.
ISBN: 978-0-8144-3231-0
Chapter One
1. How to Know Yourself BetterLEADERS WHO SUCCEED ARE THOSE WHO KNOW THEMSELVES inside and out.
While coming to terms with yourself is a private matter, failing to come to terms with your own limitations as a leader affects your ability to lead. Here are three questions leaders can ask themselves, or a trusted associate or two, about their own managerial performance:
What more do I need? This question might seem easy because a leader will always say she needs more time. Lack of time is often an excuse for failing to address simmering issues or to carry projects through to fruition. Ask yourself and others what you need to do more of; one possible answer might be "doing less." That is, learn to delegate more and devote your time to thinking.
What else should I be doing? By focusing on less, you may learn to delegate not simply tasks, but also responsibilities. Too often executives feel they need to be engaged in the work when their job is really to engage other people. Let your people do their jobs. If they can't, find out why. You may need to find employees with different skills sets or you may need to provide your people with additional training, resources, and manpower.
How do I accept feedback? "The day soldiers stop bringing you their problems is the day you have stopped leading them," says Colin Powell. "They have either lost confidence that you can help them or concluded that you do not care."
None of us welcome bad news about ourselves and our work, but self-aware leaders are those who not only accept it, but invite it, and even seek it out. They do so because they are continually learning.
2. Think More Critically
CRITICAL THINKING IS THE ABILITY TO EVALUATE OPTIONS, weigh alternatives, and make informed decisions.
Question assumptions. Critical thinkers ask questions and look to find the what and the why behind every proposition. Often we question assumptions when things go wrong. Crisis can bring out the best critical thinking because it forces you to question how and why you ended up in trouble.
Adopt different perspectives. Take advantage of the diversity represented in today's management landscape. An India-trained engineer may not view a problem the way one raised in Iowa will. Both may have the same problem-solving tool kit, but their different experiences provide valuable insights.
See potential. Busting assumptions and harnessing multiple perspectives are deductive skills. Critical thinkers should also have a creative bent that allows them to see opportunities where others see obstacles. For example, one executive may see a production snag as a problem, whereas a savvy thinker must view it as an opportunity to revamp the process to produce something new.
There is one additional aspect of critical thinking that is vital to today's leader: managing ambiguity. The speed of business, intertwined as it is with global factors and complex supply chains, dictates that you will never know all the variables. Therefore, you need to get comfortable with operating in an environment where change is constant and rapid decisions are required.
3. Character Trumps Perfection
INTEGRITY IS THE CORNERSTONE OF SOUND LEADERSHIP. It is what gives managers the character they need to insist on doing the right thing, as well as doing it the right way.
Integrity is not a process; it is a value that is practiced by individuals, managers and employees alike. So it matters what employees do and how they do it.
As a veteran executive once told me, hire for character. Don't expect to develop something that is not there. If a person lacks a moral compass, don't think you can give him one.
4. Yes, It Does Matter What People Think of You
SAVVY EXECUTIVES KNOW that brand is more than a product or service; it is the sum of how and why you connect with consumers and what they think of you.
Since leaders accomplish very little by themselves, they need to bring others together for common purpose. How others perceive the leader is important to encouraging followership.
Followership, which is based upon trust, is a reciprocal act. As historian and leadership author James MacGregor Burns teaches, people follow the leader because they have similar values.
A leader's reputation, therefore, is essential to creating trust, and in turn getting people to work together to achieve mutually beneficial aims.
5. Add to Your Leadership Brand
YOUR BRAND AS A LEADER is a reflection of how others perceive you.
Leaders are judged by their accomplishments, but those achievements occur only when others believe in the leader. A successful leader's brand relies upon this reciprocity. It's important that you nurture your leadership brand in the right way. Here are some suggestions:
Communicate by example. What a leader says is important, but what a leader does is even more important. People are more likely to follow a leader who follows through on what he promises and lives with the consequences. Failure to meet a deadline isn't necessarily a failure of leadership. Failure to set the right example is.
Stand by your convictions. The true mark of a leader is what she does when things are going poorly. Acting in the name of expediency is the ruin of many a promising executive. A decision is a leadership choice. Good leaders are those who stand up for what they believe and act on those convictions. They may not always win, but you know where they stand and what they stand for.
Radiate hope and confidence. Leaders need to give people a reason to believe in themselves. Leaders are those who can look over the horizon and see the possibilities of what lies ahead. Good leaders are those who can bring others along to see it too. Viewing the future with a sense of hope and then demonstrating confidence to make good things happen is fundamental to leadership.
6. Why Accountability Counts
ACCOUNTABILITY IS A CORNERSTONE of organizational cohesiveness.
A sense of accountability holds people responsible for performance and for results. Accountability lies at the root of leadership authenticity. A leader who does not hold himself accountable will find it difficult to lead others. Leadership provides a foundation for effective management: the operational rigor—processes, policies, and people—that must be in place to ensure that an organization runs smoothly.
Accountability underscores management because it reinforces getting things done right and done on time. A manager who is sloppy in his administration can try to hold people accountable for their results, but when management is loose, results will be sketchy, too.
While management is administrative, leadership is aspirational. It focuses on what must be done to ensure that the organization and its people succeed.
Accountability is essential because the leader must make difficult decisions. A leader who is not accountable to the organization will act in his own self-interest (or for a select few) rather than doing what the organization needs him to do: stand up for what is right.
7. Making the Choice to Manage
MOVING INTO MANAGEMENT is a huge leap of faith.
For many employees, it means giving up what they really love doing. That's why they're considered promotable in the first place: They're good at their jobs. But too frequently managers-to-be are not asked if they really want to move up, and worse, they're not prepared to manage others. So before you consider moving into management, ask yourself three questions:
Why do you want to manage? Technically competent employees typically enjoy their jobs. Many want to continue being designers, engineers, and scientists; management to them is administrative, not something worthy of their skill set. Ask yourself if you actually want to manage, and if so, why? More money and prestige may be incentives, but they aren't enough to sustain a career.
What job will you be giving up as a manager? As a manager you will be giving up what got you promoted in the first place. Your competence has been based upon what you do well, be it finance, research, design, or engineering. Moving into management means you will be supervising others who do what you did. You need to be comfortable with letting go of what you do well in order to help others do it.
Where will you go for support? Becoming a manager is a big challenge. Know where you can go for help as you learn on the job. A coach or mentor could be a big assist for you. Also seek out management training programs offered through your company or at a local business school.
8. Making the Choice Not to Manage
DON'T BE AFRAID TO SAY NO!
Some employees have the gumption (as well as the self-knowledge) to say no to a promotion.
Being a manager can be one step removed from doing work you love doing. Managers spend most of their time providing resources for others to do the work. It can be rewarding, but if you would prefer to focus on your skill set then management may not be for you.
If you are comfortable in your current job and others recognize your value, you can take satisfaction in knowing that you are pursuing your chosen passion rather than becoming a manager.
9. Develop the Confidence to Lead
ACCOMPLISHMENT NURTURES CONFIDENCE.
Identifying your moments of strength is not the same as writing your curriculum vitae; graduating from college and landing a good job are highlights, of course, but when it comes to self-confidence you want to dig beneath the surface. Here are three related questions you can ask yourself to help you uncover your successful self:
What do you do well? This question opens the door for you to itemize the abilities that have enabled you to succeed to date. Focus on your talents: what you do well. For example, you may possess strong conceptual skills. You may be one who can think strategically, a person who can look at the big picture and see opportunities where others see only blue sky. Such abilities are your strengths; you owe it to yourself to recognize them.
Why should people follow you? You need a strong sense of self to lead others, so consider how you assess problems and find solutions. Look at occasions when you have mobilized yourself and your team to tackle a tough assignment. Perhaps you took on a failing project and turned it into a winner. You also may have found ways to reduce costs and improve efficiencies when others said it was impossible. In these instances, and in others you can remember, you have given people a reason to believe in your ability to get things done.
What have you done to earn the trust of others? This question should provoke a recall of what you have done to instill followership. You may have defused a conflict between two colleagues, or took the lead on a nasty assignment that no one else wanted to handle. Or maybe you went out of your way to see that senior management recognized the efforts of your team. Likely you are known as one who holds herself accountable.
10. Project Confidence
SELF-CONFIDENCE RESTS ON THREE ATTRIBUTES:
Realism. Confident leaders are those who can look reality square in the face and not flinch. They possess an inner strength that enables them to size up adversity and remain true to purpose.
Reassurance. Leaders need to share their sense of confidence with their people. That does not mean that leaders must say everything is rosy. Reassurance emerges from addressing reality but also talking about what is going right and what individuals can do to improve a situation.
Resolve. The strength to persevere is a form of confidence. It does not mean that you have all the answers; in fact you may not have any, but you do know that as a leader your job is to hold the organization together until the situation brightens.
11. Three Ways to Regenerate Hope
THERE IS ONE LEADER in whom I have found nearly a boundless source of inspiration: Winston Churchill.
While history often remembers him at the height of his power as he led Britain through the terror of World War II, I like to reflect on the Churchill of 1915, tossed from the cabinet after the debacle of Dardanelles, which was an ill-fated plan to knock Turkey out of the Great War.
The Churchill of this period teaches us that we can recover from our mistakes if we take charge of our own recovery; this is something that should be familiar to any executive. However, action after adversity should be preceded by a period of reflection as well as rejuvenation. Here are three ways to make this happen:
Reflect. Take a step back, consider what happened, and examine the situation from all angles. Discuss with colleagues what went right as well as wrong. Assess your performance and consider what you might have done differently. Now that you know the outcome, use what you know to prepare for the future.
Recharge. Now, put the failure aside and find ways to reconnect with yourself. It may be through a regime of fitness or by spending more time with friends and family. Keep yourself occupied; do not dwell on yourself. Churchill painted. What might you do? Find something to reconnect your mind with your spirit. You may have lost a battle, but you did not lose your life. Keep thinking positively.
(Re)Act. You must do something. If you are in the same job, put lessons learned from failure into place. Debrief your team. If you are in a new job, find ways to leverage those bitter lessons in your new position. Know that you are a different person, in many ways a stronger one for having withstood the pressures of defeat. Channel your energies into your work, but keep in tune with yourself and the people close to you.
Understand that defeat is not the end. The Churchill of 1915 prepared the way for the Churchill of 1940 to become the savior of his nation.
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Table of Contents
CONTENTS
Prologue 1
SELF
Introduction 3
Research Says 4
1 . How to Know Yourself Better 5
2. Think More Critically 7
3. Character Trumps Perfection 8
4. Yes, It Does Matter What People Think of You 9
5. Add to Your Leadership Brand 10
6. Why Accountability Counts 13
7. Making the Choice to Manage 14
8. Making the Choice Not to Manage 16
9. Develop the Confidence to Lead 17
10. Project Confidence 19
11. Three Ways to Regenerate Hope 20
12. Act Like a Leader 22
13. Four Ways to Lead with Presence 24
14. Build Your Resilience 26
15. Avoid “Coulda, Shoulda, Woulda” 28
16. Get People to Believe in Themselves 29
17. Take Charge of Your Own Fears 31
18. Level with Yourself 33
19. What Are You Doing to Add Value? 35
20. Friends, Family, Health 37
Self-Assessment: Self 39
Action Tips for Self 40
COLLEAGUES
Introduction 41
Research Says 42
21. Put Integrity and Humility into Your Ego 43
22. Show Your Colleagues How to Think Critically 45
23. Use a Checklist to Lead 47
24. Use a Task List to Manage 48
25. Act Like You Own It 50
26. Practice Your Troubleshooting 51
27. Stop Spinning Wheels 53
28. Act with the Big Picture in Mind 55
29. It Takes a Strong Leader to Compromise 57
30. You Can’t Say “Not My Job”! 58
31. Defend Yourself Without Being Defensive 60
32. Practice Defending Yourself the Right Way 61
33. The Glass Is Half Full 63
34. How to Influence Your Colleagues 64
35. Lead Your Peers the Right Way 66
36. Help Your Team Avoid Burnout 68
37. Improve Team Performance 71
38. Optimize Team Success 72
39. Persuade Peers—Make It Personal 75
40. Support Your Teammates the Right Way 76
41. Get Your Team to Play Smart Together 77
42. Avoid the Niceness Disease 79
43. There Is a Positive Side of Conflict 80
44. Take Charge of Change 82
45. It Takes a Good Problem Solver to Compromise 84
46. Three Ways Strong Leaders Put the Team First 85
47. Help Colleagues Gain Outside Perspective 87
48. Turn Small Talk into Smart Talk 88
49. Lead Through Your Boss 91
50. How to Sell an Idea to Your Boss 92
51. How to Recognize the Signs of Hubris 94
52. How to Cure Yourself of Hubris 96
53. Coach Your Colleagues 98
Self-Assessment: Colleagues 100
Action Tips for Colleagues 101
ORGANIZATION
Introduction 103
Research Says 104
54. How to Instill Purpose in Your People 105
55. Make Your Leadership Relevant 106
56. Connect Authentically 108
57. How to Ask Good Questions 110
58. Manage with the Door Open 112
59. Visit Employees Where They Work 113
60. Lead for Engagement 116
61 . Make Your Off-Site More Engaging 117
62. Avoid Micromanaging Anything 120
63. Don’t Let Conflict Ruin Your Team 122
64. Questions for Leaders Facing Long Odds 124
65. Deliver a Reason to Be Urgent 126
66. Wield Power Gracefully When Making Decisions 128
67. Hold the Platitudes 130
68. Use Your Senses to Hire 131
69. Hire for Character and Integrity 133
70. What You Need to Ask About Your Company 135
71. Three Ways to Execute Better 136
72. Step Back to Lead 138
73. Don’t Give In to Defeatism 140
74. Generate Enthusiasm About the Work 142
75. Lead Like a Salesperson 143
76. Five Ways to Connect with Those Who Can’t Stand You 146
77. When the Going Gets Tough, Lead 148
78. When Things Go Wrong 149
79. Develop a Crisis Plan 150
80. Cut Out the Doom and Gloom 153
81. When Speaking in Front of a Hostile Audience 155
82. Put Principle over Policy 157
83. Build Common Cause 158
84. Defuse Discord 161
85. Right a Wrong 164
86. Questions to Help You Coach Your Employees 166
87. Buck Up the Team 168
88. Lead with Passion 170
89. Lead with Compassion 171
90. How You Can Add More Value to Your Organization 172
91. Are Your Employees Listening? 175
92. Four Ways to Reverse a Decision 177
93. Managing When You Cannot Disclose Information 180
94. Let Your Face Show You Are in Charge 181
95. Why Leaders Use Stories 184
96. Tell Your Story with Impact 185
97. Three Pillars of Inspiration 188
98. How to Inspire Others 189
99. When It’s Time to Hang It Up 191
100. Make Time for Yourself Outside of Work 193
101. Six Words to Lead By 195
Self-Assessment: Organization 197
Action Tips for Organizations 198
Handbook 199
Acknowledgments 203
Notes 205
About the Author 209