Little Book of Great Dates: 52 Creative Ideas to Make Your Marriage Fun

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Thought dating was a thing of the past? Think again!
Not only can dating your spouse strengthen your marriage, rekindle your romance, and deepen your connection—but dating is also just plain fun!
That’s why this Little Book of Great Dates offers you 52 creative, fun-filled ideas for spending time together talking, laughing, and connecting over shared activities. With imaginative suggestions for dates that are easy on the pocketbook, married and...
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Overview

Thought dating was a thing of the past? Think again!
Not only can dating your spouse strengthen your marriage, rekindle your romance, and deepen your connection—but dating is also just plain fun!
That’s why this Little Book of Great Dates offers you 52 creative, fun-filled ideas for spending time together talking, laughing, and connecting over shared activities. With imaginative suggestions for dates that are easy on the pocketbook, married and engaged couples will also value the conversation starters aimed at building emotional intimacy. Most of all, this little volume is a big promise to the one you love that more discoveries and an ever-deepening love are always on the horizon. Tyndale House Publishers
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Product Details

  • ISBN-13: 9781589977723
  • Publisher: Tyndale House Publishers
  • Publication date: 10/1/2013
  • Format: Leather Bound
  • Pages: 144
  • Sales rank: 597,996
  • Product dimensions: 4.00 (w) x 6.00 (h) x 0.60 (d)

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The Little Book of Great Dates


By GREG SMALLEY, ERIN SMALLEY

Tyndale House Publishers, Inc.

Copyright © 2013 Focus on the Family
All rights reserved.
ISBN: 978-1-58997-772-3



CHAPTER 1

A NEW YEAR'S DATE

The object of a new year is not that we should have a new year. It is that we should have a new soul.

—G. K. Chesterton


LET'S FACE IT, IN TODAY'S world the idea of New Year's resolutions is often met with a fair amount of cynicism. Resolutions were made to be broken, right? Whether it's losing weight or starting an exercise program or reading the Bible more, most people start with the best of intentions, only to discover by mid-February (if they even make it that long) that they've gotten completely off track.

But what if you could work on a resolution in partnership with someone else? That's the beauty of a marriage-related New Year's resolution! In resolving to invest in your marriage, to have a monthly date night, or to set other positive goals for your relationship, you automatically have someone in your corner who is pursuing the same goals and will encourage you in your resolution. Why? Because having a stronger marriage is something couples work on together. It's a resolution that can be accomplished only as a team.


ACTIVITY: With the idea of new goals and new beginnings fresh in your minds, consider making this a morning date. Rather than going out for dinner, go out for breakfast and talk about setting positive goals for your marriage while you're both fresh and wide awake. If you're typically not a morning person, be sure breakfast is accompanied by lots of coffee or a similarly caffeinated beverage! If breakfast isn't your thing, think about doing another morning activity together, such as working out, playing racquetball, or going for a hike.

QUESTIONS: Either during your activity or afterward, discuss the following Questions: What are some positive goals we can set for our marriage over the next six months? The next year? How can we work together to achieve these goals? Is there a specific area you feel God wants us to work on together, as a team, to make our marriage the best it can be?

CHAPTER 2

WE'RE A TEAM!

Coming together is a beginning, staying together is progress, and working together is success.

—Henry Ford


THE BEST TEAMS ARE PASSIONATE about their goals. If you're going to be part of a Super Bowl championship team, you need to do more than just wear the uniform. You need to be committed to your team's success. Individual players don't win games; teams win games. The same is true in marriage. Being married means doing more than just wearing a wedding ring. Rather, you wear the ring as a symbol of the commitment you made before God and humankind to be united. In every sense of the word, a husband and wife are a team.

The Bible reminds us that "the body is a unit, though it is made up of many parts; and though all its parts are many, they form one body. So it is with Christ" (1 Corinthians 12:12). And so it is with your marriage. Each of you brings your own personality, experiences, and viewpoints to the table, but at the end of the day, you work together as a single unit. That's the beauty of marital teamwork!


ACTIVITY: Here's a chance to have some real fun working as a team! Think of some invigorating, team-based activities that you and your spouse can work on together. Although date night should typically be reserved for couple time, this might be an occasion to get some other friends involved. Here are just a few possibilities:

• Go to a karaoke club and sing a duet together. Wow the crowd as you belt out your favorite torch song!

• Take some ballroom dancing lessons, or if you'd rather just wing it, go find a place that offers ballroom dancing and cut a rug together.

• Host a game night with some other married couples. Rather than resorting to the typical guys-versus-gals model, play games in which each married couple works together as a team.

QUESTIONS: What are some famous teams you admire? (Note: We're not just talking sports teams here.) What about these famous teams is inspiring? What makes them work well together? What are some practical steps we can take to ensure that we're always working as a team?

CHAPTER 3

THERE'S ALWAYS SOMETHING MORE TO LEARN

The cure for boredom is curiosity. There is no cure for curiosity.

—Dorothy Parker


THERE IS ALWAYS SOMETHING NEW to learn about your spouse. Always. No matter how long you've been married, no matter how much you think you know about the person you married, you haven't even scratched the surface.

The goal in marriage, then, is not to learn everything there is to learn about your spouse. We've already established that it isn't possible. It's important, however, to continually be a student of your spouse. This is a lifelong process. You may never know everything there is to know, but it's important to update your knowledge at every opportunity. That same sense of discovery you had during your time of premarital dating is possible now. You just need to remain curious!


ACTIVITY: During this date, what you say—what you discuss—may be more important than the activity itself. So feel free to engage in a typical dating activity, such as going out for a nice dinner or playing a round of miniature golf or just taking a romantic walk in the park.

On the other hand, you may consider creating an activity that stimulates your curiosity. For example, you could plan your date around the famous ice-breaker game Two Truths and a Lie. Each of you writes down three statements about yourself, two of which are true and one of which isn't. Then during your date, exchange your statements and see if your spouse can figure out which statement about you isn't true.

Of course, under normal circumstances we wouldn't advocate that you and your spouse lie to each other! If the thought of "lying" in this way, even in the name of good fun, is uncomfortable to you, simply create a quiz about yourself that your spouse can answer during the date. You'd be surprised how challenging such an activity can be, even with seemingly obvious questions like "What is my favorite food?" "What is my favorite movie?" or "What is my favorite color?" See how many questions your spouse can answer before he or she gets tripped up!

QUESTIONS: After completing the Two Truths and a Lie game or taking your quiz, discuss the following Questions: What one thing did you learn about me tonight that you didn't know before? What are some practical steps we can take to stay current with each other? What does it mean for us to be students of each other?


(Continues...)

Excerpted from The Little Book of Great Dates by GREG SMALLEY, ERIN SMALLEY. Copyright © 2013 Focus on the Family. Excerpted by permission of Tyndale House Publishers, Inc..
All rights reserved. No part of this excerpt may be reproduced or reprinted without permission in writing from the publisher.
Excerpts are provided by Dial-A-Book Inc. solely for the personal use of visitors to this web site.

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Table of Contents

Contents

Introduction....................     1     

Date 1: A New Year's Date....................     10     

Date 2: We're a Team!....................     12     

Date 3: There's Always Something More to Learn....................     14     

Date 4: Random Acts of Kindness....................     16     

Date 5: The Blessing....................     18     

Date 6: A Valentine's Day Date....................     20     

Date 7: Shared Interests....................     22     

Date 8: Windshield Time!....................     25     

Date 9: Passion....................     27     

Date 10: I Cherish You....................     30     

Date 11: I Feel Loved When You....................     33     

Date 12: Holy....................     36     

Date 13: Remember When....................     39     

Date 14: Laugh with Me....................     41     

Date 15: They're Just Like Two Kids in Love ....................     44     

Date 16: Sweat....................     47     

Date 17: Looking Forward....................     49     

Date 18: Sprucing Up the Nest....................     51     

Date 19: Listen Up!....................     54     

Date 20: Rest....................     56     

Date 21: Encourage....................     58     

Date 22: Traditions....................     60     

Date 23: Time for a Checkup!....................     62     

Date 24: The Weekend Getaway....................     65     

Date 25: Vive La Différence!....................     67     

Date 26: Stolen Moments....................     69     

Date 27: Touch....................     72     

Date 28: Simple Gifts....................     74     

Date 29: Double-Date!....................     76     

Date 30: Connect....................     78     

Date 31: We're the Best of Friends....................     81     

Date 32: Dream Maker....................     84     

Date 33: Minding Your "Please" and "Thank-Yous"....................     86     

Date 34: Remembering Again....................     88     

Date 35: Accentuating the Positive....................     90     

Date 36: The Learning Curve....................     92     

Date 37: Something New....................     94     

Date 38: Grace Given, Grace Received....................     96     

Date 39: Cooking Up Something Fun....................     98     

Date 40: Tenderness....................     100     

Date 41: Community-Minded....................     102     

Date 42: Trust....................     106     

Date 43: Home Date!....................     108     

Date 44: Family Date....................     110     

Date 45: With Thanksgiving....................     112     

Date 46: A Christmas Date....................     114     

Date 47: What Are You Doing New Year's Eve?....................     117     

Date 48: The Anniversary of Your First Date....................     119     

Date 49: Wedding Anniversary....................     122     

Dates 50–51: Birthday ... Times Two!....................     124     

Date 52: Milestones....................     126     

Notes....................     131     


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  • Posted October 17, 2013

    Do you know the saying, "good things come in small packages

    Do you know the saying, "good things come in small packages"? That is a very apt description of this little book. It is the size of a 5 x 7 card and less than a half inch thick but it is packed full of wonderful ideas for you and your beloved. It has a beautiful navy blue leather cover and I think it would make the perfect gift for that favorite couple in your life . . . that is after you've purchased a copy for yourself!




    In the Introduction the Smalleys discuss how dating seems to take a back seat after we are married. We take on new roles and have a kid or two and then before we know it our dating life is just a distant memory. One of the things I like about this book is that they don't diminish the fact that finding time to date your spouse is hard work. Something always comes up but it is important that we make time for what is important and our marriages are important!




    There are fifty-two dates included in this book. That is enough for one date a week for a year! Another thing that I appreciate about this book is that these date ideas are practical and affordable. There aren't crazy detailed preparations that you have to make. After all who would even wind up going if you had to spend hours preparing?!! The cost of the dates is kept to a minimum and they even suggest ideas that would keep the amount next to nothing. 




    I recommend this product to anyone that is looking for a way to enhance their marriage. I also think it would be a nice way to encourage that special couple you know. I'm personally going to get several copies for stocking stuffers for my married kids this Christmas. 




    I received a copy of the book to facilitate my review.

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