The Lost Daughter

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A daughter of the Black Panther movement tells her remarkable life story of being raised amid violence and near-poverty, adopted as a teenager by Jane Fonda, and finding her way back home.
 
As she grew up in 1970s Oakland, California, role models for Mary Williams were few and far between: her father was often in prison, her older sister was a teenage prostitute, and her hot-tempered mother struggled to raise six children alone. When Mary...

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The Lost Daughter: A Memoir

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A daughter of the Black Panther movement tells her remarkable life story of being raised amid violence and near-poverty, adopted as a teenager by Jane Fonda, and finding her way back home.
 
As she grew up in 1970s Oakland, California, role models for Mary Williams were few and far between: her father was often in prison, her older sister was a teenage prostitute, and her hot-tempered mother struggled to raise six children alone. When Mary was thirteen, a silver lining appeared in her life: she was invited to spend a summer at Laurel Springs Children’s Camp, run by Jane Fonda and her then husband, Tom Hayden. Mary flourished at camp, and over the course of several summers, she began confiding in Fonda about her difficulties at home. During one school year, Mary suffered a nightmare assault crime, which she kept secret until she told a camp counselor and Fonda. After providing care and therapy for Mary, Fonda invited her to come live with her family.
  Practically overnight, Mary left the streets of Oakland for the star-studded climes of Santa Monica. Jane Fonda was the parent Mary had never had—outside the limelight and Hollywood parties, Fonda was a wonderful mom who helped with homework, listened to adolescent fears, celebrated achievements, and offered inspiration and encouragement at every turn.
  Mary’s life since has been one of adventure and opportunity—from hiking the Appalachian Trail solo, working with the Lost Boys of Sudan, and living in the frozen reaches of Antarctica. Her most courageous trip, though, involved returning to Oakland and reconnecting with her biological mother and family, many of whom she hadn’t seen since the day she left home. The Lost Daughter is a chronicle of her journey back in time, an exploration of fractured family bonds, and a moving epic of self-discovery.

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Superficially seen, Mary Williams has led a life of polarities. Raised in poverty by a fierce single mother of five, she grew up in Oakland, surrounded by Black Panther militants and prostitutes, one of whom was her big sister. When she was thirteen, she received a free pass, an invitation to a children's camp where she met and befriended Jane Fonda. Taken under the wing and then adopted by this mega-celebrity, Mary found herself grappling with the transition even as she was healing from the wounds of her former life. In this powerful memoir and affectionate portrait of her mother, Williams writes about returning to the Oakland she left so many years before and what that return taught her about herself.

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A tender memoir of love and redemption. Born during the civil rights movement to Black Panther Party parents, Williams (Brothers in Hope: The Story of the Lost Boys of Sudan, 2005) grew up in a tough neighborhood of Oakland, Calif., where "the world was caught up in a swirling storm of violence, revolutionary zeal, sexual freedom, and creative expression." Her father was in and out of prison, her mother struggled with alcoholism, and her older sister became a prostitute, so when Williams was raped, she felt it was almost destiny, that she "had been subtly groomed to be a victim all [her] life. . .I believe I experienced a feeling almost of relief, that this unavoidable event had finally caught up with me." Then actress and activist Jane Fonda stepped in and gave the bright 16-year-old girl a new life. And for 30 years, Williams avoided looking backward to her birth mother and rough beginnings. She worked in Morocco, Tanzania, Antarctica and Alaska. She hiked the Appalachian Trail and mingled on movie sets with Fonda's co-workers. And yet, she never felt quite at peace, as she was still full of repressed anger over the neglect and abuse she received as a child. She struggled "to keep the beast caged" and writes of her feelings in her 40s, "I was an emotional chimera of a two-year-old and a sulking teenager, extremely sensitive to even the most benign criticism or perceived insult." Her anger went outward toward everyone, including Fonda, who had provided so much for Williams. However, Williams' anger could only last so long before she realized she needed to change. In heartwarming prose, the author explains how she eventually reunited with her siblings, their children and finally her birth mother. A compassionate tale of soul-searching and family love.
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Product Details

  • ISBN-13: 9780399160868
  • Publisher: Blue Rider Press
  • Publication date: 4/9/2013
  • Pages: 320
  • Sales rank: 974
  • Product dimensions: 6.40 (w) x 9.16 (h) x 1.17 (d)

Meet the Author

Mary Williams is a writer based in the Southwest. She is the author of the children’s book Brothers in Hope: The Story of the Lost Boys of Sudan. She has also written for McSweeney’s and O, the Oprah Magazine.

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For years I kept my family life a secret from Jane. She knew that I came from a Panther background , but she knew nothing of my mother’s drinking, my shrinking family. When I was thirteen that finally changed. The first person I told my full story to was one of my camp counselors. The camp counselor told Jane. Jane asked me if what she heard was true, and for the first time I opened up to her about everything that was going on back in Oakland.  Soon after telling her this, Jane invited me to come live with her year-round in Santa Monica. I did not ask my mom’s permission. I just left. It was a normal thing in my family to be here one day and gone the next. From my small, run-down house in Oakland, I moved to Jane’s hacienda surrounded by flower gardens and avocado trees. Landing on the moon would have been less disorienting. She sat me down soon after I arrived and said, “I see you as my daughter now. If you want, you can call me Mom.” I also had new siblings, a brother named Troy, and two sisters, Vanessa and Nathalie. Jane became my greatest friend, my cheerleader, and a dedicated mother. Despite being a busy actress and activist, Jane was home most nights and often cooked dinner for us. Everything was new. Even something as seemingly simple as dinnertime was fraught. I had to prepare myself each night for my confrontation with “white people food”—some of it good (baked Alaska), some not so good (artichokes). And I was shocked to learn that people could disagree or dislike one another and still be civil.

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  • Posted Sat Apr 13 00:00:00 EDT 2013

    This book hit me where very few books have in the past. excellen

    This book hit me where very few books have in the past. excellent reading, but not for the faint at heart:)

    15 out of 16 people found this review helpful.

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  • Posted Thu Apr 18 00:00:00 EDT 2013

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    A gripping story. Written with great honesty. At times sadness a

    A gripping story. Written with great honesty. At times sadness almost drips off the page.

    7 out of 8 people found this review helpful.

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  • Anonymous

    Posted Sat Apr 13 00:00:00 EDT 2013

    Jane Fonda - PUKE! American Traitor. Hank must be spinning! 000

    Jane Fonda - PUKE! American Traitor. Hank must be spinning! 0000 rating.

    5 out of 48 people found this review helpful.

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  • Posted Sun Apr 21 00:00:00 EDT 2013

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    A wonderfully written masterpiece. Five stars!

    A wonderfully written masterpiece. Five stars!

    3 out of 3 people found this review helpful.

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  • Anonymous

    Posted Tue Apr 23 00:00:00 EDT 2013

    Lost daughter

    Honest, thoughtful and hopeful. This book reflects the will to persevere against all odds. It shows we can change the course of our lives if we are brave enough to take the chance. It also shows, "we are our brother keeper".

    2 out of 3 people found this review helpful.

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  • Posted Sat Apr 20 00:00:00 EDT 2013

    A great book! Not for the faint of heart though. It really speak

    A great book! Not for the faint of heart though. It really speaks to the soul.

    2 out of 2 people found this review helpful.

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  • Anonymous

    Posted Thu Apr 18 00:00:00 EDT 2013

    I hate Jane Fonda

    Jane Fonda is a trader WILL NEVER READ NOTHING WITH HER IN IT OR ANY TO DO WITH HER? SIT ON ANY JEEPS LATELY?

    2 out of 20 people found this review helpful.

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  • Anonymous

    Posted Sun Apr 28 00:00:00 EDT 2013

    Social Responsiibility

    Ignoring the fact Mary is the adopted daughter of Jane Fonda, The Lost Daughter, is an awesome example of a woman who was given a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity to escape from the dangers of the inner city. She took that opportunity, gave back not only to her community, but saw the need for improved health education to African natives.

    Mary's compassion and curiosity help her overcome an abusive and oppressed childhood. Meanwhile, looking for other ways to help those who had similar experiences. I also liked the fact she recognized she could accomplish her goals with the help of positive roll models and her tenacity.

    1 out of 2 people found this review helpful.

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  • Anonymous

    Posted Mon Apr 29 00:00:00 EDT 2013

    Poor thing should NOT have used that photo for the cover of her

    Poor thing should NOT have used that photo for the cover of her book.

    0 out of 1 people found this review helpful.

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  • Posted Mon Apr 29 00:00:00 EDT 2013

    Look past the cover photo,  for those of readers that recall Jan

    Look past the cover photo,  for those of readers that recall Jane Fonda's anti-American tirades of the 60's.  This story is about the struggle of a life that persevered. It is a story of triumph of the human spirit. 

    0 out of 1 people found this review helpful.

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