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Q: What's the easiest way to read a man?
A: Men are easy to read, especially when you stop listening and start seeing. You don’t have to learn how to read a man; what you do have to learn is how to discern between someone whose actions are in line with his words and someone who says one thing and does another. As women, we often seek security and reassurance through verbal communication. Our man could stand us up three times in a row, but as long as he calls and apologizes we give him another chance. We make excuses for bad behavior because we can’t believe what our man tells us. For example, no he isn’t cheating, even if he was missing all weekend without a word, because after the weekend was over he said he had been busy. The easiest way to read a man is to start paying attention to his actions and not his words. If your man is saying one thing and doing another, it’s time to evaluate the situation.