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A wave of laughter began at our table, and it still resonated through the restaurant as I paid my bill and hurried back to the car. For several weeks afterward, every time we approached Thomaston I knew that someone would say, "Why don't we stop here for breakfast? There's free coffee for some of us!"
In the years since returning home, Rosalynn and I have been through some severe tests and have struggled to find the best way to retain our self-confidence, evolve and interesting and challenging life, and build better relations with other people. As we've grown older the results have been surprisingly good.
The first time I fully realized how much our lives had changed was when I approached my seventieth birthday. In one of her hourlong special interviews, Barbara Walters covered all the aspects of my life, from the farm to submarienes, from business to the governor's mansion, service in the White House, and from president back home to Plains. Then she asked me a question that required some serious thought: "Mr. President, you have had a number of exciting and challenging careers. What have been your best years?" After a few moments I responded with absolute certainty: "Now is the best time of all." She was surprised, and asked, "Why?"
I fumbled with some thoughts about time for reflection, spending more time with my family, and a chance to correct some of my former errors. Afterward I realized how inadequate my glib, thirty-second answer had been, and I discussed with Rosalynn how profoundly different--and pleasant--was the reality of our senior years.
This book is my expanded attempt, based on our personal experiences, to answer that question--to describe, in effect, the virtues of aging.
We are not alone in our worry about both the physical aspects of aging and the prejudice that exists toward the elderly, which is similar to racism or sexism. What makes it different is that the prejudice also exists among those of us who are either within this group or rapidly approaching it. When I mentioned the title of this book to a few people, most of them responded, "Virtues? What could possibly be good about growing old?" The most obvious answer, of course, is to consider the alternative to aging. But there are plenty of other good answers--many based on our personal experiences and observations.
It is clear that in some ways Rosalynn and I are not typical, having been the First Family of a great nation, a special status that cuts both ways, with benefits and liabilities. But in almost every aspect of life, our challenges have been similar to those of tens of millions of families who face the later years with a mixture of problems and opportunities, doublts and anticipation, despair and hope. We've had to address a common question: How could we ensure that our retired years would be happy, and maybe even productive?
On Monday, October 26, 1998, barnesandnoble.com welcomed Jimmy Carter, author of THE VIRTUES OF AGING.
Jimmy Carter: I'm delighted.
Jimmy Carter: I hope everyone who is retired or who hopes to be will buy the book.
Jimmy Carter: Something will have to be done as the baby boomers reach retirement age, because then there will be less than three workers per retiree. This will be the biggest issue to face the industrialized world. It will have to pass the political tests of senior citizens, but we cannot escape making changes in the retirement laws.
Jimmy Carter: In fact, this is a good effort to get back to where the Oslo agreement had already reached. We had a lot of trouble after Camp David, and it took six months of hard negotiating to get the Egypt-Israel treaty completed. Since then, in 20 years, not a word has been violated. I hope and believe that we can consummate Oslo, at least in its early stages. The final stages -- Jerusalem, et cetera -- will be extremely difficult. We can't give up hope.
Jimmy Carter: The latest news is that NATO officials are pleased with Serb withdrawals. The threat of military action should be maintained. The targets, though, should never include those occupied by civilians but restricted to military installations -- if NATO decides to bomb.
Jimmy Carter: I don't think it is too late. This is the 50th anniversary of the Universal Declaration, and the Carter Center and many others are still fervently promoting human rights.
Jimmy Carter: I have called on the U.S. government to support an objective and technically qualified inspection of the facility. The Carter Center has a full-time office there dealing with health problems, and our people say that the installation has never been a secure place, but always open to visitors. The U.S. has blocked any inspections so far. I don't know if the attack was justified, but I have serious doubts.
Jimmy Carter: There were several. Seeing Zimbabwe created as a democracy to replace the Rhodesian white-supremacy government was one. Obviously, Camp David and the Egypt-Israel peace treaty. Another was diplomatic relations being established with China, and also the Panama Canal treaties, which honored human rights in this hemisphere. One that I can't forget is the failed rescue attempt for our hostages in Iran. In general, the good memories outweigh the bad ones.
Jimmy Carter: The most memorable, interesting, and admirable person I met was President Anwar Sadat. He was personally courageous, bold, wise, and generous and primarily responsible for the peace that has survived between his country and Israel.
Jimmy Carter: It will survive, but its respect and power will be damaged during these next two years. Afterward, the scars on the presidency will be minimal. The best thing now will be to get it all over with, and to move on to other things. I have predicted that the partisan House of Representatives will probably vote impeachment but the Senate will not remove the President, nor will he resign.
Jimmy Carter: I don't think that terrorism will be the greatest threat, and it doesn't justify curtailment of civil liberties. The greatest threat to global peace and perhaps to our own security is the widening gap between rich nations and people and poverty-stricken nations and people. This is a perhaps unavoidable reason for the now unprecedented number of wars around the world. Our nation and other leaders must help to address the real suffering of many people, who react to this form of human-rights abuse with violence.
Jimmy Carter: Most often, the lack of proper planning or preparation. We plan for college, for careers, et cetera, but forget that one half of our adult years will be spent as retired persons. I can certify that this should be and actually is the most enjoyable period of existence -- both to receive untold blessings for ourselves and to share those blessings with others.
Jimmy Carter: There is no doubt that every time we think we're making a sacrifice to help others, it turns out to be a blessing for ourselves. In my book, I try to give some examples of how our activities both in work and pleasure are almost unlimited -- and available to anyone regardless of personal wealth or influence.
Jimmy Carter: A definitive poll of Americans revealed that we consider 54 to be the proper age. The same poll said that "old age" was 73. This means that there is a 20-year gap between retiring and becoming old. Also, there are many years of life left after we become "old." I've passed 74 and still consider myself to be young. The book tells all the exciting and gratifying things that Rosalynn and I have adopted after leaving the White House -- downhill skiing, fly-fishing, bird watching, et cetera, along with climbing to the top of Mount Kilimanjaro, above the base camp at Everest, and up and down Fuji in one day. In addition, we have taken up writing, Rosalynn having published four books, and this is my 13th. I'm now working on a novel. There is plenty to do after retirement and even becoming old.
Jimmy Carter: No, but I'm in the same boat with millions of others who have found a surprisingly full life after leaving our main professions. Also, like many others, my retirement was involuntary, as a result of the 1980 election. This is the best time of my life.
Jimmy Carter: I considered this question quite seriously, and included an answer as a chapter in the book. I don't fear death, and hope I can approach it with as much equanimity as did my father, mother, my two sisters, and my brother. They died with good humor and were careful to place a minimal psychological and financial burden on the ones they loved. My oldest sister, for instance, was an avid biker. During her last day in the hospital, there were always two leather-jacketed bikers on guard outside her room. Her funeral procession was 37 Harley-Davidsons, and she requested that carved on her gravestone would be, "She rides in Harley heaven." You all can come down to Plains and see where she lived, and where she is buried. I wish all of you a long life, and one that is full of pleasure, excitement, adventure, gratification, and love.
Jimmy Carter: I'll look forward to it. I've enjoyed doing the typing myself.
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Posted April 17, 2004
I'm in my mid fifties and I found this book to be informative, practical and somewhat inspirational. Anybody contemplating retirement,not just in the immediate future, but several years down the line can profit from this book.
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Posted March 9, 2003
Jimmy Carter writes as if he were having one of his presidential fireside chats. His writing is clear, friendly, and very readable, as always. He gives the reader a look into his world with his poignant writing style. In his book 'The Virtues of Aging', Jimmy Carter takes the reader through the maze of events that transpire as men and women go through the transition from aging adults to senior citizens. Carter writes of his own transition from president of the United States to a (not so) private citizen. How he felt at his sudden unemployment: 'I was just fifty-six years old when I was involuntarily retired from my position in the White House. What made losing the job even worse was that it was a highly publicized event, with maybe half of the people in the world knowing about my embarrassing defeat'. Carter writes honestly and openly of his rude awakening into the ranks of senior citizenship, his close encounter with bankruptcy, the fear of losing the family business and property that has been in his family for generations, and ultimately his fortunate financial recovery. Carter describes the importance of an open mind for success in role transition and steps to take to prevent an identity crisis from occurring, such as the importance of family, friends, goals and hobbies in creating successful identity continuity. He discusses the absolute significance of health care for the elderly and the lack of such care for the impoverished elderly in the United States. Jimmy Carter gives the reader suggestions on how to prepare for retirement and aging- the economics, emotions, and physical aspects (health wise) of aging. He also understands that most young adults do not think about their later years until they are there. He covers the emotional support he received and continues to receive and give to his wife Rosalyn Carter during the difficult periods he went through before and at the end of his presidency and right into senior citizenship. Carter describes the feelings of wanting to get closer to his adult children, grandchildren and Rosalyn. Jimmy Carter covers some important facts and statistics that directly or indirectly concern the elderly and retired. The clear message in this book is that entering the ranks of senior citizenship need not be a harrowing experience, but a virtuous new stage of life. 'The Virtues of Aging' should be read by the young as well as those aging individuals who are planning or who have not begun to plan for retirement and/or their senior years.
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Posted September 26, 2005
Read this book now and make a difference in your life and maybe someone elses too. No need to sit home and wonder,' What can I do to keep busy and help others?' You can never go wrong with a Jimmy Carter book.
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Posted March 29, 2013
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