To Be a Friend Is Fatal: The Fight to Save the Iraqis America Left Behind

To Be a Friend Is Fatal: The Fight to Save the Iraqis America Left Behind

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by Kirk W. Johnson
     
 

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In January 2005 Kirk Johnson, then twenty-four, arrived in Baghdad as USAID’s only Arabic-speaking American employee. Despite his opposition to the war, Johnson felt called to civic duty and wanted to help rebuild Iraq.

Appointed as USAID’s first reconstruction coordinator in Fallujah, he traversed the city’s IED-strewn streets, working…  See more details below

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In January 2005 Kirk Johnson, then twenty-four, arrived in Baghdad as USAID’s only Arabic-speaking American employee. Despite his opposition to the war, Johnson felt called to civic duty and wanted to help rebuild Iraq.

Appointed as USAID’s first reconstruction coordinator in Fallujah, he traversed the city’s IED-strewn streets, working alongside idealistic Iraqi translators—young men and women sick of Saddam, filled with Hollywood slang, and enchanted by the idea of a peaceful, democratic Iraq. It was not to be. As sectarian violence escalated, Iraqis employed by the US coalition found themselves subject to a campaign of kidnapping, torture, and assassination.

On his first brief vacation, Johnson, swept into what doctors later described as a “fugue state,” crawled onto the ledge outside his hotel window and plunged off. He would spend the next year in an abyss of depression, surgery, and PTSD—crushed by having failed in Iraq.

One day, Johnson received an email from an Iraqi friend, Yaghdan: People are trying to kill me and I need your help. After being identified by a militiaman, Yaghdan had emerged from his house to find the severed head of a dog and a death threat. That email launched Johnson’s now seven-year mission to get help from the US government for Yaghdan and thousands of abandoned Iraqis like him. The List Project has helped more than 1,500 Iraqis find refuge in America. To Be a Friend Is Fatal is Kirk W. Johnson’s unforgettable portrait of the human rubble of war and his efforts to redeem a shameful chapter of American history.

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Editorial Reviews

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"Kirk Johnson is one of the few genuine heroes of America's war in Iraq. . . . Johnson's story is about America's shame, and also its honor. This is an essential book." —Dexter Filkins author of The Forever War
Azar Nafisi
"What is so intriguing about this beautifully written book is that while it is a scathing critique of America's policy toward Iraq, it is not one of your usual policy books. To Be a Friend is Fatal is a deeply personal and poignant story about how one young American's passion and curiosity lead him to a distant and troubled land, where his empathy and sense justice prevent him from giving up on the people abandoned by the U.S. government."
George Packer
“From the ruins of the war in Iraq and his own broken body, Kirk Johnson made it his cause to redeem the one American promise to Iraqis that honor required us to keep. He tirelessly fought the political resistance and bureaucratic indifference of two administrations. His account is riveting, darkly funny, heroic, and shaming.”
Dexter Filkins
"Kirk Johnson is one of the few genuine heroes of America's war in Iraq.... Johnson's story is about America's shame, and also its honor. This is an essential book."
David Finkel
“I have long been an admirer of Kirk Johnson—for his humanitarian advocacy on behalf of forgotten Iraqis and for his honest and poetic writing…. His is a story that arcs from charity to futility to pain to charity again, and how much he needs to tell it equals how much it deserves to be read.”
Ira Glass
"[A] truly incredible story."
The Boston Globe - Rayyan Al-Shawaf
"It is difficult to imagine a book more urgent than this."
The Daily Beast - John Kael Weston
"The well-written book - the author is an honest, engaging and indomitable guide - warrants a special place in nonfiction shelves."
The New Yorker
"A searing account."
Philadelphia Inquirer - Trudy Rubin
"This authentic patriot has written a must-read memoir."
Vogue - Megan O'Grady
"Kirk W. Johnson’s rage-inducing account of government indifference is a tale of lost innocence that, in our American twilight, feels devastatingly allegorical."
Los Angeles Review of Books
“A poignant story…a fascinating and intimate look at the inner workings of military occupation and its effects.”
Men's Journal
Harrowing.
The New York Times - Michiko Kakutani
"Devastating . . ." the story of "interpreters and aid workers who risked their lives to work with the Americans, only to find themselves left behind as the United States pulled out, their lives in peril in a country that now regards them as despised collaborators."

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Product Details

ISBN-13:
9781476710501
Publisher:
Scribner
Publication date:
09/03/2013
Sold by:
SIMON & SCHUSTER
Format:
NOOK Book
Pages:
352
File size:
3 MB

Meet the Author

Kirk W. Johnson has become the leading public voice on the plight of America’s Iraqi allies. A graduate of the University of Chicago, Fulbright Scholar, and recipient of fellowships from the American Academy in Berlin and Yaddo, his writing has appeared in The New York Times, The Washington Post Magazine, Los Angeles Times, and Foreign Policy. Founder of the List Project, Johnson lives in Somerville, Massachusetts.

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To Be a Friend Is Fatal: The Fight to Save the Iraqis America Left Behind 5 out of 5 based on 0 ratings. 2 reviews.
LeighKramer More than 1 year ago
This is one of those times when I want to be bossy and DEMAND everyone read this book. It is that good and one that needs to be read. My grammar school classmate wrote To Be A Friend Is Fatal about his time in Iraq and the birth of the nonprofit The List Project to Resettle Iraqi Allies. The way the US treated the Iraqis who helped us is shameful. Future generations will judge our government, the way we judge those who did not act during WWII and the Holocaust and those who left Vietnamese allies behind after the US pulled out of that war. I commend Kirk for his tireless efforts. Truly an eye-opening and insightful read.
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
Rose latched the gate behind her and went inside. As she walked, a thick envelope signed to her fell to the ground. She picked it up. The envelope was adressed to her, so she opened it. Blah de blady blah. And they all lived happily. Except for Elisha, who got turned into a frog. THE END! :)