Torn Asunder [NOOK Book]

Overview

Written by respected pastor and marriage counselor Dave Carder, this revised and expanded version of Torn Asunder sorts through the factors that contribute to infidelity and then maps out a recovery process for both partners. With compassion and wisdom rooted in the Bible, Carder offers insight for the victims of adultery, the perpetrators, and those who seek to help hurting couples.Along the way Carder also answers questions like: Why did this happen' We didn't actually sleep together. Is it still an affair' Can...
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Overview

Written by respected pastor and marriage counselor Dave Carder, this revised and expanded version of Torn Asunder sorts through the factors that contribute to infidelity and then maps out a recovery process for both partners. With compassion and wisdom rooted in the Bible, Carder offers insight for the victims of adultery, the perpetrators, and those who seek to help hurting couples.Along the way Carder also answers questions like: Why did this happen' We didn't actually sleep together. Is it still an affair' Can I trust my spouse again' Should I reveal a secret affair' What if my spouse doesn't want me back' What do we tell the kids'
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Product Details

  • ISBN-13: 9780802479556
  • Publisher: Moody Publishers
  • Publication date: 5/1/2007
  • Sold by: Barnes & Noble
  • Format: eBook
  • Edition description: New Edition
  • Pages: 320
  • Sales rank: 111,368
  • File size: 756 KB

Meet the Author


DAVE CARDER currently serves as Pastor responsible for Counseling and Marriage Ministries at the First Evangelical Free Church of Fullerton. He holds graduate degrees in Biblical Literature and in Marital and Family Therapy as well as the Michigan Limited License in Psychology and the Marriage and Family Therapy license in California. Dave has published five books, one of which won The Gold
Medallion Award in Personal Evangelism in 1993. Dave and his wife, Ronnie, have four adult children and five grandchildren. In their spare time they enjoy jogging.

R.
DUNCAN JAENICKE
(B.A., University of Illinois) has done postgraduate work in psychology and counseling and frequently writes on related subjects. He is co-author of Connections and a collaborator for Torn Asunder.
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Table of Contents


Foreword
Acknowledgements
Prologue: A Letter from "The Other Woman"

Section
1: Understanding Extramarital Affairs

1. "What God Hath Joined Together":
In Pursuit of Healing for Shattered Marriages

2. Sorting Out the Chaos: The
One-Night Stand and Sexual Addiction

3. Sorting Out the Chaos: The Entangled
Affair and the Add-on Affair

4. Causes: Environments That Allow Affairs to
Flourish

5. Other Factors Contributing to Infidelity

Section
2: Healing from Affairs

6. Understanding the Recovery: The Infidel's Process

7.
Understanding the Recovery: The Spouse's Process

8. Why? Deciphering the
Message of the Affair

9. Anger in Affairs: Getting Good Out of Getting Mad
10.
Can I Trust You Again? Rebuilding Trust

11. "And They Shall Be As One": Restructuring
Intimacy

Section 3: Special Circumstances

12. To Tell or Not to Tell? The Secret Affair

13. Emotional Affairs: Hooked, Played-out, and
Desperate for Release

14. When Your Spouse Doesn't Want You Back: The 90-Day
Experiment

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  • Anonymous

    Posted November 11, 2012

    Puts most of the blame on the spouse who was not cheating.

    I bought this book because a counselor suggested it. I was very shocked that the spouse was blamed and the infidel was to be consoled and pitied for the most part. I know I had my share in it, but this is even more hurtful. No matter what the spouse has or hasn't done NOTHING justifies adultry. The primary guilt is to the one who goes outside the marriage"

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  • Anonymous

    Posted February 26, 2013

    The only book you'll need

    If you are in recovery from an affair, you need only read this book. He's spot on in everything he says. He in NO WAY blames the betrayed spouse for an affair.
    This will educate you on why an affair happens, what will happen upon disclosure, and what you can expect the future to be like.
    Follow his program to repair.

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  • Anonymous

    Posted February 24, 2010

    Great Book!

    Loved this book. Could not put it down. If you have gone through something similar it is a must read. Very educational and inspiring. Easy to read and follow. Have not put ideas to work yet, but truly belief he is on the right track on how to survive after an affair.

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