True Love: A Practice for Awakening the Heart

True Love: A Practice for Awakening the Heart

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by Thich Nhat Hanh
     
 

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Love might not be what we think it is. We all seek the happiness that comes from loving and being loved, yet we often find ourselves dissatisfied in our relationships and unable to grasp the cause. Thich Nhat Hanh here shows the way to overcome our recurrent obstacles to love—by learning to be mindful, open, and present with ourselves and others. As he

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Love might not be what we think it is. We all seek the happiness that comes from loving and being loved, yet we often find ourselves dissatisfied in our relationships and unable to grasp the cause. Thich Nhat Hanh here shows the way to overcome our recurrent obstacles to love—by learning to be mindful, open, and present with ourselves and others. As he explains, “training is needed in order to love properly; and to be able to give happiness and joy, you must practice deep looking directed toward the person you love. Because if you do not understand this person, you cannot love properly. Understanding is the essence of love.”

This quintessential guide to loving also introduces the four key aspects of love described in the Buddhist tradition—loving-kindness, compassion, joy, and freedom—and describes many simple and direct ways in which we can practice authentic love in our everyday lives.

Editorial Reviews

With the elegant simplicity that characterizes his style, Buddhist teacher Thich Nhat Hanh here explores the four key aspects of love: lovingkindness, compassion, joy, and freedom. Not merely descriptive, True Love explains how mantra practice and the technique of conscious breath can actually enhance our capacity for love. In the book's concluding section, he tells how love can help us heal our pain, fear, and habitual negativity. A gorgeous keepsake; a gift of love.
Publishers Weekly

Zen monk Nanh offers his insights into love as private emotion and public force in his thought-provoking guide to Buddhism's four key aspects of love. Narrator James Gimian, a Buddhist himself, relates Hanh's ideas with admirable clarity. However, listeners may find themselves struggling to get through the entire recording as Gimian's delivery is fairly monotonous. For those able to focus on the message rather than the medium, there is much to be gained by repeated listening. A Shambhala hardcover. (Mar.)

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"A simplicity and directness that brings true love within reach."—Dragonfly Review

Product Details

ISBN-13:
9780834821071
Publisher:
Shambhala Publications, Inc.
Publication date:
03/15/2011
Series:
Shambhala Publications
Sold by:
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Format:
NOOK Book
Sales rank:
321,719
File size:
307 KB

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We must learn to speak with love again. I remember a young American who came to us to practice. One day, he was asked to write a letter to his mother in order to practice loving speech, which was easy for him. On the other hand, it was impossible for him to write a letter to his father. His father had died, but he still suffered every time he thought of him. Just the idea of picking up a pen to write to his father already caused him a great deal of suffering.

I
proposed the following to him. For one week he practiced mindful breathing,
saying to himself, "I am breathing in—I see myself as a child of five." When one is a little boy of five, one is very delicate and vulnerable. As he was breathing in, he saw himself as the object of his own compassion. During the second week, he meditated on his father: "I am breathing in—I see my father as a little child of five; I am breathing out—I
smile at the little boy who was my father."

For a whole week, the young American did this very faithfully and very enthusiastically. He put a photo of his father on the table and every time he walked into the room and looked at it, he practiced mindful breathing. He had never imagined that his father could have been a child of five. Suddenly the young man acknowledged the presence of his father as a little boy. It was the first time that he realized that his father had suffered as a little boy, and suddenly he felt compassion. Finally one evening he found it possible to write a first letter to his father. That transformed him completely, and now he has peace in his heart.

—from
True
Love


Meet the Author

A Vietnamese Zen Buddhist monk, Thich Nhat Hanh is an internationally known author, poet, scholar, and peace activist, and was nominated for the Nobel Peace Prize by Martin Luther King Jr. He is the author of numerous books, including the best-selling Living Buddha, Living Christ; Anger: Wisdom for Cooling the Flames; Peace Is Every Step; and The Miracle of Mindfulness. He is the leader of monastic communities in New York, California, France, Germany, Hong Kong, and Vietnam, and his teachings inspire several hundred local groups of lay practitioners across the United States, Latin America, Europe, Africa, Asia, and Oceania.

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True Love 4.2 out of 5 based on 0 ratings. 17 reviews.
CarolinaMama More than 1 year ago
A wonderfully motivating book. I happened to begin reading it shortly before Valentine's Day and it helped me change my thinking and attitude completely by the time the day arrived. The essence of the book is that to have love, we must first learn to give it. It is so simple, but not so easy when we let our egos get in our way. I plan to read it again before I put it on the shelf for future reference.
himyohoben More than 1 year ago
A brilliantly simple and easy book to read which skillfully brings a solution to how to be true to self and other in relationships. Thich Nhat Hanh teaches simply how to be present for yourself and how to offer time, full presence,mindfulness, freedom and joy to love. I find myself wishing I had found this as a child so I would could have gifted happiness and joy to others as well as to myself in my life. This is a must read for all those who are wanting truth, peace and a recipe for loving.
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
I love this little book. It is a nice reminder of the things that make love true.
Kimberley Wilcox More than 1 year ago
Short, simple and absolutely lovely. A should read for every person out there, ever. This book helped me adjust and refine my view on love and how to treat someone i love. I have read it multiple times and have given it as a present more than 10x since I first read it years ago. It caused reflection and an adjustment in attitude and perspective. It made me kinder to my other as well as all those around me. I walked away from it a better person and re-read it to keep myself on track with how I want to treat others as well as reminding myself how I need to be treated. I love this book. :)
Diane59 More than 1 year ago
I loved this book. I was easy to read and the message was very clear. I highly recommend it to couples or singles that are planning to get involved...great information to keep in mind.
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H82CDK More than 1 year ago
Clear and concise.
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MarcellaDew More than 1 year ago
Highly Recommended for those wondering what love really is or how it should be. I really enjoy reading his books as they are filled with wisdom that trandsend all religious groups. They also help you learn how to recover from suffering and give you something to recommend to family/friends who are experiencing suffering. His writings have also helped me understand Christianity even better and other Christian books like Jesus Calling by Sarah Young.
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daydreamer07 More than 1 year ago
It is a wonderful read. It helps you to understand, to see things in regards to love from a different perspective.
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I am a big fan of Thich Nhat Hanh and I loved this book. It has been on my bedside for the past year, so I can open and read it anytime.
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