Unchosen: The Hidden Lives of Hasidic Rebels

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When Hella Winston began talking with Hasidic Jews for her doctoral dissertation in sociology, she was excited to be meeting with members of the highly insular Brooklyn Satmar sect. Several Jewish journalists and scholars have produced admiring books describing the Lubavitch way of life and the group’s outreach efforts, but very little has been written about the other Hasidic sects, despite their combined greater numbers. Unlike Lubavitch, members of these other groups do not engage in outreach and are raised to ...
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Overview

When Hella Winston began talking with Hasidic Jews for her doctoral dissertation in sociology, she was excited to be meeting with members of the highly insular Brooklyn Satmar sect. Several Jewish journalists and scholars have produced admiring books describing the Lubavitch way of life and the group’s outreach efforts, but very little has been written about the other Hasidic sects, despite their combined greater numbers. Unlike Lubavitch, members of these other groups do not engage in outreach and are raised to avoid all unnecessary contact with outside society. Winston’s access was unprecedented.

She never could have guessed what would happen next--that she would be introduced, slowly and covertly, to Hasidim deeply unhappy with their highly restrictive way of life and sometimes desperately struggling to leave their communities. First there was Yossi, a young man yearning to leave but, like most male Hasidim, a Yiddish speaker with only fourth grade English and math skills. Then she met Dini, a wife and mother called before the all-male modesty patrol because someone had spotted her outside a bar in a T-shirt and miniskirt. There were others still who had actually left.

Unchosen tells the story of these and other "rebel" Hasidim, serious questioners who long for greater personal and intellectual freedom than their communities allow. In so doing, Unchosen forces us to reexamine the history of these communities and asks us to consider what we choose not to see when we romanticize them.

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Publishers Weekly
While other excellent studies by Sue Fishkoff, Stephanie Wellen-Levine and Lis Harris have examined the inner lives of Lubavitcher Hasidim in a mostly positive way, this account distinguishes itself by focusing on the "rebels," not just among the Lubavitch but in other Hasidic communities as well, including the insular and right-wing Satmar sect. Winston, a doctoral candidate in sociology at CUNY, unfolds a world-within-a-world, where some young Hasidim sneak televisions into their apartments in garbage bags, change clothes on the subway to frequent bars in Manhattan and blog about their double lives online. She builds fascinating case studies, inviting readers into her interviewees' conflicted, and often painful, lives. One chapter profiles a famous Hasidic teacher who in fact no longer believes; another offers a walking tour of a Hasidic 'chood (slang for neighborhood); and another chronicles the hopeful and inspiring story of Malkie, a college-age woman who is building a sort of halfway house for others, like her, who have chosen to leave Hasidism. Winston shows us a Hasidic underworld where large families and a lack of secular education have resulted in extreme poverty and some serious at-risk behavior among youth. Her story of courage and intellectual rebellion will inspire anyone who has ever felt like a religious outcast. (Nov.) Copyright 2005 Reed Business Information.
Library Journal
This is a book by an outsider to Hasidic life for outsiders of the Hasidic community that deals superficially with subjects such as censorship, chosenness, and Jewish law. A graduate student in sociology at CUNY, Winston has no authentic understanding of the philosophies of Hasidism, no experience with the world of Yeshivish learning, and seemingly no ability to deal with sources in Hebrew or Yiddish. As such, the implications of her findings are limited, and her book lacks penetrating analysis. She views defectors from the Hasidic world-Hasidic misfits-who seek greater personal freedom, harbor religious doubts, or claim the need to escape from physical or sexual abuse, and she is blinded by her own skewed understandings (i.e., viewing Judaism as a "faith" with "psychological and social insights" rather than a religion of law). All this severely circumscribes her ability to portray Hasidic communities fairly. For a more admiring analysis of the community, see Lis Harris's Holy Days: The World of a Hasidic Family, Sue Fishkoff's The Rebbe's Army: Inside the World of Chabad Lubavitch, or Stephanie W. Levine's Mystics, Mavericks, and Merrymakers. Unchosen may be of interest to public libraries, but academic libraries should exercise extreme caution if ordering it for their collections.-David B. Levy, Ner Israel Rabbinica Coll. Mechina Lib., Baltimore Copyright 2005 Reed Business Information.
Kirkus Reviews
Ph.D. candidate Winston turns field research for a doctoral dissertation on a facet of Hadisic Judaism into a book about religious fundamentalism and those trying to escape it. Winston reflects on the lives of a few renegades, considered apostates by family and friends, who are unwilling to adhere to the rigorous practices of the orthodox sects in which they were raised. It's an insular life, founded on religious study for the men and steadfast homemaking and care of children for the women. If a Hasidic family member rebels, he or she brings shame to the community, wrecking opportunities for "appropriate" marriages for their siblings and children. In the author's case histories, there's trouble when Leah leaves her husband and tries drugs. And there's trouble when Yossi gets a shave and Dini wears a short skirt, when Motti listens to a Yankees game and Malkie dons jeans and goes to college. (Malkie's is the only real name used here, the author notes). Weary of leading double lives and changing costumes like comic book heroes, these former conformists may be found at Starbucks, in neighborhood bars and on the Internet. Winston's rebels are, understandably, dispirited and disoriented. "Even with the big fur streimel on his head, Yossi was freezing his tuchus off," the author clumsily writes of one rebel wandering the streets of New York. For these explorers, American life outside the old neighborhood is disappointing and considerably shy of the expected glamour. Starter sociology, facile ethnography.
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Complex and heart-wrenchingly compelling. --Caroline Leavitt, Boston Globe

"Winston . . . builds fascinating case studies, inviting readers into her interviewees' conflicted, and often painful, lives . . . show[ing] us a Hasidic underworld where large families and a lack of secular education have resulted in extreme poverty and some serious at-risk behavior among youth. Her story of courage and intellectual rebellion will inspire anyone who has ever felt like a religious outcast." --Publishers Weekly, starred review

"Good for Hasidim, non-Hasidim and every reader who responds to one of the oldest plots on Earth-the need of some people to leave the community that raised them, and figure out the world for themselves." --Carlin Romano, Philadelphia Inquirer

"Dives fearlessly into a fascinating topic . . . Winston channels the exhilaration of her subjects' newfound freedom, without losing all compassion for the disappointed—even angry—community they are leaving behind."--Holly Lebowitz Rossi, Dallas Morning News

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Product Details

  • ISBN-13: 9780807036266
  • Publisher: Beacon
  • Publication date: 11/16/2005
  • Edition description: None
  • Pages: 216
  • Product dimensions: 6.34 (w) x 9.26 (h) x 0.81 (d)

Meet the Author

Hella Winston is pursuing her Ph.D. in sociology at the Graduate Center for the City University of New York. She lives in New York City.
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Unchosen


The Hidden Lives of Hasidic Rebels


By Hella Winston


Beacon Press


Copyright © 2005

Hella Winston

All right reserved.

ISBN: 0-8070-3626-9




Chapter One


Changing Trains

When he heard what Yossi wanted, the barber appeared stunned
at first, and then relaxed into laughter, assuming it must be some kind
of joke. Yossi's left leg began to twitch as he shifted uncomfortably
in the sticky leather chair. Hours earlier, he had made the decision
to shave off his beard and get rid of his peyos for good, and if
this man wasn't going to help him do it, he would find someone else
who would. His whole family, except for his sixteen-year-old sister,
Chayla, had just left to spend the rest of the summer at a bungalow
colony in the mountains. If Yossi was really going to make the break
he had been considering for so long, their vacation was his window
of opportunity.

Still somewhat bemused, the barber prepared to oblige, removing
his scissors and razor from the container of disinfectant. Within
minutes, the beard was gone, the side curls reduced to so many dark
semicircles on the barbershop floor. Taking off his black velvet kippah,
Yossi stared at himself in the mirror and couldn't stop staring
-in the glass panes of store windows, in the side-view mirrors of
parked cars and vans, in the plastic walls of the bus shelters that lined
his path to the subway stop. He was inseventh heaven. It was the
greatest feeling in the world.

Yossi's plan was to head to the Upper West Side of Manhattan,
to a party hosted by one of a group of secular Yiddishists he had
sought out and come to know in recent months. These were people
who had devoted themselves to preserving the Yiddish language, and
Yossi pursued them not only because he was a huge fan of Yiddish literature,
but because he figured they would find him interesting. After
all, he was "the real deal," a native Yiddish speaker who had grown
up Hasidic in the heart of one of the few remaining Yiddish-based
cultures in the world. He also felt they would accept him since,
despite his religious garb-which he had continued to wear so as
not to make trouble for himself in the community-he had secretly
given up being observant many months ago.

Yossi was confident that these Yiddishists would sympathize
with his plight. After all, some of the older ones had come from
-and left-religious backgrounds themselves. Perhaps they would
prove a strong source of support, a bridge out of his community into
the secular world. Maybe one of them would even offer him some
sort of job and a place to stay while he figured out what to do next.
As it was, Yossi lacked the skills and credentials to get a decent-paying
job outside the Hasidic community.

Like all of the boys he had grown up with, Yossi had stopped
studying English and math sometime around the fourth grade. Fortunately,
however, his parents spoke a little English at home, so he
was more fluent in the language than most of his friends. A lot
of them knew only the "basic survival words, like Metro Card and
Medicaid," as Yossi put it. Further, although he had spent time learning
in a kollel, a center for advanced Torah studies, after high school,
Yossi didn't have anything that could pass for a legitimate high-school
diploma, or a college degree. Given his lack of credentials,
applying to a secular college would be tricky. He had heard that
some yeshivas would give or sell students a transcript filled with
classes they had never taken, like Physics and History. This gave him
a huge laugh. In his most desperate moments, it also gave him some
hope.

On his way up to the party, Yossi decided to stop off in Greenwich
Village. This was a neighborhood-like the Haight in San
Francisco and the Lower East Side of Manhattan-that he wished he
had been alive to experience in its heyday. With a few of his remaining
dollars, he bought a bag of potato chips and a liter of Hawaiian
Punch, and then planted himself on a bench in Washington Square
Park. He surveyed the early afternoon scene: summery women in
decidedly immodest tank tops, people sipping coffee from thermoses
as they walked their dogs, a small crowd dancing to the underwater
sound of a large steel drum played by a handsome, dreadlocked
black man.

If only these people in the park knew what he had looked like just
hours before, Yossi thought, cracking a smile. If only his friends and
family could see him sitting here now! Most of them would probably
be upset and confused, some even frightened, convinced that he
had completely lost his mind. His father, he knew, would be apoplectic.
To his mind, a boy like Yossi had no business being in such a
place, mixing freely among the goyim, who indulged their every desire
"like animals," filling their "empty" lives with sex and drugs and
God knows what other abominations.

Yossi had endured his father's tirades many times, but he could
never bring himself to feel the way the older man did. For, while his
father seemed to take great pleasure and pride in being a member of
the community, finding security and even status in the insular and
highly circumscribed way of life it promoted, Yossi had always chafed
at the community's narrowness and rigidity. He also marveled at its
uncanny ability to take aspects of religious observance that could
be joyful and turn them into onerous obligations or, worse, instruments
of fear-both of God and of other people. Indeed, Yossi was
more afraid of the spies and tattletales in his own community than
he could ever imagine being of God, if there even was a God.

Yossi felt that this was particularly ironic, given that the Ba'al
Shem Tov, an eighteenth-century storyteller and folk healer in
Central Europe (also known as the Besht), founded the Hasidic
movement as a reaction against what he perceived to be the overly
hierarchical, rigid, and legalistic Judaism of his day. Drawing on sophisticated
Jewish mystical (Kabbalistic) teachings, the Besht based
his movement on two theoretical concepts: religious pantheism, or
the omnipresence of God, and the communion between God and
man. In this view, God is present everywhere, not just in the spiritual
realm but in the material world as well, and, while He surely influences
the behavior of human beings, by focusing their thoughts,
actions, and utterances on Him, human beings can also influence
God.

According to the Besht, the righteous man is one who is in constant
communion with God, even in his worldly affairs, as God is
present in the material world. The Besht taught that this communion
was best achieved through fervent prayer, as well as heartfelt and
joyous song and dance; for him, then, the essence of religion rested
in sentiment rather than reason. Therefore, he placed ecstatic prayer
even above Talmudic study, which he felt was useful only when it
served to produce an exalted religious mood.

By elevating these modes of worship to the level of Torah study,
the Besht radically democratized worship, making authentic spirituality
accessible to even the commonest Jew. While Yossi knew
that there were some particularly learned Hasidim who talked and
even wrote about reforming present-day Hasidic life by bringing the
community back to the movement's radical roots, they tended to circulate
their ideas only among themselves. And so, such notions never
filtered down to the masses. Despite some of the distinctive social
and cultural practices that had endured, Yossi doubted that the Ba'al
Shem Tov would recognize what his movement had become.

Yossi believed that the main reason he and his father didn't see
eye to eye on the community had to do with the fact that they had
been raised under vastly different circumstances. Yossi's father was
born in Boro Park to American-born, nominally Orthodox parents
typical of their generation. Descended from Hasidim in Europe,
their own parents had come to the United States seeking a better
life and had raised their children to be a part of the American
mainstream. Both of Yossi's grandparents had attended public high
schools (his grandmother's best friend was a Catholic girl) and,
though they studied Jewish subjects after school, both also ultimately
went on to college. The two met at a wedding and courted
openly for six months, visiting restaurants and attending plays and
movies together. They married in 1948. At the time, Boro Park was
a fairly prosperous community, made up of Irish and Italian families,
as well as a largely American-born Jewish population.

In those days, Yossi's grandmother didn't cover her hair, and, like
all of her Jewish friends, she wore clothes that reflected the prevailing
styles. For his part, Yossi's grandfather went around clean-shaven,
wearing a suit and tie and hat, the same outfit he wore to shul, or synagogue,
on Shabbos. The family owned a television set and, in addition
to Rosh Hashanah, Yom Kippur, and Pesach, come November
they also celebrated Thanksgiving, with a turkey and all the trimmings.
Yossi's grandfather always insisted on that.

But then, in the mid-1960s, the neighborhood began to change.
Hasidim who had been living in Williamsburg and Crown Heights
began moving in. Most of them were refugees from Hitler who had
arrived in the United States en masse after the war. They had settled
in these other Brooklyn neighborhoods under the leadership of a
handful of charismatic rebbes, or spiritual leaders, who themselves
had either escaped the Nazis or survived the camps. Deeply traumatized
by their wartime experiences, and mostly poor and with almost
no knowledge of English and the American way of life, these newly
arrived Hasidim had immediately set about recreating the world that
had existed for them in Europe before the Holocaust. Many considered
this an obligation to those who had been murdered. It was also
a clear affirmation of their refusal to be annihilated.

One of the most powerful motivations these Hasidim had for
recreating their former way of life had to do with several rebbes'
claims about the causes of the Holocaust. The sixth Lubavitcher
rebbe taught his followers that the Holocaust was God's punishment
for Jewish assimilation in Europe, and even attributed his own rescue
from the Nazis to his keeping of the commandments. The
Satmar rebbe blamed the Holocaust on the Zionists, claiming that,
according to the Torah, only the Messiah could bring Jews back
to the land of Israel. To him, Zionism represented a blasphemous
usurpation of God's prerogative, and was a direct cause of the slaughter
of six million Jews. Both taught that only the strictest adherence
to a "Torah life" could protect their followers from another
such horror.

As a result, codes of modesty that had, for the most part, been
discarded by Orthodox Jews in America were reinstated in these communities.
Stricter kosher standards were promoted and enforced.
Television and movies, acceptable leisure pursuits among American
Orthodox Jews at the time, were regarded by these new Hasidim
as dangerous distractions from the Torah life and were immediately
banned. The adoption of Hasidic styles of dress, rooted to some
degree in Jewish law but mostly in Eastern European custom, also
served to distinguish the Hasidim from the goyim-a category that,
for them, included not only non-Jews but Reform and secular Jews
as well. And, with the authority to administer their own educational
institutions, these communities opened schools, or yeshivas. Aside
from fulfilling state-mandated requirements in basic English and
math, these yeshivas focused almost exclusively on religious education,
rendered in Yiddish (and, for the boys, Biblical Hebrew). Any
subject matter that could be seen as contradicting or undermining
the Hasidic worldview was excluded from the curriculum.

The efforts of these new immigrants were so successful that,
in less than twenty years, Williamsburg-and, to a lesser degree,
Crown Heights-had become a thriving Hasidic community, with
houses of worship and study for men, and ritual baths for women.
Then, in the 1960s, in reaction to the growing numbers of blacks and
Latinos moving into these areas, those residents who could afford it
began moving to more established, socially desirable Jewish neighborhoods,
such as Flatbush and Boro Park, bringing their attitudes,
lifestyles, and institutions with them. The Bobover rebbe himself
moved to Boro Park from Crown Heights in 1966.

While some in Boro Park resented the influx and ultimately
moved out, Yossi's grandfather admired these new Hasidim and grew
interested in becoming more like them. Slowly, he began changing
his appearance, eschewing goyish or "modern" styles of dress in favor
of the Hasidim's dark suits and white shirts. He even grew a
beard and started donning a bekishe, the long silk caftan worn by men
on Shabbos, in shul. When the Bobover school opened in the neighborhood,
he sent his then twelve-year-old son-Yossi's father-there
to learn. And though Yossi's grandmother had no special feeling for
these newcomers, whom she considered "extreme Europeans," she
went along with her husband and the neighborhood, covering her
hair and beginning to dress more modestly.

By the time Yossi's father was ready for marriage, Boro Park had
gone, as Egon Mayer has noted, from an American-Jewish community
in which Jews could become Americanized and still remain
Jewish, to a much more self-consciously Jewish community. This
transformation was no doubt aided by the growing emphasis on ethnic
identity and pride that was influencing the larger culture at the
time. And so, as Boro Park was becoming more Jewish and less American,
Yossi's father was becoming a full-fledged Hasid. And, like most
of those in the changed neighborhood, whether native-born or refugees,
he intended to raise his children in this new "tradition." They
would dress in the Hasidic manner, attend Hasidic schools, speak
Yiddish, and, unlike him, they would not be exposed to television or
movies or other types of people, even other types of Jews. And they
would certainly not celebrate Thanksgiving. They would have no
choice.

And so it had been for Yossi.

To be sure, there were things that Yossi liked about the way he
grew up: the warmth and excitement of certain holidays and celebrations,
which "gave life zest," "lit a fire under your ass," and made
some men literally shake with love for God; the Eastern European
food-especially cholent and herring-that topped the Sabbath table
every week; his time spent schmoozing with his friends at the beis
medrash,
or religious study hall, over endless cups of coffee and cigarettes.
But, as Yossi saw it, to enjoy these pleasures, he didn't have to
be religious, or even believe in God, and he certainly didn't have to
live the kind of life his father, and the people in his community, believed
he should.

Indeed, after the demise of Yossi's short-lived arranged marriage,
it had become increasingly difficult for him to imagine a life within
the community at all. He saw that most Hasidim were, as he described
it, "on the express train," getting married young and immediately
starting a family that could grow to have as many as fifteen
children in almost as many years. Divorce, still a source of stigma,
though slightly less so in recent years, thrust one out onto the subway
platform, with no clear sense of which train to hop next. Now
Yossi was on the platform and, without the heavy baggage of a wife
and children, he realized it was a place he was grateful to be.

It would be easy to blame the failure of Yossi's marriage on the
fact that he and his wife were young when they got engaged (barely
twenty), that they had met only twice before they wed, and that neither
had ever been alone with a member of the opposite sex who was
not a relative, much less been on any kind of date. But the truth is
that almost every Hasidic young person marries this way, and most
of those marriages remain intact. What ultimately ended Yossi's
marriage was that he bought a TV.

(Continues...)





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by Hella Winston
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  • Anonymous

    Posted February 15, 2006

    A Silenced Voice--NO LONGER!

    It is precisely reviews like 'Pulp Fiction' that show the great service 'Unchosen' has done. I, myself, grew up Chasidish and left. It was difficult. It is insulting to me that my experience and the individual experiences of the characters in 'Unchosen' need to be dismissed and regarded as fiction because it comes in conflict with the general happiness amongst Chasidim. Ms. Winston has successfully shared with us the stories and struggles of individuals who face a foreign outside world. She does not claim to tell the story of content Chasidim and that is clear to us in the TITLE of the book. For people who are interested in the glamour of a Hasidic life there are other books that can share that with you. However, it is unfair to attack a book that has given a voice to an unheard experience. It is not the duty of a writer to proclaim the wonders of the Hasidic community. It is similarly not the duty of the Hasidic world to proclaim the wonders of the outside world--and I assure you they don't. This book is not an advertisement for any world--it is the poignant story of pain and triumph that is a part of dramatic transition and choice on the part of the individuals who Ms. Winston so bravely introduces us to.

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  • Anonymous

    Posted October 20, 2005

    A Great Read

    Reading Unchosen made me think that even a non-Jew could cook an authentic Cholent, something I never believed possible. What is sometimes referred to as a homogeneous body, 'Chassidic Jewry' is in fact splintered into many different factions. At times, these factions are indistinguishable from each other, and at other times they are unrecognizable as belonging to the same religion. Sadly, most Chassidim--especially those descended from Hungary--live as a close-knit community and have little or nothing to do with the outside world, not even with their Jewish bretheren, as the Lubavitch Chassidim do. Lubavtichers are extremely different in their outlook and interaction with the 'outside.' br Hella Winston chose to write about this less well-known majority of Chassidim, focusing on the 'unchosen,' or rebles. A hard, laborious task considering the closeness of the community and the tight-lipped members of Satmar and other lesser-known branches of Chassidism. br Unchosen will make an excellent read for Jews who are not affiliated with Orthodoxy--which, today, is most Jews. Every secular, Reform or Conservative Jew descends from an Orthodox ancestor not too far down the line and this is a fascinating way to re-live a great grandfather's quandary, an ancestor's pain and misery in leaving a tradition or way of life, or to understand the love/hate relationship with anything sacred of a beloved grandmother.

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  • Anonymous

    Posted March 7, 2013

    Hell

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  • Posted April 13, 2012

    Brilliant!

    I thoroughly enjoyed this book. It honestly portrayed the challenges faced by those people, who for whatever reason, do not feel like they belong in the Chassidic community. It is comprised of the stories of separate individuals, and it was riveting!

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  • Anonymous

    Posted February 6, 2006

    Unchosen: The Hidden Lives of Hasidic Rebels

    Thanks goodness for Hella Winston's accurate portrayal of those of us caught in the chassidic time warp. The frustration and sadness is overpowering. Her book was like a ray of hope.

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  • Anonymous

    Posted February 6, 2006

    Unchosen: The Hidden Lives of Hasidic Rebels

    For this chassidish woman, Hella Winston's book was like a gift. She only scratched the surface of the problems faced by people like me who cannot conform to this way of life. Please ignore those people who attack the author. To me and many others like me, this book tells the truth about our lives and offers hope that maybe things will change. This just proves that you don't have to be an 'insider' to understand what goes on in the chassidish world and maybe it even takes an outsider to have the courage to write the truth. Many chassidim are engaged in a cover-up, which helps no one and harms some very wonderful people in the process.

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  • Anonymous

    Posted February 7, 2006

    A must read

    Unchosen is well written, accurate and a great resource concerning the life of Hasidic rebels.

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  • Anonymous

    Posted January 13, 2006

    Extra! Extra! Pulp Fiction about Hasidim is 'Research!'

    It is doubtful that Ms. Winston will get very far with this 'research' project. Even if her book may contain some nuggets of truth about hasidim, it is way off the mark! The majority of hasidim lead wholesome lives and are quite content in practicing their religion and traditions. In fact, Hasidism blooms today more than ever in the U.S., Israel and other far corners of our globe! For every disgruntled, troubled person who leaves the 'fold' there are several hundred happy, well-adjusted hasidim who are carrying forth the torch! Demographics prove that the future of Judaism is with Orthodoxy and also with Hasidim. L'Chaim!!

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  • Anonymous

    Posted November 6, 2005

    She certainly tried. But understanding, and subsequently explaining the culture - is beyond her.

    While well written, I find that Hella Winston missed the big picture because of her preassumed notions. In spite of her efforts to be open-minded it is always easier to have your beliefs validated rather the shattered. So quite naturally she chose the former. The Hasidic Community is as human as any other. We are a sensation only because of who we are, what we stand for - and the fact that we unfortunately sometimes forget that. I actually went so far as to open a blog to discuss her discrepancies, which arose from a perspective that was inevitable with her being as an outsider looking in. You can find me at blogspot.com under the blogger name of rechosen.

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  • Anonymous

    Posted December 27, 2005

    sincere, but didnt quite get it

    a bit shallow,it seems the author was under the impression that 'if you look the same, you think the same'.There is a unique mind under the hat. The book fails to discuss the illusions these confused souls were expecting to have after 'the Change' & the continued feelings of emptiness in their lives. the book is telling a simple fact which is known to all in regard to any religion there are always those that are unhappy. lacking deep insight

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  • Anonymous

    Posted December 11, 2005

    Buying this is one of the missled...

    1- A REBEL is someone that rebel's period. No matter in which culture or society they are raised in. 2- When a dog bites a human it's not published in all the news papers. But when a human bites a dog every body is talking about it. Because it's rare. The fact that the author wrote this book shows that it's very rare. 3- Unfortunately the author couldn't find a nicer way of making money.

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