Understanding Men's Passages; Discovering the New Map of Men's Lives

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The author of the landmark work Passages now brings us an intimate and candid account of what men's lives are really like today, revealing their doubts, their passions, their hunger for renewal. Given their increasingly unpredictable and elongated lives, men need to reinvent themselves and expand the ways they demonstrate their manliness. Sheehy makes the case that it is men in middle life who have the best chance to become masters of their fates. Hundreds of men have told her their stories. Featured here are ...
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The author of the landmark work Passages now brings us an intimate and candid account of what men's lives are really like today, revealing their doubts, their passions, their hunger for renewal. Given their increasingly unpredictable and elongated lives, men need to reinvent themselves and expand the ways they demonstrate their manliness. Sheehy makes the case that it is men in middle life who have the best chance to become masters of their fates. Hundreds of men have told her their stories. Featured here are confidences from both celebrities and everyday heroes, creating a mirror in which every man can locate his possibilities for growth and change. These bold, feisty, imaginative men recount how they have discovered what is missing and forged new directions to invigorate the second half of their lives.
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Editorial Reviews

Elaine Showalter
I hope men will take the daring step of reading the book for themselves, because Sheehy's advice, bolstered with demographic research, group interviews, medical commentary and personal testimony, is tough and wise. -- New York Times Book Review
Publishers Weekly - Publisher's Weekly
The years after 40 offer men a "second adulthood," declares Sheehy, a chance to reinvent themselves. But first they must shift from competing to connecting, from incessant striving for external rewards to a quest for inner fulfillment through meaningful pursuits, after determining what they really want of the second half of their lives. In a constructive, enlightening guide to self-discovery for men and their partners, the author of "Passages" and "New Passages" uses 100 male interviewees, case histories and medical and psychological research to probe men's feelings about death, spiritual hollowness, empty nest syndrome, separation anxieties, their envy of their empowered working wives, pre-retirement jitters and waning sexual potency. There are enough fresh angles in this searching exploration of male malaise to help men tailor their goals and dreams to real-life circumstances.
Walter Anderson
Gail Sheehy has managed to penetrate the hidden vault of men's fears and secrets -- the real concerns that men do not share with each other. Men -- and women -- need to read this book to understand who we men really are and who we are becoming. The storytelling alone is worth the price of admission. -- Walter Anderson, Parade Magazine
Kirkus Reviews
Despite some facile passages, the bestselling journalist Sheehy ("Passages", 1976; "New Passages", 1995; etc.) has done it again: engaged in a good deal of research, interviewed many of the right people, and then produced a beautifully readable, very useful guide to important aspects of adult human development. Her focus is both descriptive, charting the changing nature of American men's lives from the "second adulthood" that often begins between ages 40 and 50, through the attempt to live a vigorous, still-evolving old age, and prescriptive, helping men to rethink their lives in order to make a "preemptive strike against sameness and sourness." Sheehy's overly and redundantly upbeat tone can indeed be grating at times, and she does venture her share of insipid, undocumented generalizations: "Women are happier in midlife than they have been in any previous generation" (tell that to the economically downwardly mobile divorced women studied by Judith Wallerstein). But the author more than compensates for such passages by picking just the right variety of professionals and laypeople with whom to speak, by asking probing questions, listening well, and (usually) writing even better. The cumulative mass of her information, observations, and anecdotes is immensely impressive, addressing a wide variety of issues related to middle-aged men's dilemmas—from being laid off abruptly to beginning a new career, from impotence to sexuality among the aged, from depression (and new findings about its close correlation with heart attacks) to struggling for emotional regeneration. Much of this will help thousands of men and women alike. Credit also should go to both author and publisher fordoing a first-rate job on a commonly overlooked aspect of popular books: providing crisp, imaginative headings and an appealing layout. This is a rare work of engaging and substantive pop-psych that is perfectly balanced between psychology and the þpopular.
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Product Details

  • ISBN-13: 9780786216390
  • Publisher: Gale Group
  • Publication date: 10/1/1999
  • Series: Paperback Bestsellers Ser.
  • Edition description: LARGEPRINT
  • Edition number: 1
  • Pages: 541
  • Product dimensions: 5.50 (w) x 8.43 (h) x 0.89 (d)

Table of Contents

Author's Note
Acknowledgments
Pt. I What Do Men Want?
Ch. 1 It's a Guy Thing 3
Ch. 2 The New Map of Adult Life 17
Pt. II Flourishing Forties
Ch. 3 Why Do I Still Feel Like a Kid? 27
Ch. 4 Manhood on Trial 45
Ch. 5 Married and Mortal 78
Pt. III Fearless Fifties
Ch. 6 Passage to Your Second Adulthood 95
Ch. 7 Redirect Your Life Before the Hammer Falls 121
Ch. 8 Love and War with Wives, Fathers, Children 146
Pt. IV Who's Afraid of Male Menopause?
Ch. 9 The Male Sexual Life Cycle 177
Ch. 10 Secrets of Perpetual Virility 193
Pt. V Influential Sixties
Ch. 11 Passage to the Age of Integrity 215
Ch. 12 Progress Versus Despair 227
Pt. VI What Keeps a Man Young?
Ch. 13 Unconventional Wisdom 243
Appendices 259
Bibliography 269
Index 275
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