When Every Day Matters, A Mother's Memoir On Love, Loss And Life [NOOK Book]

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When Every Day Matters, A Mother's Memoir On Love, Loss And Life is a first person narrative which addresses the questions, "Are you feeling hopeless because you have lost someone close to you, particularly a child? Do you need to feel someone else understands your loss? Do you need to find some peace and hope again?" Do you wish family, friends and others would respond differently to your pain?

In this intimate, deeply personal, spiritual and...
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When Every Day Matters, A Mother's Memoir On Love, Loss And Life

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Overview

When Every Day Matters, A Mother's Memoir On Love, Loss And Life is a first person narrative which addresses the questions, "Are you feeling hopeless because you have lost someone close to you, particularly a child? Do you need to feel someone else understands your loss? Do you need to find some peace and hope again?" Do you wish family, friends and others would respond differently to your pain?

In this intimate, deeply personal, spiritual and psychological memoir, Mary Jane Hurley Brant, a practicing psychotherapist for 31 years, candidly addresses the loss of her daughter, Katie, who died after battling a brain tumor for 28 years. Mary Jane, who specializes in grief and loss professionally, understands personally the impact that the loss of a beloved child has upon a mother, father and family because she has been there. This book addresses the trauma of loss on the soul and how it unleashes original family of origin wounds and issues within a family system. In this book you will read reflections and gain deep insight and practical suggestions into how to proceed in the aftermath of child loss. You will also learn how to manage your suffering on a day-to-day basis.

We all know that after a devastating loss the journey to recovery is a lonely one. Now you don’t have to walk your path alone. The message of hope, the insightful "Looking Back Reflections" in When Every Day Matters will comfort your heart and soul, body and mind. Sarah Ban Breathnach, author of the hugely successful Simple Abundance and publisher of Simple Abundance Press and When Every Day Matters, believes this powerful book will become a classic on the grief journey, "MJ Hurley Brant's book is a gift of grace. For those who are hurting, a spiritual blessing awaits in between every line. There's solace and genuine wisdom here."

Larry Kirshbaum, Former Chairman/CEO of Time-Warner Book Group and Publishers Weekly 05 Person of the Year says, "This is a book that will break your heart and put it back together again. This is the story of a daughter who wouldn't give up and a mother who never lost faith. The reader can't help but be inspired by the indomitable human spirit that resides within Mary Jane Brant."
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Editorial Reviews

Nadia Maria Smith
When Every Day Matters brings comfort to anyone experiencing death of a loved one. Hurley Brant, a psychotherapist, opens her heart to reveal her own grieving process. Writes about the unspeakable pain, uncertainty and loss of desire to live, but she also reaches deep to reveal that through each tragedy there is an opportunity for a renewed life filled with grace, compassion, wisdom and choice. Hurley Brant gives insights into how to support someone grieving.
James Hollis, Ph.D.
The World's Worst Club - For a first-person description of the soul's daily struggle to find its course, this is a book to read. This work arises from a woman whose Jungian perspective brings a depth of insight and working knowledge ….Spoken with eloquence and candor; offering hope without minimizing trauma and lasting pain. When Every Day Matters: A Mother's Memoir offers a gift I value…to the very week that my son, Timothy died, and I joined the World's Worst Club.
Kathy Boccella
Mother Turns To Writing To Ease Grief - In When Every Day Matters therapist Mary Jane Hurley Brant writes of efforts she and daughter made to maintain their joy and passion for life while struggling against a devastating disease. These letters are rarely angry or self-pitying. They are wistful, deeply personal, and at times funny. In a matter-of-fact yet moving voice, Brant describes the ups and downs her family faced during illness and after death. Book helps other grieving parents.
Robert Ellis
In When Every Day Matters, Mary Jane Hurley Brant weaves her personal experiences with a rainbow of inspirational perspectives and quotations from others who have loved and lost. Brant reflects on her own family dynamics, looking back to her own father’s death, the influences of her family, friends and circumstances, and the tides of faith that sustain her. “The heart and soul are very slow to heal.You need time.”
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Product Details

  • BN ID: 2940012468420
  • Publisher: Simple Abundance Press
  • Publication date: 5/12/2011
  • Sold by: Barnes & Noble
  • Format: eBook
  • Pages: 294
  • Sales rank: 1,049,668
  • File size: 2 MB

Meet the Author

Mary Jane Hurley Brant is a Certified Group Psychotherapist and a Certified Leader of the Simple Abundance Principles and Peace and Plenty Workshops. For 31 years she has worked as a Human Relations Counselor with a concentration in Jungian studies and depth psychology. She specializes in grief therapy. She works to guide and champion her couples and clients to value and love the person that they are and were born to become. The therapeutic alliance she establishes with others helps validate their personal experience. MJ believes faith and spiritual beliefs make life bearable in hard times and a joy in the other times.

Her private practice is in Paoli, PA and she also does consultations by telephone.
MJ is also an artist who has sold her work in Connecticut and Pennsylvania. She is married for 41 years and has 3 beautiful grandchildren, a son and daughter-in-law.
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  • Posted July 30, 2009

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    Profound and Deeply Moving - This book is for anyone who has been touched by grief and would like to understand the journey.

    Bravo MJ! Thank you for the amazing courage and strength you possess that allowed and inspired this magnificent book!

    Fourteen years after my father's passing, with this book, I have finally found a way to understand my own complex feelings of grief as well as those of my mother. M.J.'s heartfelt, raw and touching story of her beautiful daughter's sojourn provides a gateway to understanding unconditional love, loss and the inevitable journey back to life and joy. This book will help you to understand some of your own feelings, thoughts and actions as well as those of others during unfamiliar and unconscionable circumstances. MJ's style is conversational, heartfelt and awash with honesty and pure love.

    This book is sure to change the world... I know it has already changed mine.

    2 out of 2 people found this review helpful.

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  • Posted July 16, 2009

    Wonderful, Inspirational Book!

    This book is an inspirational account of how a young woman embraced her life and inspired so many around her during ten years of battling cancer. Katie's wisdom and grace provides the reader with a way to consider hardships in one's own life. Likewise, her mother's honest accouting of her grief, family dynamics and psychological insights gives the reader an example of how to navigate challenges in life.

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  • Posted July 13, 2009

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    A Book To Remember

    When Everyday Matters: A Mother's Memoir On Love, Loss and Life by M.J.Hurley Brant is a beautifully written, heartbreaking book about the life and death of the author's lovely, intelligent, funny, amazing daughter, Katie. In my work as a psychologist, I deal with difficult issues of all kinds but there is nothing worse than the death of a child. This forthright and loving book will be an invaluable source of comfort and encouragement to anyone dealing with such a tragic loss. It offers insight into how Katie and her wonderful family lived day in and day out, year in and year out waiting for the other shoe to drop but still managing to embrace everyday with joy and hope. At the end of Katie's story, one is left with a desire to manifest the kind of courage with which Katie lived her brave and selfless life. I highly recommend this deeply touching memoir.

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    Posted June 13, 2014

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