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Posted December 28, 2012
Relationships are very fragile. Everyone wants to have one and they think that they would be great with a partner but then something happens. They cheat on that person they claim they loved more than anything. How do you overcome that? How are you supposed to trust and love them if you're the one being cheated on? Well this book is a way to help you understand what you need to do for yourself rather than worrying about them. If they screwed up you don't want to let them have control again. You want to think about what's best for you.
This book talks about the ways to deal with the problems of a cheating spouse. You'll have a lot of things to think about after all. You need to decide if you can trust them again or if you even want to keep trying to have a relationship with them. You'll also have to decide how you're going to handle the news. What they think or want isn't important and you want to make sure that you are thinking only about you in this situation.
The writing style of this book was very good. Stephen Williams was able to make the entire process seem much simpler and he also made it simple to understand. I like reading his books because he's always so kind and friendly about teaching things even when they are things no one really wants to learn like how to deal with a cheating spouse. It was really easy to understand what he thought you should do.
If you're going through this situation where you're trying to deal with a cheating spouse you should read this book. It has a lot of advice that will really help you to make the right choices and decisions about what to do with the situation. Of course, no one can tell you what to do but you'll get some tips and ideas on how to deal with this and what you should think about before you make your decision.
This book would do a great job for anyone that's looking to find out what they should do in this type of situation. Understanding why your spouse would do something like this and how you can get past it is a difficult task but with Williams, you'll be able to get some practical tips and advice.
This book made me feel happy that there were others out there that had situations like this. Many people actually go through these types of problems and it's always good to know you're not alone. I have a sister who would definitely benefit from this book since she's gone through this situation. Understanding how to make your decision and not having someone telling you what you should do is a great idea.
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What you should really know!
It really is disheartening to see how cavalier we have become about infidelity. There is barely any honor among men these days and it
is getting harder and harder to trust the ones you sleep next to. Stephen address the tragic truth that cheating has become the norm. I
was watching a very old television program the other day and there was a quote that is most applicable to my review of this book and
that quote is"No truth is so powerful that it cannot be tested with doubt and there is no man so important that he is infallible". The movie
was called, `The Outer Limits.
We must always be wary of the fact that people are inherently prone to making mistakes, no one is perfect and we really cannot take
people solely at their word. Stephen basically reminds us that we are all flawed that way and because of our predisposition to lie and do
things that we would later regret, we all deserve a chance at forgiveness. The most important thing to remember is that forgiving
someone does not necessarily mean that you should forget what they did. How else can you learn from your mistakes if you dismiss
the memory of the lesson?
Stephen tries to give you the advise you need to keep a level head when you are faced with a cheating spouse or partner. In truth
problems are rarely every solved when you are angry or resentful. Stephen takes a very stern approach to delivering his message. He
does not take the idea of cheating lightly. This book is all about second chances. It really does help you work through issues that you
would have normally walked away from.
Relationships require a lot of work and even though some of us may not want to admit it, our attitudes towards or partners can become
part of the reason they choose to seek pleasure outside of the relationship. Stephen teaches you how to work on strengthening your
relationship so that you don't ever have to suffer the pain of cheating. This is not a book to be taken lightly because the content is both
relevant and enlightening.
It was a bit short and I found there were some areas there that he could have expanded on. Perhaps he could have included part that
dealt with repeat offenders in great detail. Some of us may follow his advice and have a successful relationship, others may forgive and
move on, but what are you required to do when your partner cheats again? It's certainly something to think about.
Posted January 18, 2013
Cheating, or infidelity, is not acceptable in any shape or form but
unfortunately it is becoming more and more common in this day and age –
although perhaps now it is just more publicized due to the media that never
existed in the old days? Either way, it is an important issue that needs to be
addressed and this book helps us to understand why people cheat, how to
make sense of the hurt and how to either fix it or move on.
Stephen Williams’ books all deal with how to deal with problems in
every day life and in this book he talks us through how to process our
feelings if our partner cheats on us. What I like most about it is that he
also addresses the reasons as to why people tend to cheat and he
provides us with steps that we can work on with our partners to make
sure that we don’t cheat in future. This book is written in a very informative
and direct way, which is exactly what you need if you are faced with the
emotional situation of cheating, or if you need to work on improving your
relationship. In this book, Stephen becomes your confidante and will be
your shoulder to lean on. If your partner has cheated on you then Stephen
will help you with the answer for the biggest question that you will have…
should you forgive or should you move on… what is the right choice?
“It is necessary to the happiness of man that he be mentally faithful to himself.
Infidelity does not consist in believing, or in disbelieving; it consists in
professing to believe what he does not believe. “
Posted January 17, 2013
A cheating partner…one of the worst things ever that can ever happen to anyone.
I say this with force because I am strongly against infidelity. I experienced it once and it is not nice. I was down for a while and even now, it still affects me. I now have a great relationship but ever so often, I question things my partner does because of what happened in my past.
When I saw this book, I honestly was not going to get it. But, when I looked across the hall at my partner, I decided to. I guess I just needed something to help me to move on and have a happy life.
I am used to Stephen Williams being a sex and adult writer but he was really good in this book. I actually learnt some things that I am sure will be useful in my interaction with my current partner. He lets you know that there things that you can do to get over the hurt that you experienced and also things that you can do to get back out there!
I would recommend this book to anyone who has felt the pain that cheating causes. Good read!
Posted December 30, 2012
When a partner cheats, the effects can be devastating. It can be twice as bad, when they also try to be deceptive about it. Stephen Williams has creates a book that will help to make it through the issue of your partner cheating. Stephen William’s approach on the issue is a no nonsense approach. He does not sugarcoat what suggestions he makes in this book.
Stephen Williams is a expert when it comes to relationships and health related issues. This book here is no exception to that rule. He is very knowledgeable and able to write in a way that anyone can understand. This makes him very beneficial in the writing field. The only real issue that I found was that the information would sometimes sound more like something we should here as a child instead of an adult.
This book is a good way for someone to be able to sit back and find a way through the issue of your partner having cheated on you. While there are many good ideas in this book, you have to remember that you have to be able to trust your partner in order for any relationship to be able to work.
Stephen Williams did a really good job writing this book, and it shows in the way that the information flows. He made this book simple and easy to understand, although he was able to compile a lot of information. He has found a way to help those that have been cheated on, along with being able to show different options for handling the situation.
Posted December 26, 2012
How to save your relationships?
Romantic relationships are perfect at the beginning. Love, kisses and real dependent to each other – this seem perfect. However, some time later problems could appear and affect your ideal world. Some people say – love is a hard work; you should support it all the time. I believe there are two main things that make any relationships strong: truth and respect. If you are sincere with your couple, your partner can easily trust and believe you.
Sometimes things go wrong and something has to be changed to prevent horrible consequences. Doing this in time is very important, as well as make all decisions calm and without a panic. “When Your Partner Cheats: Brace For The Worst, Prepare For The Future” is exactly about this. Stephen Williams gives important advices that are critically needed. Unfortunately, some of them are far from reality, as it’s very hard to stay so calm and cold-minded, when we are talking about feelings and about someone we really care.
This book gives me a lot inspiration to think about relations and about forgiveness and trust. Maybe, it’s too easy, you’ll find far more problems in such situation in reality, but some of the given advices are very useful for everyone, who has this annoying feeling that something goes wrong right now.