Why Mr. Right Can't Find You: The Surprising Answers That Will Change Your Life--And His

Why Mr. Right Can't Find You: The Surprising Answers That Will Change Your Life--And His

by J. M. Kearns
     
 

How many of us limit our romantic choice to the people who happen to wash up on our shore?

Many single women think:
"I'm not seeing him anywhere; therefore he doesn't exist. (The good man I would like to be with.) Or if he does exist, he doesn't want me. Men want 'Perfection'."

But in reality, your dream man is out there looking for you. Why hasn't

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Overview

How many of us limit our romantic choice to the people who happen to wash up on our shore?

Many single women think:
"I'm not seeing him anywhere; therefore he doesn't exist. (The good man I would like to be with.) Or if he does exist, he doesn't want me. Men want 'Perfection'."

But in reality, your dream man is out there looking for you. Why hasn't he found you? Because he can't do it alone. He needs you to believe he exists, and to help him find you. Mr. Right needs your help.

It just isn't true that all men are looking for the media's "perfect woman." Whatever your personality,n body type, or age, there are men out there who think you are fabulous. So don't worry about what "most men want"; use this book to find the worthy men who want you.

Why Mr. Right Can't Find You will show you exactly how to reach out to where your dream partner can reach you. You'll also get expert advice to give you an edge in the remarkable opportunity that is online dating. And a hilariously truthful guide to the riddle of compatibility, to help you recognize Mr. Right-for-you.

Our self-help culture has put up a wall between men and women, making it hard of them to hear each other's voices. Why Mr. Right Can't Find You tears down this wall, revealing that men are not shallow, not the enemy, and not aliens from Mars!

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Editorial Reviews

From the Publisher
"If you’ve been on the lookout for ages but still haven’t found The One, this is for you...you’ll be in the arms of your true love in no time!" (OK! Magazine)

"A literary MRI of the male brain." (Georgie Binks, CBC News Viewpoint)

"Kearns insists it’s really not difficult to direct the right man to you, whether it’s online, someone you already know, or a total stranger. So read this, sit back and wait for the offers to pour in... Kearns says we should break the mentality of ‘acceptable’ places and realize ‘any time is a good time to meet Mr. Right.’ And sadly, men can’t read our minds to establish our interest, so direct him to you." (Cosmopolitan-UK)

Publishers Weekly
Practical, encouraging and giddily optimistic, regular guy Kearns is convinced that "the world is full of lonely winners," but that the hunt for Mr. Right is often unsuccessful because women are taught, consciously and otherwise, not to make themselves available, and thus "don't give themselves enough of a choice." Kearns directs the lovelorn to embrace every opportunity to meet people, no matter how trivial the occasion, and not just when you're "ready for a Vogue cover shot." As women's own barriers to meeting people are the first that must come down, Kearns gently undermines the conventions and insecurities that keep them from actively and effectively seeking a mate, including self-defeating myths ("Serious relationships never begin in bars") and media-inspired body-image issues. Part one takes apart the myriad rituals of courtship, including chapters on "How Women Choose Men" and vice-versa, "The Perfect Place to Meet" and "Going Out Alone." He then tackles the "True and False Signs of Compatibility" across a number of axes (sense of humor, sex, goals), and devotes part three to destigmatizing and demystifying the online dating scene with a detailed step-by-step primer. Personal anecdotes round out this thorough, thoughtful and entirely upbeat dating guide.
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Product Details

ISBN-13:
9780470154595
Publisher:
Wiley, John & Sons, Incorporated
Publication date:
02/04/2008
Pages:
280
Product dimensions:
6.00(w) x 7.90(h) x 0.90(d)

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