Will Medicine Stop the Pain?: Finding God's Healing for Depression, Anxiety, and Other Troubling Emotions

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Where do my feelings come from?
Is emotional pain a disease?
Can I really change?
What is wrong with me?
 
Countless women struggle daily with depression, anxiety, out-of-control moods, and other troubling emotions. Will Medicine ...
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Overview


Where do my feelings come from?
Is emotional pain a disease?
Can I really change?
What is wrong with me?
 
Countless women struggle daily with depression, anxiety, out-of-control moods, and other troubling emotions. Will Medicine Stop the Pain? offers clear answers to help women handle emotional problems in a stable, God-honoring way.
 
The authors, both seasoned biblical counselors, include stories from real people and practical advice on issues like how to talk to your doctor. Read this book to learn:
  • How your body and your emotions affect each other.
  • Why drugs that help you feel better may end up making your emotional problems worse.
  • How applying biblical principles can help you deal with the true sources of your pain.
  • Why it is possible to respond to emotional pain in faith and hope.

 
 
“God is with you—no matter how you feel. His promises are stronger than all your feelings.”
 
 
I urge you to read this book all the way through—with a prayerful heart and an open mind. It may be one of the most important, helpful books you have read. It will likely challenge your thinking on many fronts. It will certainly give you a vision for how your suffering (and the suffering of others) can become a path to great blessing and growth and can result in the display of God’s glory in this fallen world.
                                                                   From the foreword by NANCY LEIGH DEMOSS
 
 
 
 
 
ELYSE FITZPATRICK (MA, Trinity Theological Seminary) has been counseling women since 1989 and is presently a conference speaker and counselor at her church in Southern California. She is also a member of the National Association of Nouthetic Counselors. Elyse has authored ten books, and co-authored one Gold Medallion Book Award finalist.
 
LAURA HENDRICKSON (MD, Michigan State University College of Human Medicine; diplomate, American Board of Psychiatry and Neurology) is a biblical counselor who formerly practiced psychiatry. She is also a member of the National Association of Nouthetic Counselors and is co-author with Elyse Fitzpatrick and Jim Newheiser of When Good Kids Make Bad Choices.
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I urge you to read this book all the way through-with a prayerful heart and an open mind. It may be one of the most important, helpful books you have read. It will likely challenge your thinking on many fronts. It will certainly give you a vision for how your suffering (and the suffering of others) can become a path to great blessing and growth and can result in the display of God's glory in this fallen world.
-From the foreword by Nancy Leigh DeMoss
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Product Details

  • ISBN-13: 9780802458025
  • Publisher: Moody Publishers
  • Publication date: 5/1/2006
  • Pages: 234
  • Sales rank: 679,178
  • Product dimensions: 5.90 (w) x 8.90 (h) x 0.70 (d)

Meet the Author


ELYSE FITZPATRICK has been counseling women since 1989 and is presently a part-time counselor at Grace Church in San Diego. She holds a certificate in biblical counseling from the Christian Counseling and Education Foundation (San Diego) and an M.A. in Biblical Counseling from Trinity Theological Seminary. Elyse is the author of twelve books including Women Helping Women, Love to Eat, Hate to Eat, Idols of the Heart, and The Afternoon of Life. She is a member of the National Association of Nouthetic Counseling. A frequent speaker at women's conferences, she has been married for nearly thirty years and has three adult children and two grandchildren. She and her husband, Philip, reside in Escondido, California.

DR. LAURA HENDRICKSON (MD, Michigan State University College of Human Medicine; Diplomate, American Board of Psychiatry and Neurology) is a biblical counselor, former psychiatrist, and the mother of an adult son who has recovered from autism. She is a member of the National Association of Nouthetic Counselors and is author of Finding Your Child's Way on the Autism Spectrum, Will Medicine Stop the Pain? and co-author of When Good Kids Make Bad Choices. She lives in Southern California with her husband, Daniel.

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WILL MEDICINE STOP THE PAIN?

Finding God's healing for depression, anxiety & other troubling emotions
By Elyse Fitzpatrick Laura Hendrickson

Moody Publishers

Copyright © 2006 Elyse Fitzpatrick and Laura Hendrickson
All right reserved.

ISBN: 0-8024-5802-5


Chapter One

WHAT'S WRONG WITH ME?

* * *

His divine power has granted to us everything pertaining to life and godliness, through the true knowledge of Him who called us by His own glory and excellence.

2 Peter 1:3

NOT LONG AGO, Julie approached me (Laura) at a conference where I was speaking to ask my advice about her depression.

"Can you tell me about how your problem began?" I asked.

"I'm not sure," she responded. "One day I just began to feel sad for no apparent reason. Over time I lost my appetite and had difficulty falling and staying asleep at night. Now I often cry for no reason. My doctor tells me that I have depression, and that I need to take medicine to cure it. Do you think that medicine would help me?"

I asked Julie about anything that might have happened shortly before the onset of her symptoms, and she told me she couldn't think of any significant changes that had occurred in her life. Then I asked her some general questions about her marriage, family, work, and faith. Julie told me that she felt trapped in a loveless marriage. In addition, her ten-year-old son was a behaviorproblem in school. And her teenage daughter had been caught abusing illegal drugs. Julie was also worried she might be laid off from her job soon.

"As for my faith, I'm really struggling with why God would allow all these things to happen to me," Julie concluded.

"Wow, you have a lot of serious problems!" I exclaimed. "I think many people would be tempted to lose heart and question their faith in God if they had even a few of your problems."

"No, that's not it," Julie objected. "I mean, I do have problems, but I think I have a disease, and I'd be depressed even if I didn't have these problems. My doctor says that when your depression comes on you out of the blue like this, it is a disease, not just problems. He said that when this happens, it means I need medicine."

WHERE ARE THESE FEELINGS COMING FROM?

Many women experiencing painful emotions similar to Julie's are confused about what is happening to them and wonder what, if anything, they can do about them. Some women, after trying for years to find the right answers, have become convinced their pain is a disease and that only medicine can make them feel normal again. Well-meaning doctors may even have told them that they cannot possibly hope to improve without the help of medicine.

Other women notice that there seems to be a connection between their pain and the difficulties they are facing, and feel uneasy about taking a drug to solve what may really be an emotional problem. Yet their loved ones urge them to take medicine, reasoning that it's important for them to start feeling better as soon as possible. This does seem to make sense, doesn't it? Why wouldn't we want to take a pill if it can make our emotional pain go away?

In this chapter, we'll learn what the Bible teaches about our physical and spiritual makeup. We'll also discuss what the Bible teaches about the origin of our emotions, and how our responses to them can make our problems better or worse.

Along the way you'll be introduced to a biblical perspective of our nature as human beings created by God. This information may be new to you, and perhaps you never considered learning about God's design of the body in order to understand your emotions. But as you read on, you'll see there is a definite connection. And what you learn will give you a foundation upon which you can make better-informed decisions about your emotional pain.

INTRODUCING THE "REAL YOU"

The Biblical Perspective

Many passages in the Bible teach that we are duplex beings. That is, we consist of two distinct aspects: a body or outer person, and a spirit or inner person. Your outer person is what everyone around you sees and is most aware of-it's the "you" everyone recognizes. On the other hand, your inner person, what the Bible calls the "heart," "soul," "mind," or "spirit," is the hidden side of you that thinks, feels, and makes choices. This inner person is the real you that God sees and interacts with (1 Samuel 16:7; Hebrews 4:13). Your inner person is the source of the activity that can be measured in the brain, which is part of your outer person, or your physical body.

When a woman is feeling sad inside, her body reveals that sadness outwardly in her face, the tone of her voice, and her actions. We can often guess what she is thinking, feeling, or choosing on the inside because it affects what is happening on the outside. Our speech and behavior are the body's outward expression of our inner life. Jesus taught this truth when He said, "The good man out of the good treasure of his heart brings forth what is good ... for his mouth speaks from that which fills his heart" (Luke 6:45).

It's obvious that our bodies can respond to the thoughts, feelings, and choices from our inner person with noticeable physical changes. For instance, our blood pressure rises and our cheeks flush when we become angry. This works the other way too. Our physical bodies can also influence our thoughts, feelings, and choices. For instance, an untreated rapid heartbeat can cause us to feel anxious, even if there is nothing to be worried about. Physical pain or illness can also produce a variety of painful or negative emotional responses.

The Materialist Perspective

The Bible teaches you are made up of two distinct yet interacting parts: an outer person and an inner person. In contrast to this biblical teaching, many people today believe that we consist solely of a body. This view is called materialism, which is the belief that the material world (what we can sense and measure) is all that there is. A true materialist does not believe in God, the afterlife, or the inner person. A materialist would deny that the faith you hold dear is anything more than the evolved firing off of certain nerve synapses in your brain.

It seems clear we can't hold to a materialistic view and a Christian view at the same time, doesn't it? Even so, many of us who believe in the Bible are prone to think as materialists do when it comes to our health. Although we believe in an unseen and powerful inner or spiritual realm that exists beyond the physical world, we can sometimes lose sight of that inner realm when we think about how our bodies work.

We're sure you'll agree it is very important for your faith to serve as the foundation upon which you make decisions about your health. In order for that to happen, you need to understand how the materialistic view of the body contradicts the biblical teachings about the nature of humanity.

Our Beliefs Shape Our Conclusions

A materialist believes that the physical brain is the part of us that thinks, feels, and makes choices. He believes that our thoughts, feelings, and choices depend solely upon the balance of our brain's chemicals. A materialist would say that what we experience as consciousness is simply part of the chemical activity that takes place in the brain.

The materialist believes that our thoughts come solely from our brain's activity because scientific studies have shown a connection between our brain's functions and our thoughts, feelings, and choices. The data that the materialist is looking at is valid. The brain does change when a person is thinking, feeling, or choosing, and these changes can be measured. But the conclusions the materialist draws from this data are false because he bases these conclusions on his belief that the physical world is all there is.

Here's an example of how our beliefs shape our conclusions: If I believe that the world is flat, when I look out at the ocean (which I love to do every summer), I'll think that the horizon I see must be the edge of the world. If I believe that what I can see with my eyes is the only truth (and the earth sure seems flat!), I may even laugh at those who try to tell me that the earth is round.

We all interpret what we see based upon what we believe. If you believe that you consist of a body and an inner person, then you'll interpret problems with your emotions differently than you would if you believed that you were solely a physical body.

For the Christian, then, the interpretation of scientific information has to begin with an unchanging assumption: God's Word is true. Our interpretation of everything we see and hear must begin with this belief. When we look at scientific facts through the lens of Scripture, we will arrive at very different conclusions than the ones materialists reach when they look at the same facts through the lens of their assumptions.

That brings us to a key point for this book: The Bible clearly teaches that our invisible inner person (not our brain) is the source of our thoughts and intentions (Hebrews 4:12), our emotions (Romans 9:2), and our choices (Matthew 15:18). When the Bible talks about our thoughts, sometimes it calls the inner person the mind (Romans 8:7; 12:2). Other times Scripture talks about our thoughts originating in our heart (Matthew 15:19; Mark 7:21; Hebrews 4:12). The exact word used to refer to the inner person is not so important. But whatever we call it, we want to remember that our thoughts, choices, and feelings originate from the inner person, not in the physical matter of the brain.

Because this is true, the real and measurable chemical activity of our brain is simply a reflection of what is going on in our heart, or inner person, and not the source of our thoughts, feelings, and behavior. The inner person, or heart, is the source of our outer, physical words and actions. Professor of practical theology Dr. Edward Welch summarizes the interaction between the inner person and the brain in this way: "It is as if the heart always leaves its footprints on the brain."

The biblical view, then, can be summed up this way:

Christians hold to the unchanging assumption that God's Word is true.

The Bible teaches that we consist of two parts: the physical body and the inner person.

There is much interaction between our body and our inner person. Our body can influence our inner person, and vice versa.

Generally speaking, the changes that occur in our brain when we take any action, or when we feel sad or anxious, originate in our inner person. These changes in the brain can be measured and studied, but the brain is not the place where thoughts or feelings originate. As we've demonstrated from the Bible, they come from the invisible inner person.

IS EMOTIONAL PAIN A DISEASE?

Our friend the materialist would strongly disagree with the biblical view and would say that a healthy brain produces happy feelings, comfortable thoughts, and good behavior. He would view negative feelings, thoughts, or behavior as disease, an uncomfortable and undesirable condition due to a dysfunction in the brain.

Could there be a different reason for our emotional pain? What would you do if you began to have severe pain in the lower right side of your abdomen? Would you take pain pills to stop the pain, or would you check to see if you had appendicitis? Abdominal pain is a sign that something is wrong in your abdomen. It is not a disease in its own right. In the same way, emotional pain or distressing thoughts may be signs that something is not right with our heart, or inner person.

In the same way that our cars come equipped with warning lights to let us know when there is a problem with the engine, our gracious heavenly Father has created our bodies with the capacity to experience pain, and that pain serves as a "warning light" for our bodies. When we see a warning light on our dashboard, we get our car checked out; we don't just ignore the light or place black tape over it so we don't have to look at it. When we have physical pain, we go to a doctor to get examined; we don't just take pain pills and hope that will solve the problem. In the same way that pain medicines will not cure appendicitis but will only cover up the signs, medicine directed at our emotions may only cover up the signs that what we really have is "heart trouble."

Emotional pain is not a disease. It is a sign of a problem with our heart, just as abdominal pain is a sign of appendicitis. Remember that one of the words the Bible uses for the inner person is heart. In biblical terms, then, we have "heart trouble" when we are struggling with our thoughts, emotions, or desires.

Please note that this truth does not necessarily rule out the possibility that a physical problem may also be affecting our feelings, in the same way that a rapid heartbeat can produce anxiety. Remember that our inner person can affect our physical health, and our physical health can affect our inner person. But generally speaking, "problem" feelings are an indicator of a problem in our inner person.

In either case, our feelings aren't dysfunctional or sick. Our feelings are doing just what they were created by God to do. They're showing us that we have a problem. To feel better, we need to fix the problem, not just make the pain go away.

WHAT CAN OUR FEELINGS TELL US?

Our emotions are given to us by God in part to let us know about the condition of our inner person. He didn't give us emotions so we could let them rule our lives or even guide us in making decisions. The line often heard in sentimental movies, "Trust your feelings," is not God's advice. We should not make decisions based on how we feel. Instead, God has given us His Word to direct our thoughts and choices.

Although we should not be led by our emotions, we do need to listen to them. We should be aware of them because they can help us understand what's going on inside of us. Here's an example: If I assume that I'm loving God with all my mind but I am constantly anxious about the future, then my anxiety may be telling me something about my inner person that I wasn't aware of. Perhaps my anxiety about the future tells me I've allowed other things to become more important to me than God, such as fear of loss or the love of money.

Rather than seeking to deaden, ignore, or elevate the importance of our emotions, we should allow them to speak to us about our hearts. Because God gave us the ability to experience emotions, we want to be very cautious about ignoring what they may be telling us. We want to carefully consider whether dampening the awareness of our feelings through the use of medication (or alcohol) is the best road for us to take to better health.

Medicines or alcohol may make us feel better for a time, even if our "heart problem" is not addressed. For example, we know that morphine dulls the pain of a broken arm. It does not heal or reset the bone, and it does not fix the root cause of the pain. The same is true about medicines and emotional pain. In order to resolve such pain, we need to deal not with the symptoms, but the root causes of the pain.

Please understand we are not saying there are no physical causes for emotional pain. The brain itself can develop diseases, just as the rest of our body can. Alzheimer's disease, for example, causes physical changes in the cells of the brain, leading to their death. Disease processes in other organs can also affect the brain, causing changes in our thoughts and feelings. But this is very different from considering bad feelings or uncomfortable thoughts, in themselves, to be brain diseases.

In summary, then:

God gave you emotions so you can recognize what's happening in your inner person. Your decisions should not be based on your emotions. Troubling emotions are not, in themselves, brain diseases. Instead of seeking to deaden our painful emotions, we need to listen to what they're telling us and respond in faith to the Lord and His Word.

WHY IS BIBLICAL PERSPECTIVE SO IMPORTANT?

Why is having a biblical understanding of our emotions so important? Because we consist of both a spirit and a body, and any solution to our problems that leaves out the spiritual side is only a partial solution.

What's more, the materialistic view of the brain has very serious implications for our faith. If our thoughts and choices are determined solely by the physical activity of our brains rather than by our inner person, then when we do wrong, it must not be our fault. A disease must be to blame.

(Continues...)



Excerpted from WILL MEDICINE STOP THE PAIN? by Elyse Fitzpatrick Laura Hendrickson Copyright © 2006 by Elyse Fitzpatrick and Laura Hendrickson. Excerpted by permission.
All rights reserved. No part of this excerpt may be reproduced or reprinted without permission in writing from the publisher.
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Table of Contents

Part One:  Our Bodies, Emotions, and the Problem of Suffering
1.  What's Wrong With Me?
2.  Will Medicine Help My Pain?
3.  Lord, Why Do You Let me Hurt?
4.  Lord, Why Did Your Hurt Your Son?

Part Two:  Seeking Answers with God's Help
5.  Depression:  An Opportunity in Disguise
6.  Casting All Your Anxiety on Him
7.  Understanding Your Out-of-Control Moods
8.  What About Cognitive and Perceptual Problems?
9.  All For the Glory of God

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