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Acknowledgments ix
1. FOR WOMEN ONLY 1
2. IMAGINE WHAT’S POSSIBLE 7
3. NO SHAME, NO BLAME 19
4. YOU ARE NOT ON SALE 31
5. THE 8 QUALITIES OF A WEALTHY WOMAN 45
6. THE SAVE YOURSELF PLAN 57
7. THE COMMITMENTS 213
8. SAY YOUR NAME 243
Index 249
1. Do you think gender is a factor in financial management? Discuss the role gender has played, if any, in your personal financial history.
2. Suze says women often have an “unknown factor,” a “fundamental block” that prevents us from doing the right thing with our money. Can you identify some of these factors in your own life?
3. Suze believes that while women are expert at nurturing all kinds of relationships in their personal lives and at work, they fail to nurture their money because they have a dysfunctional relationship with it. Do you agree with this theory? Discuss the idea of nurturing your money. Does that approach come naturally to you? Does it force you to look at your finances in a different way?
4. Suze says that how you handle your money is a reflection of how you feel about yourself. Do you see the truth of this in your own life? How?
5. In Chapter Four Suze discusses the idea of putting yourself on sale by undervaluing yourself, your work, and your time. Do you recognize yourself in Suze’s examples? What are some other scenarios that have made you feel undervalued?
6. Identify a time in your life when you’ve made a strong financial move. What motivated you to do it? Did you have to jump any hurdles, and if so, how did you do that?
7. Suze identifies the eight qualities of a wealthy woman in Chapter 5. How many of these qualities do you feel you already possess? Is there a woman whom you consider a role model in financial matters? Does she embody these qualities?
8. Suze points out that in India women sweep their doorsteps every day as a ceremonial gesture to invite Lakshmi, goddess of wealth, into their home. What cleansing changes can you make–physically and mentally–to prepare your life for wealth and abundance?
9. Chapter Six emphasizes that organization equals control. Do you find this principle to be true in your own life? Think of the areas in your life that are organized–do you have control over them? Now think of the areas that are not organized–how do they differ in terms of your control over them?
10. Suze wants every woman to have a savings account in her own name. Discuss the symbolic and practical importance of this. If you do not already have one, do you foresee any difficulties in opening one? Will the conversation you have with your spouse or partner be difficult? Is there an internal, emotional hurdle you’ll have to clear to accomplish this? Was there ever a time when you drew on the resources of such an account — or wished you had one?
11. Statistics show more than 50% of women have Bag Lady Syndrome–the fear that one day they will end up penniless and homeless. Why do you think this anxiety is so rampant? Have you ever had these thoughts?
12. In Chapter 8, Suze emphasizes the power that comes when a woman states her full name, with pride and confidence. Have you done the exercise in this chapter? If so, what feelings did it evoke in you? Power? Shame? Pride? How do you present yourself to others, and what do you think people see when they meet you? Discuss the concept of “owning your power” — what do you think it means in practical terms and do you feel confident you can achieve this state?
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Posted September 19, 2008
I absolutely LOVED this book. I have daughters who don't know the first thing about saving money and no matter how I tried, I couldn't get them to sit down and listen to me explain finance to them. Even simple things like opening a checking account to how being financially independent can change your entire life, but Suze's book covers it ALL! And, in layman's terms. Anyone can understand this book. I also participated in the deposit program, thinking there was no way I was going to get that money after one year....but I did get it! I bought three and gave them away to my daughters and a friend's daughter. I'm back for another one for my 20 year old granddaughter - I think she's MORE than ready! Thank you Suze - you really are an excellent resource for anyone - at any level of financial education....or even no financial education...that's the beauty of this book.
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Posted December 31, 2007
How many of us wish we had a better grip on our personal finances? If you¿re one, maybe you¿ll be as fascinated by the title as I was, Women and Money: Owning the Power to Control Your Destiny. This sounded like something I could find very interesting ¿ money, power and my destiny. I started reading. I was immediately impressed with how well Suze wrote for her target audience. It was as if good girlfriends were having a cup of coffee and a heart-to-heart talk. She¿s honest, straightforward and supportive. She¿s certainly a girlfriend who pulls no punches! Suze Orman is clear, even from the very first few pages, that she¿s shocked by just how ¿clueless¿ so many women are about their own finances Suze shares financial answers to the questions many of us have been reluctant to ask. This book is easily understood and extremely thorough. Personally, if a finance book becomes too technical, my mind turns off. With this book, I didn¿t turn off. I read and listened to the whole thing, cover to cover. I especially appreciated the definitions, the shaded boxes filled with explanations, the practical resources and the action plans. All and all, it was broken down into bite-sized pieces so even the most reluctant among us can take immediate action without fear of failure or of becoming overwhelmed. Honestly, I was impressed with all eight chapters because I took away pearls of wisdom from each one. My favorites? Chapter 4 ¿ You are not on sale. Women have a tendency to undervalue themselves, thus earning less than men. No more discounting our worth ¿ let¿s take ourselves off the sale rack! Chapter 6 ¿ The save yourself plan. This is a five-month plan (one day a month) to financial self-sufficiency. She gives us a workable plan and all we have to do is implement it. Included in this chapter is information on banking, credit cards, trusts and must-have documents. To me, this chapter is the backbone of the book. Women & Money is especially informative for beginners. Yet, I believe all women who are truly ready to claim or reclaim their financial independence will also be pleased with reading Suze Orman¿s book. The only women who might be bored, are the extremely savvy one¿s who already have complete control over their financial lives. Women & Money is about advancing in powerful positive ways. Suze Orman¿s advice is real and practical. Now, it¿s up to us to take this advice and put it into action.
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Posted June 6, 2007
This book is a very basic financial guidebook for ladies who have little or no knowledge of finances. This book can get you started in the right direction, but doesn't do much past that. Much of the information in Women and Money is also in 9 Steps to Financial Freedom also by Suze Orman. I actually liked 9 Steps to Financial Freedom much better than Women and Money because it offers more information and goes more in depth.
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Posted July 29, 2008
I am a 25 year-old new mother and I found this book extremely informative. I plan to follow most of her advice from starting a Roth IRA (outside of my 401k) to getting my documents in order in case something were to happen to me. She did reference her website a lot, but I think the point was to take a lot of indepth, possibly confusing information out of the book. I bought a copy for my Mom and plan to pass the book around to other females in the family. Highly recommended!
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Posted March 6, 2008
It is very hard to keep writing books about the same material. I like her earlier work but I would skip this particular book. Another thing I wonder about Suze is why she is so condescending to her caller's that are asking for help?
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Posted May 12, 2007
While there's definitely more time I would have liked to see about not putting yourself 'on sale' and other more advanced topics, it is a great 'beginner's' and 'where to start' guide for women that haven't gotten started on the path to financial knowledge and freedom. It is definitely not for the woman that that has already gotten a good foundation and wants to know where to go from there - that may be the next one. But it is critical that all woman hear (or already know) what's laid out in this book and start making progress now. And BTW - to 'Marcela, a stay at home mom of 2' it's on p138 - that Roth 401k's and Roth IRA's are completely different and that you could qualify for both. So check it out.
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Posted May 3, 2007
Sure - for a financial veteran, this book may be too basic. But for many of us who need to get a good grasp on HOW to save and become wealthy in all areas of our lives - this book is a must have!!! It empowers all women to make the most of their financial lives, as well as their emotional lives! If you need help understanding retirement funds, good credit, good savings accounts, and more, read this book!!! She is even specific about where you need to go to get the best bang for your buck! I really appreciated this book! Thank you Suze!
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Posted April 27, 2007
One reviewer on BN wrote that Suze doesn't tell us anything new, that 'we all know' to save as much money as we can, etc. We may know we need to save, but we certainly don't all know how to go about it. I'm 28 and, like most women I know, grew up in a setting where Mom didn't handle the finances and I was never taught to save or the importance of credit. This book is great -- it's inspiring, empowering, and takes away all the fear I used to feel when thinking about my finances. It helped me to realize what I have, what I need to work on, and HOW to go about it. You shouldn't be hating on this book...you should be telling every woman you know about it.
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Posted March 24, 2007
I liked the book but I didn't get as much out of it as I did from her appearance on tv. I think she gave more information on the tv show, probably to encourage more people to buy the book. However, her ideas are right on and she offers lots of advice that is useful to women. If you cannot catch her on tv this is the next best thing.
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Posted March 6, 2007
A must read book for every woman, young or old. Suze orman is the top finacial mastermind of all times.
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Posted March 16, 2007
I am only 29 yet I pretty much know everything in this book. The basic premise of this book is to save as much as you can no matter how little or how much money you make. We all know we should not have to pay for a checking account, seek out the best interest rates on savings accounts and to consolidate credit card debt. The author has too many books out to even be able to come up with fresh, new information for this book.
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Posted March 10, 2007
I could not be more disappointed with Suze Orman's latest book. I loved the Young, Fabulous and Broke and eagerly awaited Women and Money. It is such a joke. The first 1/4 of the book is basically Suze telling us in her psychoanalytic persona how wonderful and powerful women are and how we can really get ahead finally. I don't need 1/4 of her book telling me I'm good enough - enough Stuart Smalley. Just give me the real financial details. And what really makes me mad- throughout the book (which is very very basic), she tells us to reference her website for additional info. Uh, hello? I just paid for a book and all I get is the very basic info on Roth IRA and Roth 401Ks? Not once does she say whether we can have a Roth IRA and a Roth 401K in the same year. Maybe if I go to her website, I can find out. What a joke. I would not wish this book on anyone. I think Suze should refund the money to those who purchased her book. Seriously.
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Posted March 14, 2007
I am so glad I bought this book. Suze Orman shares her wisdom once again. Her mantra of 'no shame no blame' is quite refreshing. She does not write down to her audience but instead bluntly tells us the truth of her own mistakes in her earlier years. The book is for any age woman (or man) regardless of whether they are 20 and just starting a line of credit or 70 and trying to get out of credit card debt. I cannot believe anyone not finding a golden nugget of wisdom that will help them change their financial habits inside the pages of this book. Maybe you feel trapped or confused about how to get out of debt, and maybe there are some aspects inside the book you seriously cannot try for whatever reason, but buy the book and at least read the knowledge and the good common sense only Suze can define for you.
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Posted January 5, 2012
I have it on my mp3.so hahaha
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Posted August 16, 2011
Unbelievable how this book can really change the way you think of your money. Basic yet informative, especially for people who dont understand much about the basics. I thought i was pretty well informed but surprise surprise...i wasnt. A must read!
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Posted December 4, 2009
Everyone should read this book. It teaches the fundamentals of finance. It starts simple and walks you through cleaning up your financial situation no matter where you may personally be at. Suze Orman is a trusted name in financial management and she helps you understand what you need to do. She sets up a monthly plan of attack that really helps you manage your finances and get out of debt. I have done it and it works! There is hope. I bought this book for all of my friends for Christmas because I believe that it can help anyone. Also, Suze's "Save Yourself" plan is awesome. I have been doing it for over a year and you will get a $$ bonus when you invest. The best part is that it's all for your benefit and will help teach you valuable lessons about how you can invest in your own future. Read it and do it! :)
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Posted October 27, 2009
Great tips. Easy to understand.
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Posted June 1, 2009
I throughly enjoyed this book. Although some of the information was redundate, it was still valuable.
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Posted May 11, 2009
I wish I had learned the information on this CD when I was in my 20s! It contains vital information every woman should know about handling personal finances and planning for retirement. After listening to this CD, I purchased the book (so I could highlight key points to review again) and have also given copies of this book to 5 friends and relatives.
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Posted April 27, 2009
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It doesn't seem to be in the basic nature of many women to want to dive right in there and be in charge of their money, the family finances or any sort of investment. So it makes sense for a woman knowledgable in this subject to write a book and make it less "un-understandable!" She touches on several personal reasons women might not be able to deal with this subject and what to do about it. You will probably find yourself in there somewhere. She takes a very easy, one-thing-at-a-time approach to confronting one's money habits or failure to understand it so you can actually get a grip. It is written in a very friendly and helpful way. In another few days I will be saving myself a couple hundred dollars a month by finishing up doing what she said to do with my credit cards and checking accounts. It wasn't hard! If you know the recipe, girls, you can bake the cake. Same with money--if you know what to do you can do it. Suze GETS you and tells you what to do.
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Overview
Why is it that women, who are so competent in all other areas of their lives, cannot find the same competence when it comes to matters of money?Suze Orman investigates the complicated, dysfunctional relationship women have with money in this groundbreaking new book. With her signature mix of insight, compassion, and soul-deep recognition, she equips women with the financial knowledge and emotional awareness to overcome the blocks that have kept them from making more out of the money they make. At the center of the book is The Save Yourself Plan—a streamlined, five-month program that delivers genuine long-term financial security. But what’s at stake is ...