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For years, the harm that some women do to themselves was ignored and silenced, both in psychological literature and in homes and hospitals. Dusty Miller’s eye-opening book revealed the truth about a syndrome that has plagued millions—and continues to do so today, endangering ever-younger lives. Filled with moving stories, this powerful book was the first to focus on women who engage in different forms of self-mutilation.Miller is widely recognized as the first expert to identify the roots of "cutting” and other self-injurious behavior in women. These women suffer from what she calls "Trauma Reenactment Syndrome” (TRS), a pattern of behavior in which they reenact severe psychological or ...

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Overview

For years, the harm that some women do to themselves was ignored and silenced, both in psychological literature and in homes and hospitals. Dusty Miller’s eye-opening book revealed the truth about a syndrome that has plagued millions—and continues to do so today, endangering ever-younger lives. Filled with moving stories, this powerful book was the first to focus on women who engage in different forms of self-mutilation.Miller is widely recognized as the first expert to identify the roots of "cutting” and other self-injurious behavior in women. These women suffer from what she calls "Trauma Reenactment Syndrome” (TRS), a pattern of behavior in which they reenact severe psychological or physical harm done to them as children. In the decade since her work was first published, new research has supported Miller’s perspective. In her introduction to this tenth anniversary edition, Miller discusses what self-harming women and abuse survivors have known all along: that self-injury activates endorphins that actually calm the psychic pain of old wounds. She describes the latest treatments geared to this view—and offers, once again, hope and understanding to the women themselves and to those who care for them.

Miller writes a helpful guide for the thousands of women who secretly inflict violence on themselves though self-mutilation, compulsive cosmetic surgeries, eating disorders, and other forms of chronic injury. "Profound and poignant."--Claudia Bepko and Jo Ann Kreston, authors of Too Good for Her Own Good.

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Women traumatized in childhood hurt themselves more often than men do because men are socialized to act aggressively and fight back, notes psychologist Miller, who is director of Clinical Mentoring at Antioch/New England Graduate School. Here she addresses childhood trauma, to which the individual may react by dissociating, but such fragmentation of the personality becomes the basis of her failure to protect herself as an adult. While integrating various treatment approaches, Miller's program focuses on the ``triadic self,'' which she describes as the victim, abuser and nonprotecting bystander within. In the painful narratives culled from her private practice, Miller establishes that such self-destructive behavior as bulimia and cosmetic surgery ``tells the secret story of women's childhood experience over and over again.'' She describes the behavior of her clients as trauma reenactment syndrome (TRS), which, stresses Miller, explains why they are impervious to treatment in 12-step programs and conventional therapy, often being misdiagnosed and mistreated. The author presents evidence that TRS women can be helped to lasting recovery. (May)

Product Details

  • ISBN-13: 9780465045877
  • Publisher: Basic Books
  • Publication date: 7/4/2005
  • Edition number: 10
  • Pages: 294
  • Sales rank: 394,570
  • Product dimensions: 5.02 (w) x 7.96 (h) x 0.70 (d)

Meet the Author

Dusty Miller, ED.D., is a psychologist in private practice. A professor in the Department of Clinical Psychology at Antioch/New England Graduate School, she also teaches at the Smith College School for Social Work. She lectures frequently on women who hurt themselves and has written on the subject for many professional publications.

Table of Contents

1 Women at war with themselves 3
2 The body as battleground 40
3 Secrecy : silence and deception 70
4 Self-protection 93
5 Relationships 117
6 Misunderstandings and mistreatment 153
7 The outer circle 181
8 The middle circle 207
9 The inner circle 234

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