Working with Adoptive Parents: Research, Theory, and Therapeutic Interventions [NOOK Book]


Practical techniques for guiding parents through the stages of adoption and beyond

"This book makes a significant contribution to both a greater understanding of adoption and its complex dynamic constellations as well as to serving those who are or come across adoption families, many of whom count on us adoption-informed mental health professionals to clarify and facilitate the challenges they face."
—From the Foreword by Henri Parens, MD, Professor of Psychiatry, Thomas ...

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Practical techniques for guiding parents through the stages of adoption and beyond

"This book makes a significant contribution to both a greater understanding of adoption and its complex dynamic constellations as well as to serving those who are or come across adoption families, many of whom count on us adoption-informed mental health professionals to clarify and facilitate the challenges they face."
—From the Foreword by Henri Parens, MD, Professor of Psychiatry, Thomas Jefferson University, Training and Supervising Analyst, Psychoanalytic Center of Philadelphia

"What most people don't know about adoption could fill a book—and this is the book. Finally sorting myth from science, Working with Adoptive Parents will give therapists, and quite a few nonprofessionals considering adoption, the real story of what it means to make this momentous choice. Better yet, it does so without letting the data speak in place of the parents themselves, in all their fear, doubt, and joy."
—Jesse Green, author of The Velveteen Father: An Unexpected Journey to Parenthood

Editors Virginia Brabender and April Fallon are clinical psychologists and also adoptive parents whose families are acquainted with both the uncertainty and joy of adoption. In Working with Adoptive Parents, they offer an in-depth treatment of the distinctive needs, feelings, impulses, expectations, and conflicts that adoptive parents experience through the stages of adoption and beyond. This volume offers a comprehensive picture of adoption through an exploration of the experiences and developmental processes of the adoptive parent.

Featuring contributions from mental health professionals whose careers have focused on work with families through the adoption process, this unique book:

  • Covers the theory, research, and practice of adoptive parenting throughout the life cycle
  • Explores the issues unique to the adoptive mother and adoptive father as they traverse the stages of parenting
  • Offers a close look at families with special needs children
  • Acknowledges and explores the great diversity among adoptive families and the kinship networks in which they are embedded
  • Examines attachment issues between adoptive parent and child

Providing a framework for therapists to conceptualize their work with adoptive parents, Working with Adoptive Parents clarifies and facilitates the journey that many of these families face.

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Product Details

  • ISBN-13: 9781118416150
  • Publisher: Wiley
  • Publication date: 5/15/2013
  • Sold by: Barnes & Noble
  • Format: eBook
  • Edition number: 1
  • Pages: 320
  • File size: 889 KB

Meet the Author

VIRGINIA M. BRABENDER, PhD, diplomate in clinical psychology (ABPP) and APA Fellow, is a professor at the Institute for Graduate Clinical Psychology at Widener University. She is the past president of the Society for Personality Assessment.

APRIL E. FALLON, PhD, is a member of the psychology faculty at Fielding Graduate University and an associate professor in the Department of Psychiatry at Drexel University College of Medicine. She has received numerous awards for her teaching of psychiatric medical residents and was awarded the 2012 Psychiatric Educator Award by the Philadelphia Psychiatric Society.

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Table of Contents

Foreword xi

Preface xiii

Acknowledgments xxi

About the Editors xxiii

Contributors xxv

Chapter 1 Setting the Stage: The Adoptive Parent in Context 1
Virginia M. Brabender and April E. Fallon

Characteristics of Adoptive Parents 2

Serving the Needs of Adoptive Parents 5

History of Adoption 8

Contemporary Controversies 16

Practical Points 20

Conclusions 21

Chapter 2 Theoretical Contributions to the Understanding of Parent-Child Bonding in Adoption 23
April E. Fallon and Barbara L. Goldsmith

Before the Family Becomes a Unit: Daniel Stern and Intrapsychic Reorganization 23

The Case of Dora 25

Bowlby and the Importance of Secure Attachment in Healthy Development 26

The Parallel Caregiving System: Contributions of George and Solomon 28

Ego Psychology and the Significance of Adaptation 32

Contributions of D. W. Winnicott 33

Kohut and the Development of Self-Esteem 37

Mentalization: Holding the Adopted Child in Mind 38

Separation-Individuation and the Contributions of Margaret Mahler 41

Practical Points 43

Conclusions 44

Chapter 3 Using Research to Inform Best Practices in Working With Adoptive Families 45
Hal S. Shorey, Sanjay R. Nath, and Meridith Carter

The History of Research on Attachment and Parent-Child Interactions 46

Research on Adoption 50

Attachment-Based Interventions for Use in Adoption 56

The Circle of Security 57

Practical Points 59

Conclusion 59

Chapter 4 The Adoptive Mother 61
Virginia M. Brabender, Amanda Swartz, Mary Winzinger, and April E. Fallon

The Eras of Adoptive Motherhood 61

Adolescence 80

Practical Points 84

Conclusion 85

Chapter 5 The Adoptive Father 87
Rao Gogineni and April E. Fallon

Important Role Functions of the Father 87

Becoming and Being an Adoptive Father 92

Practical Points 103

Conclusion 104

Chapter 6 Recognizing Diversity in Adoptive Families 105
Virginia M. Brabender, April E. Fallon, Alicia Padovano, and Phil Rutter

Identity Variables Within the Addressing Framework 106

Family Structure 125

Practical Points 127

Conclusion 127

Chapter 7 Adoption of Children With Special Health Care Needs 131
S. Ileana Lindstrom, Sonia Voynow, and Bret A. Boyer

Three Approach Classes 132

Comparison to Children in the General Population 134

Disruption of Adoption for Children With SHCN 134

Who Are the Families Who Adopt These Children? 135

Commitment 135

Preparation 137

Coping and Stress 140

Existential Issues 142

Posttraumatic Stress 142

Ambiguous Loss 143

Posttraumatic Growth 144

Marital Satisfaction 145

Practical Points 145

Conclusion 147

Chapter 8 Parenting the Young Child 149
Elaine Frank and Denise Rowe

Ghosts in Adoptive Families 149

Intervention With Adoptive Families: Developmental Guidance, Parent-Child Groups, and Parent-Child Therapy 153

Parenting Cornerstones for Adoptive Families 156

Enhancing the Parent-Child Relationship in Adoptive Families: Developing an Adoption Dialogue 163

Practical Points 168

Conclusion 168

Chapter 9 Adoptive Parenting of Teenagers and Young Adults 169
Joseph White

Developmental Themes of Adolescence and Early Adulthood 169

Individuation, Independence, and the Adoptive Parent-Child Relationship 172

Insights for Parents and Therapists 174

Identity Formation in International, Transcultural, and Transracial Adoptees 177

Practical Points 180

Conclusions 180

Chapter 10 Therapeutic Interventions With Adopted Children and Adoptive Parents: A Psychoanalytic Developmental Approach 181
Theodore Fallon Jr.

Introduction 181

Development of the Human Mind 181

Therapeutic Intervention in a Psychoanalytic Developmental Approach 182

Parent Problems and Child Problems in the Context of a Psychoanalytic Developmental Approach 182

Intergenerational Transmission of the Human Mind—The Missing Link 184

Evaluating the Parent-Child Dyad 185

Practical Points 194

Conclusion 194

Chapter 11 Adoptive Parent as Consultant, Educator, and Advocator 195
Virginia M. Brabender and Toni Whitmore

The Roots of Problems Facing Adoptive Parents 197

Action Implications 200

Practical Points 210

Conclusions 211

Chapter 12 Meeting the Needs of Adoptive Parents: Practice, Training, and Research 213
Patricia G. Ramsey, Virginia M. Brabender, and April E. Fallon

Practice 213

Training 223

Research 228

Practical Points 231

Conclusions 231

References 233

Author Index 271

Subject Index 281

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